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"90 day fiancé"...
ugh!
i am a little worried
about the apartment.
it is a major downgrade
from where she's living now
in jakarta.
you had cheated on her,
so that's why i hate you.
you're not just coming over here
to marry my man
for a green card,
are you?
you could always
break this off.
i'm not the one that did
the things that you did.
the past is the past.
olga's having contractions.
i know we got to go now.
am i allowed in the room?
i'm not missing
the birth of my son.
colt:
now that larissa is here,
i feel like it's a good time
to propose to her.
wanna get married?
you giving up your whole life
for this woman.
you can't take a baby
out of the car seat!
this situation definitely
makes me doubt
wanting to marry asuelu.
jonathan:
she could've pressed charges.
then they never give you
your citizenship.
then you have to go back
to mexico, and then what?
steven: i'm so scared, because
i don't feel prepared at all
for this moment.
fernanda!
fernanda!
of course i do.
we're good.
i wasn't dancing with her.
i told her i couldn't
dance with her.
i said, "my fiancée's about
to be right back."
stop.
fernanda.
she's not even my type.
all i did --
you went to the bathroom.
i was standing there.
she came and tried
to dance with me. i said, "no.
i have a fiancée.
she'll be here in a second."
jonathan:
i'm insulted by the fact
that fernanda feels like
i don't respect her.
i know it didn't look good,
if you're coming out
of the bathroom and you see --
you know,
see that situation happening.
but i clearly
didn't do anything.
but fernanda doesn't care.
let's talk about it
when we get to the hotel.
i think fernanda's
a little too young for her
to be able to handle
this situation in a mature way.
this is basically
what my friends
have been trying
to warn me about.
it's very frustrating --
um, very, very frustrating.
every night we go out
can't end in a huge fight.
and to be honest, this has
to get better in order for me
to go through
with this marriage.
steven: last night,
olga went into labor.
careful.
the birth of our son
is not happening later today.
it's not happening tomorrow.
it's happening right now.
the doctor ended up
recommending a c-section
because the baby's too big
for her small hips.
hmm?
mm-hmm, yes.
definitely.
i'm scared because it's all
just so confusing to me.
all the doctors around me
are speaking russian.
i have no idea
what they're saying.
i really wish
we were in america.
steven:
i can feel my entire world
changing.
i'm no longer a kid no more.
it's a scary feeling.
i don't want to mess up.
i want to give him
a really good life.
everything that i wanted
when i grew up,
he's gonna be able to have.
he's gonna be able to have
a father to talk to,
go out and do things with.
he's gonna have the childhood
i wanted to have.
i always wanted to name
my first son after my father.
olga was cool with it,
so we decided
to name our son richie.
steven: yeah.
but he was so like --
steven:
the joy that's going through me
right now, you don't understand.
you cannot give specific words
for how happy you are
when this moment
does come in your life.
steven: we're new.
we're trying to figure out,
how do we be in a relationship
and be parents?
and when olga's k-1 visa
gets approved,
i know that i can give olga
and the baby a better life
in america.
darling.
everything happens?
it opens the doors,
and...
it starts talking to you?
colt:
larissa's very impulsive.
and she constantly
wants to buy things.
she has no idea the cost
of things in america.
she honestly thinks
we can buy a car for $500.
i want to make her happy,
but at the same time,
i have to be realistic.
we need something
that's reasonably priced.
i mean,
you don't have a job.
you don't have credit.
so it's all --
the onus is on me, once again.
of what?
no, that's not
how it works.
you have 0% of the money
and 70% of the decisions?
that doesn't make
any sense.
it's stressful for me.
i don't know how you feel.
well, it's kind of a big
decision, buying a couch.
it's not like
we're buying a plant.
-hello, guys.
-i'm colt.
-colt?
-yes.
-larissa.
-jason.
-hi, jason.
-what are you guys looking for?
we're looking for a car.
-of course.
-yeah.
we have different opinions,
i think.
okay.
-luxury?
