01x01 - The Orgasm Gap

[bunniefuu]

Hey, sexy sirens. Welcome to Scott Club.

Okay, I really wasn't expecting this.

Three, two, one, go!

A trio of lusty ladies licking

tequila shots off my body

in a sex club.

I know it looks pretty steamy,

but I am doing this for science.

I'm trying to get the

low-down on female sexuality.

This is the land of clits.

The land of clits!

Why is the female sex

drive still such a mystery?

This is something I

call the p*ssy Sandwich.

If this was inside of you,

this is not that big, obviously.

It's almost like it's this.

I know from my own love life

just how sexual women can be.

So why do straight women

seem to have less free

and fulfilling sex lives than men?

And what can we do about it?

Just try to tease your hole.

You want the p*ssy to, like, want

that finger and welcome it in.

Strap on and get ready

for some eye-opening stuff.

And no, that is not my orgasm face.

It would be good if you

start masturbating now.

Is that good?

Take one, all right.

Are women as horny as men?

I am horny I don't know!

I do think women are less

able and are less accepted

to speak about how horny they are.

I think female sexual

desire has been repressed.

It's interesting to be able

to talk about all these things

and the discovery of the female orgasm.

I've always wanted to learn about

it, and I'm sure many others too.

So let's start with the basics.

How do females orgasm? And

is it different for males?

I'm in Germany where scientists

are making new discoveries

about the big O.

And I'm down for playing guinea

pig in the wildest experiment.

We are about to go into

a university hospital

where I'm going to masturbate.

Yep, I'm here to have an

orgasm and donate it to science.

Husband and wife team Johannes

Fuß and Sarah Biedermann

studied the chemical changes

in our brains when we c*m.

Of course they do.

We realized that there

is not much going on

in the whole field of sex research.

There are a lot of people

doing neuroscience in the field

but there's not so much

exploring of sexuality.

We're assessing neurobiological factors

like chemicals in the brain

and how does the body react

to sexual stimuli.

What I want to know is,

what exactly makes us feel so

good when we get our rocks off?

- Oh, it is pleasant.

- Intimate setting.

There's a bed. It's like a hotel room.

You can have a shower.

I will leave the room and

then I would ask you masturbate

for at least ten minutes.

At least? That's a nice amount of time.

If you take longer, that's no problem.

I'm not looking at

you because I'm scared.

- You don't

- I'm bad at blood.

Before I get down to

some solo sexy time,

I need to give a blood sample.

It's coming out!

Once I hit the big O,

Sarah and Johannes will

take another sample to see

what's changed in my blood.

Good. Cara, when you cl*max,

you will just blow the whistle.

Oh, yay. I should

always have that whistle.

- I will give this to you, and

- Thank you.

I will come in and

take blood very quickly.

Can I let myself settle for a

minute, or should I just be like,

"Orgasm! Blow whistle!"

It would be good if you

start masturbating now.

And in case I need extra help, sex toys.

Talk about German efficiency.

I have had some weird

sexual experiences,

but this is definitely up there.

- So!

- I'm okay.

- I'll take your blood now.

- Oh!

Masturbation!

Run, Johannes, run!

That blood contains all

the secrets of my cl*max.

Luckily, this man can pipet like a pro

and is back with the results

before I can say "Ubergasm".

- Hi, welcome back.

- Oh, my gosh.

So tell me, what did you

find? What's in there?

We processed your blood and we found

that it produced endocannabinoids.

Endocannabinoids are basically

your body's own version of cannabis.

- That's what it sounded like. Wow.

- Yeah, exactly.

That's why I felt dopey.

Is it like cannabis?

The body is producing it's

own cannabis-like substance.

- Wow.

- And it makes you kind of high

after masturbation.

And just like cannabinoid

chemicals in plants,

endo-cannabinoids in our

bodies can be a brilliant upper.

A bit like that feeling after a workout

or a runner's high.

Does that happen to everyone?

We know from research that

roughly 80 percent of people

had such an increase

of endo-cannabinoids

after masturbation to orgasm.

- Is it men and women? Both have

- Yeah.

