Part one of an unbelievable
The couples tell all.
Secrets will be uncovered.
Somebody here is pregnant.
Lines will be crossed.
So you think my mom is jealous?
You're the most jealous
person on this whole cast.
So how are you going to
say that my mom's jealous?
Well, if I'm jealous, can
I recognize jealousy?
Right.
Obviously, you're jealous of everything.
I wanted her to stop
hitting me in the head.
I didn't think she would
have took it as far as she did.
You said, Shida's being aggressive.
You haven't seen me aggressive yet.
Trust me.
Questions will be answered.
Kobe took his ex out on a date when I was
at home with our son in another country.
How pissed would y'all
be because I wasn't happy?
Miona, do you feel responsible
for breaking the group up?
If Miona wasn't in the picture,
he would stick with his band.
Personalities will clash.
Do you think this kind of
conversation is normal in any culture?
We do talk about sex.
We're very open.
You can talk about sex as much as you want.
Right, but suggest you listen to the
rest of the answer before over talking me.
Because if you just want to
talk, you can talk by yourself.
Go ahead.
Shida, since Shahida first came
out here, you have not looked at her.
Yeah.
Why have you not even
looked in her direction?
You said that Guillermo
was not man enough for Kara.
Do you still think that?
I don't know.
m*therf*cker.
And no one is holding back.
We live in an oppressive word environment.
And words make people.
Well, you always have
an answer for everything.
And I think that's suspicious.
He's a salesman.
He is an amazing salesman.
That is what we are
all witnessing right now.
I like Tyeese.
I like Patrick.
I think they're good people.
I think John's a dickhead.
We'll go upstairs, but I
don't want this dude up there.
It's OK, Spackles.
No problem.
I'm going to knock him
out if you bring him up there.
No, you don't.
I don't want to have to remove you.
You ain't going to remove nothing, bro.
Trust me.
I've seen you in action
with your boyfriend.
I'm not scared, bro.
And it all starts now.
Guillermo and I are good today.
It's not like that every day.
But today's a good day.
I think the other couples
probably think that I'm controlling.
And I'm most worried about
maintaining my composure
if somebody says some slick sh*t to
me, because I have a slick mouth as well.
I will still work on so many things.
I'm still learning how Kara is in America.
It's so frustrating.
It's very stressful continuing
to be the sole provider.
I still have to work a lot and work hard.
Follow me.
I'll take you to the room.
Things are expensive.
They're not cheap.
And if I'm already kind of
like have been supporting
him since he's been
here, it's very stressful.
I'm sure there will be
things that will come up today
that he didn't tell me about or
that we didn't communicate well on.
So that's what I'm thinking about.
The men get a little bit more of a pass,
or a lot of bit more of a pass in general.
And I can't wait to just express myself.
I may be five feet tall, but I'm tough.
Today is going to be a long day.
I know.
I can't imagine that.
A lot's changed since
the 90 days, good and bad.
We're no longer in Dallas,
and we've moved to Las Vegas.
A whole new life again.
Poor Thais.
Hey.
Hi.
I'm a little worried with John because I
don't want him say something bad to me.
I don't have patience for that.
I don't know what's going to happen
between John and Thais today.
So hopefully, hopefully
it's, you know, cordial.
But who knows what
the hell he's going to do.
Ah.
So we have a bunch of strong people.
Just to let you guys
know-- You're strong, babe.
You're strong.
No, I'm going to let you guys
know you cannot fight with me.
Because I cannot handle it.
No, I think I'm nervous
about just like reliving
some of the tough conversations
and getting to fights again.
Always something.
Well, you know what it's like?
Like when you have--
when you do the K1 visa,
they're almost like a
child that can't do anything.
Really?
When you can't even speak English, it's
like I got to make all the phone calls,
and I got to make all the
appointments, and I got to do this.
You've got to still do that anyway.
sh**t.
It can sometimes--
in the midst of all of it,
you can feel really frustrated
that the person can't work.
But it's like not his fault. You know?
It's not anyone's fault.
Like they want-- of
course they want to work.
They want to contribute.
They want to feel like--
But it's not our fault either.
Oh, right.
It's not our fault either.
Yeah, but yet I'm still
here doing everything.
Yeah, so it's like this weird place
where you can't be mad
at anyone, but you feel it.
It feels amazing being in New York.
I'm feeling very excited
to meet the cast members,
excited to kind of
hash things out as well.
I know Bilal means
well, but I'm not a baby.
Bilal seems a little
headstrong when it comes to
understanding that he
does a lot of mansplaining.
He hates when I say lecture.
Like that is like a word I should not use.
But I want him to see himself.
And maybe when he sees that, he
could probably do things differently.
Kobe and I were a typical
marriage relationship.
Everyone gets into their battles or
situations, and that's just marriage.
But we made a beautiful family together.
Hello.
I feel like-- Wow.
Ready to party.
Hi, babe.
How do you say-- is it namaste
or-- I'm not perfect, you know.
So I'm not here ready to point finger at
people or focus on people's relationship.
But if anybody want to come to
me, I mean, I don't like problems.
But if they want to bring problems,
they bring the problems, no problem.
I'm not nervous at all.
I'm ready.
I'm excited for the tell-all.
The tell-all's not ready for me.
The tell-all's not ready for Jabri.
And all this energy, you feel me?
We have our difficulties
adjusting to the married life.
Definitely a little bit nervous.
Hi.
Hi.
Welcome to the party.
Woo!
Party's here.
Whatever energy you other give me,
I'm going to give them the
same back, just multiple.
Are you jealous of his suit?
Are you jealous of Jabri's suit?
Is he jealous of my suit?
Yeah.
You stole my outfit.
I know.
That's what I was just saying.
You stole my outfit.
I don't want to sit next to you.
I don't want to look Chinese.
Hey, we going to look like we're from
a different planet if you sit next to me.
I'm cuter.
It's OK.
You look good, though.
You look good, though.
I'm best dressed, boy.
I'm best dressed.
I think Jabri probably will get mad about
something because that's the way he acted.
He was fighting with his best friend.
He will not fight with someone here.
Me and David got a long history.
Like, we-- But you
dated his sister?
I dated his twin sister.
Yeah, and you didn't know?
No.
No, he beat my a*s, put me in a coma.
And then my mom was
like, you going to boot camp.
So she sent me to military school.
And right when I got
out of military school,
I went to a party, heard
some girls singing in the corner.
I was like, what language is that?
And we started dating.
And then she's like, let me
introduce you to my twin brother.
Shut.
And I look, I was like, oh, sh*t.
What?
That's the dude who put me in the coma.
That is wild.
Dating your sister now, so I guess we even.
Oh my god.
What's wrong?
Let's do it.
Here we go.
Dude, we're getting the comment live.
Like, come on.
This is absolutely the nicest frigging set.
Bring the-- We like the drama.
I don't like to be in
it, but I like to watch it.
That's what I'm saying.
We just get to watch it today.
It's like ringside scenes.
All right, let's go.
Let's get backstage to watch.
Woo.
Man, I wait, like, so many
months for this, Kenny.
It's like season nine of "The
Originator," "90 Day Fiancé.
" OG.
It's the tell-all.
I mean-- The biggest event,
the pinnacle to "90 Day Fiancé.
" Hell yeah, man.
This is going to be on the chain.
Off the chain.
You're too old to say that.
It's going to be a humdinger.
A humdinger.
There you go.
There you go.
Is that age appropriate?
That's right, Grams.
Sean's going to do beautifully as always.
I can't wait.
He's like amazing at getting people
to answer uncomfortable questions.
But I've got some questions of my own here.
I want to talk with a
couple of these people.
I have some questions myself.
You know, maybe, I
mean, you can just sneak
around and try to ask
some more questions.
We can find out what's
really going on here.
We can get the tea.
This is like a dream come
true to be able to see it this way.
Live?
I feel like you ever tried
to get concert tickets
and get that front row seat,
and you know you never get it.
But we got it this time.
And it's like, we're the only ones.
I feel so special.
Bring the cast in, please.
Dude, they're coming out.
It's about to start.
Whoa.
Let the fireworks begin.
Oh my gosh.
I don't take a lot of sh*t from people.
So it's like, guess
we'll see how this goes.
