WOMAN: Hello, b*tch boy.
I mean, why should I
have to pay for anything
when there's a
loser reject like you
who I can just call
a pathetic little pig?
Bye, loser.
SHE SCREAMS
'I'm Olivia Attwood'
There you go. SHE CHOKES
'..back for more.'
Is the wedding ring a problem,
cos, like, I can take it off.
'In search of
who's striking it rich
'in today's all-inclusive
sex industry.'
Mmm. That is a big,
big load for Granny.
Do you want to see
me bounce these pecs?
'Meeting the most
fantastical content creators
'offering their
extensive services'
Sucking, f*cking,
facials, cream pies, a**l.
POV, bondage, bush worship.
'..for the most
unexpected kinks.'
'I'll be probing
further' SHE MOANS
'..into a business
full of surprises.'
Look at that beauty, darling.
'Uncovering what it takes'
Someone wanted me
to drink 5,000 calories.
'..to bank a fortune.'
My biggest day, I had
one guy send me 30,000.
What?!
I don't just cater to horny men.
Hit a million? Oh, I've
hit over four million.
Findom, AKA
financial domination.
The sexual service
offering no sex
but has a reputation for
the biggest cash return
for the least amount of work.
Send me a $100 tribute.
What's "150K drain"?
Since two years ago,
that's how much I've made.
Analysis of Google has shown
that searches for findom have risen
83% percent in
the last five years.
I'm legally robbing
you kind of thing.
Know what I mean?
They're like, "Mug me."
And you're like, "OK."
'I'm going to meet some
of the highest earners
'working in
financial domination.'
Who's paying for my spa treatment,
and my next bag, or my next trip?
I bought a house.
All financed through
findom? Mm-hm.
'And I'll take the
lessons in providing
'this almost contactless
sexual service'
Gimme. $30. CHA-CHING
I think you can do better.
'..to find out if this
really is the easiest way
'to get filthy rich and,
if so, at what cost?'
"Ruination" is a kink,
and some people are not
gonna have complete control.
What's my Nando's order
for my lunch tomorrow?
I have a single wrap,
coleslaw. What else?
That's not how
you spell "chilli".
LAUGHING: Is it not? No.
C-H-I-L-L-Y?
Yeah, but that's chilly, as in
cold. What's the other kind?
Chilli jam is spelt with an "I".
Did you not know that?
Obviously not, I'm dyslexic.
Thanks for bringing it
up. So, no "chilly" jam?
What do you know about findom?
It's the first time I've
ever heard "findom".
Essentially, it stands
for financial domination.
So, it's a fetish,
where typically
men, but not just men,
have a woman basically
drain their bank account,
and they get off
on it, sexually.
They give the money back?
No! Are you joking?
Let me get you a Google def.
"What is a pay pig?"
"That is the submissive
in the financial domination,
"who provides another
person with money."
And they get off on
it? Yeah. So, they
While they're having
this interaction,
probably the pay pig is, like,
literally having a wank over it.
Like, it turns them on.
That's one of the
weirdest I've heard.
Really? Yeah.
In the beginning
of our relationship,
you used to be quite
You used to give me quite
a lot of stuff that I wanted.
Now, less.
Yeah, but that's That's
nothing to do with findom.
What, you didn't used
to get a b*ner in Chanel?
No. I did not, no. No, no.
You always used to
go very quiet and pale.
HE LAUGHS Right,
pay the f*cking bill, then.
Please?
# Put a spell on you
# Cos you're mine
# Better stop the
things you do #
Over these years, I've met women
who are doing financial domination,
but I've never really gone
that deep into the subject.
So to start things off, I've
managed to bag myself a day
with a real findom to start
off this education of mine.
Her name is Goddess Anna,
but I was just checking
out her Twitter X.
In her bio, it says,
"Cute and cruel.
"I'll ruin your life, and
you'll thank me for it."
Sounds great.
# I put a spell on you
# Cos you're mine
# Better stop #
Hi! Hi! How are you?
I'm good. I'm Olivia,
nice to meet you.
I'm Anna. So excited!
# Put a spell on you #
Would you like some
water? Yeah, sure.
Thank you for letting
me come round today.
24-year-old Anna from
Liverpool was a struggling student,
until she discovered the findom
community 18 months ago.
I really wanna dive
into the whole industry
and understand it better,
cos from the outside,
it looks like it's just
too good to be true.
So, I'd seen it on Twitter before,
and I was, like, kind of curious.
And then I just kind of
decided to make an account,
see how it went. The first day,
I made £1,000, so
I was like, "Hm, OK.
"This is interesting."
The first day?
Talk me through
how you earnt £1,000?
What did you
have to do for that?
Literally just them looking
at content on my page,
and then sending me money,
cos I'm like, "OK, send me money."
What do you earn now?
It kind of depends
how much effort I put in.
Cos some months, I
might make, like, 8K, 10K,
if I'm not putting
much effort in.
Wow. But then, like, last
month, I made about 15K.