We think that's why sex feels so good.

I feel fantastic.

What a great journey! Thank you, guys.

- Thank you for participating.

- Heroes of sex!

Heroes of sex!

Wow! Orgasm produce endo-cannabinoids.

That is hot news!

And even better, Sarah

and Johannes found

that males and females

can both hit the same high.

So it stands to reason

that men and women

should be having equally

mind-blowing sex, right?

Well, prepare for a shock.

I came across a very interesting study

that said that 95 percent of

straight men orgasm during sex.

But only 65 percent of straight

women orgasm during sex.

I think that number is very high

and most women I've

asked also agree with me.

They say it's probably more

around ten, 15, 20 percent,

but again, who knows?

This tragic state of affairs

is called the Orgasm Gap.

And for the benefit of

people with vaginas and clits,

I want to know how to close it.

Wish me luck!

I'm using a lot of

different terms in this film.

But whether you identify

as a woman or non-binary,

own a vulva or a cl*t,

we're talking about you.

And for decades, thanks to

prudish and patriarchal attitudes,

you've been missing out on pleasure.

We look back on times when

we used to wear corsets

and showing an ankle was

something like female flirting.

It's come a long way since then.

I still always felt a lot

of shame about being a woman.

Shame about my vag*na,

and to kind of put

shame in female sexuality

is really dangerous.

In many countries worldwide,

talking about female

sexuality is still taboo,

including here, in Lebanon.

There's definitely one thing

that unites all Arab countries

the culture of shame

regarding the female body.

It's very deeply embedded.

Women grow up with a fear around sex.

Sura and Hala have

agreed to speak to us

anonymously.

We always say, women are expected

to be very sexually attractive

but not sexually active.

You're not the one in

control of your own body

who gets to call the shots.

Society does, culture does.

And so that causes women

to totally disassociate

from their own bodies.

These two women are

bringing much-needed change

by starting a sexual

wellness brand called Mauj.

Who's reading the video chart?

Openly encouraging female

pleasure without getting shut down

is a massive challenge.

So Mauj created a video series where

the most intimate of women stories

are read out by

volunteers, called Hakuatis.

Hakuati means storyteller in Arabic.

This was typically a role that

only men used to play in society.

So we came up with the idea of

flipping Hakuatia into the feminine.

I felt cold, so he put his

arms around me to warm me up.

Suddenly he grabbed my hand

and put it on his p*nis.

We really wanted to find a way

to start to share women's stories

when it came to everything

related to their body, sexuality,

masturbation, and sexual pleasure.

If they speak up, there's a risk

that their families might hurt them.

I've always been an

advocate for women's rights.

This was an opportunity

for me to publicly speak up

about a cause I believe in.

Warmth and wetness.

My fingers kept moving,

in and out, around.

I opened my legs wider as

my fingers hit that spot.

It's harder for them to hear stories

that celebrate pleasure and orgasm.

There's still this shame of, like,

"I don't necessarily want

to be associated with that."

They're still not yet at the

level of public discourse as easy

as some of the stories around pain.

Mauj is dedicated to helping

de-stigmatize female sexuality.

It's very difficult to find

pleasure products in the Arab world.

You can't buy a vibrator.

They created a new device called Deem.

What's really special about Deem is

that it is the first product of its kind

designed by and for Arab women.

But breaking taboos can be risky.

So being discrete is

incredibly important.

We wanted Deem to be accessible

and available to every woman,

even women practicing

their religious belief

of not engaging in any

penetration before marriage.

We get asked a lot why our first

product is a pleasure product.

And our answer is,

"Because what's more taboo

than female pleasure?"

Taboos around female sexuality

exist in many more places worldwide.

And that, lovely people,

is holding women back.

I'm in Japan where it's

actually against the law

to show female genitalia.

Step up radical artist Rokudenashiko.

Or should that be, paddler?

In 2014, she decided to

challenge Japanese censorship

around female sexuality

by creating a canoe

modeled on her own vulva.

As you do.

- Hello.

- Hello.

- Nice to meet you.

- Thank you so much.