I am not worried about what anybody says.
I'm a little nervous.
I know I have some b*ll*ts coming my way
that I'm going to have to dodge
and, you know, hit back with.
But all of you have sh*t that you
did too that you're not proud of.
So f*ck it.
Right here.
Muhammad.
Hi, Eve.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you too.
Hi, Bilal.
Hi, Shaina.
Hi.
The gloves are completely off.
Like, if I have to say
something, I'm going to say it.
I'm not going to hold back.
All right.
OK, everybody.
Right face.
Three, two-- Hello, and welcome to
I'm Shawn Robinson.
We have seven couples with us today.
Everyone here had the same
goal in mind, find their one true love.
And everyone here hopes they
have accomplished that goal.
But while some are now on
the road to lifelong happiness,
others discovered some red
flags about their significant
others that put their
relationships to the test.
We will look back on their unique journeys
as these couples open up
about their biggest fights,
their moments of
doubt, their shocking
revelations, and of course,
their happy times too.
We have got a lot to
cover, so let's jump right in.
But first, we have a first here on 90 Day.
Two folks are pregnant.
It's not me.
Baby number three?
No.
Is it baby number three?
No, it's not.
It's not us.
I want you to raise your hand if it is you.
Who is it?
You're pregnant?
Tyese and Patrick and Karen Guillermo.
Congratulations.
Congratulations.
Now, this has never
happened before on 90 Day.
This is the first.
We've got two people.
Both Tyese and Kara are pregnant.
Congratulations.
Congratulations.
OK, Patrick and Tyese,
I want to start with you.
First of all, it's great to see you.
How far along, Tyese,
are you in your pregnancy?
Wow.
OK.
Kara, same question for you.
How far along are you?
Also 16 weeks.
Oh, really?
Today.
OK, what's this?
Were you all calling each other?
We're like, all right.
I'm not too sure.
All right.
OK, we're going to dig
back into this, so dig into
your relationship and see
how things have been going.
Right now, though, I'm going
to pivot to Bilal and Shida.
How is married life treating you?
It's going good.
I'm still learning about Bilal.
I realize it's a process.
It's a process.
It's a process.
We are still getting to know each other.
Although we are married, we are still--
Yeah, I think we're
definitely-- every week there's
a new piece to the puzzle that
we're both learning about each other.
The quirks that we both have.
Bilal, are you admitting you have quirks?
Oh, for sure.
OK.
Emily and Kobe, how are you doing?
So nice to meet you guys.
When we last saw you,
you two had broken the
news to your family about
your second pregnancy.
What's the update?
Yep.
Yeah, so we have a
little girl named Scarlett.
Yes.
Congratulations.
Wonderful.
So yeah, just two kids.
Kobe's working now.
I'm a stay-at-home mom,
like I always wanted to be.
And yeah.
OK, wait.
OK, this is news.
Kobe, so you're working now.
What are you doing?
Tasting asphalt.
Make sure they have the right specifications
before they take them to the road.
OK.
Yep.
He gets all the overtime he wants.
Lots of overtime.
That made you bring in the big bucks now.
Racking up their money.
Racking up their money.
OK, I can't wait to see
how you are adapting to
your new life with these
two beautiful children.
Right now, though, let me
go over to Jabri and Miona.
Jabri, first of all, thank
you for dressing up for us.
Now, your family and friends had many
concerns about your marriage to Miona.
How is everybody getting along now?
They see I'm happy.
They see that I'm really
just pushing forward,
and I'm doing well,
and it's a lot of jealousy.
That's what I feel like.
So it's been rough.
Jabri, what do you think your
family and friends are jealous of?
We look good together.
We shine.
So when you shine,
people try to dim your light.
Miona, do you think that
Jabri's mother is jealous of you?
I'm definitely not trying
to compete with anyone,
but there has been a
weird energy, definitely.
If there's a problem
with the mother-in-law,
then it's kind of on the
son a lot of the time,
because the son maybe
is not giving the attention,
or maybe Miona sort of came
off as being a little bit defensive,
like, you know, in the beginning
when she met your family.
So maybe they felt
like, oh, like, what now?
So you think my mom is jealous?
You're the most jealous
person on this whole cast,
so how are you going to
say that my mom is jealous?
Well, if I'm jealous, can
I recognize jealousy?
Right.
Obviously, you must be, because
you're jealous of everything.
Whoa.
Like, dude, like, on this
roller coaster of emotions,
if he keeps this up, like, man,
this is going to be a hell of a ride.
He came in for a fight.
Yeah, I think so.
It's like what they say
when you go to prison,
you just got to hit somebody
so people don't mess with you.
Like, that mentality of like--
That was a good analysis of that.
It's the truth.
He acts like he has a
chip on his shoulder,
but he's going to get
a target on his back.
He's ready to rumble.
I just need, like, a whole
segment with just Jabri and Ari.
Like, that's what I want.
Let's get everybody else off
the stage and let them duke it out.
You're jealous of my clothes.
No, I'm not jealous of nothing.
OK.
All right, let's move on.
Ariella and Beniam,
always good to see you guys.
Now, how have you been doing
since you finally tied the knot?
We're doing good, but, you know, we always
have the same kind of issues,
like, you know, with communication.
I will say, Benny has some
really good news to share.
Oh, what is your good news, Beniam?
My good news is I get my green card.
Wow.
Congratulations.
Nice.
Very nice.
This means you can go to work, right?
And what kind of work do you want to do?
Do you wish that Ari was
more supportive of you?
Well, let's be clear that
I've never said, don't do this.
I said, if you're going to do it, you
need to be realistic about doing it.
And that's what my point is, like,
you know, just see the full picture.
That's what I say.
I know that one of the ongoing issues between
you two has been the issue of jealousy.
I mean, I wouldn't say I'm very jealous.
I would say I'm, you know, I'm reasonable.
Like, you would expect
a person that you're
with to tell you, you
know, certain things.
What do you think I'm jealous?
Yeah.
Bro, yeah, she's jealous.
Just make sure really what he says.
She's overprotects.
Come here.
You can't do that.
You can't, especially him, because
he's trying to pursue his dreams.
So the more jealous you get, it's
just going to hold you all back,
and you're not going to work
out, because he's
going to reach to the top.
But you're preventing
him from getting that.
He's going to reach to the top because he
has people around him, including
me, who help him and protect him.
You know, you're pessimistic
about his career as a fighter.
I believe Vinny could do
anything that he wants.
Like, he's got so much potential,
but he needs someone to push him.
And that's what I do.
I do push him, but I also
ask him to be realistic.
No, you're going to hold him back.
You hate him.
You've got to stop.
You've got to stop.
But for you, even your mom's hating.
Like, oh, my mother's
jealous of my relationship.
No, no, that's not that.
The overprotective, overbearing stuff that
you're talking about is going to hinder.
I feel like you're going to match you.
Like, it's me against the world.
Everyone's just jealous of you.
Everyone's like this.
You should be realistic, too.
No, I'll be realistic.
I'll fight you.
We can set up a fight.
I got $100,000.
We'll fight.
He's definitely holding him back.
But also what's not supportive
is rolling up at his practice
and threatening to fight his
partner because she's a woman.
Yeah, that's true.
I mean, I'm a jealous person.
Like, I'm happy that-- I love
that he works in a lab by himself.
What do you mean by that, Kobe?
Yeah, what does that mean?
What does that mean, Kobe?
She is like-- when I
did this, she is jealous.
And I understand that you can't
be in love without being jealous.
If they saw me wrestling
a girl on the floor-- I mean--
Should have put the-- the
building would have been on fire.
For sure.
Like, in the floor?
Maybe if there was more communication,
like, it would be, like, easier to handle.
Kobe will come home
from work and just tell me.
Like, I don't even have to ask.
He's like, this happened at work.
Or like, here's who I like saw at work.
Like, I don't ask him.
You know what I mean?
Kobe, do you tell Emily everything
that happened to you at work?
I tell her what she needs to know.
Oh.
First of all, that's everything, OK?
He tells me everything.
You need a healthy amount of that.
Because what happens
when he does win this fight
and gets-- he's getting
a million dollars a fight?
You know how many girls
are going to be chasing you?
And you are going to be losing your mind.