And how much has anyone
ever sent you in one transfer?
Like, two, two-and-a-bit K.
Oh, my God.
Honestly, that's not even that
much compared to some findoms.
Like, I've seen
some get, like, 30K.
What?! LAUGHING: Yeah.
Would you count what
you do as sex work?
Yeah, definitely.
Even though you're
not engaging in sex,
or necessarily even
sexual content?
The reason why they're doing
it is cos they're getting off on it.
So, yeah, I'd say it's sex work.
So, it's It's very
clear that for the sub,
it's a sexual fetish?
Yeah, definitely. Yeah.
And do they explain to
you what they get out of it?
I don't really
No, not really.
I never ask cos I don't
really want to know.
And what is life
like outside of work?
So I was a student,
living with my parents.
I dropped out. Oh,
you didn't finish?
No. I kind of started this job and
started making so much money,
and I was like, "Is there
any point in getting a degree
"when I'm probably not
gonna make as much money
"as I would doing this?"
Have you got anything to
do today that I can watch?
Yeah, do a livestream.
I can't wait to see this.
Can't wait to see you in action.
'Anna uses the online
platform LoyalFans,
'which allows
multiple subscribers
'to tune into her page
and donate money.'
Press "start broadcast".
OK. Who's gonna be the
first person to send, then?
CHA-CHING Good boy.
OK, who's next?
That was only ten
dollars. It was pathetic.
OK, again.
CLICKS FINGERS
'The platform takes 20%.
'The rest goes direct
to Anna's bank account.'
Twenty dollars. Still not great.
OK, again. CLICKS FINGERS
Gimme.
CHA-CHING Mm, five dollars? No.
CLICKS FINGERS
Fifty? Not bad.
What is this clicking
thing you do?
They just like it. It's like
a like a trigger thing.
What, like you
would do with a dog?
Yeah. Literally what
you'd do with a dog, yeah.
CLICKS FINGERS
Gimme.
Mm, it's OK.
Thirty dollars. I think
you can do better.
OK, tip.
Better.
That was 75
dollars, which is OK.
What the hell?
How much was that?
A thousand.
Someone just sent you a £1,000?
Mm-hm. For what?
For nothing. I guess
cos I told him to.
No matter what the
amount of money is,
your reaction is very subdued.
Cos I don't want them to
feel like they've pleased me
as much as they can, you know?
I always want them
to strive to do better.
I don't want them to ever feel
like what they've sent is enough.
Do you know the person
that sent you 1,000?
Yeah, they're a regular.
What do they do for work?
They work in, like, a
factory or something.
They don't make that much money.
Findom is their, like
That's their hobby.
It's an expensive
hobby, innit? Yeah.
How much is that
up to now? 1,900.
Yeah, I'm bored. Bye, b*tches.
£1,900? Mm-hm.
That's f*cking crazy,
bro. SHE GIGGLES
I hope you don't
take this offensively,
but you do so little.
There's so little
You're not, like, moving.
You're not Like, you're
not saying hardly anything.
Mm-hm. The more I ignore them,
the more they, like,
feel not good enough,
the more they send.
Loved it. Thanks for having me.
I won't keep you, cos
obviously, time is money.
Nice to meet you.
It's been great.
Bye, darl. Bye.
That was utterly
surreal and bizarre.
I've just never seen so
little for so much.
There was no sex talk.
There was nothing
No innuendo.
She just had a little
dress on, a bit of cleavage,
and they were just sending
this money through, consistently.
Being the cynical hun that I
am, my motto in life is normally,
"If something looks
too good, it normally is."
And I feel with this, that
has to be an example.
It can't be as easy as all that.
It can't. Life's just
not sweet like that.
# Gimme, gimme more, gimme more
# Gimme, gimme more
Gimme, gimme more #
'As well as simply earning
hard cash from their pay pigs,
'findoms can also expect
'their day-to-day
expenses to be picked up.'
Right, little
social media stalk.
'I've come to a luxury
beauty salon in London
'to meet a girl who discovered
these lifestyle benefits
'at the tender age of 18.'
# Gimme, gimme more
Gimme, gimme more #
Her bio reads, "Pay to
speak. Richer than you.
"150K-plus drained.
"I actually have a sub
sat in a random field,
"rubbing dirt all over
his little c*ck for me."
This is crazy especially
for someone so young.
I feel like, when
I was 20, like
I'll be completely honest,
I didn't even know that you
could disagree with a boy.
I didn't know that
was a thing yet,
let alone be so dominant
and belittling and
That confidence, like,
where does that come from?
Hi, darl.
Hi. How are you?
Nice to meet you. Hi.
Thank you so much
for agreeing to meet me.
My God, you're
absolutely gorge. Aw.
20-year-old Lucy
from rural Scotland
gave herself the title of
"Duchess" two years ago,
and has been reaping
the rewards ever since.
So when I was waiting for you,
I had a little scroll on
your social media. Mm-hm.