So That's so cool! Oh, my gosh!

I really want to row in

the vag*na canoe, though.

Rokudenashiko's also

been rocking the boat

with her vag-tastic miniatures.

Is this a real mold of a vag*na?

- My vag*na.

- That's your vag*na!

Now I understand, yes.

Why did you start making vag*na art?

p*ssy is a very taboo subject in Japan,

and I'm trying to change that

perception and make it more fun.

When my art was featured on a news site

I received a lot of backlash.

I was told, "Vaginas

are dirty and smelly,

don't make things like that."

- Crazy. Crazy!

- Crazy!

Originally, in Japan, a lot

of mythology featured pussies

and no one was bothered by it.

Western Christian culture

arrived, sex became taboo.

Now images of vaginas are censored,

as if it's something you shouldn't see.

If someone sees this work

and laughs at how silly it is

I hope to give people the

opportunity to question

why pussies are forbidden.

But it wasn't much of a laugh

when Rokodenashiko was arrested

for breaking Japan's obscenity laws.

Luckily she didn't have to go to prison

but had to pay a pretty hefty

fine of nearly 4,000 Dollars.

You're very inspiring. What

you're doing is amazing.

Yay!

Let's disrupt the

patriarchy! Whoo! Okay, cool.

Today I'm going to make my own vag art.

Okay. Now let's make a mold of a p*ssy.

Step one, whip up some clay.

I can see why you have nice arms now.

Yay.

See you later!

What? Surely you didn't think I

was going to show you that bit.

- I'll start!

- Do you want to hold it?

Stop looking at it!

What? I get really nervous! My vag*na

Oh, my God!

Very cute!

Very pretty!

- Oh, my God! I'm gonna cry!

- Very nice.

It's done!

So, I've made the mold

with help, of course.

It was successful, I hope.

It was a bit of cracking, but, you know?

Now for a bit of vagazzeling.

I never thought I

would do this. For sure.

You don't usually face

your p*ssy, do you?

I can eat dinner having my

own p*ssy in front of me.

This is so fun. I'm so glad I did this.

It's really sweet, I love it.

I'm really proud of what I made.

So, wanna know which

plaster master piece is mine?

Is it the moon landing?

The sandy bottom beach sea?

Or the golf course? Hole in one!

Sorry to let you down, but

you're never gonna know.

I admire Rokudenashiko's openness,

but my privates stay private.

So what does that say about me?

I feel, as a model, as

someone who sells their image,

my vag*na is the one

private thing I have.

That's the thing that I decide

who sees it, when, how, why.

- But I thank you so much

- Thank you for what?

For what you've done! I'm

gonna tell people about your art

and spread the message

of vag*na positivity.

So much fun! I had so much

fun with my vag*na today.

I mean, this job really

suits me perfectly,

because the things I

get to do are just so me.

Best time ever!

She's trying to spread

a selfless message

of people, and women

specifically, to love themselves

from something that has

put so much shame on.

And that is seen as a criminal offense?

It's mind-blowing.

Culture has a lot to answer for.

Shame, taboo, even prison.

It's all about control.

But that's not the only reason

women of the world aren't

getting their kicks.

A vital part of our anatomy

has been rudely overlooked.

Until just a few decades ago,

people thought the clitoris was

this tiny, tricky to access button,

hard to stimulate and generally

less of a big deal than the p*nis.

Nearly 30 years after

the moon landings

It's one small step for man

the clitoris was finally

mapped in 1998 by a woman.

And what a revelation

that was! It's massive,

with three times more

nerves than the p*nis.

It's time the clitoris was given

the recognition it deserves.

Meet New Yorker Sophia

who is on what she calls,

"a Cliteracy campaign".

Cliteracy is my attempt to blast

the clitoris into public awareness.

Using large scale,

using text, using neon.

It all began when she found out

that her grandma, a mother of five,

had never once had an orgasm.

People with clits are

having not a lot of orgasms,

whether its their clits

being externally excised

or its being shamed, the cl*t

has this ability for pleasure,

and it's not getting that.

So I thought, "Someone needs

to call bullshit on this."

