previously on
"90 day fiancé"...
finally syngin landed.
he's here in the states.
oh.
i'm a simple guy from the bush,
now i'm planted here
in the middle
of the concrete jungle.
times square, whoo‐hoo!
anny!
hi, babe.
what does that
make me, a pimp?
no, she's not a prost*tute.
i'm not feeling good,
really,
and i need to go outside
for a bit.
how does mursel's family
feel about your kids?
mursel doesn't want to
tell his family.
robert:
my first night with anny
was great, had some drinks.
had some more drinks.
and we had a good time.
robert: so how was your
first night here?
i know.
that's why i was holding you
at night, it felt pretty good.
oh, yes.
mm.
that's what i love about you,
you care about your family.
i'll take you out
to go pick up some things.
yeah.
bryson?
yes, daddy?
we're going to school.
okay, i'm going to school.
while bryson's in school,
i want to spend time with anny,
just me, her,
having a good time.
now go give anny a kiss.
hi.
mwah.
let's roll, bryson.
bye, anny.
you excited?
me too.
i want annie to feel
real comfortable,
so i'm taking
her out shopping.
anny don't know
where we're going.
it's going to be a surprise.
‐let's get in here.
‐let's get in.
let me get
the door for you.
you like anything in here?
like what?
elegant clothes?
they got nice things
in here, like...
want to?
it's pretty nice.
like, look at this?
this would go with y‐‐
what's wrong with it?
now come on.
hey, how are you guys doing?
finding everything okay?
yeah, we're fine.
nothing yet?
take a look around.
there's going to be a lot
of different things we buy
from the public every day,
so when we go through it ‐‐
mm‐hmm.
all used clothes.
what?
it's still clothes
that's in good condition.
it's not damaged.
these pants
are kind of cool.
are you serious?
okay. but it's in
perfectly good shape.
what's the problem?
there's no holes, it looks
pretty, it looks new.
see what you
don't understand is that
i'm going to have
to pay for a wedding.
you want an iphone.
and i also have to take care
of the house, the car.
i'm only one person
that's doing this.
so don't buy you nothing then?
robert: i'm trying my best to
keep anny happy,
but i feel like
she's very selfish.
money just don't
grow on trees,
and it definitely don't fall
out of my a*s.
what's your problem?
you don't appreciate anything.
you're very selfish.
what you mean you don't‐‐
you should care.
i can't believe you, yo,
like real talk.
so what? how many times you wore
that outfit? and washed it?
well the clothes wasn't damaged.
what's wrong with the clothes?
"are expensive."
oh, please.
oh, please.
my name is mike.
i'm 34 years old.
i live in sequim, washington.
everywhere i go, i love being
the center of attention.
being 6'7
i'm tall, i'm loud, and proud.
i got lots of positive energy,
and i think people
just feed off it.
all right, we're warmed up now.
let's get it.
how are you doing?
how are you doing?
everyone likes to come see me.
i mean, you could see me
no matter where i'm at,
especially in a small town.
sequim is a nice, small,
homey town, about 7,000 people.
my family's been here
for about 130 years.
as a kid,
i spent a lot of time
on my family's
this land means a lot to me,
so when my dad decided
to put the property up for sale,
i thought it'd be
a great opportunity to buy it
and keep it in the family.
bojangle!
unfortunately, buying
the property has been costly.
i've definitely gathered
some debt on it.
what are you doing buddy?
i hope to make the family farm
a profitable place in time
with my uncle beau.
he's on my ranch hand right now.
throw my back out?
i'm not trying to
throw my back out.
he's happy as a clown
being out there.
i don't know why, but hey,
as long as he's happy,
he's a great ranch hand.
in the six months
that i've lived out here,
i love it, and i don't
plan on going anywhere.
ahh. you want a beer?
i'm totally living
at a bachelor pad
right now with me
and uncle beau.
got some food, got some beer,
just living the basics
right now.
i mean, i don't need
anything fancy and stuff.
cheers, my man.
but i've always wanted
to be married
and have the family life
and stuff like that.
i have been married one time,
it was a short marriage,
unfortunately.
she ended up leaving me
for another woman.
when my marriage ended,
it was very unexpected.
i did feel a sense
of loneliness
and going through a divorce
i got up to about 340 pounds.
i was way bigger than i felt
comfortable in my own skin.
i just needed
to make a life change,
so i started exercising,
changed my diet and stuff
and i've happened to lose about
after my divorce, i did date
around with a couple of people,
but i mean,
things just didn't work out.
but when one of my
best friends, matt,
got married to his wife,
svitlana from kyiv, ukraine,
they had a baby
and they named me the godfather.
and his wife's best friend,
they named the godmother.
