01x08 - Episode 8

[bunniefuu]

[upbeat music playing]

[Harry] Twenty women
signed up to marry me.

Let's find you a wife.

Harry Jowsey is
officially getting married.

Your future, Harry.

That's crazy. [laughing]

[Georgia] Think with your head
and your heart.

I know you like to think
with a few other things.

♪ My heart is racing ♪

♪ Can't contain this ♪

♪ You know I'm a real big deal ♪

Horny Harry needs
to think about the future.

I need to take this next chapter
as serious as I can.

I think you're making a horrible mistake.

I could be your best friend, but I don't
know if I could be your husband.

I just know for a fact, in my heart,

it's gonna end at some point.

["Under Your Spell"
by Moa L M Munoz & Ryan T. Short playing]

♪ I panic ♪

♪ One look, what am I to do? ♪

I'm here for a reason.
I'm here to find my wife.

[upbeat music playing]

-[Amber] You have the best energy.
-[Harry] You're a dream.

I think you're way beyond more
than what I ever thought you would be.

-Before this whole thing, I bought a ring.
-[Dannelle] Mm-hm.

So I wanna give it to you.

I am falling for him.

I am.

You're perfect.

I'm in very-strong-like
with him right now.

[Amber] What're you doing?

Get naked.

[dramatic music playing]

Is this really what's happening?
Is that what we're doing?

-Oh my God.
-They're having sex in the shower.

[Sam] If something is not right,
then I just need to listen to my gut.

[Alex] You're down to the wire
with these two women,

so it's like, "What do you want?"

I definitely am falling in love with you.

I'm falling in love with you too.

The wedding's pretty soon.
Are you guys in love with each other?

-Yeah.
-Yeah. We are.

It's just like--
It's all becoming more real now.

The big wedding day,
you know, it's days away at this point.

[Harry] I came to New Zealand
to find clarity,

but all I've got is confusion.

Now, I just-- I don't even know
if I am ready for this.

[dramatic music continues]

["Over The Towans"
by Caleb Harris playing]

♪ How did I get here? ♪

♪ Is there some way out of this? ♪

-♪ I've been trapped for years… ♪
-[Harry sighs]

I have not slept.

I had two hours of sleep last night.

You know, leaving New Zealand was
a very confusing and difficult thing.

My brain is all over the place.
It's scrambled eggs right now.

I just feel like life would be
so different but so fun with both of them.

But I just feel like an absolute knob

because I'm here…

in a predicament with two
of the most amazing women I've ever met,

two of the most exciting,
exquisite women I've ever met,

and now I just-- I don't even know
if I am ready for this.

♪ How the tables have turned… ♪

I think I need more time.

Oh God.

-[upbeat song playing]
-♪ How did we get here? ♪

♪ The world at our feet ♪

♪ We got everything we want ♪

♪ Oh ♪

[Sonny laughs]

[Amanda, laughing emotionally] Hi! Oh!

-[Harry] Hey.
-[Amanda] Oh!

[Sonny] Do we have
a shot of coffee coming?

-We missed you.
-[Harry] I missed you guys.

-[Sonny] How are you?
-How you doing?

[Sonny] We're good.

[Amanda] Looking good!
Look at you, slim and trim.

-[Harry] Really?
-[Amanda] Yeah.

[Harry] Hey, I'm coming over here.

[Amanda groans]

-Come sit-- drink some coffee.
-[Sonny] Drink your coffee!

-She's desperate to see you.
-Hey, Rubie.

How we doing, guys?

Oh my gosh, we're doing great.
You gotta tell us about you.

It's… it's going terrible.
[laughs] I don't know.

-What do you mean?
-I don't know.

There were five birds left when we left.

-Five women.
-In Vegas?

-Yeah, you gotta catch us up.
-Oh, okay.

We left you after the elimination.
You were on your own.

-Damn, I haven't seen you in that long?
-No. And then you flew to Vegas.

-Um, so now we're down to the final two.
-[Sonny] Oh…

-Amber and Dannelle.
-Okay.

[Harry] And I don't know
which one to choose.

-[Amanda] Okay, so you're stuck.
-[Harry] That's the thing.

And I've got a wedding in probably--
literally, what, like, 48 hours?

-Yeah.
-[Harry] So…

That's so natural, mate,

because, like, the scenario
you lot are in is… is mental.

Have you done any kind
of pros and cons about the two of them?

You have a big decision to make.

What's your favorite thing
you love about Amber,

and then your favorite thing
you love about Dannelle?

I really love Amber's, um, confidence
in how she thinks about the world

and just being laid back.

Yeah, I like that about her a lot.

With Dannelle, it's always been a safe…
We've always been good on each other.

And I just--
I love, uh, Dannelle's tenderness

and how sweet she is and how soft she is.

She's one of those people
that once she loves and trusts you,

that is her entire world.

-They are so different.
-[Harry] So different.

-That's the hardest thing.
-[Amanda] This is hard.