I put a lot of attention

into how I design the clits

because I feel like that's

the most important part.

I mean, it feels good, it's beautiful,

and also to see, and not

to look closely at it.

There are very few depictions

of it that are actually specific,

it's usually just this

round sort of blob.

But if you actually look closely

at the glands, it is a shape,

and it's also very

diverse, person to person.

All this knowledge

about the mysterious cl*t

is just blowing my mind.

It's about time I saw

it in all its glory.

This is the land of clits.

The land of clits!

My focus is drawn straight to the booty.

So these are these porcelain

sculptures that I made

in order to honor this part of the body

that is often so shamed.

And I just think,

everyone should be a, like,

in awe of how amazing clits are

but also being drawn to the glands

because there's a ton of nerves.

There's 8,000 nerves

here. This part activates

and then everything else engorges

- This is erectile tissue.

- Wow.

Basically the same amount of

erectile tissue as the p*nis.

Also, we wake up with morning wood.

We don't even have words

for a cl*t erection.

- Crazy, huh?

- That's true.

Like, when you wake up, but

you call it morning wood?

- You call it that?

- We should make new words.

If this was inside of me

This is obviously not that big.

It's almost like this

orientation, which is really funny,

but it's just so we understand it.

It's so confusing because it's

never been drawn in its anatomy.

I will always draw

penises on things as a joke

because I think it's funny

and I'm really bad at drawing.

But it's so true. I would

never draw a vag*na, you know?

I'm just drawing a p*nis comic.

Wohoo, that's funny! It's not.

Well, we're taught to think

that penises are hilarious

and, like, cool.

A cl*t is just, like, "Oh,

you can't find it, ha, ha!"

You know, having sex with other women

where I realize how much more

sensitive women are than they think.

When you take your time and

you are super slow and soft,

you see how much more nerves

there are than in the p*nis.

It's crazy. It's a beautiful organ.

Exactly. I mean, my son is 19 months old

and he will never not know what

a cl*t is. I'm proud about that.

- You know what I'm saying?

- Yes!

A huge part of the so-called orgasm gap

is that women have been told to

keep silent about their sexuality.

But I do think things are changing.

- Is it just on or off?

- It has two speeds.

Fast and faster.

- It's just really like

- Okay, we'll plug it in.

I'll show you.

PENDA N'DIAYE FOUNDER, PRO HOE

Penda N'diaye brings women together

to share the secrets of pleasure,

especially within black communities.

So, as much as I love a bit of sex talk,

I'm respectfully sitting this one out.

Black women in particular are undergoing

this incredible revolution right now.

And I think sexual identity is

a huge part of that revolution,

knowing what feels good and

not accepting anything less.

Today, the women are

giving their inside stories

on some homework pender set

to test drive a bunch of new sex toys.

Once you understand the

capacity of your pleasure,

you can use that to inform who we are

and not silencing ourselves.

So I'm really glad that all of

you are joining me in this journey

of pleasure and feeling good,

and you're down for the sex toys

that are here.

My mom gave me my first

vibrator for Christmas.

She's like, "I don't need to now

what you're doing or with whom,

just as long as you're getting it in."

It's honestly just having

conversations with a lot of women

who have never had orgasms.

Sometimes I'm still like, "Wow."

And if you thought you

didn't need a sex toy

well, listen and learn.

- I'm Shadae.

- Hey, everyone.

Hey, this is Shadae's

first sex toy experience.

- You popped the cherries.

- Yes.

How do your partners feel about

you bringing toys into the room?

I was always in my mind thinking

that men may find it

a little intimidating.

There's something so powerful

about being able to please yourself

- without anyone else.

- Right.

First time using it, I was like,

"Damn, this feels so much easier."

And I felt like I had more

control over my orgasms.

Now I know what I need

whereas before, so often

in my sex experiences,

I relied on men.

Today I got liberated.

It felt really freeing to

have that type of discourse

among women that look like me

and that remind me of myself.

I'm Lisa. For me it's exploring

different types of toys

with my partner and then even going

shopping for toys with my partner

to create that ease.