And I mean Thank you
very much. Thank you.
Oh, cheers, darl. Cheers.
Isn't that gorgeous, the
little flower in? It is, yeah.
Mm. Mm.
I was interested about,
um, "150K drained".
So, basically, since
I've started findom,
which was pretty much two
years ago nearly today, actually,
that is how much I've made.
And subs really like
when you're quite open
about how much you make.
Yeah. The more
money that you make,
and you post about
it, you boast about it,
the more they
want to send to you.
What, almost like
it's a competition?
It's like they wanna
make the rich richer.
So, I'll just take a
photo of our drinks.
Is the wedding ring
a problem? I'll just
No, no Cos,
like, I can take it off.
LUCY LAUGHS
I'll post a photo
on Twitter. Yeah.
And I would say, "Out for
drinks with a friend. Cover it."
Just to your followers? Yeah.
What's the likelihood
of someone paying?
It's most likely, yeah.
Is there any limit to what
kind of thing you could post?
I've actually posted a
booking confirmation
for my holiday to Ibiza.
OK. And I was like, "Cover it."
It was 850.
Instantly covered.
By someone you don't know?
I didn't even know this
guy. This was the crazy part.
He just said, "Thank
you, goddess."
I wanna hang out
with you more often.
The thing is, it's easy money,
but I would honestly say
that 90% of the people
that try to start findom
as a dom don't succeed.
A lot of people aren't
aware that it is kinky,
and they get weirded
out by guys, right?
Because guys will ask a lot
of weird things sometimes.
And they'll be like, "Ugh!"
What are some requests that
you've had, where you're like,
"This is too far for
me. I'd never do that"?
I get a lot of
requests for scat,
which is like, sh*t. Right.
So a lot of people have asked me
to send my sh*t to them in the post.
Sorry, eat the? Put
it all over their face.
What?! I haven't done
it, I haven't done it.
But you would just put it in, like,
a vacuum-sealed bag, and then
Actually sh*t in a bag, like
you would at a doctor's office?
Yeah, and then they
would, like, Skype you.
And they'd be like,
"Goddess, I've got it."
And then, you know, you'd
tell them what to do with it.
Oh, my God.
Someone's paid. Shut up.
Yeah. In that amount of time?
Forty quid. It says,
"For lunch." Wow.
And who is that? I'm
not sure, it's anonymous.
You've no idea?
No, I don't know.
That's mental.
Becoming a findom has allowed
Lucy to experience a lifestyle
well beyond the average
18 to 21-year-old in the UK,
whose annual salary would
be just over 13K a year.
How much financial freedom
has being a findom provided you?
Definitely a lot.
Like, when I was 18,
when I first started
And in my first two months,
I made 20,000 per month,
which is an insane amount of
money for anyone to be making.
But especially an
18-year-old. An 18-year-old.
You must have never even
seen that much money?
I didn't know what to do
with it. Honestly, I really didn't.
What would be your
warnings to other girls?
Just that you obviously do
get exposed to a lot of dark stuff.
Mm. Um
Like I did at quite a young
age, you know? Yeah.
People get their houses
taken away, you know?
Their cars. sh*t.
They have their
families leave them.
Because they're
spending all their money
Yeah. Mm-hm. ..being
financially dominated?
That's quite scary, isn't it?
I don't think I've had
anything, like, extreme,
like, people losing their house,
but I definitely have
caused relationships to end.
Is that the kind of thing that
makes you feel bad, or not so much?
Kind of, but
..at the end of the day, I
don't know their girlfriends.
I've got no loyalty to them.
They're the ones that have
the loyalty to their partners.
Mm.
There's something interesting
in the fact that we're living in
a financial climate that is
harder than ever for most people,
yet there's more people than ever
that want to give their money away,
for free, to people like Lucy.
And she's plunged herself
into an extremely adult world,
and sometimes she's having
to read through messages
and requests from people that
..contain some
pretty depraved stuff.
# Man, I feel like money
Man, I feel like money #
Go, right f*cking
now, and contribute.
Being a financial dominatrix
promises big rewards
for little more than insults.
There's even a dedicated app that
claims to have over 9,000 members.
The majority of
findoms are female,
but I've managed to track
down an exception to the rule.
# Yeah, yeah It's
going down, down #
Imagine I went
through the frame.
Today's a big, big day.
I am going to meet someone
that calls himself H-Money,
who is a real-life male findom.
"Come and find out why
they call me the savage.
"A page where you can see
the real me and not a persona."
To watch the financial
domination happen in-person
is something I've
not seen yet before,
and what I know about the
way H-Money does his sessions
is they're not sexual
in the moment.
No-one's nude, but
yet this person is, like,
giving over shitloads of cash
to him, at his demand.
I just can't get
my head round it.
I can't get my head
around it. It's mad.
# All I wanna do is
# And a
# And take your money #
'For safety, most findoms
avoid contact with their subs,
'but H-Money welcomes
the physical interaction.'
# And a
# And take your money #
Hi! Hello.