♪♪ na‐na, na‐na, eh ♪♪
♪♪ na‐na, na‐na, eh‐eh ♪♪
♪♪ na‐na, na‐na, eh ♪♪
♪♪ na‐na, na‐na, eh‐eh ♪♪
when svitlana showed me
pictures of natalie,
i thought at first sight
that she was absolutely
beautiful and gorgeous.
she was showing me some pictures
of her riding horses
and doing some modeling.
she told me
we're both family‐oriented.
she lives with her mom
and she has a couple of degrees
in psychology and journalism.
i was hesitant at first
and i was saying to myself,
"why in the world
would this woman
possibly be interested
in a guy like me?"
i mean, i'm not saying i'm not
a catch, you know, but...
but i texted her and said,
"hey, my name is mike."
and then we just started
just texting back
and forth a little bit.
and then the friendship
started blooming from there
and she said that she would
really like for me
to come out there
and see if we hit it off.
and so i booked a flight
and i shot off to kyiv, ukraine.
when i first laid eyes
on natalie,
i was just like in shock.
she had this huge smile
on her face
and i can remember it clear
as day and it was amazing.
she loves to test her limits.
she loves to scuba dive,
snowboard, rock climbing.
i just love that
she's full of life
and she brings excitement
to every day.
they say opposites attract.
she's a vegetarian.
i love my meat. she's religious.
i'm non‐religious.
she's very elegant
and i am kind of
like a big ogre.
she's the beauty and i'm the
beast, you know.
three months later
we met in paris.
come on, let's see what's
on your finger right there.
and i proposed to her.
look at that.
you've got some new hardware.
despite spending
only two weeks together,
i wanted to propose to natalie
because i felt like me
and natalie are meant to be.
love you.
after i asked natalie
to marry me, came back
and we started
with the k‐1 visa process.
and we're just waiting to hear
right now
for the visa to be approved.
hi, love.
how are you today?
great.
wow, baby.
that is an incredible view.
you know what one big difference
is here in sequim
compared to kyiv, ukraine
where you're at?
no, what?
all the restaurants
and everything here
is closed by 10:00.
what?!
no, i'm serious.
but right now we got
a lot on our plate
with the whole
visa process and stuff.
but hopefully they'll be
returning your passport
and we'll get
the visa paperwork.
we'll get through it.
okay?
so baby, i know you got to be
really nervous
about leaving your mom.
what's that?
uh.
we're going to have to take
that one step at a time, baby.
we both want family.
we both want kids, but i don't
want to start a family right now
because this whole process
of moving to sequim,
buying a house,
and this whole k‐1 visa process.
i got some major
credit card debt
that i need
to get myself out of.
you know,
i'm not ready to have a baby.
oh.
to be honest with you baby,
we'll have to take it one day
at a time and i got to see
how i feel about it.
okay, baby.
i've gotten myself
in a little bit of a pickle
and i haven't told natalie
about my credit card debt
that i need to get paid off.
i will ultimately tell her
the real truth
and hope she doesn't get too mad
or upset with me about it.
i love you. bye.
i just get worried that
when i tell her about my debt,
she will change her mind
about getting married.
it's a fear. so, i mean,
only time will tell, i guess.
i don't know, if mursel's family
finds out about my children,
if he'll stay with me or go
back to turkey with his family.
what are you going to do if your
family finds out about the boys?
where do we go from here?
i returned from brazil
not knowing
that juliana would get
the visa.
i'm just anxious.
so then last night,
juliana sent me this.
the past couple of days
have been pretty tough.
last night at dinner,
my mom found out that
mursel is keeping the boys
a secret from his family
and she is not happy about it.
anna: when i was younger,
we used to come here
and barbecue all the time.
yes, american barbecue.
i'm feeling kind of upset
because i don't know
if mursel's family
finds out about my children
if he'll stay with me or go back
to turkey with his family.
so how do you think dinner
went with my mom last night?
why do you think
i was crying?
i cried because
we're losing each other.
yes. i'm afraid you're going to
leave because of your family.
yes. maybe.