I had the Double Trouble.

And I got to do it with my partner.

And, you know, he would hold it and

I was able to have three orgasms,

- like, back to back to back.

- Yeah.

Growing up as a black girl,

being told not to do things,

you know, we're being limited.

Sexual pleasure is for ultimate freedom.

I feel like I've been able

to be my complete self,

including my sexuality, with my partner.

I'm not used to using

vibrators internally,

- it's more like, cl*t.

- Yes.

I had an amazing, magical orgasm,

and I pulled it out and looked

at it, and I was like, "Wow!"

This is the way.

It was interesting to see

because I'm used to seeing it

on a d*ck, I'm not used to

- Or p*nis.

- Yeah.

There's times when I'm

like, "I'm gonna pee myself."

But I just had to squirt.

So my orgasms are

getting better as I age.

I can't wait to see how

they are in the future.

It's no secret I do love a sex toy,

because honestly, if you're

waiting for someone else

to give you a hand,

it can all be a bit touch and go.

Love you guys so much.

Master interview, take two.

For me, the earliest ideas I ever

got towards sex were, you know,

man plus woman, d*ck

plus vag*na equals orgasm.

I don't want to go into the

art of making a woman c*m,

but it's just a lot more

complicated and a lot more fun.

I do feel that generally men are

not equipped with the right tools

to be able to handle

women, especially sexually.

I mean, I get it.

It's a lot more complicated

for a woman to have to tell you,

"You're not doing it right. Sit

down and listen to what I say."

It's an ego k*ller which

most men can't handle.

Look, I might be unfair

to single men here,

so let's make sure I'm

not missing anything

by getting a 101 on the

power packed in our pants.

Sexpert Marieke Dewitte will love

to get into the juicy details.

Let's start off with a casual question.

Is there any difference between

the male and female orgasm?

Why is the gap so big?

We know that men and women

do not differ in the capacity

to reach orgasm, to experience pleasure,

but only a few women,

less than 30 percent,

can actually cl*max via penetration

and that's often where it goes wrong.

We don't get the right stimulation.

The clitoris is the female sex organ,

not the vag*na. The

vag*na is a birth channel.

- Drop the mic right there!

- Yeah, exactly!

I mean, it is much less

sensitive than the clitoris

which is a good thing

or giving childbirth would be horrible.

- Oh, my God!

- It would be the end of humanity.

So the idea that women have less

sexual desire than men is wrong.

They just don't get the

right sexual stimulation.

Physically, the duration of

an orgasm is really short.

It takes about 20, 25 seconds in women

and about five to 25 seconds in men.

And in general, it takes longer

for women to reach orgasm.

For some women, actually, if

you continue to stimulate them,

they also continue to cl*max,

so that's why women can

have multiple orgasms.

The clitoris is actually a small p*nis.

It includes the glands and the forehead,

it gets swollen during arousal.

So, in a way, women have on the inside

what men have on the outside.

Most women know that the clitoris

obviously needs to be stimulated

but do they think that penetrative

sex is it that will make them

Well, we maybe have sex in a way

that fits the male sexual script.

For a long time

sex has been studied from

a biological perspective.

Biologists study sex as reproduction.

So we know a lot about

the p*nis and so on

- because that's for reproduction.

- That's the one giving the juice.

If we think about the female orgasm

and the female sexual response,

there's so much we don't know yet

because we constantly have this

male gaze looking at sexuality.

- Totally.

- But it's also about

focusing on your own sexual pleasure.

And that's also something

that is difficult for women

because we're socialized to prioritize

the pleasure of the partner.

Women, remember those words!

Put your own pleasure first!

Actually, I am something

of an expert in that.

One of my earliest

memories is masturbating,

but I didn't know it

was anything sexual.

It was just, "This feels good!

Why would I not touch there

to feel better about life?"

It just made sense.

But I do think that

there's just a lot more fear

about talking about

women touching themselves.

But just because I think men

can go around and be like,

"Yeah, I just came

nine times today, bro!

I can't even walk!" And

they're like, "Sick!"

"Well, I touch myself."

They're like, "Gross."

