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oh, my gosh.
your birth year.
ah.
robert: you like anything
in here?
i feel like
she's very selfish,
money just don't
grow on trees.
mike: right now,
my fiancée, natalie,
she's at the interview
for the k‐1 visa process.
are you okay?
when would you like
to have kids?
don't come at me.
i am coming at you
because whether i'm having kids
with you or not,
i'm having kids.
syngin: i will not, like,
be under pressures
and told
when to have a child.
it's almost like
you wrote the story,
and i'm just a character
in it.
what are you going to do
if your family finds out
about the boys?
anna: if mursel's family
finds out about my children,
i don't know
if he'll stay with me
or go back to turkey
with his family.
♪♪ show me love,
oh, tell me what you got ♪♪
♪♪ baby, you're learning well ♪♪
hi, juliana.
juliana: hey.
what are you doing?
uh...
can i?
mm‐hmm.
michael: juliana arrived
a few days ago,
and juliana and the kids
bonded immediately.
you like?
yeah, but here you go
to keep it.
here, big guy.
‐thank you.
‐cece.
it is very good, though,
honestly.
alright.
so mom will be here
any minute,
and you guys will go back
with mom after dinner.
okay?
i'm going to really miss
juliana.
max: yeah, i mean,
she just came to america,
and now we have to leave.
yeah.
my mom is very assertive.
she says
what she's thinking,
but in a way that won't
hurt people's feelings,
but in a way that they know
what she's saying.
i don't really think
that they would be
threatened by each other,
but i think juliana is probably
a little bit nervous.
how do you feel about
meeting sarah?
nervous? i know.
well, brazilian women are just
so inherently jealous.
dad.
you know, one thing just
to be careful with sarah,
she she smells
pretty quick, you know,
and if there was somebody
sweeping into my life,
and then therefore
coming into the children's life,
and she felt there was
insincerity or ulterior motive,
sarah would react to that.
so as long as
juliana's sincere,
everything will be okay.
sarah: well,
i'm coming over to michael's
to meet his future wife,
his fiancée, juliana.
she just got here
a couple of days ago
from brazil.
so i'm excited to see my kids
and my dogs
and to finally meet juliana.
sarah: hey.
eeh!
sarah, this is juliana.
i'm so happy you're here.
i'm really happy.
thank you.
hi, how are you.
hi, monkey.
how's it going? hi.
glad you could make it.
yeah.
you guys are so cute
with your fun buns.
hi, monkey.
i need fun buns.
sarah: i understand
how a lot of women
would be threatened
or intimidated
by this tall, exotic,
gorgeous, sexy,
talented, intelligent,
well‐traveled woman.
but i'm not competing
with anyone.
i don't have the time.
i don't have the energy
or the need.
that's deep‐fried
macaroni and cheese.
especially
if you dip it in this.
oh, nice american meal,
juliana.
get ready to gain weight.
cece: yeah.
‐yeah, me too. tomorrow.
‐yeah.
so, juliana,
how do you see your role
in this big community family
that we're sort of...
‐your role.
‐your role.
like,
how do you see yourself
fitting into
this sort of strange family.
you're lost.
in brazil,
when people divorce,
they don't talk
to each other.
you don't see never.
also, the woman,
they don't understand,
and they try everything
to make your life hell.
obviously, there's going to be
an adjustment period,
but how do you see
juliana's role fitting into ‐‐
like, how do you see this
working?
yeah, well, i don't see ‐‐
she's not replacing you.
she's not
gonna replace you.
she's, i think, already
in a very short period of time,
the kids and juliana
have a good rapport,
you know, um...
you know,
and i'm not going to put
any pressure
or burden on her.
michael: the kids adore her,
but i don't think they would
want anything else in life
than to have sarah
as their mother.
‐of course.
‐max and cece are my children.
‐yeah.
‐i'm the father.
but it will be great to have her
around as a resource.
the only thing
that i have is,
that the kids
have great parents.
michael is a great father
and i'm a great mom,
and what i want from you
is to not parent at all.
i just hope
that juliana understands
that sort of the role
of the step‐parents
will not involve
any actual parenting,
but she has a choice.
she can either embrace this
and let me be her friend
and help her,
or she can...not.
i don't know,
because i don't really know her.
i don't know which choice
she's going to make.
michael:
and it just ‐‐ i feel ‐‐
my hope is
it's going to ‐‐
this is
going to smooth out.
all right,
let's go to the car.
robert: things have been tense
between me and anny.
we don't really see eye to eye
about money.
she get mad at me,
i get mad at her.
and it's frustrating me
a little bit.
but the chemistry is there.
sparks is flying.
we love each other.
ready, guys?
‐yeah.
‐all right.
robert:
today, anny's going to meet
ben and stephanie,
bryson's grandparents.
who want to go
to the park?
me.
bryson's mother
is not in the picture,
but i make sure
that bryson knows
his grandparents and his roots
on his mother's side.
they spend time with bryson.
they do love bryson.
they care about bryson.
ben and stephanie
want to meet anny
because they want to know
who's going to be
in bryson's life full time.
what you going to say to her
when you see her?
robert:
anny knows that i had issues
with stephanie in the past,
but we buried the hatchet
for the sake of bryson.
they are in bryson's family,
but they are not part
of my family.
well,
bryson loves both of you.
i hope they do get along
for the sake of bryson,
because bryson
loves them both.
and if they don't get along,
only one that's gonna be
really hurting is him.
yo, this is florida.
who wants to work outside?
feet like that.
sit up.