It's almost like marrying somebody
that's gonna be, like, right by your side,

kind of taking care of you,

versus somebody
who's, like, your partner in crime.

-Mm, yeah.
-[Amanda] Do you feel like that a bit?

I think when I went to New Zealand,
I had a good idea

of, "This is gonna help
bring some clarity."

-Okay.
-And it brought everything but clarity.

I think I was just extremely overwhelmed,
and I really went backwards.

I really went in my shell.

-Um…
-Like, you just wanted to be alone?

Just wanted to be alone.
Didn't want to be around anyone.

The last day, I went and sat on the beach
where I last went with my dad.

And it just all hit me at once,
and I kind of cried it all out.

I think that these moments in life
where we question

and we get really low and, like, deep,

like you had in New Zealand
after your dad,

and you came back here questioning life,
and you feel lost,

these are good moments to have.

You gotta go low to go high.

Like, you have to feel that
to know actually what's important.

And so don't think of that
as, like, a negative thing.

Think of it as a really good thing.

Anytime we have to question
what we're doing, where we're at,

"Why am I doing this? Why am I here?"

Those are good things

'cause it just makes you
go further in life.

Yeah, I just…

I don't know. Like, I just…
Say I go to the wedding, I pick no one.

-What happens?
-No one?

To not even continue seeing at all?

-No one. Just no marriage, no nothing.
-[Amanda] Ooh.

There should be zero pressure on you.

Just say, "This ain't the right time."

I don't know if I like that.

You have two amazing women,
you're saying, in front of you right now.

Like, don't take that for granted.

If you really, truly do love
these two women, then go for it.

[Harry] So difficult,

to have two very different perspectives
from Sonny and Amanda,

people I trust the most in the world.

Now, they're even confused
with each other.

And my sisters didn't help.
These guys didn't help.

I'm no help.

This is the biggest realization of today,
is that this is my decision.

And it's, um… yeah,
a little bit-- a little bit daunting.

["Lucky One"
by Rupert Pope & Giles Palmer playing]

♪ I can't deny ♪

♪ You've been my secret crush
For quite a while ♪

♪ You've got a fantasy
I can see it in your eyes ♪

[Amber] Being back in LA from New Zealand,

knowing that there's a wedding coming up,

makes me feel really excited.

♪ This feels like something new… ♪

New Zealand definitely locked me
into Harry.

Like, seeing him with his family

and seeing him around the place
that shaped him as a person

was really special.

I know it's the first one I tried on,
but I love it.

♪ I just kissed you yesterday
This thing has only just begun ♪

The word "marriage"
traumatizes me a little bit

because I've been married before,
and that came with a divorce.

But with Harry,
I don't feel weird about it anymore.

I feel like this is something
so magical and so rare.

Now, I don't know which one to pick.
I love this dress too.

If anything, I feel more excited.
Like, it would be such a fun life.

Oh my God. Hi!

[Amber] Hi! What do you guys think?

I think it's stunning!

I think you'll make
any dress look amazing.

Are you guys ready and excited
for me to get married?

I have mixed feelings.

[laughing]

I think my mom protects herself a lot

because when you protect yourself,
you don't have to feel pain too much.

And I do think she latches
onto a lot of fear-based thoughts

because it keeps her safe,

and she's always projected that onto me.

I feel like it's so unhealthy.

And I’m the type of girl that's, like--
I jump right into it.

[sighs emotionally] For me, I really
had to come in here with, like, a…

a deep understanding of that.

I went to the cemetery today,
and I talked to your dad about it,

and I was like, “Dude,
you can see what we can't see,

you know Harry better than we know Harry,

so either, like, bring it on or block it.”

That's his job.

[Amber] Well, we'll be looking out
for the signs.

But you look beautiful!

I love you guys. I'll talk to you soon.

[Nikki] Okay, love you!

-Bye.
-[Nikki and Ariana] Bye!

[FaceTime ends]

I've really, like,
had to crack myself open here

and, like, look at love in so many ways.

Like, figuring out how
to have a life with love in it

without feeling scared.

Because I think people get
really scared to let love in,

because on the other side of it,
there's loss.

So I think that's something
I definitely struggled with,

and something I'm rewriting
for my future right now.

["End of the Line" by Temmpo playing]

♪ Crazy circumstance, crazy circumstance
I can't help but wonder ♪

♪ Are we coming to the end…? ♪

[Dannelle] I didn't envision this part,

you know,
me actually trying on wedding dresses,

so it's kind of like a surreal moment.

Oh, I love this one.

Her name's Cartier. Very fitting.

-I love Cartier. I love Cartier. [laughs]
-[laughing] Yes. Here.

Today's a big deal.

It is crazy to think
that I could be marrying Harry.

[hopeful music playing]

-[Dannelle] I mean, I love it.
-[salesperson] Mm-hm.

But I don't feel like…

in love.

I think I have a lot of the qualities
that Harry needs in a wife, you know?

He needs a nurturer.
He needs someone that can support him.

Also, someone that has
structure in their life.