Ah, the "m" word! Masturbation.

Probably one of the

best things we can do

to get that orgasm count up for women.

Knowing what feels good can make it

a lot easier to tell someone else.

So I'm on my way to, wait for

it, a group masturbation class.

Only in New York. I mean,

at this point, why not?

I'm Lola Jean, and I am a sex educator.

I like to call it

A masturbation class if more of

like a yolk class for your bits.

Sitting in a room full of women

I'm not gonna lie, I

sat next to my friend

and masturbated next to

each other, but that's it.

I'm terrified.

- Hello.

- Hi.

- So you're here for the workshop?

- Oh, yes.

If not, we're all in

for a little surprise.

- This is like my house!

- Oh, really?

- Is anyone nervous?

- Yeah.

I'm very curious, and if

there's anything I can learn

and feel less shame about having

a vag*na, that would be great.

Okay, so how many of you have

been masturbating the same way

since you were, like, seven,

or whenever you started?

- No.

- Definitely.

- The same way?

- Yeah, doing the same thing.

Like humping your pillow,

humping your hand

I've only once spent really an hour

really making love to myself,

like touching every part

of my body, like, I cried.

That's the thing, nothing

is weird or abnormal,

because if you know your button,

oh, my God, you know your thing!

That's amazing to have, and maybe

there's more buttons to figure out.

We're trying to find

different pathways to pleasure.

This is my vulva, but

not my actual vulva

because its eerily and bright red.

So, there's something I

call the p*ssy sandwich,

and that's where you're gonna

take the outer and inner labia

between your index

finger and your thumb.

The chopsticking of the clitoris

is when you're gonna take

an inverted peace sign and it's

going to go on the inner labia.

So knuckling is something

that's gonna look like drumming,

but it's going to be with our knuckles.

and we can do that kind

of around the inner labia.

This one is called the motorcycle rub.

So you're two middle fingers,

your middle finger and your ring

will be inside of the vag*na and

you're gonna rub the motorcycle.

There's one that we're gonna go

back to a lot and change it up,

and that's going from the

bottom of the vulva to the top.

Looks nice with my pants.

Really goes well.

I'm gonna get so self-conscious

because in my mind I'm like, "I

just want the lights to be off."

- Can you

- Or my face to be covered.

Despite the safe space,

I still feel like I need to wear a mask.

Close your eyes and take

a few breaths in and out.

And now we're gonna

make a p*ssy sandwich.

Masturbation is just another

healthy part of our life,

and there's so much we can gain from

it that actually has nothing to do

with pleasure or

orgasm. It can be stress,

to relieve cramps or a headache.

And as soon as we start

removing that stigma,

the dirtiness, and the same,

the more we can start enjoying

the actual benefits of masturbation

instead of trying to assign

morality to what it means.

Look, I revved, chopsticked and

sandwiched for a full-on hour

and it was kind of sexy, but

it also felt weird for me.

And what I definitely

didn't do was orgasm.

Yet somehow I feel utterly changed.

It is a very brave thing to

come to a class and masturbate

with a group of strangers.

What was that like?

It's the bravest thing I've ever done.

I liked the normalizing aspect and

that we're all just laying here,

it was just much more

exploratory, it felt really safe.

I've never masturbated

in front of anyone ever

apart from when I did

it in bed with my friend.

I can't believe that I did it.

But I haven't actually used my hand

to touch myself in so long.

Because, again, I feel really,

like, so much shame around my vag*na.

"My vag*na is not like

other girls I've slept with."

You masturbated in front

of people and you survived.

It's like, "Oh, that's nice,

it's actually quite soft!

Oh, my God, I feel great, I feel nice."

- Thank you.

- Absolutely.

Take what you learned here,

go home, be by yourself.

Be in an area that's comfortable for you

and continue to explore

and do these things.

I think I'm learning a lot from

everyone I've met so far, for sure.

It's making me be a lot more

open in my own personal life.

In my mind, the most

important thing about life

is connections with other humans,

and I haven't even begun to have

enough conversations like this

with enough people.

But we can learn so

much from each other.