well i love you too,
but what are you going to do
if your family finds out
about the boys?
you don't think
they'll hear?
what are you going to do
if they do find out?
you'll be upset, but‐‐
but will you stay
or will you go back home?
okay, so you'll never tell them
about the boys?
yes, problem.
that's a big problem.
mursel's saying that i have
to hide the children
from his family for 10 years
and that is not even possible.
it's not fair
that mursel expects me
to keep my children hidden.
it's not fair to me
or my children,
and i don't think it's fair
to his family in turkey.
it's just
a big secret to keep.
where do we go from here
with our relationship?
you don't know?
i have no clue what mursel means
when he says this is my destiny.
i guess he means if i want
to be with him,
this is the way
it's going to have to be.
it's not going to be that way.
i do want to make this work,
but he's going to have to deal
with the situation
with his family.
or i don't think i can marry him
in the next 90 days.
this is your destiny,
not mine.
i returned from brazil
not knowing for certain
that juliana would get the visa.
we still had
a few little hangups
when we left the interview.
since then, i've spoken
at length with my lawyers.
they said to her,
have you ever worked
as a prost*tute
within the last 10 years?
yeah. there's certain
triggers for them too.
south american countries,
if there's a big age gap,
so i'm not so shocked
that that was asked of juliana.
this is the personal side
of doing immigration work.
people's lives are involved,
their feelings are involved.
so to have your relationship on
hold is very anxiety provoking.
at the end of the day,
it's not an exact science
with these people
because everything's
discretionary at the embassies.
yeah.
michael:
i've been on e‐mail,
on texts, on video calls
with juliana the whole time,
just anxious that we get
some information.
so then last night
juliana sent me this.
it seems almost surreal that
she's actually going to be here.
i really want juliana's arrival
to be as special as it can be.
we both take an enormous
amount of risk at this step.
you know it's not like who gives
a what can go wrong?
but we're so lucky that life
throws this cool stuff at us
and let's just roll with it.
i just really want to give her
a good welcome to america
and so why not a big
hummer limousine?
good to see you.
i thought about a helicopter,
it was out of my budget.
i just want her to feel welcome,
to feel loved,
to feel comfortable.
it's the beginning
of a whole new phase
and a whole new life
for all of us.
not just juliana,
not just myself, my children,
my ex wife.
it's almost overwhelming
and i'm a little nervous
about where we go from here.
oh, my gosh.
i missed you so much, sweetie.
oh, my gosh.
hard to have words for
what it's like to see juliana.
michael:
it's more than the wildest
dreams come true.
it's something we've fought for
and to actually see her
in person here in america
i still can't believe it.
michael:
i got a new car.
cool, huh?
i got this for you to drive
around in greenwich.
not that crazy.
we can sh**t
a limousine porno.
right?
limo porn?
i brought something.
some champagne.
hold that a second.
your birth year.
oh.
always be prepared.
welcome to america.
okay, so if you start looking,
you're going to start seeing
in the way background,
some very tall buildings.
the one over here, that's
the empire state building,
one of the most famous buildings
in the whole world.
ooh!
it's new york, man,
you've made it.
hey sweetie, i've got
something for you.
what? no!
open it.
do you notice the colors?
red, white and blue,
and then green and gold.
u.s.a. and brazil,
together.
mm‐hmm.
i had that made for you.
you made that for me?
yeah.
welcome to america.
you deserve the best.
emily: whoa.
hold my hand.
emily: whoa.
ow.
‐emily.
‐huh?
the doctor asked if you need
some pain k*ller.
‐you mean your contraction or?
‐the birth.
okay.
okay, lie down.
because emily cannot
speak russian so well,
so i must be there
as translator.
sasha:
take my hand. take my hand.
uh‐huh.
i know, i know, i know.
sorry.
just breathe, okay?
whoa!
ooh, pressure pushing.
ooh, ow, ow, ow, ow.
‐ uh‐huh.