‐bryson!
‐look, who's that?
hi!
you're exercising?
you're doing some sit‐ups?
yeah.
you're trying to be strong
like donkey kong?
all right.
how you doing?
i'm doing great.
what's up, ben?
‐how you doing?
‐hi. you must be anny.
that's anny,
that's my fiancée.
anny, how are you doing?
i'm ben.
stephanie:
so how have you been doing?
anny: we're okay.
okay.
and where are you from?
you've got to tell me
how y'all met.
hm?
oh, i just asked
how y'all met.
oh, we met online
through a mutual friend.
oh, okay.
have you gone there
before?
so, it was like one day
i was out there.
so you were only there
for one day?
yeah.
‐that was a quick visit.
‐must have been a great day.
yeah,
it was a great day.
we're not having anything to do
with this.
i can't believe
he's known her for two years
and i've known about it
for two days.
yeah.
like, i see you
every other weekend.
supposedly you're in love
with somebody?
it struck me as odd
because we're family.
so how long
does she get to stay?
like, we have to get married
within 90 days.
wow.
i don't know how
you can bring somebody
into the house
with your son
that you've known
for one day.
i'm actually kind of
worried for him.
so there's going to be
a wedding?
because nobody ever told me
there was going to be a wedding.
robert, what made
you want to do this?
i love her,
and i love the fact
that she loves my son.
i love love,
and i believe in love,
and i hope
everything works out.
yeah, that's what i'm about.
i really do.
we're family.
but, man,
you should've told me.
robert:
i didn't really feel like
it was necessary for me
to tell stephanie and ben
my business.
what i do with my life
is my business.
stephanie: so, anny,
if you don't mind,
i'd like to talk to you
by ourselves.
okay.
okay?
ow, you hurt my hand!
i've always been
bryson's mother figure.
um, and, so, you know,
you're coming into his life now.
i'm really interested to know
exactly everything
that's been happening
with you and bryson.
okay.
oh, he's got lots of love.
that baby is loved.
i want you to understand
that as long as
you're with robert
and in bryson's life,
i'm going to be there.
has robert told you
anything about me?
just because eventually,
you're going
to figure it out anyway.
and i don't like
people to be shocked.
i'm an adult film actress.
i've been doing it
for 15 years.
um, i'm a porn star.
yeah.
why do i want to know you?
because you're going to be
in bryson's life
every single day.
i'm extremely protective
over bryson.
i feel like
i have a right to know
who's going to be
around my grandson.
what are your intentions
here in the u. s.?
i don't understand why
you found robert on the internet
and you talked to him
for two years, supposedly.
and then, all of a sudden,
you're here and america,
full force in his life.
because it's going to affect
my grandson.
absolutely, it will.
'cause i'm going to be
with bryson for forever.
i'll be at his graduations,
all of those big events.
i was trying to be nice
and friendly and cordial.
do you see yourself
having children with robert?
are you guys using birth control
right now?
what form of birth control
are you using right now?
i mean, are you looking
to get pregnant?
do you intend to have
a relationship with me
in the future?
oh, i don't expect
to be friends.
i just expect
to be cordial.
obviously, you're uncomfortable
talking to me right now.
i truly intended to have
a nice relationship with her,
but i do not see that
happening at all.
she totally shot me down
pretty quick.
i don't feel like she's here
for the right reasons.
i don't feel like
she's here for love.
makes me very suspicious.
very.
we're going to head out.
all right.
ben:
it was nice to meet you.
it was good seeing you,
robert.
good seeing you as well.
so...
bye, bryson.
give gigi kiss.
mwah! i love you.
‐all right.
‐see you later, ben.
‐good to see you.
‐bye.
bye bye.
she's mean?
robert: anny felt kind of
threatened from stephanie,
and it didn't go so well.
but i hope that eventually,
everybody gets along.
you don't have to deal
with them, all right?
she just said
she wanted to meet you.
that's all.
mike:
i am dying to see natalie.
it's been far too long
since we've seen each other.
uh...
after talking to natalie
last week,
unfortunately, you know,
there's a hold on her visa,
and right now, it's in limbo.
she found out it could possibly
take up to six months,
which is something that
i really didn't want to hear.
it's just we've got a lot of
questions and no answers.
and it just feels frustrating.
i don't know
if there's a problem.
and neither of us have any idea
of what to do at this point.
bojangle.
i'm getting ready to leave,
bro.
it's been six months
since the last time
i've seen natalie.
i agree that i need to come
spend time with her
and we need to ‐‐
we need to be together.
so i went ahead and booked
a ticket to ukraine to see her.
my plans is,
is once i'm over there,
i want to go
check on the visa.
it's something
to at least look into,
and see if there's anything
i can do about it.
hi, bud.
just keep an eye
on the place.
hold her down, okay?