The difference is how
you handle your jealousy.
Everybody's jealous.
How you express your
jealousy, that's what matters.
I'm jealous over her, like, but
the way she expresses herself--
the way she expresses herself,
that's what makes the difference.
But it's different when there's
a million women in his inbox,
you know, being like, oh, if you
need a green card, come marry me.
The tidy whitey scene, talk
about my man's junk, OK?
So many DMs about it.
I'm like, all right, well,
we f*ck all the time.
So all these women can back off.
Kobe, what are-- what is
this about the tidy whiteys?
Ask him what's on his underwear right now.
I know it's in my brief.
Can you show us what's on
your underwear right now, please?
Can you show them?
Show them, babe.
Aw.
Come on, just show them.
Just show them a little bit.
Yeah!
Oh, boy, oh, goodness.
You better show them, Kobe!
I'll show them what?
I'll show what?
I'll show what?
All right, well, I'll go jealous.
I'll go jealous.
That's my baby.
Their territory is marked.
Yeah, exactly.
Taken.
You gotta step it up, man.
Exactly.
We gotta step it up.
Wow.
So we've got a lot more to dig into.
Let's move on over now to Eve and Muhammad.
It is really good to meet you guys.
How is your relationship
now that you're married?
I mean, we always got along as far
as being in each other's company well.
Now I'll just put on whatever I want, and
he doesn't-- you know, give me a hard time.
There's no place.
That's it.
That's the effect of America.
That's the problem.
He says, oh, you look pretty.
Oh, I like that color.
So clothes that she's wearing now,
before you didn't like them,
but now you say, OK, fine?
Except I want
to-- Wait a minute.
I don't know.
I-- Muhammad-- Even
when she was-- Maybe now.
I think I remember differently.
I never told her to
change what she's wearing.
Maybe I can tell my opinion about it,
but not like you can't wear
that, or you can, you know?
Muhammad, didn't you ask
Eve to put a coat over her thong?
I meant, like, maybe she should--
Put a coat over her thong, right?
When I came here to America, it took time
to understand the culture
more and her lifestyle as well.
He's learning.
He's actually expanding his relationship.
He going to work out.
Y'all ain't going to work out.
I would say the same about you guys, but--
No, it ain't going to work out for y'all.
You don't think Ari and Benny's
relationship is going to work out?
Y'all fake.
Y'all ain't going to work out.
We're fake?
Ooh.
No, I'm just giving you the truth.
Says a guy in the million dollar suit.
I feel like a million dollars.
You going to be mad when your
man's wearing a million dollar suit?
Watch.
Debray, why do you think
they're not going to work out?
I know they're not going to work out.
It's not that I don't think.
She too jealous.
She too jealous.
You're holding him back.
She's holding you back, bro.
You a star, you know what I mean?
And you're going to get there.
She's holding you back.
She's not a star.
She's dimming your light.
I'm just being real with you.
Shots fired.
Shots fired.
I can just see him with his cowboy hat.
Oh, yeah.
Popping off six shooters.
Now that we've heard from everybody,
I want to kick things off
with Patrick and Thais.
Last we saw of them,
they had just walked
down the aisle without
her father's blessing.
But since then, there are some
big new developments in their life.
All right.
Patrick and Thais, good to see you.
And again, congratulations
on the pregnancy.
What was your initial reaction when
you found out you were pregnant?
I was surprised.
Surprised, too.
Afraid.
Surprised?
Yeah.
Scary.
And then really excited.
Why were you surprised?
Just because a year ago,
I was doing fertility tests.
I didn't have any sperm
because of my past with PED use.
That's steroid use for working out?
Yeah, for weightlifting.
For weightlifting?
Yeah.
I had zero sperm.
You had no sperm at all?
Yeah, zero.
OK.
So then went to the
doctor, got it all fixed.
And one day I said, Patrick, I think
I'm pregnant when I was in Brazil.
And he said, no, because
I can't make a baby.
You can't have kids.
He was saying, I can have kids.
Yeah.
And you didn't know
that he couldn't have kids.
I was very upset when he told me because
he didn't told me until one year together.
Right?
We always discuss about it.
We always both want to have a baby one day.
No.
So you were talking about
wanting to have a baby one day.
Yeah, and he didn't told
me that he can't have a baby.
Patrick, that was something
you would have shared, right?
I think it's one of many
things where I've tried to
discuss it, but then the
language barrier makes it so
like she just doesn't understand
what I'm talking about.
We have Google Translator.
I was in Brazil.
We didn't use it.
Thais, when you found out you
were pregnant-- I did six tests.
Every test was positive.
Six?
Yeah, six.
Yeah, you're pretty pregnant.
I was hiding the tests on the toilet.
OK.
And the top, there is-- Oh,
the cabinet above the wall.
You were hiding them in the cabinet.
You did six at-home pregnancy
tests and kept all of them from Patrick?
She did that because that's
how she does everything.
She doesn't tell you anything
until it's exactly certain.
If there's any chance that it might
not happen, she doesn't want to jinx it.
Yeah.
Oh, wow.
OK.
And why didn't you tell him
after the first or second one?
I was trying to understand everything
because-- No, this is what she did.
She lied to me and
made me make her a gyno
appointment for
something else, supposedly.
So I called and made
her a gyno appointment.
And then after that, she finally
decided to tell me it was real.
And then what happened?
Does he go with you to the gynecologist?
No.
Patrick said, nope.
You go by yourself
and get the official test.
And then that's when you
come back and tell him.
Yeah.
He was a little mad
because I-- Oh, I bet.
--invited-- because I invited
a friend, a Brazilian friend,
because she speaks English
fluent and Portuguese fluent.
She helped me.
Yes, her friend-- her friend before I did.
No more.
No.
Yes, she did.
Not like that.
Jesus, no.
You told your girlfriend
before you told Patrick?
Yes.
OK.
What he just said, yes.
Yeah.
OK.
It's her way of doing things.
But this is so interesting
because, Taise, you
were upset when
Patrick was talking to John
behind your back and
wasn't telling you-- Yeah.
--what was going on.
So-- Oh, there's a
few double standards.
Like, she can look at all the messages
on her DMs, but I can't look at mine.
I got to wait-- Jesus, Patrick.
I got to wait till she's there
to see if girls message me.
Because when I was in
Brazil, he lied a little bit.
He said, like, OK, I'm going
out to have dinner with, like,
my friends or with the
girl that you were working.
And I'm going home.
And I don't trust him
because he lied before.
Wow.
What did he lie about?
He said he was training a girl, and he
was actually-- I don't know the word--
dating, making out with a girl.
He said he was training a girl.
Yes.
He's not professional.
But he was actually,
what, having sex with her?
Yes.
Oh my god.
I'm not jealous.
Like, oh, don't leave me.
I was just saying, be honest.
If you want to be with her, you can.
You're life-free.
So you two were in a relationship.
You and Patrick were in a relationship.
Yes.
OK, he's shaking his head no.
You're saying yes.
Which-- At the beginning, no.
It was like after the first time we met.
You went to Brazil every month.
You were talking with
the girl like me here.
You talk with the girl
with your cell phone.
That was after-- In Loki, her--
That was the first time we were there.
--on Instagram.
That was after the first trip.
After eight months, we are together.
No.
You were in Loki's Instagram.
There was no-- I wasn't
even-- we were not together
eight months, and I
was with her, training her.
But you were kissing the girl
when you were still seeing Thais.
Yeah, kind of.
Like, it was the first trip.
You kind of kissed him.
Be honest.
It was the first trip.
Not the first trip.
The second trip.
I'm just saying, like, I don't think
we're in a relationship at that point.
It was a confusing time.
What was confusing?
What-- wait.
What was confusing about it?
Because, like, I dated
this girl before I met Thais.
Yes.
And she kind of went away.
And then Thais came in the picture.
And then this girl, like,
wanted to come back.
And then I was going back to Thais.
And so it was like-- it
was like there was no, like--
and there was no, like, full
commitment to Thais yet.
And there wasn't a commitment to her.
It was like, you know, I
was like a single dude dating.
Going to Brazil every month,
dating me, having sex with me,
and dating other girl, working with other
girl, and having sex at the same time.
No, I didn't have sex with her.
Jesus.
OK.