-yes.
of course,
we've got luxury here.
of course.
come on down.
luxury?
oh!
yes.
oh, yes.
this is what she wants.
get in there.
-three-row seater.
-three rows?
jason: plenty of room
for family.
see?
well, that's
the most important thing.
yes.
-how much is this?
-this?
yeah, what's
the starting price?
uh, $23,000.
well,
i wouldn't say that.
can we look at the car
over there?
-of course.
-cool.
need to find a car
that's more reasonably priced
for our needs right now.
$10,000.
jason:
it's spacious inside.
-it's bigger on the inside.
-it's bigger on the inside.
check it out.
i am a big guy.
i didn't say i needed
to buy a small car.
i'm not a clown.
oh, my god.
nuh-uh.
-no?
-$9,000.
-$9,000!
-2017.
-2017!
factory warranty,
got good a/c.
-it does.
-got bluetooth, still.
it's in the middle
of something compact and suv.
-sexy? okay.
-no.
i love the -- the suv,
but it's not realistic.
i mean, we have to get
a wedding -- a venue place.
i love you.
ring, guests,
honeymoon, food.
it's a nice car, but we have
other expenses right now.
it's not a high priority
for me to get us a new car.
something that we should
talk about after the wedding.
well, it is difficult,
but not impossible.
our car still works.
it functions.
and we have a wedding to pay
for in less than 90 days.
what is --
what happened?
i am, like,
in blackout rage mode.
what the happened?
ashley: ooh!
some fruit and vegetables.
jay's only been here
a few weeks,
and it's been incredibly hectic.
i still don't feel like
he's getting comfortable.
and natalie confronted jay
at his surprise party.
i don't want anything coming
between our relationship.
and you can't choose
your family,
but you can choose
your friends.
and i thought my friends
would support me
even if i was making
a bad choice.
and obviously, they don't.
so i can't be friends
with natalie anymore.
acorn squash.
it's a vegetable.
coffee.
markets in jamaica, like,
it's quite different
'cause, like,
there's, like, chickens
running around,
dogs running around.
maybe you see a few cows,
as well.
fudge.
you know, honestly,
i thought this was gonna be --
you thought what?
you like these?
dill pickle.
you want to get them?
you want two,
since you like them so much?
all right.
i get cheese with mine
to dip it in.
you're uncomfortable?
yeah, you definitely are.
before jay came
to the u.s.,
we definitely talked about
that it would be
a little different,
you know.
i explained to him i live
on the west shore of town.
they call the west shore
"white shore."
what is it?
i don't know,
it's like a light.
hmm.
yeah, i mean,
i didn't realize people
would stare at us
so much.
you're so stupid.
mm-hmm.
unfortunately, that's, like,
the reality of racism.
i know.
it infuriates me,
honestly.
ashley: i understand
what jay's going through.
i know he's feeling isolated
with, like, you know,
there's not a lot
of black people in my area.
and to me, i was very naive
to the whole situation.
so coming here was definitely
an eye-opener.
i'm just hopeful that it's --
you know, it's not something
that makes
jay want to go back
over to jamaica.
it's just something i guess
we're gonna have to get used to.
kalani: before asuelu got to
america, i quit my job.
and i spent so much money
on asuelu,
visiting him
and bringing him here,
that can't really afford
the airbnb anymore.
so my parents offered to let us
live in their
vacation house in utah.
but i'm sad to leave california,
and i'm nervous because
we're starting off our life
in a space
that's new to both of us.
but we have no other options.
all right. ready?
well, let's go.
our first road trip.
this should be
interesting, huh?
you ready?
you make sure
it's tight enough.
seatbelt
for you, too, babe.
let's rock and roll.
i don't know how to feel
about moving to utah.
i'm excited to live there
with asuelu and my son,
but i am from california,
born and raised my whole life.
so i'm going through
all of these life changes
without the people
that i need the most,
and i feel like
going through stuff
and not having my sister
is a strange experience for me.
but i'm just hoping
for the best.