I'm, like, ready to go.
Like, I have no doubts in my mind.

I would wake up every morning
and choose Harry.

[FaceTime calling]

[call picks up]

-[Dannelle] Erica. Hi! [laughing]
-[Erica exclaiming]

I can't believe you're getting married.

[Dannelle] I know!
Well, hopefully. I don't know yet.

-Oh, I'm so excited for you.
-[laughing] Thank you!

-Gosh, I'm so excited for you.
-Thank you. Oh my God.

So I love the slit. Is the slit--

-Can you see if there's lace on it?
-Oh, you can--

There's no--
No, this dress has no lace on it at all.

So many questions that I have
about this whole thing.

-Yeah, so, like--
-How has it been?

I'll kind of-- Yeah.
So it's been super crazy.

Um, I don't know yet
if I'm getting married.

There's one other girl still.

-Um, and--
-Oh, there is one other girl?

-Yeah, so…
-Hot damn.

It's not for sure yet, but obviously…

Oh, baby, you getting married.
You're getting married.

[Dannelle laughing]

Honestly, if he doesn't
choose to marry me,

I'm gonna be really heartbroken.

And I don't even want
to think about that too much yet.

I'm just trying to be in the moment

and just have the mindset
that I am getting married.

-Oh yeah. For sure.
-Um…

When I think about Harry,
you know, coming into my world

and being with my friends,

and, like, knowing that it would be
an easy transition

for him to come into my life,
me to go into his life,

be with his friends, vice versa,
like, it feels really good.

-I love you. I'll talk to you later. Bye.
-Bye! Love you.

In a perfect world, I walk down the aisle,

we say, "I do," we get married,

and we live happily ever after.

[music fades]

["Running Off the Edge"
by The Brightsydes playing]

♪ Run off the edge, no safety net ♪

♪ Places I've never been ♪

♪ Sink any step into the depths ♪

♪ Shakin' but diving in… ♪

I have a date with Dannelle today,
and later on, I have a date with Amber,

but I'm really anxious.

-Hi.
-Come on!

This is kind of it. This is the last time
I see the girls before the wedding day.

My biggest hope for today
is to get some clarity.

Oh my gosh!

Are they right for me? Am I for them?
Am I even right for this whole experience?

There's just so many questions
going on in my brain, and I feel pretty…

pretty worried about everything.

-Hi. This is Kai and Bruce.
-[Dannelle] Hi! They're so cute.

Hi!

-Hi. How you doing?
-Hey. How are you?

-Good.
-Guys, be nice.

Oh my gosh! You're too cute!

Bruce is out of breath.
He lost a lot of weight.

I really want this to be done right,

and I really want
to make the right decision.

Unfortunately, this is kind of maybe
the last time we get

to figure out
if we're good for each other.

I just want to know
where she thinks our lives would be

and where she can see us
in the next five years.

-These are my favorite people.
-Oh! I miss my dogs.

[Harry] Come on, we're gonna chill here.
Come on, kids.

Come here. Kai, right?

Yeah. And it's short for Kaiteriteri,
which was…

-Short for what?
-Kaiteriteri.

-The last beach I went to with my dad.
-[Dannelle] Aw.

I feel like the luckiest girl
to, like, have met Harry.

He is everything
that I've, like, wanted in a husband.

You know, like, he's very genuine,

he's very intentional,
you know, he's supportive…

It's just crazy.

I'm in love with Harry
and ready to marry him,

and we're going to figure out
where we're living,

and, like, that's so exciting too.

Like, just house shopping together,

and figuring out
where we want to raise a family.

-Oh, they're so cute.
-Here we go.

I feel like I've had
a restless couple of nights.

Just because, you know,
even though I do feel so good,

I'm just I guess hoping
that he feels the same way that I feel.

-He's noisy like you when he breathes.
-He's a bit anxious today.

Yeah, he's a little bit anxious
'cause there's a lot going on, huh?

-And I haven't seen you in a minute.
-Mm.

Um, how are you feeling about everything?

Good. Well, kind of good, I guess.

-As good as I can feel, I guess. Um…
-[Harry] Why? What's going on?

There's just been a lot going on lately.
I feel like we're just down to the wire.

Um, I tried on dresses yesterday.

-Oh wow. Yeah?
-That was exciting. Yeah.

-Um…
-Any cute ones?

Yeah. I found my dress.

-That was exciting.
-Nice.

I think you'll like it.

But, yeah, I guess
I'd be lying a little bit

if I said it wasn't, like,
a little confusing, though,

just because it's like,
I want to be excited,

but then I know, like…

-I might not be getting married, I guess.
-Yeah.

Last night, I think-- There we go.
I think I had maybe two hours of sleep.

[Dannelle] Mm.

-Sweating, anxious, worried.
-Yeah.

Just trying to play out,
like, everything in my head.

-It's hard to predict the future, I guess.
-[Dannelle] Yeah. For sure.

I guess that's the only thing,
is I'm just…

like, yeah, just overanalyzing…
absolutely everything.