mm‐hmm.
i'll bring you back some
ukrainian candy, buddy.
all right, my man.
all right, buddy.
all right, beau.
i hope they have
a good time together
and she gets up here.
and i wish the world for them,
you know.
here we go.
i am dying to see natalie.
it's been far too long
since we've seen each other.
the whole visa delay ‐‐
yeah, i mean,
it makes me nervous,
but if she gets denied,
we'll have to figure out
the next step.
but right now,
i can't wait just to hold her,
just give her that first kiss
right now.
svitlana:
oh, oh, oh.
oh, oh, oh.
my name is natalie.
i'm from ukraine,
and i'm 35.
whoo. whoo. whoo.
me and michael
met through our friends ‐‐
my friend lana
and his friend matt.
anna: like you light my fire,
mursel.
so far,
he has not liked america.
i just want to show him
something that he might like.
do you think i'm sexy
working with the bees?
syngin: oh, wow.
i came halfway
across the world for this.
anna:
it's been a difficult few weeks
since mursel's arrived,
and things
haven't been going well
with my mom and the boys.
so far,
he has not liked america,
and i just want
to show him something
that he might like,
hopefully.
i can't wait to show you
my bees, mursel.
i'm hoping that
mursel will feel more at home
when he gets
to see my bees.
today we're going to check
for honey, okay?
okay.
and the queens.
this moment
is very important for us
because this is how we met.
we both love bees.
this is fun, mursel.
you're helping me
with the bees.
this is fun...
yes.
...not doing it by myself.
i was pretty nervous about
mursel seeing the bees
because he's got like
than i do with bees.
i'm not
the neatest beekeeper.
i never ‐‐ i don't like
scraping all the wax down.
boys out?
males?
oh.
mating?
oh, there's no males.
they're mating
with the queen.
anna: virgin queen.
mating.
yeah.
ah.
you're doing a good job,
getting it lit.
like you light my fire,
mursel.
anna:
it was pretty attractive
watching mursel
work with the bees.
done.
i just like
watching him work.
it excites me.
mursel.
yes?
you excite me
when you work.
i think ‐‐
good‐looking.
yes.
ooh, yes.
this looks good.
do you think i'm sexy
working with the bees?
yes.
oh, thank you.
mursel.
what?
okay.
thank you.
take these.
take it.
that's it.
the smoker...
okay.
anna: we had a really tough
couple of weeks,
and i feel like
this is the moment
we finally needed,
gets us
some good vibes going.
so my bees are good?
thank you.
tania: syngin landed in new york
a few days ago.
i'm happy i was able
to show syngin around,
but it's time to get to reality
and get, like, our feet
on the ground
and start running
to, like, our future.
oh, baby.
so far, like,
the 90 days is going harder
than i thought
it would have.
last night during dinner,
we argued some about kids
and our plans for them.
it's not how we wanted
to start the 90 days,
but we did agree
that's not something
that we had to figure out
right then and there.
what was your like favorite part
of this weekend?
there isn't a favorite part.
everything was my favorite.
now we're leaving new york,
and we're going straight
to connecticut.
i am driving syngin
to our new little home.
who knows how long
we're going to live there
because it's a shed
behind my mom's house.
so, i hope we wouldn't live
there for too long.
syngin:
so, this is colchester.
yeah, so what do you
think of it so far?
almost everybody has, like,
american flags.
yeah, i definitely
did not even notice that.
yeah, i think this is going to
be a super cool place,
yep.
i always have a plan,
but i'm such a procrastinator,
so nothing's really ready,
and he might be a little
surprised walking in
'cause i told him it was done,
and it's really not.
baby,
this is our new home.
whoo!
i think this is
going to be amazing.
do you want to see
the see shed first?
yeah
it's all fixed, eh?
shh.
don't talk too loud.
my mom's sleeping.
okay.
it's off?
oh yeah, it's off.
let's go check it out.
we will have to use, like,
the kitchen and the bathroom
inside my mom's house,
which sucks some,
but at least we have
our own space in the back.
this is the place?
welcome home.
oh, wow.
totally fixed, eh?
i know. i'm sorry.
yeah.
oh, wow.
i just ‐‐
so, you were totally lying to me
when you said it's perfect.
uh ‐‐
it's perfect for renovation,
yeah.
it wasn't roses on the bed
this time, you know.
it was boxes
and clothes and dust,
and, you know,
it was all this kind of things.
so kind of felt, like,
a little taken back
about all of that.
i came halfway
across the world for this,
so that, for me,
was frustrating, yeah.
i really was hoping to have,
like. more of this together.
yeah.
i really was.
but so stressful.
you know, there's a...
there's quite a bit of work
to be done, you know.
i'm not moving into
a cozy environment.
it's a construction site.
i wish i could say he loves it,
but he definitely doesn't.
to me, it's like,
"suck it up."
of course there's work to do
and stuff,
but, i mean, that's life.
what have you envisioned
to be doing here?
so, what i envisioned is
i want to take
this counter here.
yeah, yeah.
flush it right in there.
i want that counter
to be gone.
i want to hang up the tv
like right here,
and then, so, when this
kitchen things back there,
i want you to build ‐‐
i would like for you to build ‐‐
a kitchen sink in it.