‐ okay.
nurse: push, push,
push, push, push, push.
sasha: breathe out.
and once again.
one more time, okay?
that's more. that's more.
that's more, yes.
calm down, relax, babe.
no.
please.
no.
please.
he cried. he showed us he's
alive and i started crying.
i was really scared.
but now i'm happy.
emily: oh, my love.
i'll watch you
one more time.
after 10 hours of labor
and an unexpected c‐section,
we finally met our son,
david alexandrovich.
we're so happy he's here.
he's perfect.
yeah.
he made us happy so much.
mm‐hmm.
good morning.
morning.
how you feeling today?
tired.
i'm the one that flew in.
i'm supposed to be tired.
you should be tired,
but you're never tired.
yeah.
it is weird though. you're here.
yeah.
like it's a dream,
but not a dream.
want a pinch?
feel that pinch?
i arrived in america
yesterday.
feels a little weird.
i got used to calling him
and speaking to him
over the phone
and just having him
there all the time
and now he's physically here.
but it's great. i don't know.
it's nice cuddling him
and smelling his armpit,
playing with
his underarm hair.
one of my favorite things.
i haven't played with it
in six months.
been a long time.
so long.
so what are you up for today?
what are you...
well, the girls
are going home tonight, so...
another full day of friends?
another full day of friends.
don't sound so sad about it.
tania:
syngin, he's more codependent.
he always wants my attention.
yeah, i'm always seeking
a kiss or a hug.
yeah.
even when she's busy
doing something, i'd be like,
"hey, psst, psst."
for me, if you ever gave me
an ultimatum,
i'd always be
with my friends.
my friends would
have to come first.
they have been there for
god forbid,
like 14 years after us.
i love you, but...
hmm.
so...
alright, are you ready
for today?
we must get it started, right?
mm‐hmm.
okay.
alright, get up.
still feel weird
walking around?
yeah.
every time i like...
your buildings
are completely different.
it has like little edges
and things on it.
yeah, like artwork
and stuff.
yeah. here we are.
yeah.
beyond sushi.
so we finally get to sit down
and chill a little bit, hey?
‐i know. and eat.
‐yeah, actually.
‐oh.
‐oh!
‐thank you.
‐thank you.
‐thank you.
are you sick of us yet?
no.
it's only been
two days, man.
no, it's wonderful to eventually
spend some time with tania.
‐right.
‐yeah.
something i've been craving the
most out of everything.
woman: yeah.
excited to work or start
working here?
what would you like
to do here?
yeah, i have a few plans.
as soon as i get
my working permit,
i think i would like
to start off maybe bar tendering
to get
a quick cash income.
‐yeah.
‐anything like that.
marian: in the city?
just going around
maybe to apply,
see if i can become a fireman.
‐oh!
‐that's good. i like that.
‐yeah.
or i want to go do
like hollywood auditions
and i even want
to got try out opera
opera singing?
going for opera.
just, like basically
whatever can come up.
do you feel like maybe
you should narrow that down
so that you...
yeah, i could narrow it down,
but then i might be leaving
any possibilities out.
but i believe that's maybe
because i haven't really found
something that i truly
would love to do and love
to put all my time into.
yeah, which makes me nervous.
does tania's ambition
make you nervous or scared?
the drives that i see in her
is, obviously,
one of the main reasons
why i love her so.
‐aw.
‐mm.
yeah.
it's nice to see that he wants
to take the opportunity
of coming to
the united states seriously
and try different things.
but...
marian: it's not realistic.
yeah.
right.
because tania's
a go‐getter,
but if he doesn't do anything
that's showing that effort,
that is going to make
her irate immediately.
that's going to be
a big strain, yeah.
she's going to be irritated
about that.
and you do want kids?
yeah. i don't really have
much baby experience.
i'm even scared to hold a baby.
i'm like, oh,
what's your timeline?
i was scheming like
three years from now.
that's like minimum almost.
‐minimum.
lying. when i say three years,
he freaks out it's three years.
why?
what does he usually say?
before you said, like,
seven to 10.
‐ooh.
‐wow.
but that's the dream life.
time is ticking right now.
my mom had me at a young age
and i loved that.
my mom and i were so close
that i wanted to have
the same relationship.
so i told syngin that i will
give him three years.
he has a little bit of a
heart attack when i say that.
as soon as i push
the first one out,
i'm popping your sperm
back in me,
we're pushing
another one out in nine months.
how does that make you feel?
‐yeah.
‐how do you feel about that?
i know that having a child
is a lot of work
and if me and tania
want to travel
and do all these things,
i know we won't be able to
if there's children involved.
not be able to,
but it'll be much tougher.
‐right, much harder.