-Yeah.
-And it's freaking me out.

-It's a lot to think.
-For sure.

-I mean, it is a big decision.
-Yeah.

Um, is there anything in me
that worries you?

That you think maybe
I wouldn't make a good wife?

No. I think you'd be the perfect wife,
and that's the problem.

[both laughing]

So I don't know.

There's nothing wrong with you.
You're perfect.

[Dannelle] I mean,
I could honestly say, like,

I've thought about, like,
our future together so much,

and for me, it just makes sense.

I feel like it's so easy for us. Like…

You know, like, I want to have kids,
like, as soon as we can.

And I know that I'm going
to be a great mother.

You know, it's like… just like I was…

I feel like I was born
to be a mom and a wife.

-[Harry] Mm.
-[Dannelle] That's really exciting to me.

And, you know, meeting your sisters
was obviously, like, amazing,

and, like, I could totally see us,
like, going to New Zealand

and visiting them
and hanging out with their kids.

-I loved them.
-Yeah.

Like, I… I love you,

and, like,
I'm excited for, like, our future.

-[Harry] I'm excited about it too.
-And like…

I feel really strong about us, and I, um…

I know my family really loved you.

I feel like everything
is really good between us,

and I feel like it has been for
the majority of this experience, honestly.

-It's almost scary how good it's been.
-[Harry] Yeah.

Like, in your heart and in your gut,
do you really feel like I'm…



-I do.
-Okay.

You, like, check all of my boxes.

What would you need
to hear from me right now

that would make you feel
confident and good?

I don't know.
I mean, just tell me that you love me and…

["Who Calls It Love" playing]

Well, I do love you,
and I do feel really good about this.

-I really do.
-Mm. Yeah.

I think the world of you,
and I think that we would…

have a really special, safe, and secure…

relationship.

I'm excited,

thinking about our wedding day
and what's to come with that.

You know, I just hope that
when you think of, you know, your wife

and who the mother of your kids is,
that it's me.

-Yeah.
-♪ Love and hate, it's all the same ♪

-I love you. [chuckles]
-I love you too.

♪ But I'll still make you
Scream my name… ♪

[Harry] You know,
things with Dannelle are just easy.

Um, I can tell that she really cares
and that she really loves me.

-Talk your sh*t. Get it out.
-[Dannelle laughing]

You know, she's all in,
and Amber maybe isn't all in.

I guess I just gotta see
how things go with Amber.

This is it. This is the last impression
for this decision,

and just the reality of what path
my life could take is kinda sinking in.

["To the Stars" by Nick Kingsley,
Danny Farrant & Sonny King playing]

♪ There's no need to disguise ♪

♪ No reason to hide ♪

♪ What we need to survive ♪

♪ We got each other ♪

It's kind of a crazy feeling.
I don't know if I've processed

that this last date is the last time
I'm gonna see him

before he kicks me to the curb,

or we're walking down the aisle,
giving ourselves to each other.

So I think today, we just need
to put our hearts on the line

and really, really open up.

To let someone into my life
and into my heart is really, really rare.

I do not play about the people I love.

So, for me, I've really had to make sure

I've felt the things
that needed to be felt

so that I can say the things
that need to be said.

And I think today's a good day for that,
and it's the only day for that.

[Harry] I'm anxious about all this.

-[Amber] Are you?
-[Harry] And I had no sleep, so…

-You had no sleep?
-Zero.

Why?

[Harry] Um…

Yeah, I just-- I think I'm just worried
about hurting someone, or people, or…

And I thought I would've got clarity
from my friends and my family but…

everyone is… everyone's torn.

Well, ultimately, it's about making sure
you're not hurting yourself.

Oh, that's a good one.

[Amber] It's your life.

How do you feel about us, then?
Are you, like, serious?

No judgment, no wrong answers, no…

When you think
about the possibility of getting married,

how does that make you feel?

It makes me feel really excited.

[exhales sharply]

What a journey, huh?

What a wild, weird ride.

And we found each other.

That's so special to me. It really is.

[groans] I don't want to cry 'cause…

I… I don't know.

I feel so happy, like, so calm.

This whole process, I think
we've been, like, questioned so hard

of what type of love we're gonna accept
and bring and learn.

I feel like you're meant for me.
I feel like we're meant for each other.

We're just, like, two imperfect people
that are perfect for each other.

I think it's gonna be a lot of work
and a lot of growth,

and we're gonna face a lot of challenges,

but I would choose you every day.

And I really, really love you,

and I want you to know
that, like, I feel so deeply for you.

-And--
-Wow.

I'm so grateful to have you.

And I just want you to feel ready
for that towards me.

And, you know,
if I give my heart to someone,

like I said, I want to make sure
you're ready to give your heart to me

and that you could meet me
and show up for me in the same way,

because in the past, I feel like
I've poured into so many people

that haven't done the same.

I didn't grow up with a dad,

so that was really, really, really hard
for me.

And I think the most important thing
is that my kids have a good dad.

You know?