How you doing? H?
H-Money. I'm good.
Have a seat. This
is nice. Thank you.
Get yourself comfortable.
This is my partner, Charlene.
I would say "girlfriend",
but I'm not five years old.
So, this is my
partner, Charlene.
I'm very excited to
hear about what you do.
29-year-old H-Money
shot his first porn film at 19,
but switched to
findoming a year ago,
making over nine
grand in the first month.
I obviously had a little
scroll on your OnlyFans page,
so I got the gist.
But more specifically,
the financial domination
Mm. Are you ready to see some
sh*t? I'm always ready to see some sh*t.
Obviously, findom, it normally
revolves around degrading people,
being rude, so for me,
that was just natural.
It started off with,
um He actually is.
It started off with
someone messaging me,
"Hello, sir. How are you doing?"
And what annoyed me was,
he would never say, "Feet."
He'd be like, "How's
them feets doing?
"And I'll pay."
I was like I just
said, "Shut the f*ck up."
And then, ping, fifty quid.
And I just kept going, and I
kept going, and I kept going.
And he just kept sending
and sending and sending,
and I thought,
"Hold on a minute."
Were you like, "What
is going on?" Yeah.
It was only, like, a ten-minute
job, just calling him names.
He'd be like, "How you
doing?" I'd be like, "f*ck off."
And they're straight,
or are they g*y?
The majority of
them are married.
There's been a few, but I'd
say 90% of them are married.
That's what's blown my mind most
about the way you do these things.
Cos it's not like he's having
a wank at the time. No.
Yeah. Mine's like, legally
I'm legally robbing
you, kind of thing.
Do you know what I mean?
They're like, "Mug me,"
and you're like,
"OK." Yeah, yeah.
So, how much money can you
earn a month, doing what you do?
Anything from ten to 15 grand.
So not bad. Not bad.
What do you think
of all this, Charlene?
It still baffles me.
Yeah, I've actually I've
got a client coming in today.
So this is the first time you're
going to see H doing this
in the flesh? Yeah.
We've got each
other then, girl. I know!
Because this is the
first I'm seeing it as well.
KNOCK ON DOOR
Oh, here he is.
Come in. Don't talk to anyone.
Hurry up.
On the floor.
Foot stool, now.
So, guys
Go on, take my shoes off.
Wait, kiss my foot.
MAN KISSES
Hurry up.
MAN SNIFFS
Smell it, smell it.
KISSING
Get the money out.
Pour some around my feet.
Go on, take the sock off.
Hurry up.
Go on, carry on.
LIPS SMACK
H, can I ask a question? Yeah.
What is it you like
about H's feet? Go on.
You can speak now,
don't worry. You can speak.
VOICE DISTORTED: I
think it's a symbol of power.
Especially to worship a
masculine Alpha like H-Money.
That gives me pleasure.
How much do you think you've
spent with H-Money in total?
Uh, probably a few grand.
Do you mind me asking
how you finance that?
I do have a decent job.
I think that's one of the reasons
I submit to Master H-Money,
because I'm
In my professional life,
I'm always in charge,
and I don't want
to be in charge,
and that's one of my
ways to release my stress.
Do your family or friends,
they know that this is
something you're into?
No. It's a secret. No?
Really? Yeah.
I don't think I can ever
tell them because it's
it's my dirty secret.
HE CHUCKLES
Carry on. Crawl,
then. Go on. Oh.
You got any more
money? Yes, sir.
Go on. Why don't you
stuff it inside my sock?
Is this like a sexual
thing for you?
I think power play is a fetish,
and it's some sort
of sexual for me.
And I don't need to
get pleasure from, um
from actual sex.
On all-fours again.
Why don't you hop on? Good luck.
What What if I hurt him? No.
It's quite comfy, actually.
Can I have a tenner?
Yes.
I'm gonna get a
McDonalds after this.
Go on, give her a
tenner. Thank you.
This bit, I like.
Cha-ching.
Right, why don't you hop
off. Come on, all-fours.
Footstool. Come on.
Hurry up. Go on,
put your feet up here.
You know what,
we'll do it as a couple.
Liv, come on. I don't
want to overload him.
No, he does what he's told. OK.
Loving life. Oh, you know what?
Go on, f*ck off. You're
getting boring now.
Go on, go.
Bye. Bye.
Thank you, sir. Shut up. Go on.
DOOR CLOSES So, yeah.
15 minutes. Where's he gone?
Home. Oh!
He was a bit boring today.
THEY SNIGGER
Is that it? Yeah?
What the hell?! Yeah.
I thought he'd be,
like, middle-aged,
I don't know, like, beer belly.
All of my clients
are all different.
The amount of money you've made
in just that really
short amount of time
As you saw, I got £400
for 15 minutes. Yeah.
Right, well, here's your
tenner that he gave you.
You chucked it back in
the Is that actually mine?
..chucked it back into
the pile. Your earnings.
Put that in there for later.