‐yeah.
financially
and all these kinds of things.
so that's a concern i have.
that's a lot, to think about
and to figure out in 90 days
before you're married.
i feel like he's going to do
whatever tania wants to do
ultimately ‐‐
if they can agree agree on that
in the next 90 days.
like you said,
having a baby
is almost a more bigger deal
than being married.
absolutely.
that's concerning.
tania:
i couldn't be with someone
who doesn't want kids.
that is, like,
i live to have kids.
but i also know that
i kind of get my way so.
where's the beach at?
yo, what the
is up with you and miami?
robert: you kind of hurt me
a little bit today.
you.
you kind of hurt me in the store
a little bit, you know?
i didn't think that
that mattered to you,
meaning clothes.
i was just trying
to do right by you.
i'm still upset with anny
for acting like she's all that
when i took her
to the thrift store,
but i'm going to go out,
have some dinner tonight
and just try to put that
to the side.
well i did say i was taking you
shopping and technically i did.
let's just have dinner,
have a good night, all right?
can we do that?
can we do that?
alright.
well, you have a seat.
thank you.
robert:
when we was on the phone,
we hardly ever argued.
we had maybe
one disagreement,
but it don't last that long,
just like five minutes.
it wasn't as serious
as it is now.
hello, ladies and gentlemen.
pardon my interruption.
how are we doing today?
‐doing great. how are you doing?
good, good.
thank you for asking.
my name is yan. i'll be taking
great care of your service.
nice to meet you.
nice to meet you, sir.
be right back, guys.
‐thank you.
‐no problem.
what, a menu like this?
hell no.
i'm not paying all of that.
we can go to a buffet.
what? for not eating
and drinking off of me,
on my budget
and my expense?
alright, you want
a wedding or a ceremony?
alright. a wedding is
something all big and beaucoup.
ceremony is just
something small,
couple of people
and that's it.
alright.
where's the beach at?
you think
i'm made of money?
courthouse and bowling,
that's it.
well, there's a lot of people
who do that.
what's wrong with that?
i care more about you than
having a beaucoup wedding,
because my main goal
is to enjoy my time with you
and keep you here in my life.
not to just focus
on saying, hey,
i want a hollywood
wedding on miami beach
and look at me.
it's not what i want.
why is it that miami
is so important to you?
you want to move there
or something?
yo, what the
is up with you and miami?
well move there
right now by yourself.
pardon my interruption.
may i?
the smoked fish dip
made with mahi mahi.
thank you.
robert: me and anny
talked a lot on the phone
and she never mentioned
anything about miami to me.
i really don't want
to hear about miami.
just appreciate
where we live at.
‐i'll be right back.
‐i appreciate you.
could you
try some of your food?
what's your problem?
oh, so you going to storm out
on me every time you get mad?
why not?
i up today,
but you stormed out
and walked out on me
like a little baby.
so what, every time you have
a temper tantrum
you're going to just storm
out and walk out on me?
what?
me say sorry to you? okay.
i'm going to apologize,
you ready?
i am very sorry
that you are inconsiderate
and a big a*s crybaby.
how about that?
well, far away from me
is in the living room.
that's selfish as
it's just all me, right?
just work on me.
you don't have to do nothing.
you perfect, right?
oh, lord.
are you ready to go?
mike: my fiancé, natalie,
she's already at the interview
for the k‐1 visa process.
are you okay?
did you find out some news
or what? did they...
natalie, she's already
at the interview
for the k‐1 visa process
and we are both
waiting patiently.
it is hard, you know?
we're just this close
to finally being able
to be with each other.
come on, buddy. let's go work
on the pond and stuff.
but right now i like to get some
work done around the property
to help get the place
ready for natalie.
so today me and beau have some
plan worked out for the pond.
make it into the blue lagoon,
buddy,
instead of the big
green monster.
let's make it blue
and beautiful.
oh, yeah.
without getting it on you.
my hand's going to be blue
like a smurf for the next week.
yeah.
you want to be a smurfette, bro?
we could dress you up
for halloween, dude.
alright, buddy.
let's roll out, dude.
one of the unfortunate
things is,
with owning a farm,
is the work is never done.
but right now
i want to call up natalie.
i can't wait to hear all
about the visa interview.
hi, love.
hi, love.
i'm really excited because
we already bought
a plane ticket ahead of time,
we got a schedule right now,
so we're hoping
everything goes smooth
and we can get her visa and she
can come right on over here.
what's going on?
are you okay?
did you find out some news
or what? did they...?