And I feel like you would be the best,

so that makes me feel really good.

Yeah, I think
from the… first, uh, moment I met you,

I thought, "Wow."

"There's something special,
mysterious, and confusing about you."

But then as I got-- No, it's true.
But as I got to get to know you

and spend time with you,
I just felt… uh, safe and seen.

And everything really clicked there
after we had our overnight.

Like, I was always a little bit like,
"Oh, I don't know. We're learning."

And then, after we had the overnight
and that next morning,

I was like, "Oh wow,
this is how life's meant to be."

-"It's just meant to be silly."
-That was my favorite day with you.

Yeah. And after that, and then,
I think being in New Zealand,

um, going back to that… place,
and I actually didn't realize

how bad I was really struggling.

Like, I wasn't…
I wasn't doing okay at all.

And when I was having that bad day,
you were the first person I wanted to see,

'cause I was like, "I know she's
gonna make me feel good."

You are, I guess, something
that I've asked the universe for,

but I never knew what it was.
I never knew until now.

So…

And I love you.

Love you too.

♪ You got something about you ♪

♪ Makes me wanna
Wrap my arms all around you ♪

I feel like I really opened my heart up,

and I feel like I've really…
found a lot of peace and clarity.

I feel really ready to walk down the aisle

and to start a fun life with someone
who I just think the world of.

♪ If you can teach me
Catch me when I fall ♪

f*cking freezing.

I'm freezing too.

-[Harry laughing] You're perfect.
-You're so cute.

[Harry] You know,
I really wanted Amber to be direct,

so today I feel
really privileged and honored

that she is comfortable enough to open up

and tell me exactly how she feels.

The point of this whole experience was
to get married. "Let's Marry Harry."

But I really had to consider
whether I was actually ready for that.

And after today,
I know that one of them is my person,

and I do feel
like I'm ready to get married.

I believe I'm not going
to sleep at all tonight

because this decision
has got 100 times harder now,

because today, they've both really been--

I guess they both really answered
what I wanted from them,

and they made it super easy…

to, uh… to love both of them.

♪ Catch me when I fall tonight ♪

♪ Won't you catch me
When I fall tonight? ♪

[song fades]

["I'll Be Your Light"
by Katie Hargrove playing]

♪ Slow down ♪

♪ There’s no need to have it all
Figured out quite yet ♪

♪ I bet somehow life can be magical ♪

♪ We never know what’s coming next ♪

♪ When the darkness comes ♪

This morning, I woke up, and I was like,

"Oh my God!
It's my wedding day." [laughing]

[woman] Hello?

-Oh my God! Hi, guys.
-[all laughing emotionally]

[Linsey] Oh my God!

[Dannelle] I love him so much.

And he just brings me comfort
whenever I see him,

so it feels really good to, like, share
who's my husband to my friends.

-Oh my gosh, I missed you guys.
-[friends laughing]

[Linsey] Oh my gosh.

I can't believe you guys are here.
Holy sh*t.

-[Erica] We can't believe you're here!
-Also, wait, what?

That's so good! Let me see it!

Oh sh*t!

She's engaged. She has a fiancé.

I love it. I love it.

Harry is my person.

This second ring is so special to me,

and he gave me this second ring
for a reason.

It kind of gives me a lot of hope,

you know, that we are gonna get married
at the end of all this.

-[emotional song playing]
-♪ Been hurt before ♪

♪ Don't wanna repeat ♪

I cannot believe this is my wedding day.
Like, I genuinely…

I don't think anyone
could believe that I am…

still here. I'm not gonna lie.

At the beginning of this,

I wasn't just gonna promise someone
that I was ready to walk down the aisle.

I really needed to make sure

that I felt the things
that he deserves to receive.

And he deserves a wife that's all in.

♪ Drop my defenses ♪

♪ Baby, I'm helpless… ♪

I'm so grateful for today,

and I just feel really blessed,

and I feel like I'm exactly
where I'm meant to be.

And, yeah, I'm just happy.

[both laughing]

[Amber] Mak!

Oh my God!

My people!

I think me and Harry
really complement each other.

-This is my dress!
-[Tiara] Stop!

-What--
-[Amber] It's so cute.

Yeah, we're gonna throw it on.

I just know that life would be so fun

and a little chaotic, but I like that.
It's kind of my favorite part about him.

-[Dannelle] I'm coming out!
-[Linsey] Oh my God! Unreal.

You look so beautiful.

[Amanda] It's so pretty.

-[Linsey] Oh my gosh!
-I love it.

Here.

Last night, I was thinking
about literally walking down the aisle,

seeing Harry at the end.

I'm probably gonna
start crying right away.

I'm, like, ready for that.

I love him,
and I'm just, like, excited to marry him.

How does that feel?

-[Erica] How does that feel, Dannelle?
-Good.

[Amanda] Do you feel
like you're about to get married?

I do! [laughs]

Last night, I fell asleep
at peace a little bit,

of thinking about our journey together
through this whole process

and all the cute little moments we've had.