I've actually loved
hanging out with you.
I know. It's been, um, eventful.
Right, I'll get out of
your hair. Thanks for that.
That's all right. Enjoy
your tenner. I know.
Dunno what to spend
it on. Spend it wisely.
I think, before he
started the session,
I was like, "Am I going to feel
really sorry for this person?"
When he turned up, the client,
absolutely buzzing off
his t*ts, like an old fridge.
He was When I sat on him,
he was practically vibrating.
I'm going to frame this
and put it up on the
wall in my dom dungeon,
my first tenner,
aka Brad's bedroom.
I am a financial dom, actually.
Brad's practically
skint. SHE LAUGHS
# Put my mind at ease
# Pretty please #
OLIVIA GASPS
What the hell? A rogue
sock. How has that happened?
It's fine. I've got the sock
orphanage for such occasions.
It's even labelled.
Having now met a
couple of findoms,
I can see the draw
in making good money
with seemingly little work.
So I'm thinking, it's
time to test the water.
# Please. #
What I've learnt the
last couple of weeks is,
whether you are a findom
doing sessions in person,
or you're doing them online,
you need a platform
to find your subs.
And basically, there's two
main ways people are doing that -
it's either OnlyFans or Twitter.
I think what I should do
is, I should make a Twitter.
And basically, I'll try and
put some of what I've learnt
into this profile,
and then see what happens.
OK. So I need a name.
What about "Goddess"?
Goddess Liv, that's
just kind of fun.
Right, now I need my bio.
"Your new obsession."
And then I'll be like,
"DM for payment"?
OK, we're live.
OK, I'm going to do a
tweet to my new community.
You call them pay
pigs, don't you?
So I'm going to say, um
"Sup, little"
SHE CHUCKLES
"..piggy f*ck?"
"What's up, you little
piggy f*ck?" It rhymes.
Well, that's how H-Money
talks to them, and they love it.
Mm, post. KEYBOARD CLICKS
Argh!
I've actually got
a like already.
Oh, I liked it myself.
SHE LAUGHS, SNORTS
It's clear I'm going to need a bit of
help launching my findom career,
and one lady based in
America has caught my eye.
She calls herself
Mistress Marley,
but almost everywhere
I turn online, she's there.
It actually says on
one of her pages here
that she holds
educational brunches,
where she teaches other
women the best findom techniques.
I need to go to one
of these brunches.
That is the long and the
short of it - I have to go.
I'm really sorry to whoever
is in charge of the budget,
cos it's clearly
gonna mean America,
but I actually am gonna
book a ticket right now.
# I swear that I love
nothin' more than broke
# I always let the
good ones go #
I hate driving in bare legs
because my arse
is stuck to the seat
US ACCENT: ..and my b*ll s*ck.
# I always let the good ones
go Ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh
# Ooh-ooh-ooh,
ooh-ooh-ooh Ooh-ooh-ooh #
I've touched down in sunny LA
to attend a financial
domination masterclass
with veteran findom and
entrepreneur, Mistress Marley.
# Ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh
# I let the good ones go. #
Hi! Hi!
How are you? I'm
Olivia, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. You look
lovely. Shall we hug it out?
You look amazing!
Thank you, thank you. I
feel quite under-dressed now.
This is incredible.
You can never be under-dressed
with domination, never. OK.
First lesson - noted. Yes. Yes.
How many girls are
you expecting today?
We're expecting five to
seven girls. A smaller group.
What's a bigger group?
Usually, like 100 to 125.
'At 29, with features in Vice,
Playboy and The New York Times,
'Mistress Marley has
found herself becoming
'the public face of
the findom world.'
And how did it evolve
from you being in findom
to running these kind of events?
I realised there
were so many women
that wanted to get into
the industry, like I did,
but didn't know where to start
and didn't know the
terms or anything.
So I was like, "Why not
just start doing classes?"
Do you ever meet
someone, and you think,
"You're not cut out
for this"? Yeah, I do.
And usually, those women are
women that just see fast money.
But I think what
makes a good findom
is someone that looks
out for themselves,
and someone that
knows who they are
and knows that all money
is not good money either.
Like, just Oh, I like that.
Yeah, just hopping at the
chance to make money sometimes.
You can't sacrifice
your safety for money.
Some of these guys must get
pretty obsessed with you. Mm-hm.
Do you ever have that feeling,
when you're like, "Oh,
my God. Just go away"?
I just I block them.
You block them? Yeah.
If you want to be unblocked,
you have to pay an unblock fee.
So you write to them and go,
"I'm blocking you"? Mm-hm.
I had a guy send 1,000 recently.
Yeah. That's insane!
Yeah. Yeah. And they will
keep going and keep sending.
So, for instance,
he sent 2,000 more.
OLIVIA GASPS And
he put "please" there.
So, "Please unblock me."
So sometimes, the
more I ignore them,
the more they'll keep trying
to send to get my attention.
What can you, like,
see come in in a day?
So a good day for me
was, like, 10K in one day.