we don't know how long
we have to wait for?
it's hard to hear six months.
we both feel like we've...
just so close to this
finish line and stuff
and it's just an arm's
distance to reach out.
this new information, it just
pushed it back even farther,
which makes it
that much harder.
do you think there's
any possible thing
going on with your background
or anything, baby,
that might hold up
this process?
i feel like i hit a road block,
you know?
we've worked so hard on all
this paperwork and the process.
and, honestly...
i trust her.
this is just k*lling me, not
knowing anything right now, so.
we...
it's going to be tough.
money's tough right now,
all of the stuff
we've been spending.
i mean, it's not the best
of timing right now.
my financial debt
has just been bugging me.
it costs a lot of money to buy
a plane ticket to go to ukraine
but seeing natalie
in this shape, hurts my heart.
i don't want to
wait any longer.
i'm tired of us
looking at each other
through this little picture,
and our phones, and yeah.
i'm going to get
out there, love.
it's very important.
in the long run
once you're here,
we'll get all settled down
and we won't have to do
these trips and stuff no more.
there will be no more stress
and stuff.
we'll be together. okay?
we're 10,000 miles apart
and it makes it really
difficult and hard.
i mean, me going to ukraine
wasn't originally in the budget,
but i mean i'm going to do
whatever it takes to get there.
i love her
and i want to see her.
we've got this, okay?
we've got this, love.
alright, baby?
i love you, baby.
talk to you tomorrow, baby.
yeah.
this is greenwich.
we're officially in greenwich,
connecticut.
i don't see like ‐‐
don't you notice
because there's a bentley?
i can't believe
you're here.
it's like two different lives
finally coming together.
my life with you,
wherever the hell we were,
and then when i have
to come home.
hey, big guy. i just wanted
to check in with you.
probably be there
a little after two.
all right, big guy, love you.
we'll see you soon.
max and cece are now waiting
patiently at the apartment
to finally meet juliana.
juliana can be very shy,
and guarded,
and not always very forthcoming
with her real feelings.
i suspect she's much
more nervous than she lets on.
yeah.
there'll be adjustment,
of course,
because they're
used to just me.
i think they're going to
like you. they're great kids.
it's going to be great.
oh!
i can't wait to see them.
i know. you okay?
hi, baby!
that's percy.
where is everybody?
‐i'm right here.
‐hi!
hey. cece, max,
here's juliana, finally.
‐hi, beautiful.
‐hey, big guy.
‐you're so beautiful.
‐thanks for waiting.
it's nice to finally meet you
in person.
how are you?
you guys can hug it
out a little.
‐okay.
‐yeah.
‐wow.
i think she's really pretty.
yeah, me too.
i think juliana's really pretty.
it proves that she's a model
and it proves that she's pretty.
yeah, me too.
i think my dad's a lucky guy.
then we got a cake
over there for you.
oh, you make it.
look what it says.
it says "welcome juliana."
mm‐hmm.
a little piece?
max:
cece and i also made you
a breakfast over here.
now, it's brunch.
avocados, fruit, eggs, sausage,
and cinnamon buns.
i've heard on the internet that
avocados are dessert in brazil.
‐a dessert? yeah.
‐yeah.
yeah. as you can see,
we did our research
about the brazilian
culture.
wait, should i bring the cake?
‐why not? yeah.
‐i'll just put it here.
it's about time for cake.
don't you think?
now with juliana here,
we have to...
this is juliana's seat.
...a new seating arrangement.
this is juliana's seat
and this is my seat.
okay. well, guys, thanks
for putting this together.
‐do you like it?
‐yeah.
‐do you want some fruit?
‐mm‐hmm.
the sausage is good.
i tried it before this.
me.
me.
you?! really?
me.
what were you doing
the whole time, max?
um, actually,
i did reheat
the eggs and sausage
every time they got cold.
‐oh, you did the reheating.