Patrick, wait.
You just said you weren't
having sex with the other girl.
No, I didn't have sex with her.
There was a couple attempts to have sex.
But like, there was like
heavy drinking involved.
And so like, it never happened on my part.
That was it.
But it seems like, Patrick, it sounds like
you were dating two women at one time.
Yeah.
And you were not honest with me.
Like--
I'm pretty sure I told you what happened.
You don't.
Because if you say this, oh,
you're not-- not come back to Brazil.
And I found out the worst
day, the day we were engaged.
What?
Wow.
Yeah, I found out-- I have your cell
phone, and you were on the water.
And I found out-- Wait a minute.
The day that he proposed to you, you
found out he was seeing another woman?
He was talking before
while we were together.
So I find out that day.
It was like-- Patrick,
you are so busted.
No, I'm not busted.
This is like-- she's
explaining the timeline wrong.
When you were in Brazil,
you sent her a message.
Yeah, it was after one
of the fights we got into.
I understand what you're saying
as far as, hey, we wasn't committed.
But it kind of sounds like
you wanted to do some things
with the other person, just that you
were drunk, and things couldn't happen.
Yeah, no, I mean, I was in the wrong 100%.
I was in the wrong.
I'm just trying to explain myself.
That's all.
OK.
Oh my god, Mr. Justified.
I'm telling you, he don't
think what he did is wrong.
That's what's scary, is he really
doesn't think what he did is wrong.
He didn't dip the stick,
so it doesn't count.
In his mind, he's like, I didn't
perform, so it's not cheating.
I mean, is it like if you can't--
if you're drunk, don't work.
The whole cheating crap between Thaís and
Patrick, you're talking three years ago.
No, I know, but see, that's what happened.
She got called out on
doing something wrong.
I called my girlfriend out on
like, hey, you're not being fair.
She brings up some sh*t
from two and a half years
ago, and we have to
rehab that fight because she
knows she's about to
lose the fight that we're in.
He knows he screwed up
with that, and he owned it.
The p*nis works, but the
sperm don't come out right.
Well, I didn't really
understand that whole thing.
I mean-- I'll draw you pictures.
Yeah, like I need a
diagram of a broken sperm.
You're always making new sperm, though.
It's not like it's like deformed sperm.
Did you think you would be
talking sperm so much with me?
No, I don't-- I don't know why, but I
don't want to talk about sperm with you.
No.
Mm.
There's just a lot of emotions going on.
There's a lot of emotions
going on in that room, man.
Jabri doesn't think my
relationship with Benny
is going to last, but I'm not really
concerned about him because he's just a bully.
Beanie deserves better than that girl, Ari.
Ari, she's not good for him.
But she just-- she got a little mouthpiece
on her, and Ari's an insecure woman.
She's insecure of him.
We all have issues, but they
have serious issues, and--
I kind of thought it
was f*cked up, though,
for Jabri to say that
our relationship is fake.
Like, we've been together
three and a half years.
We have a beautiful baby.
We love each other.
I mean, I love you.
I don't know if you love
me, but I love you, so.
That's hurtful to say to somebody,
like, you're not going to work out.
Yeah.
I honestly feel like
Jabri's not being different.
He's just being who Jabri is.
We will hear more from
Patrick and Thais a little later.
Let us turn our attention
to Kara and Guillermo.
Now, you two had your
share of doubts leading up
to the wedding, but you cast those doubts
aside and ended the season happily married.
But since then, your story
has taken a major turn.
True.
You are pregnant.
Congratulations again.
Thank you.
Congratulations.
All right, guys, I want
to talk about a major
source of conflict between
Kara and Guillermo.
Guillermo felt that Kara
was being too controlling
and treated him like a child, especially
when it came to planning their wedding.
Was she?
Let's take a look.
Guillermo has lived, like, a much
more not rigid financial lifestyle.
And so, like, my money's
his money, but we also have
to make sound decisions
and agree on what we buy.
There's going to be things that
come up that we're not planning on.
We'll have to leave money for those things.
Like, that's why a
computer doesn't make any
sense right now, because,
like, we don't need it.
We don't need it.
You don't need it.
Oh my god.
You know, it's just sometimes
he'll be saying some stuff,
and I'm like, did you think about
that before it came out of your mouth?
You know, it's just
like, like, maybe naive.
You know, like, how, you know, kids can be
naive, and they just say things sometimes,
and you're like, oh, that's
cute, because they're little.
But there's times that I don't act 30.
I mean, there's times--
And I don't judge you.
You say you admit the fact
that you treat him like a child.
Does that make any sense?
Is this somebody who's going
to be like the father of your child?
I know grown-a*s men
that still act like children.
Will you accept being a child
just because you want to--
No, because I just know who I am.
My mother raised me in one way.
You're a man.
Hey, guys, I want to know, who usually
feels like the adult in their relationship?
Belal?
I think it's the American.
Yeah, you know, like, I don't
feel like I treat her like a child.
At least I try not to.
I think we are equal.
You sound very naive.
Let me just-- yeah, naive,
because she has been living
in a box for, you know,
for basically her whole life.
She's 37, not like your
typical 37, maybe from
America, who has lived
on her own, who's paid bills.
She hasn't had the experience
of a lot of other 37-year-olds.
Yeah, so she's never paid bills.
You don't have to say
that a lot on television.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
But what I'm just saying,
just what we would consider
like basic things, like
I'm trying to explain her.
And then she says I'm lecturing her.
Belal, you sound like
a professor sometimes.
But what about the laptop?
You told me get a toothbrush.
That's condescending.
It's controlling.
You said, why don't we
start with the toothbrush?
Yeah, it's affordable.
No, it's condescending.
He's talking about a laptop.
You bring up a toothbrush.
It's just like--
it's controlling.
It's what you're trying to do.
You're trying to shut down
him as fast as you can,
as soon as he has an idea,
as soon as he has a thought.
I mean, I think I thoroughly
explained why we didn't need a laptop.
And I was like, all right, well,
let's start with something small.
A toothbrush could be anything.
A toothbrush, pair of
underwear, like a sock.
Yeah, I think when you get condescending,
it becomes controlling, because you're
literally controlling the conversation.
You're shutting it down immediately.
He gets no opinion.
He gets no say.
And it's very American women.
Patrick just said all of the American
women in here are controlling.
Yeah.
Strong-willed, motivated, direct.
OK.
Or controlling.
Kobe bought a laptop.
You know-- My money.
But let me tell you something.
My money.
He's used that laptop
probably about 10 times.
Guillermo, how many times have you
opened your laptop since-- Many times.
No, let's be honest.
Couple times.
Couple times.
We're not just talking
about using the laptop.
We're talking about what he said, American
women, like the attitude of controlling,
especially when a foreigner
just getting all your fiance
from a different country comes
in, you feel like there is no respect.
Well, when he says something like, hey,
we have a limited budget,
but I want a computer,
I'm thinking, where's
his brain thinking
that he needs a computer when
we have so many other things?
Like, it's like he's not
thinking about the future.
Yeah, how is that controlling?
That's not controlling.
That's not controlling.
If he had the money to go do it, go buy it.
I just wanted to have some
independencia, you know?
A little bit.
That's it.
I know where you're coming from,
and I'm not blaming you for saying--
but the reality is you have to
have conversation and make him
feel that you understand
and discuss that, you know?
But he has to as well.
Like, you have to come together.
I mean, it's numbers.
It's like math.
Like, you just put him down.
It's a put down.
Your response is a put down.
It's a conversation that from this side,
in my opinion, is going very respectful.
And from the other side, it's like, no.
No.
No.
But is it hard to see why no?
I mean, it's not like it's rocket science.
OK, if you're talking about
communication, let's communicate.
You would prefer-- Kiarma, I just
feel like right now it's not a good idea.
Would that be better?
Man, that'd be-- you don't know
how much that means to men.
There's a saying that like
is not the difference of
opinion, but the tone used.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
He tells me that a lot.
All right, we are going to hear more
from Kara and Kiarma a little later.
Now let's turn our
attention to Bilal and Shida.
Their 90 day journey
started on the wrong foot,
and it took a long time for them to
find solid ground in their relationship.
Bilal, you have called
yourself a neat freak?
Yeah.