mm.
tania wasn't very clear to me
what and how many renovations
needed to be done.
all the surrounding area
needs a lot of work, you know.
and she told me,
"oh, no, it's done.
it's perfect for you."
so, that, for me,
was kind of almost
a little bit overwhelming
and frustrating.
but it was more like,
"oh, this is your workplace."
we have a lot of
to do.
yeah.
so, no time
for, like, chill.
like, it's got to be
work, work, work, work.
mm.
this needs to be
up and running
in like a couple days.
no sightseeing.
just work.
yeah. yeah.
you just did sightseeing.
it's a pretty daunting task.
i'm feeling a little overwhelmed
at this moment.
i just think we ain't gonna do
anything here now, tonight.
we are just
gonna step out,
pull out the couch
in your mom's place,
and sleep there,
and tackle this
in the morning.
yeah, um, okay.
yeah.
i definitely could have pulled,
like, an all‐nighter
and get this set up,
but all right.
no, i think i'd rather just
sit and regroup this
and have
a good night's rest
and ‐‐
and hit it up tomorrow.
all right.
okay.
no, i'm not okay.
you don't seem happy
about that.
no.
let's do that.
i'm sorry.
it's okay.
let's go.
it's a little sad that,
like, syngin doesn't want
to spend the first night
in the shed
because it's, like,
not ready.
it's not that big of a deal.
like, there's a bed in there,
at least.
we can just push everything off
and get on it.
i mean, yes,
he came all the way to america,
but, like, i did so much
to make that happen.
i did the paperwork,
i paid for it all.
and then you expected to come
to, like, our home
already set
and ready to go.
no, no.
like, that's too much.
a lot of people are skeptical
of our relationship.
a few years ago,
jasmin and her sister
entered the green‐card lottery,
and her sister janet
got lucky
and she got a green card,
and she lives, like,
it is crazy.
♪♪ are you gonna make it
happen today ♪♪
♪♪ or will you just settle
for another delay? ♪♪
♪♪ come on ♪♪
♪♪ you gotta make it
happen now ♪♪
♪♪ come on ♪♪
♪♪ you gotta make it
happen now ♪♪
my name is blake,
i'm 29 years old.
i'm an audio engineer
and a music producer,
and i live in
los angeles, california.
and i have a fiancée, jasmin,
coming in from finland
to start a new life with me
in the united states.
the uber is here.
time to go.
so today's the day
that jasmin arrives,
and she's in the air
right now.
so i'm going to go
to the airport
and pick her up.
i've been naive in some
of my past relationships.
got married when i was 19,
divorced at 23 years old.
we had, you know,
two different career paths,
and i was just so driven
on the music thing,
and we just stopped
seeing each other as much.
after my divorce,
it was really hard
to find love again,
and i was kind of down
and depressed and withdrawn.
so my friend convinced me
to go ahead
and download this dating app.
and then within, like, a day,
i connected with jasmin.
my first impression of jasmin
was just like, "wow.
super beautiful."
but i didn't think that this
hot chick was, you know, real.
i thought it was just like
some phishing website
to where, like, you click it,
but really
you're giving some scammer
your information
and your password.
but then one thing that made me
find out that she was real
was that i asked her
to video chat with me,
and then i heard from her
within, like, two minutes.
we're chatting,
everything is going great.
and then she said
she's not even from l. a.
i found out that she was
in helsinki, finland.
when i found out
that she was, like,
on the other side
of the world,
it's just ‐‐
it's like, of course,
everything's perfect
and then bam.
it kind of made me think
that this couldn't work,
but at the same time,
i wanted to meet her,
and i wanted to see
what she was like.
and that's what made me fly
to the other side of the world,
to see if i was
wasting my time or not.
when i first saw her,
wow, she was real,
and she was
an actual human being.
usually it's like, "oh, yeah,
they don't look like
they do in person."
like, this was like,
"no, exact."
like bam.
she's fun,
she's super smart,
she can speak
multiple languages.
she's a gymnast,
she's a personal trainer.
she was great.
it's kind of unbelievable.
i made the first trip
to go out to finland,
and i realized
that i wanted to be with her
for the rest of my life.
so by the third trip,
is when i proposed to her.
we were just, like,
on a walking trail.
i had her distracted
at one point.
and then, so, by the time
she turned around,
i was there on one knee,
and i asked her to marry me.
she was super surprised,
and she didn't see it coming.
i was really happy
that she said, "yes."
so i applied for the k‐1 visa,
and i got approved.
a lot of people are skeptical
of our relationship.
i'm living with my mom
right now,
and she's wondering how jasmin
is going to fit in here.
as your mom, i'm very,
very concerned about this.
when jasmin get here,
suppose she wants
something nicer.
she want to be beverly hills,
bel air, or wherever,
that's going to put a damper
on your relationship.
yeah, but the thing is
i wouldn't be around ‐‐
and when i see her picture,
she's looking beautiful.
she's b*mb, so she's going to
want all that.
she's a beautiful girl.
and, you know,
she's going to want the gucci,
the louis,
and all of that.