And in my mind, we're in this together,
and it's been me and him this whole time.

How are you feeling today?

Um, you know, this morning I woke up

and I felt like,
"Holy sh*t, it's my wedding day."

I feel good.

-I am so ready to marry him, and he--
-[Linsey] You love him?

-I love him. Yeah.
-[Linsey] You do?

[Dannelle] He's so amazing, you guys,

and when you meet him,
you're gonna see it. You're gonna know.

I love our story. It just unfolded
so, like, naturally and so easily,

and we both kinda just knew the whole time
that we were just meant for each other.

Throughout this whole experience,
I've always truly felt in my heart

that, you know,
me and Harry will be getting married.

-Girl, you look so beautiful.
-Thank you.

So I'm looking forward
to us starting, like, our normal life

outside of all this chaotic stuff.
[laughing]

-You look insane.
-[Amber] Thank you.

-[Makoa] Damn.
-Check my train out.

It's really rare to find someone
that you feel a sense of belonging.

It feels right.

I trust that all the things
he says to me are real,

so I'm excited for today.

You know, you don't ever know
what you're looking for,

and then you find it, and then you know.

["Follow the Sound"
by Katie Hargrove playing]

[Harry] This morning I woke up
knowing what I have to do.

♪ Ooh… ♪

But the problem is
I have to say goodbye to one woman.

And that is gonna be
the hardest thing I've ever done,

because I love both these women,

but I have to follow my heart
a little bit more…

on this one.

Yeah, I think this is possibly
the hardest decision I've ever had to make

in my life.

I think she's gonna be
absolutely destroyed by this.

Yep. It's gonna break her heart.

♪ I'll follow the sound ♪

♪ From the horizon ♪

♪ Voices all around ♪

[song fades]

-[Dannelle] Oh my gosh! Hi!
-Wow. Hi.

Wasn't expecting to see you.

-[Harry] You look so good.
-[Dannelle] Come in.

-Oh my gosh. Hi.
-What's happening?

Sorry, I'm trying not to step
on my dress. Come in!

-Hey.
-How you feeling?

Good. How do you feel?

Yeah, I'm okay.

You're okay?

Yeah.

[Dannelle] You wanna sit and talk or…?

-Yeah. Should we?
-Okay.

-Do you wanna sit here?
-[Dannelle] Yeah.

[Harry sighs]

Okay, um…

Um, I…

[inhales] It's been
a really hard… decision,

and you've been so incredible
and so amazing through this whole process.

[Dannelle] Mm-hm.

And I've really fallen in love with you,

and this has been, like,
such a special experience

to have you here and to do this together.

But this last week,
I started second-guessing everything.

["Come to an End" by Nik Ammar playing]

Gonna be honest, I don't think
we're getting married today.

♪ Feelings abandoned
Left to wither up and die ♪

I don't think you deserve someone
that would second-guess you.

The person should know 100%
and shouldn't be worried about everything,

and I know that you deserve that
at the bare minimum.

I'm, like, really sorry.
I'm sorry if I wasted your time.

I'm sorry for how you--
Like, I couldn't imagine how hard this…

I don't know. Just, it's…

Yeah, I mean,

if that's how you feel,
that's how you feel.

I thought it was something else
this whole time with us,

but apparently it wasn't.

I don't know. I kinda don't really
have anything to say. [scoffs]

I just feel stupid.

Yeah.

♪ I guess I'll be falling ♪

Okay. I'm sorry.

♪ Falling forever ♪

♪ I guess I'll be falling ♪

♪ Falling forever with you ♪

I feel super blindsided. Um…

It's hard to just, like, open up
and, like, let your guard down,

and that was something
that I struggled with this whole time.

And then to finally let my guard down
and then just to be disappointed.

I thought we were
so compatible and so good,

and like, just feeling
like he was my person,

and then knowing, like, we're just--

we're done.

♪ I guess I'll be falling ♪

I think it was real on my end.

♪ Falling forever with you ♪

Obviously, it wasn't on his.

'Cause if it was,
then we would be getting married.

[birds chirping]

["Darling Don't Look Back"
by John Coggins playing]

That, hands down, is the hardest breakup
I've ever gone through.

Dannelle is incredible,

and we've had the best time,
had so much fun falling in love,

but I have to trust my gut on this one.

Yeah, I think it's just saying
goodbye to a sure thing,

knowing that she'd love me forever,

to going over to Amber,
who is a bit of a wild card.

There's a pretty big chance
she could say, "I don't," at the altar,

and that's a worry.

♪ We look fear in the eyes ♪

♪ And we better run ♪

♪ Run like the wind ♪

♪ Oh, run towards the sun ♪

♪ Yeah ♪

♪ Darling, don't look back ♪

-[Alex] I'm nervous.
-Why? You look so angry.

-Oh my God, you look so handsome!
-[Harry laughing]

Harry! I don't want to get makeup on you.

-Oh my God.
-How are you doing?

-[Alex] You have a nice glow.
-Really? It's the tears and no sleep.