I could be that.
Has any of that changed
since you two got married?
Shida's like, no, has that changed?
It has not changed.
Bilal is just so particular.
Like even eating food just a minute
ago, you know, he's watching me.
He find I'm super messy.
Like when you were eating here?
Yes.
He was telling you you
were being too messy.
Yes, but for him-- Time out.
Context is everything.
She had stuff all on her hands, and she
was about to touch me and say, babe--
I said, babe, you have
stuff all on your hands.
You're being really messy.
Did you have stuff all over your hands?
A little small speck.
It was not a small speck.
A little small dust?
No.
Guillermo could see it because he
came and brought her some sanitizer.
Oh, that doesn't
sound like-- Yes.
Yeah.
Guillermo said, how did
I get dragged into this?
And it's really-- it's hard.
It's difficult.
When I came here, it was a complete shock.
What was the biggest shock for you?
So many, the prank, we
still have disagreements.
Since everybody had
such strong feelings about
this, how about we
take a look at it again?
I wanted to see if Shida truly
wants me for me, not for what I have.
And so I'm picking her
up in a van that's not
mine, taking her to a
home that I grew up in.
I'm really hoping to see if her
words match with her actions.
Get the door for you.
Yeah.
Huh?
I thought it was this one.
Oh, you thought this?
Nah.
I like-- you know, I
know you like big cars.
Belal has always been secretive.
It sort of worried me.
I was like, what is he hiding?
What does he have to hide?
This is not real.
This place is dilapidated.
This place is not the
place I want to be at.
I'm getting sick and tired of you
pranking me about this booger in my nose.
I hate this type of joke.
That's an American thing.
I don't know where you
come from, but the environment
I come from, we keep
our hands to ourselves.
All right?
So I can't do this?
So what I'm going to tell you is, stop.
You're going to try to get a wreck.
She's doing this as a joke,
but it's a joke that I don't play.
Yeah, this is the highway.
Yeah.
You thought I was joking.
Wow.
So let's go back to when you
first arrived in the United States.
When Bilal came to Trinidad, I felt
like I rolled out the red carpet for him.
I packed him food.
I bring my parents.
We treated him like royalty, right?
So I was expecting the same
treatment when I come to America.
But to come into that
house, I felt like, man.
And the thing about it is, he wants
me to be grateful and appreciative.
The house, it was not flattering.
What did Shida's
reaction tell you about her?
So I knew it wasn't going to be
like, oh, this is a beautiful home.
But I didn't think she would
have took it as far as she did.
Because I would give examples and say,
let's say if I did have
money and I lost it all,
because I know a lot of
people lose it, would you leave
me or would you stay and
help me rebuild something?
Sounds like there was a constant
test going on there for quite some time.
It's interesting that you use the
word test and you talk about control.
But when it comes to you,
there's not a test or control.
It's not a test.
It's just words of confirmation.
We always talk about the same thing.
We want to build an empire together.
Ari?
Yeah, I just want to say, well, you
always have an answer for everything.
And I think that's suspicious.
I feel like you always
want to like, oh, no, no.
But it's not like this.
It's like this.
Even with her, you're always like--
and then you're telling,
no, you don't feel like this.
You feel like this.
Let's talk about what happened in the car.
Who thinks that Shida was being
too physical with Bilal in the car?
Nobody.
No one.
No one.
Shida, what were you
thinking in the moment?
I think sometimes women test men to
see how what we could get away with.
You said do what?
To see what we could get away with.
Listen.
What was the first thing
you said, though, before that?
This is for me to answer.
She used the word test.
Bilal, he played a prank.
And I was expecting to say,
babe, chill, relax, cool yourself.
Right?
I wasn't expecting him to get so serious.
And that is when I realized when he pulled
us out of the road, I say, you know what?
This man kind of took a joke.
I say, you're dishing
it, but you can't take it.
You know, what's that one?
OK.
OK.
I feel like-- That's
what I'm saying.
If you pulled over, I'm getting out.
I'll get my own Uber.
Like, yeah, bye.
One thing I would never, ever, ever, ever
is kick her out the car, any
woman for that matter, out of the car.
Simply, I wanted her to
stop hitting me in the head.
Again, hindsight,
something I should have did.
Apologize as well to overreacting.
You said, try this being aggressive.
Like as if I was hitting
you in aggressive way.
You haven't seen me aggressive yet.
Trust me.
Yeah, I've seen you aggressive.
I've definitely seen you aggressive.
I want to say something.
I want to be like you whenever I grow up.
Just the way you talk
and you always say sorry.
That's like one of the most important
things because we got to accept.
Well, it's a sales tactic.
He's a salesman.
I mean, that's-- he is an amazing salesman.
That is what-- that is what
we are all witnessing right now.
No one could really get their point across.
And if they do, it's twisted and felted.
It's a manipulation tactic.
And being a salesman, I'm watching in awe.
What do you think about
Patrick's assessment
that the tactic that you use
is kind of like a salesman?
I mean, here's the thing.
I mean, yeah, I'm a salesman.
But you're a salesman.
You're a salesman, like we
all sell at the end of the day.
It's almost like I'm dang
if I do, dang if I don't.
OK.
Patrick, what do you say?
It'll never stop.
You can always control
the conversation in a
way because you know
what to say, when to say.
You know how when you say something,
how that person's going to react.
You know how to drop your tone.
You know how to get people engaged.
It's a habit now.
And how do you think that
manifests itself in their relationship?
Well, easily, like time out, boom,
takes control, immediately puts his aside.
Or when she's saying
something, he's like, OK,
I understand what you're
saying, but this is how I see it.
And then he goes into his point.
Yeah, like I do.
So if I bring across something about
you, I feel like you, like a salesperson,
you have to say back something because
you always have to win that conversation.
So is that what you just saw?
It's all overcoming objections.
Yeah.
Patrick, you know everything.
Well, like, OK, if the comment
is about your behavior,
do you automatically say, well,
but what about your behavior,
as opposed to just concentrating on
fixing the behavior that you started out?
Yes, Sean.
Not really.
That's exactly it.
Yes.
OK.
Yeah, you do that.
Uh-oh.
Now we're getting passive aggressive now.
OK.
You just said OK.
Yeah.
Kind of like shutting it down.
No, whatever she says.
You do that.
And I'm-- I think it's
part of just validating,
like you're just hearing
somebody and validating
them versus always having
to say something back.
Sometimes you just
have to listen and just
validate because that's
good for communication.
I am 100% open to improving, for sure.
I know that I could do things differently.
Sometimes I just don't know, like, when
is the right time for me to say something?
Like, is it ever a right time?
Because if I say
something, then it's selection.
If you write time, it'll
be as a normal day.
And you say, hey, babe, you're not shy.
I don't like how you did so and so.
I'll be like, OK, babe.
Because I know you're coming from
a place you want to improve yourself.
But when you-- when I mention something
that I don't like about you and
you have to mention something
that you don't like about
me, it comes across
like you're deflecting
and trying to, you know,
make me look like, OK,
you have problems too.
OK, Shida made it very clear
that she did not want a prenup.
Shida, had you not gotten those
additional clauses in the prenup?
Were you prepared to go back to Trinidad?
Yeah, I was not getting
married, all those clauses in it.
So I was like, OK, he's
headstrong about having this prenup.
I'm not for a prenup.
So at least let us meet in the middle.
You have to put those two clauses in the
prenup where it will support what I want.
We have to try to make
a baby before I'm 40.
And the second clause is that he will
have set up my business in Kansas City.
He's responsible for that.
Usually, in a contract, it says
this has to happen by this date.
And if it doesn't happen,
then this happens.
Mm-hmm.
So what happens if you
don't have a baby by 40?
You know what?
When I put in that clause, I never
look at anything as if it didn't happen.
So the prenup doesn't say
that anything will happen.
No, it does not say it.
You get divorced.
No.
Or you get more money.
Yeah, I mean-- Like she's
entitled to half your money?
We're basically saying that we're
going to do everything within our power.
Yes.
Because at the end of
the day, it's the will of God.
Right.
Everything within our power
to try to have a children.
All right.
Bilal is still very close
with his ex-wife, Shahida.
She has agreed to join us today,
and we're very excited to have her.
Everyone, please welcome Shahida.