right now, blake is not capable
financially.
so how will he be able
to afford that,
and to keep her happy
with that?
and my friends are wondering
what happens when she gets here,
especially my friend rita.
she's seen my past relationships
rise and fall.
i've seen
how much you give to people,
and i've seen you get hurt
because they don't give back
the same amount.
rita: i'm concerned for blake
in this situation
because almost
every relationship
that i've seen blake get into,
he has been taken advantage of,
so, i mean, marrying someone
that he doesn't know,
i think he's taking
a very big step.
and i just hope that
he's considered all his options.
it's one thing
when you go and visit her
and you guys spend
like two weeks together
and then
you come back.
it's like you get
little snippets of her life.
it is kind of risky, but no one
knows jasmin the way that i do.
and to me, she's perfect.
i'm on my way to pick up jasmin
from the airport,
but we need
to make one stop first.
hi.
i fell in love with a girl
halfway around the world,
and her sister lives just like
how is everything?
i'm good, i'm good.
it's been awhile.
yeah.
a few years ago,
jasmin and her sister
entered the green card lottery.
it's a program
where the u. s. admits
a certain number of applicants
around the world.
and her sister janette
got lucky,
and she got a green card.
and she lives
like 10 minutes away from me.
it's nuts.
i guess...it is crazy.
natalie...
and...
oh, my god, baby.
as soon as i walked through
the door and i caught her eyes,
i seen her.
she just bolted out
like some lightning
and ran and jumped into my arms.
it was an amazing feeling.
oh.
mike: oh, my god,
words cannot describe.
i missed this little girl
so much.
my little unicorn.
where'd natalie go?
natalie?
oh, natalie?
oh, hi, baby,
how are you?
you ready?
go on in, baby.
oh, my god, baby,
i can't believe i'm back.
you like it, baby?
yeah.
i thought it'd be
the perfect gift.
as soon as i seen it,
i was like, "i got to get that."
that's for my unicorn.
♪♪ dee‐dee‐dee ♪♪
okay.
oh.
oh, my god,
yes, yes.
how's mama doing?
mama's good?
yes, yes.
this is my third time
to ukraine,
and the past time,
i spent time with natalie's mom
because her and her mom,
they live together.
me and natalie's mom
get along great,
but there's a language barrier.
we can only communicate
probably a few words.
we just find a way.
we have made it.
come on, baby.
mama!
i found a natalie.
oh, michael!
how have you been?
good, yes.
it's been a long,
hard six months,
so this first night
with natalie
is going to
be incredible.
i call her my tigress.
i can just see it.
you're just sleek
and sexy.
you just move.
you got this tail
that keeps you
nice and balanced.
you get these claws,
which she could tiptoe around
and sneak up
and just pounce on you.
mama, it's so good
to see you again once more.
i'm really tired,
so i'm going to go off to bed.
come on, baby,
let's go to bed.
goodnight.
goodnight, mama.
so how is communication going
with you and mursel?
anna: i'm getting
a little frustrated.
do you understand?
viviana: i was surprised about
the level of communication.
i wouldn't get married
to someone
that i couldn't have
a deep conversation with.
hi.
hi.
how's everything?
i'm good.
how are you?
i'm good, i'm good.
it's been awhile.
yeah.
my name is janette.
i've been living
in the united states for a year.
i won the lottery,
the green card lottery,
and that's how i got here.
you ready?
you excited?
yeah.
me and jasmin are really close.
we are like best friends,
so i'm just excited
to experience l. a. together.
i don't know blake that well.
i seen him one or two times.
i'm excited
to get to know him better.
i'm excited for it.
i'm ready for her
to meet everybody,
ready for her to meet my family
and meet all my friends.
mm‐hmm.
mm‐hmm, mm‐hmm.
just need
to get there already.
i don't need
this phone anymore.
she's not in my screen,
she's right here.
throw out this bad boy.
i don't
need this anymore.
yeah, gah!
are you coming by tomorrow?
i'm going to go to new york.
oh, yeah.
but i will be back
on monday.
oh, okay.
finally.
okay.
see her flight?
yeah,
it says that she's landed.
you nervous?
yeah, kind of.
everything that we've been doing
and worked so hard for,
it's been
a waiting game.
we filled out the forms
and got to wait.
send it to the embassy,
got to wait.
it's like she needs
to get here already.
blake: a lot of foreigners
that come here
and marry americans
just so they can get
a green card and do whatever.
but i don't think
that's the case.
i'm like 85% sure that
she's coming out here for me.
man over p. a.: boarding
flight 1207 to phoenix.
that might be her
coming out.
we don't know yet.
it says,
"do not enter,"
so i'm guessing maybe
if you go over there.
i don't know.
i wish
she would come already.
i feel like
i'm going to be looking one way
and she'll be, like,
right behind me.
then she'll pop out.
she'll be the one
surprising me.
jasmin: hey.
oh, there she is.
oh, my god, finally.
it's great seeing you.
how was the flight?
hey.
i'll grab
your bag for you.
oh, thank you.
no problem.
finally,
you're here.
oh, my god.
i'm jasmin.
i'm 27 years old,
and i'm from helsinki, finland.