-Your button is undone.
-[Harry] Okay. Can you do it?

-Yes.
-No, straighten my bow tie.

Your bow tie is fine,
but you literally have--

-Okay, there we go.
-Okay.

-[sighs] Oh!
-Do I look okay? Do I look like a husband?

You're one lucky guy,
but she's one lucky girl.

I want you to know,
but I wanted you to hear it from me,

like, we love you no matter what.

I think this whole experience has been

beyond anything
I could have imagined for you.

I literally felt like I was dressing
for a funeral today

because I was, like… I'm, like, mourning
but celebrating the death

of who you were before this experience.
And now we're coming,

and it's like you're reborn
into this, like, different person.

You're literally about to get married.
You know?

Your family, your mother, your friends,
we're all here, and we're supporting you.

-And I love you.
-I love you too.

You're gonna be fine.

-Hell yeah.
-[Alex] You look amazing.

[both laughing]

-I love you!
-[Harry] I love you.

["Brightest Smile" by Thomas Bergersen
& Natalie Major playing]

♪ And I ♪

♪ I'm feeling so high ♪

♪ You make me feel this way ♪

♪ With your brightest smile ♪

♪ And we float in a cloud above ♪

♪ Take me where I've never been before ♪

♪ On a cloud above ♪

♪ You and I in a sky of ecstasy ♪

♪ We are free ♪

♪ Wait up, baby, we're going for a ride ♪

♪ 'Cause tonight ♪

♪ You're filling my heart
You're filling my heart ♪

♪ My brightest smile ♪

[singer vocalizing]

♪ Wait up, baby, we're going for a ride… ♪

Oh wow.

♪ You're filling my heart
You're filling my heart ♪

[song fades]

["Nothing Like You"
by Josh Sahunta playing]

♪ I don't think that I believe in fate ♪

♪ I know life doesn't work out that way ♪

♪ But then you came and proved me wrong ♪

♪ It's like you knew me all along ♪

-♪ Where you go ♪
-[laughing emotionally]

♪ I'll be there holding your hand… ♪

[Amber and Harry laughing]

You look so good.

-You look so sexy.
-[Harry laughing]

Please be seated.

[song fades]

Hi, everyone.

For those of you I don't know,

I'm Amanda, one of Harry's good friends.

I never could have guessed
we would be standing here at an altar,

and I would be marrying you. [laughing]

So to state the obvious,

this is not a traditional way
to meet your wife.

I've had the privilege of watching
Harry and Amber's relationship

from the very beginning.

Watching you two fall in love
has been nothing short of a miracle.

And today, despite the most unique
of circumstances,

Harry and Amber stand here
ready to proclaim their love

and make the ultimate commitment
to one another.

That love has brought people here
from all over the world,

from Hawaii to Australia and New Zealand,

I want to take a moment to acknowledge

all of you who have traveled here
to share in this moment.

Thank you so much for being here.

-[Harry] Thank you, guys.
-[man] You're welcome!

[all laughing]

We also want to take a moment
to acknowledge our loved ones

who are not here today physically,
but are here in spirit,

especially Harry's father, Paul,
and Amber's father, John,

who I know are shining their love
down on both of you today.

Harry and Amber have chosen
to write their own vows.

Well, Harry, you are first.

-So when you are ready.
-[Harry] Oh, okay.

[Amber] With glasses?

[all laughing and cheering]

Yeah, take it-- I can't--

It'll make sense in a second.

-Are you sure?
-It'll make sense.

Do you guys remember these?
It'll make sense in a second.

[laughing] What?

Okay.

[tender song playing]

"Amber, if we go back
to the first day of this experience,

I would have never expected this,
because you hated me."

-[all laughing]
-It's true. She hated me.

"But, for real, on the first day of this,
I didn't think we'd be here."

"Somehow, you made me slow down,
soften, and believe in something real,

and here you are,
and you make me feel like home."

"Look, you see me.
Not the version the world sees,

not the jokes or the armor,
but the parts the camera doesn't see."

"Instead of running, you stayed,
and I know life with you would be easy

and sexy."

-[Amber laughing]
-[Harry] That's her word.

"I promise to keep choosing you

on the good days, messy days,
and days where your attitude is putrid."

-[all laughing]
-[Harry] It's true.

"I promise to protect your heart
and make your life as fun as possible."

"You're a miracle, and I know our dads
are probably best friends up there."

-♪ Take my hand… ♪
-[Harry sighs]

"You're not just someone I fell for.
You're someone who makes me grow,

and look at life different."

"So, yeah, I'll annoy you, adore you,

challenge you, choose you,
and more than anything,

I promise to love you in a way that feels
steady, soft, insane, and true."

"I'm excited for the future."

The reason I'm wearing these glasses
is 'cause I wanted my dad

to see how beautiful you are,
'cause they're his glasses.

[all] Aww.

They are? You're so sweet. I love you.

Love you too.

I didn't write.
It's gonna come from the heart.

It's good.