I came to the tell-all
today to state my piece.
There was a breakdown in
the communication with Shaita
and I, and that caused a
breakdown with Bilal and I.
When the truth is revealed,
he'll owe me an apology.
She will too.
And we can move forward
in a positive space from there.
Hi there.
This has been quite a journey
that all of you have been on.
Shahida, Bilal says that after 10 years
of marriage, one of you fell out of love.
Is that how you would describe
what happened to your relationship?
We had had some issues for some time,
and we tried to figure things
out for the sake of the kids.
But when you're unhappy,
you have to take a step back
and do what's best for yourself
first, and then also your kids.
What made you most
unhappy with the marriage?
I wanted a best friend.
I wanted a partner.
And I felt like I was receiving
more of an imam or a father
figure when I was wanting
to hear from my husband.
So lecturing you?
Yes, it was somewhat of a lecture.
All right, who asked for the divorce?
I did.
Around that time, there
was a feeling of unhappiness.
Bilal's very particular about
how he wants the house.
And so when you have two small kids too,
that becomes a problem with
how the house could be in disarray.
So that makes you feel uneasy.
Does the word neat freak come to mind?
He's definitely-- he's
definitely a neat freak.
OK, shy to controlling,
neat freak, lecturing.
Does it give you any
reason to be concerned that
obviously that same
behavior is still there?
I'm seeing a part, and I'll be fair.
Well, in Shahida's
case, she was still young.
But as a woman who's 37, I
still want to work and help him.
I want to work on us.
I'm not going to give
up on my relationships.
OK, what I have noticed since
Shahida first came out here,
if you have not looked
at her, Shida-- OK.
Am I seeing what is actually happening?
Yeah.
OK.
Why have you not even
looked in her direction?
To be completely honest, I still didn't
like how she came at me
at my home in my kitchen.
It still hurts.
When I first came here, I was
hoping for us to have a sisterhood.
I was hoping for she and I
to have a friendly relationship.
But once you show me who you
are, that's when I will withdraw back.
So I'm set to know when I'm listening.
So if I can just unpack it, she's
saying that when I came to her home, my
tone, my delivery, was that of in disrespect.
But what I will say is
when discussing the prenup,
it's a need for you
guys to have a marriage
contract or prenup in
the laws of America.
That's a necessity, especially when
you're coming into a marriage
and you have no assets.
Who coming into a
marriage without no assets?
You don't know me.
You don't know my life back home.
That was Shida Shahida.
OK, when I say no assets, you
don't have a car here in America.
You don't have a home in Trinidad.
You live with your parents.
I can see through all this sh*t.
Y'all really hurt.
Y'all need to really sit
down and talk about it.
It's some bullshit.
And y'all ain't talking about it.
She really trying to open
up and express to you.
But y'all just sitting there,
well, maybe I ain't be with it.
I can cut the tension in this f*cking room.
You know what I mean?
Like, y'all hurt.
Certainly, there are
still some issues there.
I do want to get your comment on what Shahida
has said about her marriage with Bilal.
Like, I'm not going to
knock down everything
she's saying because
I'm hearing her speak.
And I'm saying, oh, I'm seeing
some similarities, you know?
I'm sure he's like-- it's
hitting him where it needs
to hit him, probably
hitting him where it hurts.
So now it's like, I really think he
will make a conscious
decision to do what's best for us.
Hi, Bilal.
Hi.
Tell me what is going
through your mind when you're
hearing both of these women
say those things about you.
It doesn't feel good.
You know, like when you hear lecturing,
those are probably things that I could
probably have done, or neat freak for sure.
But we live in an
oppressive word environment.
And words make people.
Like, words could give you
life, or it could cause destruction.
I'm a loving husband, a dedicated father.
Do I have my faults?
Yeah.
But I'm trying to look internally,
you know, and to prove self.
I got to go to the tool
shed and get to work.
The tool shed and get to work.
Lots to do in the tool shed.
Shahidah, I want to know
what your reaction was to Shida's
reaction to the house
that Bilal took her to.
Oh, wow.
I was saddened for him
by the way that she acted.
Because this is the person that he
told me, yes, she loves me for me.
She would stay in a tent with me.
She couldn't even stay
one day in the house.
And so I was hurt for him
by the way that she acted.
I lived in that house for two years.
That was his family's home.
I was grateful to have a home to come to.
So for her to show that
display, I was taken back.
I was hurt.
I respect her opinion because at the
end of the day, an opinion is like a news.
Everybody has one.
So.
Shahidah, thank you.
I know this was not super
easy for you to come here today.
Thank you.
But I really appreciate
you being here and sharing
your story because we
always want to hear all sides.
Thank you very much for having me.
Thank you guys.
I mean, I actually thought, again,
like everybody seemed to be
not really impressed with Balong,
I thought, you know,
throughout this season.
And I thought that he had
some really good attributes,
like clearly very successful,
very determined, ambitious.
He cared about his children.
He had a good relationship with his ex.
There was a ton of
good qualities about him.
I did feel he was a little kind of
signing a little lecturing to her.
You sound ironic.
I really felt like she was
kind of like a little brat.
I just thought she came
across as like entitled.
He kind of put her in a position
to look like a gold digger.
I'm sorry.
I don't agree.
I just don't.
You don't make fun of somebody's house.
I think she was in shock because
she really pictured him totally different.
And in her mind, he fooled her.
But I think it's kind of even between them.
It can be a toss up.
I feel like the next day she
realized I look like a gold digger.
All right, it's time to focus
on Eve and Muhammad.
You all had a lot of tense
moments during your 90 days.
How are things standing today?
I think things are so much better.
And we're working on our communication.
But of course, I mean, there's adjustments.
I'll be honest, from the beginning, you
guys were the couple for me that I was like,
oh, I really don't know how
this is going to work, you know?
When I came here to America, it took
time to understand the culture more.
I realized that she's a grown woman.
She should be the one
who chooses her clothes.
So you don't care what she wears now?
She can wear anything?
If she wears a bikini
in public, is that OK?
Like, if he saw me going to the store,
like, and I video chatting
and going to the store,
he's like, you're
wearing that to the store.
It'd be like a tank top.
And I'm like, it's hot.
You know, yeah, I'm going to the-- like,
why don't you have something over that?
I just think it's not anybody's place
to tell anybody else how
they should go out of the house
or what makes them
feel comfortable or
projecting their insecurities
on somebody else.
Have you been to Egypt, though?
I have not been to Egypt.
But I understand
culturally, it can be different.
When I go to Egypt, I've
been to Egypt a couple of times.
So there's not a lot of people
running around in bikinis
out there unless you're
on a touristic beach.
So that's why I totally
understand where you are.
I get it, culturally, for sure.
And you're adapting, because
that's what it's all about, adapting.
So I give you a lot of respect for that.
Shukran abibi.
Well, Jaree, how do you feel
about Muhammad saying, OK,
it makes me uncomfortable, but I'm
just going to let you do what you want?
He's saying it in a respectful way.
He's not degrading you.
He's not putting you down.
He's just saying, look, this
makes me feel uncomfortable.
And I can understand your
perspective and how it will look.
So I give you a lot of respect for that.
But then that's a double-edged sword,
because then he can post
himself half-naked all the time.
And it's not an issue.
But if I say-- so it's a double standard.
But that's how it is in this country.
You've got to understand
that it's just different countries.
Yeah, but you just gave
him credit for adapting now.
Now you're saying that's
how it is in his country.
But he's in the US.
So which is it?
He's adapting.
He's adapting, and he's learning.
Muhammad, you said that
you felt Eve had anger issues.
She reacts a lot when we get in
agreement or something like that.
I mean, I think it goes
down to communication,
because he can say
things that are very mean,
like saying he's going to go
back to Egypt and things like
that kind of thing, which is
really hurtful kind of thing.
Because it's more hurtful for a man to be
turned by his wife that I'm supporting you.
You know, like-- Yeah,
but that's hurtful, too,
to say you're going to
leave and go back to Egypt.
I say that to protect myself.
Speaking of hurtful things, Muhammad,
you told Eve that you
would find another sponsor.
Why I said that?
Why did you say that?
Because she didn't have her taxes done.
That was the reason why
she's denied my paperwork.