What?! Yes.
Wow. Yeah.
And where do you stand
on, like, the morals of this job?
Is there ever a point where
you feel sorry for someone?
No, I never feel sorry
for taking their money.
Didn't even skip a beat.
MARLEY LAUGHS Didn't
even take a breath! "No!"
I've had subs before that
have dealt with depression,
and being able to see me and talk
to me and serve me helped them.
Do you believe people
become addicted to it? Definitely.
I've had subs that
even when they went out
with their friends
to bars, they're like,
"I can't spend this amount of
money cos I know it belongs to you."
So some do get addicted.
I have made an account
for research purposes.
Do you want to run your eye
over it and see what you think?
Yeah, of course. I would
love to do a page review.
Right. So this is the page.
Sorry, I've got a
big rope on there.
The "DM for payment methods",
you should have your
payment methods out there.
You might have subs that
want to send right away.
What if you're
not by your phone,
and they're waiting
for you to reply?
Oh. That's money
you missed out on.
Try not to put too many
of these tags up here.
Maybe a link in your bio,
like a Cash App or a
WishTender or a ClipSite,
something like that,
where they can pay you.
OK. Yeah. Yeah.
So, OK Oh.
I thought we were getting
burgled. MARLEY LAUGHS
This is one of the
little subby boys.
Down on your knees.
SHE MOUTHS
Up.
Head down.
Oh.
Hi! Hi!
You ladies look
great in your pink.
Hi!
Oh, more beautiful pink!
Have a seat, have a seat, ladies.
Thank you so much for coming
out to the Goddess event.
We have one of
our boys here today,
that's going to be
here to serve you.
You can go get the bottle and
pour them up some Champagne.
CORK POPS
'Students of Mistress Marley
pay up to $300 per class
'and can expect to learn how to
become super high-maintenance.'
So, the whole thing
about findom culture, y'all,
is just brag on yourself.
Subs like to see that.
It's fine to brag.
It's fine to be a brat.
It's fine to say, "Who's
paying for my lunch tonight?"
or, "Who's paying
for my spa treatment
"and my next bag
or my next trip?"
Like, it's OK to put that out
there, cos then you'll have a sub
that'll step up and
say, "I'll do it. I've got it."
How do you set
about choosing a rate?
So I always tell people -
choose your rate
based on your worth,
how you see yourself.
You know how much
you have in rent.
You know how much you
have in utilities and gas,
all that other stuff you
have to take care of.
'Covering everything from
branding to legal pitfalls,
'the course also highlights the
importance of client relations.'
It's all about humiliation. When
the sub sends you the money,
it's telling them they're
stupid, they're a loser.
It's telling them they will never
be able to get next to you, or
Like, even if you have
a boyfriend, saying like,
"My boyfriend gets to do all
these things, and you don't."
You can switch this up
to be your tone of voice.
If you're sadistic, "Send
some more f*cking money.
"That's not enough. You
need to send more." Right?
And for a lot of people,
it's hard to get into that
dominatrix head voice,
of, like, being that person.
To make it work for me,
I think about a man that
I hate the most in my life.
Like, that just did
me so horribly wrong,
and then it's easy.
'Also essential for
any findom novice
'is choosing a name that
helps protect your true identity.'
So I always tell people,
create a name for your work
that is not close
to your real name.
So if your name is Rebecca,
don't walk around
being Mistress Rebecca.
These are all the different
names you can go by.
So, for instance - Mistress,
Goddess, Empress, Madam.
So, for instance, what
is your dom name?
Um, Miss S Electra. Right.
So it doesn't always
have to be, like, "Mistress".
It could be "Miss". What's
your dominatrix name?
Temptress Sarah.
I like "Temptress".
When I hear it, it just rolls
off the tongue really nicely.
And what would your
possible dom name be?
Goddess Liv.
Goddess Liv? Mm.
I've screwed the pooch already
cos I've used my own name.
Yeah. Yeah.
Online safety,
people. THEY LAUGH
ALL: Cheers.
Just being powerful,
dominant women
and not taking sh*t
from the patriarchy.
No bullshit.
Right. Cheers. Cheers, honey.
That's the first school
lesson that I've ever attended
that I really enjoyed.
We're talking about sex work,
but in such a, like, polished
and professional way,
and she spoke with such
confidence. It just was so informative.
I was a bit horrified,
I'm not going to lie,
when she mentioned that
you're meant to use a stage name.
Well, that's obviously
where I'm going wrong.
She was like, "Never
use your own name."
And I'm like, "Right,
just made a page
"with my own name on it." f*ck.
# I could have my Gucci on
# I could wear my
Louis Vuitton #
My LA masterclass in
financial domination taught me
my findom account
isn't going to cut it.
So I'm hoping to put
my practical skills to use
with someone else's pay pig.
The idea I had was like,
"Do I do a bit of a
shout-out on Instagram
"and see if there's
a dom out there
"who would essentially
let me use their platform
"and maybe have
access to their real sub?"