‐wow, such a big job.
oh, my god, so hard.
wow. this is great.
michael:
i felt like i've been living
a couple of lives,
my life when i see juliana
and then my life when
i'm back here with the kids.
and so, seeing max and cece
finally meet juliana,
it feels like two storylines
coming together,
finally merging.
you made it to america.
we haven't even thought
about what happens next,
but it's inevitable
that juliana and my ex‐wife
sarah are going to meet.
i know sarah well enough
and i know juliana well enough,
that i'm not going to
just assume or take for granted
everybody's just going to end up
being one big happy family.
yo, time out.
anna: i think the boys know
something's up
because gino was at dinner
with us
the other night,
when mursel told my mom
that he was keeping
the boys a secret.
why don't you tell the boys
the truth?
mm.
you really
pissed me off today.
you don't appreciate
nothing.
this first day been a bit
of a disaster.
she's ungrateful, she's selfish,
and every little thing i do,
she makes me feel like
it's not good enough for her.
a attitude like that,
it's like,
"yo, i won't do
nothing for you."
well, just like you ain't
the only woman in the world.
the problem is, you think
everybody in america is rich.
yo, time out.
well, sleep your a*s
on the couch.
there's a lot of room there.
who's sleeping
on the couch?
no, i'm not.
i'm not sleeping on no couch.
i live here. you live here.
i sleep in my bed. alright?
tonight, i don't know
what happened.
i just wanted to have
a good night out with you.
what the...?
i spoke to you and i felt
like i got to know you
but you're showing me
a different side of you.
there's a lot that i don't
know about you.
i just don't want problems
between us.
i don't want
to argue anymore.
alright?
we got a babysitter for bryson,
so this should be
a special night.
it's just me and you, and we
could relax, just us together.
and i got a surprise
for you.
here you go.
you're welcome.
mm.
crazy.
robert: i'm glad that anny
likes the present
but after arguing tonight
with anny,
some red flags
really came up.
i'm seeing a new side to anny
that i never seen before
and this is her
first day here.
i am a bit concerned about
my relationship right now.
i'm ready.
love it.
uh‐huh.
anna:
gino, come on.
i think the boys know
that something's up
because gino was at dinner
with us the other night
when mursel told my mom that he
was keeping the boys a secret.
i have a question.
when are we going to turkey?
three years, maybe.
why don't you
tell the boys the truth?
mm.
at dinner with my grandma,
i was hearing my mom talking
about that me and my brothers
are a secret
to mursel's family.
i really didn't understand
what she was talking about,
so i want her
to explain it to us.
like what?
what are the problems
with your family?
i don't get it.
you're a problem,
according to turk culture.
what will happen?
they wouldn't talk to you
if they found out about us?
understanding.
are you going to get expelled
by your family
if they find out about us?
expelled from his family.
yes.
well, that's his fault.
i don't think it's fair
to our mom
that he has to keep us a secret.
and i mean,
it was his choice to come
to america to another family.
and if he didn't think
about the consequences
that it would have
on his own family,
i mean that's on him.
you don't care about us?
you only care about only mom?
you just don't care
about anybody else?
who?
you.
because you came here
and didn't take me to turkey?
yes.
mom, how do you
feel about it?
i don't like it.
are you going to ever have
to chose between us and mursel?
he came here because i'm not
going to leave you guys.
i don't believe you at all.
you don't believe me?!
i'm stuck in between the man
i love and my children and
i feel like i might
have to choose
between mursel and the boys,
and i'm not going
to choose mursel.
i'm going to choose my boys.
when would you like
to have kids?
i am coming at you because
whether i'm having kids with you
or not, i'm having kids.
this is where we need to go?
ladies first.
‐good evening. how are you?
‐good, how are you?
tania, table for two.
yes.
have a seat my sexy sugar.
thank you.
syngin: tania's two friends
are leaving new york today.
me and tania have a little
sassy dinner date tonight.
this is what i've really been
looking forward to now,
is spending some alone time
with tania.
this is a really nice place.
yeah.
like a little bit of a
romantic vibe going on.
yes.
our first night alone.
yeah.
been wanting to do a dress
up date,
probably for the past year
and a half we've been together.
that's why i put
on the best i have.
syngin's been dreaming about
new york for a very long time,
and so i want to go
to a classic steakhouse.
how much more new york
can you be?
cheers to america.
america!
there's so much to figure out
in 90 days.
yeah.
i want to get a big white board
and a big corkboard,
so we can literally,
every single thought,
every question we have,
we have to put up there.
yeah.
what do we need to talk about
and what do we need
to figure out?
i'll talk about that after.
what after?
let's talk about it now.
there's no after anymore.
so, lunch earlier...
yeah.
when would you like
to have kids?
you said you want a child
within two years.
three.
alright,
so three and a half.
yeah, for me,
i'm still figuring out
what i actually want to do
with my life. you know?