But that screams like red flag green card.
That screams replaceable.
I just wanted to like to find--
You're like, that's hurtful.
When you're like, I'm
going to go back to Egypt,
oh, I'm going to find a new
sponsor, like, oh, I'd be pissed.
Eve, when Muhammad arrived, he seemed
to think that you were going to
completely change your life for him.
Do you feel in any way that you let him on?
No, absolutely not.
Without him asking me,
I kind of took note of his
culture and changed things
before he even arrived.
Like, what kinds of things did you change?
Not having alcohol in my home.
And then there were still a lot of
things that came up that I was just like--
it was-- talk about reverse culture
shock, because I'm in my culture.
And then he was saying, oh, you can't
be in the room with a
handyman that's doing something.
We are very protective for
the woman in my religion.
These handymen, I don't know who is that.
If she's inside the house, I'm
not saying you cannot let him in.
I am just saying that, like, be careful.
Let me know if I'm in the
house so I can be with you.
You know?
I know, like, in America, that's fine.
But in my country, that's very
understandable, you know?
But-- For a woman,
a married woman, not
to be in the same room
with another man by herself?
By herself.
Like, at least, like, there's
a door open or something.
I just want to know,
Bilal, is that the case?
If you're not home and let's
say a worker comes over,
is Shida not to be in the house or
the room by herself with another man?
It's not that she can't.
It's just a simple fact.
Like, I think what Muhammad
is trying to convey is that we
put a heavy emphasis on
protecting the women at all costs.
In Islam, women are put on a pedestal.
And so that's not saying anything
that, oh, we don't trust the women.
We don't trust men.
And again, there's a difference,
too, between religion and culture.
So some of the things
he's speaking on is religion,
but also a lot of what he's speaking
on, too, is their culture as well.
But typically speaking, like,
you know, you try not to--
you know, as a woman, be
in the company by yourself
with someone who isn't,
like, a close, like, male relative.
And Shida, do you understand
why Muhammad got upset?
Who was it?
A worker coming in to--
To install the bidet for him.
--put it in the bidet?
For his booty.
I understand how Muhammad's reaction was,
because that was, like,
a natural cultural reaction.
But sometimes in a situation like for me,
I grew up in a Muslim
household, but it was only women.
My mom raised six girls.
So we-- if a plum is coming
home, it's just women.
Sometimes you can't do better.
And I think it's all about your intention.
So I understand Eve a lot, because I
was raised in a house full of women.
And we had to make decisions out there.
I mean, turn out it's not a Muslim society.
And we have to roll with the punches.
That's all I'm saying.
What were you expecting,
you know, getting married
to an Egyptian man, a
blind man with specs,
who could have seen this
happen, was going to happen?
What has your family said about
the types of pictures she posts?
Initially, when we started talking,
I remember the day that he said,
oh, I showed my mother your picture.
And I was thinking, oh, my gosh.
Like, what is she going to think?
Like, what picture did you show her?
I was just like, oh, does your mom
think that, like, it's blasphemous?
Like, here this American woman is, and she
has this blonde hair, and this and that.
And he was just-- he told me.
He said, you know, in my
religion, we don't judge people.
We don't-- he told me that then.
So I never, you know, felt like I
had to, like, change who I was.
But Muhammad--
We talk about converting.
It has to come from her, you know?
Not me telling her to convert or something.
OK.
All right.
We are going to hear more from
Eve and Muhammad a little later
when we'll be joined by
a member of Eve's squad.
Now let's move on over
to Kara and Guillermo.
Kara's high school boyfriend, Chris,
had a lot to say to Guillermo
at Kara's high school reunion.
Let's take a look at how that went down.
I haven't seen my
ex-boyfriend Chris in 10 years.
You know, it was like a huge transition
going from high school to university.
And I think I was growing a lot.
And so the relationship didn't
feel conducive to my soul.
Anyways, you live and you learn.
I'm not going to lie.
We were in love bad.
What happened?
They called puppy mags.
But what happened?
Go ahead.
I would like to kiss.
We've never talked about it.
Whoa.
She's asleep.
I'm up.
So I would go through her text messages.
She was like, it was so good seeing you.
Like, that kiss was amazing.
What do you think I did?
He probably lost it.
Woke her up out of her sleep.
Said, what is this?
Through the phone, I left.
I'd never touch a woman again.
I don't see them working out.
And the reason why is because, you
know, he's kind of shy, kind of quiet.
He's not enough man, you know what I mean?
Right.
Well, Chris was eager to
come here to share a few more
secrets about Kara's past
that may surprise Guillermo.
Let's bring him out right now.
Everyone, please welcome Chris.
Jesus.
Oh, yeah, you shine.
Hey, hey, hey.
OK.
What's up, Guillermo?
How does it feel being out
here and-- Oh, it feels good.
OK.
Guillermo, you're fine with Chris?
OK.
First of all, Chris, how
long did you and Kara date?
Over two years.
Over two years?
Yeah.
OK.
High school to college.
So how serious were things?
Oh, it was serious.
It was serious.
Talked about weddings, all that stuff.
Chris, you said that you and
Kara had a wild relationship.
Why did you describe it that way?
Oh, it was wild.
It was very wild.
We did what we wanted, when
we wanted, wherever we wanted.
OK.
Kara?
Yeah, I think we were like horny teenagers.
Chris had mentioned that
you had cheated on him.
And you said it was once, maybe twice?
OK, so I'm just going to tell this-- because
he got to tell his side of the story.
OK.
And I'm just going to tell mine.
In my mind-- and I think I didn't
communicate this well enough, obviously--
when I left college, I
was leaving all of it.
I was leaving him.
I was leaving that life behind.
I was moving on to my future.
In my mind, we were not still like a thing.
In my mind, it was over.
Why are you shaking your head, Chris?
Bullshit.
Oh, man.
Bullshit.
That's all.
No one is perfect.
No one is perfect.
I cheated before.
And I was wrong, but I learned about it.
Has anyone else here ever
cheated on their partner?
She would consider it cheating.
I called my exes and said, hey, I apologize
how I handled things before in the past.
I was immature.
I was acting like a
playboy, acting like this.
I apologized to you guys.
I told Miona that I called all of my exes.
We almost broke up because of that.
Yeah, she did the same thing.
Kobe took his ex out on a
date when I was at home
with our son in another
country and paid for it.
Oh, my god.
So how pissed would y'all
be because I wasn't happy?
I would be mad.
Right?
I told you.
You didn't tell me right away.
You weren't like, hey, babe,
today I'm going out to lunch.
It was like weeks later.
Weeks later.
Babe.
I'm like, what the f*ck?
So Chris, let me ask you this question.
You said that Guillermo
was not man enough for Kara.
Do you still think that?
I don't know.
I-- yeah.
m*therf*cker.
Nobody can tell me how much
or how less I am a man I am.
The only person could
say that is just myself.
And I love myself a lot.
And I love you, too.
Good.
I like it.
Man enough for me, clearly.
You got to leave Ozzy Osbourne in the past.
You got James Bond now.
You know what I'm saying?
So you got to move on.
You got to upgrade.
Man, you old news.
You heard about her.
Get over it.
I'm old news.
Get on with your life.
Learn to trust women.
Bullshit.
You're good.
You'll figure it out, man.
In my opinion, you should
just say sorry to him.
Yeah, no.
I'm sorry that I did
not fully break that off.
I just-- I didn't feel
like I owed him at that
point an explanation for
who I was going to kiss.
I just didn't.
Oh, no.
Yeah, you understand.
We're grown and stuff now, Guillermo.
I appreciate you saying that, too, bro.
I'm a toddler at the end of the day.
Bro, yeah.
I'm also not enough man,
so-- You're a very smart toddler.
Well, Chris, we want to thank
you so much for coming on
and sharing your story with
us so openly and honestly.
We really appreciate it.
Thank you for having me.
Karen Guillermo, thank you so
much for sharing your journey with us.
We are so happy for your growing family.
Thank you.
Is this how you act when you
meet one of Veronica's exes?
You know what?
I hate when Veronica tells people about me.
We haven't been together for 10 years.
I'm a completely different
person than I was then.
So I-- dude, you don't know
what she's like now, dude.
That was in high school.