Sexuality! Yes.

Here we are, heading for

the cl*max of my journey

to understand women's sexuality

and unlock female pleasure.

I've already put myself

out there like never before

but tonight I'm going all the way.

I'm off to a women-only sex party

to see what happens when everyone's

free to explore their raw sexuality

with no inhibitions.

And more importantly, no men.

We've got lots of newbies tonight.

Always at least over 80

percent are first-timers.

So keep your eyes peeled for anyone

that looks a little bit unsure.

After everything I've learned, am

I brave enough to shed the shame

and put my sexual desires

out there in public?

I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty nervous,

so I've asked my

friend Elena to join me.

When we were talking

about it, she was like,

"Yeah, I'd be so down for watching

women get off with each other

but I would be a bit more awkward."

There is that one three-way

with another girl and guy,

but that was really it.

That was my one brush.

That's my most straight friend.

Financial advisor Genevieve

set up Skirt Club in 2014

to host sex parties for women.

It now has 18,000 members

in cities all over the world.

Nice to meet you,

darling, how are you doing?

- Pleasure! Nice to meet you.

- How are you doing?

Welcome to Skirt Club.

Consent is a huge thing.

And remember, like you, a lot of

women are here for the first time.

So they're nervous, okay?

They may not have ever

kissed a woman before.

Some women here are straight,

some g*y, some bi, some pan.

But most are just curious and horny.

- What's your name?

- I'm Bella.

- I love that!

- Yeah? You're welcome.

Okay, sexy sirens,

welcome to Skirt Club.

We believe in the power

of the feminine here.

Skirt Club is a safe space for

you to explore all of your desires.

We're gonna take good care of

you. Your pleasure is paramount.

That is the key to the gate to heaven.

- Yeah!

- Welcome!

If you do feel uncomfortable,

I'm the consent fairy,

so come and find me.

Please make sure to be safe,

have conscious communication

with each other.

If it's not a "hell, yes," it's a no.

I appreciate the fact that every

single person that's showed up

is gorgeous in every

way, shape, or form.

We're all here for the same

purpose. To enjoy each other.

So, good people, this

is just a little taste

of what women can get up to

when they've let go of shame,

left their inhibitions behind

and feel free to

explore their sexuality.

I think I'm gonna like this.

I've always known that

I've been bisexual.

I am married, I have a family,

but there's a part

of me that needs more.

And I have the position

right now to have both,

and it's amazing.

It makes me feel powerful.

I've never felt that before.

And as the evening hots up,

well, so do I.

Three, two, one, go!

This is tequila shots, Skirt club style.

It's a lot of fun.

Women doing this together,

that's an amazing thing.

It makes you feel super, super safe.

People are here to enjoy

themselves, lift each other up,

appreciate each other.

I feel really truly free.

It's been such a tense formation for me

because I come from a really

conservative background

with, you know, like, long skirts

and, like, really crazy catholic,

and Skirt Club really gave me

the opportunity to express myself.

One of my fantasies is to have

sex with several women at once.

You know, like five,

six women laying on a bed

going down on each other.

That's definitely amazing.

You don't have to be a l*sbian.

You don't have to be anything.

You just do whatever you

want. You can be bi-curious.

You can be married, you

can be It doesn't matter.

There's no label on it, so

Skirt Club opens the door.

Girls are generally so

focused on pleasuring the male.

Here it's all about girls and

their pleasure and their right

to own that.

What happened next?

Well, I'm gonna let that be the

only mystery left in this show.

What I've learned about

female sexuality is

there is so much left we need to learn.

I honestly think that most

people know more about space

than the inner workings

of the female orgasm.

I had to come face to

face with my own vag*na,

had an orgasm for science,

and attempted to masturbate

in a room full of strangers

which I never thought I would do.

What this has made me feel is

we need to fight for equality

and pleasure more than ever.

We deserve equal pleasure.

We deserve orgasms!

Who doesn't want that?

There is all this pleasure right there

and it's still left unexplored.

Having a clitoris is a super power.

So let's become superheroes

and shout it from the rooftops!

Vaginas!