i was single for three years
before i met blake.
blake is different than anyone
i have ever dated.
i wouldn't marry anyone
that i'm not compatible with.
i have never lived
with a boyfriend before.
i have lived with my parents
my whole life,
so i think
i would just be excited
that i'm going to be with blake
rest of my life.
finally,
you're here, babe.
yeah, i know.
so weird.
it is weird
to have you here.
i told her, like,
when you come out,
i'm just going to
take my phone out and throw it.
i was like,
"i don't need this anymore.
she's not in the screen.
she's right here."
yeah.
yeah.
all righty.
bye.
have a safe flight.
thank you.
and we'll see you
when you get back,
and then we'll make plans
for all of us to hang out.
okay.
see you. bye.
all righty, bye.
it's cool.
i mean, i'm glad
that she has her sister here
and she doesn't feel alone,
so it's definitely a plus.
it's not a bad thing.
okay.
i'm hot.
i'm hot.
i'm sorry.
i'm sorry.
close the door.
thank you.
yes,
anna:
today, my friend vivi
is throwing mursel and i
a wedding shower.
i've known vivi
for about 11 years,
and she's one of
my oldest friends.
this will be the first time that
mursel meets some of my friends,
so i'm really hoping
it goes well.
are you scared
to meet my friends?
huh.
yes,
we're going together.
try and make an effort
to communicate
with my friends, okay?
don't just be
on your phone.
...today. okay?
unless you're using
the translator.
talking to my friends,
please.
please.
i'm concerned with mursel
meeting my friends.
they're skeptical about things
in the relationship,
so i'm not sure
how it's going to go.
i'm hoping that he'll interact
with my friends
and show them the man
that i fell in love with.
hello?
hi, hello.
anna, hey!
hey.
how are you?
i'm good.
how are you?
good.
hey, mursel.
hi,
how are you?
hi, mursel.
hey, mursel.
hey, how are you?
hi. thank you.
i'm good.
how are you?
huh?
good, good.
mursel, are you ready
for the wedding?
ready?
you happy?
happy?
jamie:
meeting mursel was awkward,
especially at the beginning.
there was
a huge language barrier.
i was not expecting it to be
that difficult to communicate.
are you okay with anna
drinking wine in america?
mm‐hmm.
but he seemed to be open
to communicate,
or at least try to communicate
with her friends and family,
so i do feel optimistic
about things.
hey, mursel,
let's go outside, okay?
okay.
come on.
okay.
we have some drinks here
and tea.
sweet.
tea.
no alcohol.
sweet tea.
yeah, yeah,
you can have some.
here's a cup,
and here,
you can have some sweet tea,
no alcohol.
so, how is communication going
with you and mursel?
sometimes,
i think it's getting better,
but then sometimes,
i'm like,
"it should be better
than it is."
i'm getting
a little frustrated.
viviana: with what?
i don't know.
i feel like
i tell him something,
and then later,
i'll say,
"hey,
we're doing this later,"
and then later comes
and it's like
i didn't even tell him anything
and it's a surprise.
oh, so maybe he's agreeing
to something but he doesn't.
like he's saying he understands,
but then he doesn't.
and then i'm, like, frustrated
when i find out
that he really didn't understand
what i said.
he's just saying this.
just nodding yes.
just nodding his head.
do you understand?
viviana: i was surprised about
the level of communication.
i wouldn't
get married to someone
that i couldn't have
a deep conversation with.
i mean, it's still
such a short period of time
of knowing each other
and really just building
that communication
that they seem
to still be lacking.
but hopefully, they are ready.
i guess
i just wanted to say
that i don't know mursel
very well,
but i trust
that you have chosen someone
who's going to
help you.
and i hope just that
he'll, like, be that one
that will always
love you
and will always be there
to help you.
yay!
seeing mursel at the
wedding shower with my friends
did raise some concerns
that maybe he won't fit in.
before mursel came over
to america,
i thought he would fit
right in to my life,
and that's not really
what's going on.
so, i'm feeling
kind of frustrated.
i don't know how
it's going to work out.
i don't know what the end result
of this is.
yeah, yeah, i got it.
baby, stop.
i've done this quite a couple
of times before in my life.
okay.
i tell syngin what to do,
and syngin does it.
that's bull
you ready to start the day,
babe?
yeah.
we got a lot to do.
we got to
get this bed up
and get that shed
ready to live in.
just make sure
you're careful.
just do it
a little slow.
tania:
syngin wasn't happy
seeing the shed
for the first time
because it's not ready,
even though i told him it was.
so, there's definitely
work to do.
quite a day
ahead of us.
we haven't seen my mom yet.
she's a union carpenter.
she's been working
so, i want to get the work done
in the shed
before she gets home.
do you want
to hear my plan?
yeah.
all right.
the clothes
that we can fit,
go out
and just put on this couch
as far down as we can.
okay.
and pretty much everything else,
just let's bring outside.
okay.
so, it's very nice of
tania's mom to give us a place,
but i kind of thought
that tania had done more
than what she has done.
but now it's like
the full d. i. y., man.
it's real.
also, we need
to take that down, too,
so we need to borrow
some tools from my mom.