I'm gonna try not to cry,
because you know I'm gonna.

[Harry] You can cry.
This is the day to cry.

-[Harry laughs]
-Um…

I feel like…

[music fades]

…I didn't really plan on coming here.

And I feel like maybe life had
better plans for me.

[emotional music playing]

And…

this whole process with you
has been a process of surrendering

and letting my guards down

and believing that something
is right for you,

and that the right things
will choose and find you.

Yeah.

[Amber] And we have so much fun.

I really didn't know that
that would exist,

that I would find someone
that was perfect for me.

You are so special and so unique,

and I always said that unique souls
have unique timelines, and…

it just feels like you were always meant
to be on mine from our first date.

You feel like home to me,

and when we went to New Zealand
was when I really knew

that I loved you deeply.

And I know that I have had a hard time
maybe opening up a little,

but you have been so patient.

You've protected me,
and you've chosen me this whole time.

-And… this is crazy.
-[Harry laughs]

But I love being crazy with you,
and I love being chaotic,

and I feel like we're so grounded
but so free at the same time,

and that's a type of love
I just didn't know if I would find,

so I feel like I kind of stopped
looking for it.

Just ending up here with you in this way

is the best thing
that ever happened to me,

and I promise to support you
and love you and choose you.

And we're gonna dream big
and love big and have the best life.

I promise.

And I love you so much.

I love you too. [laughs]

Come on, guys. Yeah!

-[Rio] Here you go!
-Thank you. Why are you being shy?

Thank you, guys. [laughing]

[Amanda] Sonny and Rio, everybody.

[all cheering and applauding]

[Amanda and Harry laugh]

[Amanda] Amber.

Do you, Amber, take Harry
to be your lawfully wedded husband?

-I do.
-Wow!

-[all laughing]
-[Harry] Do I put it on now?

Amber, please place the ring
on Harry's finger.

-That's how it works?
-Yes.

-[Harry] Okay.
-[Amanda] Whoo!

-Wow.
-How's it feel?

-Damn. I'm off the streets.
-[Amanda] Okay, Harry.

-You're off the streets. You're retired.
-Wow.

Do you, Harry, take Amber
to be your lawfully wedded wife?

I do.

Go ahead and place your ring
on Amber's finger.

-[Harry] That's crazy.
-[Amber] Oh, my--

Whoo! By the power vested in me
by the State of California,

I now pronounce you husband and wife.

Harry, you may now kiss
your beautiful bride!

-[all cheering]
-[sweeping orchestral music playing]

Congratulations!

Congratulations!

I feel over the moon.

This is the best day ever,
that we can finally just be each other's.

I feel like the luckiest guy
on the planet. I couldn't be more excited.

She's a ball of fun,
and she's so spontaneous

and go-with-the-flow,

so I feel like whatever we do
is gonna be fun and great and exciting.

And she dreams big, and she's sexy,

so it's gonna be a wild ride,
and I'm ready for it.

I'm married to Harry Jowsey.

-Hey!
-[both laugh]

[DJ] Ladies and gentlemen,
for the first time,

give it up for Mr. and Mrs. Jowsey.

[all cheering]

["Lost in Love Tonight"
by UNDY & Chris Dececio playing]

♪ I love the way
Our bodies move together ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ Every move feels right
Every touch ignites like fire ♪

♪ I love the sound of forever with you ♪

♪ Baby, come a little closer ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ Don't want it ever to be over ♪

♪ No more distance in between… ♪

[Mel] You are awesome.

Best of luck.

-Be strong with him, all right?
-I am.

♪ Let's get lost in
Lost in love tonight ♪

[Harry] Guys, I just did something crazy.

I got f*cking married! Whoo!

[laughing]

That's crazy. Wow.

-[Amber] It's the best day ever.
-Best day ever.

-And we got forever to go.
-Yeah.

That is it.

And I'm signing off. I'm married.

I'll see you never.

And, um…

Yeah, see you when we--

We'll see you later.

No, we won't,
because we're never coming back.

♪ Bodies move together ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

You're so sexy.

♪ Baby, come a little closer ♪

♪ Don't want it ever to be over
No more… ♪

♪ Lost in the rhythm, lost in the sound ♪

♪ Hearts beating fast
We're never slowing down ♪

♪ It's a wild ride, hold on tight ♪

♪ Let's get lost in
Lost in love tonight ♪

♪ I love the way
Our bodies move together ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ Every move feels right
Every touch ignites like fire ♪

♪ I love the sound of forever with you ♪

♪ Baby, come a little closer ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ Don't want it ever to be over, ooh ♪

♪ No more distance in between ♪

♪ 'Cause, baby
I know your touch will set me free ♪

♪ Lost in the rhythm, lost in the sound ♪

♪ Hearts beating fast
We're never slowing down ♪

♪ It's a wild ride, hold on tight ♪

♪ Hearts beating fast
We're never slowing down ♪

♪ It's a wild ride, hold on tight ♪

♪ Let's get lost in
Lost in love tonight ♪