do you want to have a kid?
a yeah or a no?
would you like a baby?
that's a question that can't
just be answered like that.
for me, my mission
is to travel ‐‐
ask me the question.
go ‐‐
ask me the question.
you would say yes
you want a child.
ask me the question.
do you want to travel
and see the world,
and save money to buy land
in about three years,
and a van,
do you want that as well?
syngin:
in my relationship with tania,
i let her sometimes
just pick my plate of food
or just go where
she wants to go.
but something as big
as having a child,
is something that
i'm not going to buckle in.
financially, i don't think
she understands having a child
is some great commitment.
everybody thinks it makes you,
but i think it can break you.
you talk about travel,
going here and going there.
i just don't see
how that is possible
with a child on your hip.
with a child on my hip?
yeah!
i mean, do you think women don't
do things when they have kids?
i'm not talking about women
in general.
i'm just talking about
naturally,
i'm talking about
money wise,
and things like that.
you can do both.
no one ever asks
the men that question,
so don't ask me
that question.
i think you're
overreacting now.
no.
yeah.
tania:
syngin doesn't think i can
do everything i want to do.
i don't even know if i can do
everything i want to do,
but that's not the point.
you make a list of things
you want to do
and you try to work towards it.
i want someone
who can dream big,
has a drive to try to make
those dreams happen,
rather than say
it's not possible,
and say it's too much.
no. sh**t for the sky.
land on the moon.
that's what i'm doing.
you just need to be prepared.
your problem is you don't
even know what it's like
to plan for anything,
so that's why you can't even
imagine that being possible.
it takes...
yeah, it takes planning.
it takes planning.
it takes responsibility.
it takes commitment ‐‐
money.
it takes money.
yeah, having to work.
and maybe we'll have a job
you don't like to do,
but i'm willing to do that so i
have the life i want to live.
i mean, how many jobs have you
quit because you didn't like it?
for me to step in
and do something,
even for six months that i hate,
is a tremendous task for me.
you quit jobs left and right.
yeah. i'm not going
to do something i hate.
that's for sure.
you're like...
don't come at me.
stay on the subject.
no! no, i am coming at you
because whether i'm having kids
with you or not,
i'm having kids.
so, that means
if we don't work,
you're going to go look
for a sperm donor?
yeah.
that was my original plan,
when i wanted to have kids
by the time i was 30,
and then i met you,
so i'm literally putting off
having kids for you.
okay.
it's almost like you
wrote the story
and i'm just
a character in it.
babe, really?
i do. i've had my vision
of my life.
but now that i'm with you,
i would love to do
all of this with you.
but if you're not down for it,
this is my life.
you're not willing to change
any aspect a little bit,
maybe to accommodate me?
i am, having kids
later in life
than i would have had them
on my own.
tania: i do take syngin's
opinion seriously,
but, like, kids
are really important to me.
having kids are, like, is,
every since i was little,
i just knew
i'm, like, going to have kids,
i'm going to be a mom.
i feel like it's something
i'm meant to do.
i want to start a family
with syngin
but if it's a deal breaker
for him, then he has to choose.
okay, so we have 90 days.
this is our first dinner.
can we put the kids
talk on pause for now?
can we talk about
something happy
for at least like three minutes,
at least?
yeah.
okay.
syngin:
me and tania have talked
about having the child,
but i don't believe
in scheduling life
and i don't believe
in doing this and that.
just let the universe
do to me what it wants to do.
so, i am not going to bend
over backwards and force a child
because 90 days is short
to find out
what you want
in 10 years from now.
so, if we just clash too much
in what we want,
that's obviously just
going to just split us apart.
so, this is very real.
next time on
"90 day fiancé"...
robert: today, anny is meeting
with bryson's grandparents.
has robert told you
anything about me.
i'm a porn star.
oh, my god.
are you okay with that?
she just jumped into my arms.
it was an amazing feeling.
anna:
this will be the first time
mursel will be meeting
with my friends.
mursel, are you ready
for the wedding?
ready?
me and jasmin's sex life
is great.
i can't complain.
what do you want to do?
we have some alone time.
i know syngin and i will work
as a marriage
because we communicate.
don't break it.
i tell syngin what to do
and syngin does it.
that's bull.
i cannot do this.
yeah.
what i want from you,
is to not parent.
i am their mom and nobody
will ever know them
better than i do.
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