okay.
also put up curtains.
literally everything.
window, curtains.
yeah, yeah, yeah.
i left us a project, baby.
it's our first project.
hey.
oh, no,
it's gone.
cleaning my teeth?
not a bad girlfriend,
man.
no.
tania: i know syngin and i
will work as a marriage
because we communicate.
i tell syngin what to do,
and syngin does it.
line the boxes up nicely
out there.
yeah,
i'm busy doing that.
you don't have to tell me
everything that i need to do.
and then that's how
we get lost in cape town,
the city you're from.
getting lost
is never a bad thing.
unless i'm hungry.
however, syngin has his own
opinions and thoughts.
don't always work out with mine.
do you need me
to hold anything?
um...
no.
that's like a powered ‐‐
wait.
yeah, yeah, i got it.
baby ‐‐
i got it.
literally ‐‐
yeah?
this is a legit power tool.
it's not ‐‐
baby, listen ‐‐
stop.
i've done this quite a couple
of times before in my life.
with this?
okay. fine.
i've done cabinets.
okay.
you can take a chill.
all right. it's my mom's.
don't break it
is all i'm saying.
i won't
break it.
tania doesn't have
a great belief in me,
and she answers me
in this kind of like ‐‐
not an aggressive way,
but, like, you know,
"i know what i'm doing."
but i'm just like,
"i also know what i'm doing.
give me a chance
to explain myself
and not backlash at me
for everything
that i'm telling you."
i feel like
i should be holding that cabinet
because you take out
the wrong screw and it's ‐‐
are you sure ‐‐
and it's just ‐‐
okay,
if you can come over here,
you can just put your hand
over there.
well,
don't break it out of it.
i'm not
going to break it out.
syngin ‐‐ he just doesn't care.
he just likes to move so fast.
he doesn't think before he does.
he doesn't think about
what he's going to say
or about
what he's going to do before,
he just does things.
so, yeah, it makes me
nervous all the time.
we can try and ‐‐
it's screwed
up here, too.
it's screwed
at the top.
it's screwed
up here, too.
damn.
how about
i take the screws out?
if you trust yourself.
this isn't
anything new to me.
never seen you doing
anything like this,
so how would i know?
well, you also
never lived with me.
the last d. i. y. project
we're doing together.
syngin: tania has
a controlling personality.
that is something
i'm really going to look out
in these next 90 days
because what happened now
just really stresses me out.
wait,
i want the door facing ‐‐
wait,
i want the door facing me.
uh...
because i cannot do this.
oh!
perfect fit.
see,
this is why i measure
yeah,
we got it done,
but that was, like,
a very small project
and you were, like,
so on me
and not trusting
i'm doing it the right way
and things and ‐‐
yeah. this is my mom's wall
at the end of the day.
yeah, yeah.
my mom's wall, my mom's cabinet.
so, yeah, i'm going to be
over your shoulder.
i won't be able
to work like that.
well ‐‐
you got to put trust in me
that i'm doing it
the correct way, as well.
then show me
i can trust you.
you don't
give me chance.
you do things so rash
and so quickly.
how many times have you
hurt yourself because
you move so quickly?
how many times have you
hurt yourself because
you just move so quick?
not that much,
not that much.
it's about being patient.
yes, but for me,
the most frustration
is when you just negate me
and don't trust ‐‐
but there is a difference
between knowing it
and actually, like,
literally living by it.
you're not.
that's bull
okay.
i'll finish.
i'll do
some stuff in here.
i'm not stupid.
i know who i am
and what i get up to.
i know that i'm not
the most patient of worker
and my work's perfect.
i know that
i go rough and tough
and then
i do it hard.
so, i just need for tania
to relax a little bit
and just let me
just be.
just asking you
to put a little bit more thought
and care into things.
this is who i am.
and ‐‐
i need you to back off me
a little bit.
i can't
until you start showing me.
and know that sometimes,
just realize
that if it's not your way,
it's okay.
no.
we have less than 90 days
to figure out what we're doing.
are we really getting married?
are we ready to get married?
so, who wouldn't be worried?
we have some alone time,
so what do you want to do?
shower and sleep.
what?
that's old, though.
where is the car?
jasmin: this one?
white one?
yeah.
this is the start
of everything.
yeah, we have 90 days
to do it.
and then yeah,
we're married.
all right.
i want to sit here, just us.
you want to sit on that side?
yeah.
hello.
i'm excited
for seeing her every day.
it's everything i've been
asking for for so long.
i like
to be alone a lot, too.
i like to do things alone,
so...
well,
not anymore.
blake:
jasmin and i are going to be
living with my stepdad
and my mom.
they're traditional.
they're old‐school.
and there could be
a privacy issue.
me and jasmin's sex life
is great.
i can't complain.
but it's just that
we haven't had any
for like six months
or something.
i can't.
so, i decided that we stayed at
the hotel for a couple of days.
we're here.
oh, yeah.
you know, this is it.
it's what we need.
ooh!
the view's cool.
jasmin: yeah.
looks nice.
it does look nice.
it's pretty.
you can see
the pool here.
oh, yeah.
oh, man.
jasmin: i'm excited to be here
in america.