But I just want to really have
that experience of, you know,
asking someone to send money.
I got a response from
the amazing Dommelia,
and I'm just looking
at her profile now.
She's gorgeous, like, real
blonde bombshell-type.
She's written in her bio,
"I won the genetic lottery.
"You won the privilege
to pay for my existence."
I mean, she feels
like an icon.
# Said, I made you look
# Yeah, I look good
In my Versace dress
# Take it off
But I'm hotter #
Hi! Hi.
I'm Liv, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, I'm Dommelia.
Oh, my God, your
dress is so cool.
# I made you look
Said, I made you look. #
So this is my
little filming setup.
Wow. DOMMELIA LAUGHS
It's pretty profesh. Thanks.
'32-year-old Dommelia
was on course
'for a high-flying
career in advertising,
'until she found her inner
goddess eight years ago.'
Do your thing. OK, sure.
CLEARS THROAT OK.
'Before I make my own content,
Dommelia wants to show me
'what I should be aiming for.'
Hello, b*tch boy.
I mean, why should I
have to pay for anything,
when there's a loser
reject pay pig like you,
who I can just call a
f*cking pathetic little pig?
I bet you would
love to sit at home
and watch this video
in a f*cking pig
mask, wouldn't you?
DOMMELIA CHUCKLES
Bye, loser.
Oh, my God. That was
amazing. DOMMELIA LAUGHS
So when did you first
become aware of findom?
I was on Instagram. Mm-hm.
Somebody said to me,
"I just want to send you a
picture that'll make you laugh.'
Yeah. And it was a d*ck pic.
And I just, out of
my annoyance, said,
"If you're getting off on this,
you should be paying me."
And then it just kind of,
like, spiralled from there.
And within two months of
being on Twitter, I quit my job.
What?! Yeah.
What kind of money
are you earning?
I earn five figures every month.
What? So, yeah.
My best month was about £25,000.
Wow. I bought a house.
All financed through
findom? Mm-hm.
f*ck! Yeah.
How do you navigate the,
almost, responsibility of it?
You know, how do you know
if someone's getting themself
into financial difficulty?
Ultimately, like, you don't
know, and "ruination" is a kink.
AKA, like, being
so financially ruined
is, like, the ultimate
fetish for some guys. sh*t.
So they might be saying,
"You've bankrupted me." Mm-hm.
But you're never gonna really
know if you have bankrupted them.
So it's part of their story,
a kind of make-believe
aspect? It's part of the play.
It's part of the roleplay,
most of the time.
It's not something that
you read, and you're like,
"Oh, my God. I feel so
terrible. This is awful"?
This is a vice for people.
Mm-hm. In the same way
as, like, drinking alcohol is,
or gambling is.
And some people are not
going to have complete control.
I'm only going to push
somebody to a limit
that I think that we'll
both mutually enjoy.
Yeah, I respect that.
Right, so, what
is the plan today?
So, you're going to be taking
over my Twitter. Oh, God.
And then I think we're
going to do a little call..
Shut the f*ck up.
..with a pay pig.
'Aside from selling videos and
one-to-one pay pig sessions,
'Dommelia gets a
steady income stream
'from making demands
on her Twitter account.
'But now I'm the findom.'
"Hi, b*tch boys and girls.
"It's Princess Olivia Attwood
"taking over.
"Who's going to pay up?" Yeah.
Right, ready? Yeah.
Posting.
Oh, we've got ten likes.
Ten likes, five comments.
"Both looking stunning."
"Head blown," from Tiny c*ck.
"Oh, my f*cking God."
So far, so good, and there
have been some messages.
OK, can I click on it? So
let's go into the DMs, yeah.
"Seen your tweet, princess.
Me." "Princess me"?
You said, "Who's
going to pay us?"
Shall I reply? Yeah.
"Show me how sorry
you are" Mm-hm.
"..with a cash tribute."
CHA-CHING OK,
he's just sent £10.
"Yeah, you're welcome,
f*ck." DOMMELIA LAUGHS
Yeah? You could send a voice
note as well, if you wanted to.
OK. Like, texting's fine.
But, like, a voice note,
you get your personality,
you get your sass.
Hi, loser. It's Olivia
here, with Dommelia.
Hi, loser. You know me well.
We want to go out for dinner.
Can you send us some money?
And also, just "do". Not
"can you?" Oh, yeah. Just do.
Just do send us some money.
We want 100, so
Yeah, you heard it, b*tch.
DOMMELIA CHUCKLES
Oh, f*ck. I f*cked that up.
"Can you?" It's
OK, I'm learning.
I'm learning on the
job. You're learning. OK.
We've got £100. OLIVIA GASPS
SCREECHING: Yes! DOMMELIA LAUGHS
You're a natural. Oh, my God!
110 in 120!
120 in, what, five minutes?
Yeah. f*ck!
I am obviously
anticipating this phone call,
because that's gonna
be different. Yes.
So who have you got lined up?