I think Karen Guillermo
have come a long way.
I think she's mellowed out some.
They're pregnant.
They're going to have a family.
I think he's-- I think he's kind of mature.
They're good for each other now.
The boyfriend-- Oh, my god.
He's got to go.
He needs to grow up
and just move the hell out.
I mean, he's a character.
I'll never forget that guy.
I will say that.
But like, he should never
be a part of their lives again.
Never.
Move on.
Right now, I want to jump
back in with Patrick and Tais.
One recurring issue between Patrick and
Tais centered around Tais' father, Carlos.
Carlos never felt that Patrick
was a good match for Tais.
And ultimately, he refused
to bless their wedding.
Tais, would you say that
your father likes Patrick today?
We got to know him.
We got to yes.
I don't know.
Well, we reached out to Carlos.
And he agreed to join us remotely
from Tais' hometown in Brazil.
Here he is to share his
thoughts on his daughter's
new marriage and speak
face to face with Patrick.
Please welcome Carlos.
Now, Carlos, you did not even want
your daughter to get married to Patrick.
How did you feel learning
they were expecting a baby?
Tais, how did your dad react when
you told him you were pregnant?
Patrick, is there anything you
want to say to your father-in-law?
Carlos, I'm going to
have the same problem
you have with Tais,
because we have a girl.
Oh, you're having a baby girl?
Yeah.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
OK.
I said girl.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
My daughter is always welcome.
She is a blessing in our lives.
I don't want Patrick to be a bad father.
I don't want him to like me.
I want him to like my daughter.
Treating my daughter well.
The important thing
is not me liking Patrick.
Who has to like her is Tais.
She likes making my daughter happy.
That's what's important.
Got it?
Dad.
What am I going to say?
Speak.
I miss you so much.
No.
All right.
I miss you so much.
As soon as I have my visa, I'll visit you.
OK?
I love you.
You don't know how good it
is to hear about your daughter.
Nowadays, people on the internet say that
they have a daughter who loves her father.
I'm very happy to see my
daughter say that she loves me.
I love her so much.
I miss her so much.
I really miss her so much.
I'll visit her anytime.
OK?
We know that you love your
daughter very much, Carlos.
We really appreciate you joining us.
You can see the love
between the two of you.
And congratulations on
your granddaughter-to-be.
Thank you, Carlos.
Ciao, buddy.
Ciao, Fiat.
An important aspect to
Patrick and Tais' relationship
was Tais' volatile chemistry
with Patrick's brother, John.
And we're going to bring him out right now.
Come on out, John.
Hey, John.
Hey, John.
How are you doing?
What's up, John?
How you guys doing?
Everybody's all dressed fancy, huh?
OK.
Pretty smiles, everybody.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
All looking sharp.
What's going on?
John, so you have been a major
part of Patrick and Tais' journey.
You are going to be an uncle.
I know, huh?
How did you feel about that?
I'm excited.
I'm excited.
It was a total shock.
But I was happy for him.
I might have gotten
drunk and told a friend.
But I forgot I told her that I was smashed.
And I looked at her and said, sweet.
Yeah, the girl was like on
my Instagram, congratulations.
I was like, congratulations for what?
Because we even told my family, yeah.
No, congratulations for your baby.
I was, who told you?
John?
I was just like, you know, probably was me.
But I don't remember.
And I'm like, that was
like three weeks ago.
You drunk right now?
JaPri.
Drunk?
Yeah, how many beers
you drank this morning, bro?
Nothing, man.
I had six last night.
Damn.
You had 12-pack this morning.
I don't know, man.
Your sparkles are blinding me, though, bro.
I don't know if I can focus up in here.
Yeah, they shining off your head, boy.
I can see that.
Yeah, put that.
OK, everybody, take a breath.
Let's move on.
Clearly, John and Tais's interactions
were contentious, to say the least.
Let's take a look.
What is this, John?
What is this, what?
Beer?
Beer?
In the morning.
You know what beer is?
Man, she knows what beer is.
Beer is-- There's
beer in Brazil.
I don't know.
She's asking a question.
Again, OK, John?
No, no, no.
I live here, too.
Hm?
I live here, too.
How crazy people drink beer in the morning.
Crazy?
I know crazy.
In the morning.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
How are you going to say crazy?
Come on.
Come on.
Don't say.
No, no, no.
Let's not do this.
You arrive one day.
I'm sitting here playing a video game.
You're going to pull this?
If I have a beer at 11, 12 in the
afternoon, what does that matter to her?
We should be ourselves and individuals.
And if that's a problem, you know, I bite.
Bachelor party?
Surprise?
You don't even know we're
going to have like 100 hookers?
There's no bachelor party.
You don't even know.
Don't even remember that.
Hello.
What you guys can do is
like you guys can-- Really?
I was listening, OK?
Over there.
You need to take care of your life.
What are you talking about?
I was listening.
Everything.
What did I say?
Whipped.
You know, I already know
how this is going to go.
So that's why I'm going to throw a
bachelor bow and have t*tties in the face.
OK, John.
Yeah, what happened there, right?
Yeah.
You were definitely, as
Ha'yee said, trash talking her.
You got me.
You got me.
I mean, I got you.
I got you.
I got you.
I got you.
You got me. You got me.
I mean, I got to be honest with you.
Yeah, I'm guilty.
That was my bad, you know?
Well, I love him, and I
want them to be happy.
Like, I think she's good for him,
and I think they're good for each other.
Like, it's just, you know,
I'm a combative person.
So if you say something to
me, then I fire back, you know?
Do you think your brother is whipped?
Ha!
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, without a doubt.
I love you, though.
Love you.
But you're definitely whipped.
You whipped.
You happy.
You're going to have a happy family.
You won't.
OK, Spackles.
You won't.
OK, Spackles.
Your a*s will never.
I'm just glad you don't
have your cowboy hat on.
Man.
You know what?
I probably pissed my pants and laughed.
I feel bad for you, bro.
I feel bad for you.
Yippee-ki-yay, Woody.
You a joke.
You a joke.
I was just having a conversation with
him, but then you opened your mouth.
No, you a joke.
And then I have to respond.
I apologize.
You need to stop third wheeling, bro.
Third wheeling?
Yeah, you all in they business.
Like, this your brother, bro.
How's your family doing on the farm?
It's not your brother.
You got to treat them like your brother.
Are you still living at home?
Are you still living at home?
And then you talk about--
Are you still living at home, bro?
You talking about your girl right now.
Come on, Spackles.
You talking about your
brother's girl right now.
Come on.
Get off the titty, bro.
Get off the titty.
This is going to
be-- look at that.
Look at your brother.
He's happy.
I'm happy for him.
You're only at home drinking six
packs of beer playing video games.
Chill.
Next time on "90 Day
Fiancé," the couples tell all.
Are you crying?
No, I ain't crying.
It sounds like you're crying.
I don't want it to escalate to that point.
You know what I mean?
Well, if you're going to
bring it, bro, you got to take it.
Yes, I ain't taking nothing you've given.
You're going to be the one taking a lot.
It's OK, Spackles.
Yeah, I'm going to knock him
out if you bring him up there.
No, you're not.
No, you're not.
That's not how that story ends.
You were like, oh, come
say bye to my sisters.
After they just threw wine on her, I
was like-- Yeah, that was messed up.
Like, that's your wife,
the mother of your child.
Where's the line?
No one deserves to have
a wine thrown at their face.
They could have handled
that situation differently.
Like, I feel for her.
What does raising two kids
do to your own intimacy?
So-- We haven't had
sex in a long time.
It's like, sh*t, if you put it
in me, I'm getting pregnant.
I think you need to talk to Bilal, because
he knows how to not get a woman pregnant.
The squad was pretty critical of Mohammed.
Please welcome Tatiana.
I just want to ask of
any of the other couples
if their person had ever told them
that they would get another sponsor.
Oh.
These are my personal things, you know?
But my question is, why?
It's not anybody business.
Stop.
We need to chill.
When I got with Miona, you
wasn't necessarily happy, bro.
You was just literally looking at
our situation like, huh, must be nice.
This is my wife.
This ain't my girlfriend no more.
She brought me the wrong way.
One, two.
This is some f*cking bullshit.
That's f*cking-- oh.
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