it's nice to be here
with blake, finally.
but i am also exhausted
and tired after long traveling,
so i'm excited to just go
to sleep and relax.
no.
you want
to keep spinning?
no!
all right,
so what do you want to do?
you know,
we have some alone time.
you want
to go to sleep?
it is bedtime
after a long flight.
what, do you want
to take a shower?
i'll wait here.
you all right?
how you feeling?
anny's been in a bad mood ever
since she met ben and stephanie,
and right now,
she have a bit of a cold.
sorry you got sick.
i just hope
it ain't contagious,
because i ain't
trying to get sick.
i know stephanie said
some harsh words to anny,
so i'm gonna take her out
and make her feel appreciated.
hi,
how are you?
yes.
i don't know
what their conversation was.
i wasn't there,
but when anny came back,
she was pretty upset
and she was pissed off.
you sit here.
you're welcome,
baby.
yes, it is.
here you are, sir.
here you go.
thank you.
my name's john. i'll be
taking care of y'all tonight.
okay?
john. thank you. robert.
so,
how was your day?
what did she say?
serious?
all right.
robert:
stephanie was way out of line
for asking anny those questions.
this is my fiancée.
anny is not her daughter,
and i am not her son.
she's been rude.
i'm sorry
you had to hear that,
but that's
none of her business.
you taking
any birth control,
or whatever we do
with our life,
is none of her concern
at all.
she shouldn't even
ask you that.
we can call her on the phone
and address these issues.
what else did she ‐‐
no,
you know what?
it's not about
you talking to her.
it's about
you being my fiancée
and we planning on
getting married,
and i don't want you
feeling disrespected,
because it really pisses me off
to hear this.
she need to put a pipe
up her a*s and shut up.
you see, to me,
her being a porn star,
that's not something
i would want
to ever do or be around,
that type of lifestyle.
see,
the way i was raised,
it would be wrong for me
not to let bryson know
who that side
of his family is.
the only way this can
affect this relationship
is if you allow it to,
because i'm not.
i'll stick up
for you.
you understand
what i'm saying?
all my girls?
what girls
you talking about?
what?
on my social media?
what?
so, you sit
on social media all day
looking through
my photos?
that's old, though.
it ain't like
it's up there ‐‐
that's old.
that's old, though.
it ain't like it's up there ‐‐
all right, but check it out,
that's old.
but you act like
i sit there
and i go through my facebook
like, "yo ‐‐ "
i'll go through this,
looking at things.
it's up there.
it's old.
that's old, though.
anny knows a lot about my past.
it's clear as day.
i'm not hiding anything.
i have five beautiful children
by four different women.
i love my children, but the four
that don't live with me,
i don't get to see them
very often.
back in the days living
in brooklyn, i was a player.
i had friends that was
playing around with chicks,
so i thought it was cool.
but now i'm a different guy.
i grew out of the party phase.
i grew up,
and my priorities changed a lot.
don't give me
no ultimatum.
and what if i don't?
keep it
and go back with them?
it ain't like i'm just
messing with other girls
and those photos
is new.
it's old.
it's called a past.
it's called a past,
and it stays in the past.
you not even married to me
and you bossing me around,
you telling me
what to do?
i'm not with them.
what if
when bryson get older,
he want to see a picture
of him and his mom?
that's right there,
boom.
no, no, no,
no, no, no, no.
how would you feel
if somebody destroyed
the photos of you
and your mother?
answer the question.
right now, i don't think
anny's being reasonable at all.
my son may want those photos
when he gets older.
it's the past,
and everybody does have a past.
you got a past, too,
all right?
how many photos you got of me
on your instagram?
no, you want
to bring that up.
let's go, let's go.
you don't put me in no photos
on your ig.
why's that?
why is that?
because you
hiding something?
you hiding me?
let's talk about you
and that dude
on your instagram
and you don't want him
to see me.
that's what it is.
i don't talk
i talk facts.
one thing about my past,
though, you see it.
you see it.
you see my past.
your past,
you hide it.
you hide it.
you start
opening up to me,
and maybe i will delete
those photos.
until then,
i ain't deleting
i will.
she just got to live with it
right now.
my past is out in the open.
i don't got nothing to hide.
so, if anny can't really handle
my past,
i really don't know how
this is going to go.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
as is,
it's about $13,000, $14,000.
not the best use
of $14,000.
hi, finally.
what are you excited for,
to see?
okay, okay.
ooh.
i don't want you to be
just on the ipad
with the baby
in the chair.
you know?
play with him.
okay.
emily: i don't know what's
going on in his brain.
like, is he fully committed
to this?
i get the feeling that
you're just looking for a maid.
i just
don't want it to be
just so you can have somebody
take care of bryson.
i just want to make sure
i'm the right guy for you, baby.
you're right,
you're right.
going to costa rica
for one month
and he has to stay
out here.
what?!
syngin: tania leaving
for 30 days
in the middle of the 90 days,
i don't think either of us
are ready for it.
are you getting ready?
getting ready?
for the wedding?
maybe i'm making a bad decision.
i don't know.
anna: i never expected to be
in this situation.
i just don't know what to do.
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