So, I've got a
long-time-serving pay pig.
He obviously knows
that I'm here? He does.
OK. He's very
excited to talk to you.
OK. Let's call Shrimp.
RINGING TONE
SHRIMP ON PHONE:
'Good evening.' Hello, loser.
It's Dommelia speaking now,
but you know that I've got a
very special princess with me.
'Oh, I am a lucky boy.'
And you know that I want
you to send some money,
right f*cking now, Shrimp.
'Yes, mistress.' CHA-CHING
Ooh There we go, 50 sent.
Good boy.
And you're going to
send money for Olivia, too.
Yeah, you f*cking loser.
Exactly.
'Thank you.' CHA-CHING
Go and send again.
Oh, you're enjoying
that, aren't you, freak?
BREATHILY: 'Yes, I am, goddess.'
Send again. CHA-CHING
How much have you sent,
Shrimp, in four minutes?
'I I couldn't even tell
you.' You don't even know?
Well, I'll tell you, 200.
Guess what? It's not enough.
Boring!
CHA-CHING
Princess Olivia wants
to see you get ruined.
'Mmmmm.'
RAGGED BREATHING 'Thank you.'
Oh, God. 'So good.
'Oh, it's better
than sex.' Exactly!
I think that's so f*cking sad.
Like, pathetic? Pathetic.
Like, he's a f*cking loser?
Little shrimpy loser.
Go and send 100, now.
CHA-CHING
50, 100, 150, 200, 250, 350.
You know that you're not going to
be allowed to c*m, don't you, Shrimp?
'Yes, goddess.
Sending to you's better.'
Send again, then.
Exactly, there you go.
Say it again,
louder. 'Thank you.'
Send again, then,
and hurry up, f*ck.
CHA-CHING
'Yes.' Another 100.
I think that I want
a nice, round 500.
'Yeah, thank you.'
Hurry up and send,
loser. CHA-CHING
'Sent, mistress. Thank you.'
That's a nice 500.
So, Shrimp, you need to
take a deep breath now.
f*cking calm yourself down.
How did I do on
my first findom call?
'I think you've got a talent.
You've definitely got the lingo.'
Have I? What was the best bit?
'I think it was when you
were swearing on it as well.'
Oh, you liked
that? 'I liked that.
'Definitely, you've got
the right voice for it.
'That's the way to get
people like me really rinsed.'
Oh, OK 'Keep the
time pressure on.'
OK, you liked the time
pressure? OK, good.
Liked the swearing? Yeah.
So, all in all, did I pass?
'100%. If I could call you
again, I definitely would.'
OK. DOMMELIA LAUGHS
Probably can't, but, yeah
THEY LAUGH
You can treasure these
memories forever, Shrimp.
Yeah, memories to
last a lifetime. Yeah.
'Thank you, thank
you, thank you.'
Oh, my God.
It was the pure panting.
I don't know why, I
was not prepared.
It was like he was doing
a f*cking half-marathon.
DOMMELIA LAUGHS
Just completely threw me.
Can we just see how long that
call was, and what he sent you?
It was nine minutes.
And what did he send?
500. f*cking hell!
Shall we cash up? Yeah.
So I had a few had extra
payments, just from your tweets,
just people who
already have my details
sent a few extra
little tributes.
And so the total we
made today was £730.
f*ck!
Do you want me to
send you your half?
No, I couldn't possibly
accept, because I really
You carried me. DOMMELIA LAUGHS
I'll stick to my day job,
and you stick to yours and
do that. OK, OK. Fair, fair, fair.
I just wasn't expecting
to hear this person
pleasuring themself,
quite audibly,
on the other end of the phone.
It was a very stark
reminder that this is sex work.
I do think that, in
the wrong hands,
findom could be a
really dangerous fetish.
Much like any addiction,
if you have someone
that is addicted to findom,
they could lose everything,
but should that responsibility be
placed in the hands of the dom?
All the people I've met
have very similar responses -
that they don't invest
too much thought into it,
it's not their problem,
and that it's money
that they've earnt.
And I completely respect
that, but I think it highlights
that it takes a certain kind
of personality to be a findom.
You have to be able to detach
from the person
you're interacting with.
I'm a little bit too emotional,
and I think I would worry too much
about the people I
was taking money from,
and I think I would
think about it too much,
and I'd be a crap findom.
Would you want to fight me,
or would you just
want to stare at me?
A slow month for me would
be, like, 150,000 US dollars.
What is your percentage
on OnlyFans now?
We're at 0.43.
'She's got merch.'
She's got her own coffee.
She's got her own
f*cking coffee, bro.
Right? Look.
THEY LAUGH
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03x04 - Findom
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Former glamour model and Love Island star Olivia Attwood explores the new and uncharted world of selling sex online. Is it as easy and as lucrative as it may at first seem?
Former glamour model and Love Island star Olivia Attwood explores the new and uncharted world of selling sex online. Is it as easy and as lucrative as it may at first seem?