yeah.
freeways are dangerous.
i used to hate driving
on the freeways
when i first
started driving.
we'll get you a license.
and i -- tch, tch, tch, tch,
whee-ooh-whee-ooh-whee!
the drive is nice.
we're, like, chatting things up.
um, no.
no, cars are not $100.
we're looking at things.
we're pointing out different
things he's never seen.
it's going good so far.
here, baby.
he likes this.
thank you.
i know, my baby.
yeah, huh?
can you make
bee make noise, please?
it's so annoying.
why are you --
what?
no, it's me and my sister's
word, "it's annoying."
you're annoying, and you're kind
of annoying right now.
no, baby,
i am laughing!
-hey, what happened?
-shh, shh, shh.
shh, shh.
-yeah, see?
you're so annoying
that you made your child cry.
shh, shh.
baby, shh, shh, shh.
what happened to him?
what is --
what happened?
what the
happened?
baby! shh, shh.
shh, shh, shh.
you can't take a baby
out of a car seat!
oh, my gosh.
what is --
what happened?
- shh.
- what the happened?
shh, shh, shh.
you can't take a
baby out of the thing!
oh, my gosh.
you can't take a baby out of
a car seat on the road!
you -- you wait
until you're out of it.
you --
i can't even.
hey. hey. in america,
you can't take a baby
out of the car seat
on the road, baby.
we're going fricking
give me the baby!
i am, like,
in blackout rage mode.
i feel like i have
no control over myself.
i feel like if we were not
in the car,
i probably would deck him.
you put a pacifier
in their mouth.
you don't pull them out
of the car seat
while we're driving and doing
fricking 80 miles an hour.
what if one of these cars
hits me?
he's flying
out of the fricking front.
are you okay?
what happened?
we have to put you back
in the car seat.
this isn't safe, okay?
here you go.
go back with daddy.
daddy's gonna put you
back in, okay?
all right.
-shh, shh, shh.
-it's okay.
shh, shh, shh.
shh, shh, shh.
shh, shh.
tutu,
tu, tu, tu, tu.
okay, i'm gonna have to get off
the next exit.
shh, baby.
oh, man.
okay, here we go.
here we go.
pass him to me, please.
come here.
i'm sorry.
at least we don't
have to move stuff.
okay, baby? i'm sorry i --
can you look at me, please?
baby?
i'm sorry
i cussed at you.
oh, my gosh.
don't do that to me.
do you have
your seat belt on?
baby? hello, do you have
your seat belt on?
can you put your
seat belt on, please?
kalani:
asuelu and i aren't talking.
we're kind of both
just exhausted and annoyed
with each other.
we don't even make it
to our new house.
we just stop off at some hotel.
this situation
with the baby definitely
makes me doubt
wanting to marry asuelu.
can you take this,
please?
i feel like the conversations
i had with my sister,
i was like,
"if he does stupid things
with the baby,
obviously, i'm not gonna put
the baby in danger."
and then one of the first
trips we take,
he does something
dangerous with the baby.
eric:
and, welcome home.
yeah.
well, that's tasha.
i told her to clean up.
oh!
my family is
very well-respected family.
we live in a really
good neighborhood and...
yeah.
-oh.
-yeah.
oh.
oh.
yosephine: whoa.
ah! ooh!
whoa.
oh.
yeah.
it's your fault.
surprise.
that's why
i didn't tell you.
last night we went to a club,
and jonathan was dancing
with another girl.
this supposed to be
a romantic vacation.
but now,
i just want to get home.
last night was the biggest
fight we've ever had.
and i'm hoping fernanda
has slept off her anger.
i know i didn't
do anything wrong.
so if fernanda doesn't see that,
i don't know what that means
for the rest of the 90 days.
that's old.
listen.
i'm really sorry
about last night.
i know how it looked.
so i understand.
but i didn't do --
i had my hands up.
i was waiting for you
to get there.
if i had just come back
from the bathroom
and i had seen someone
dancing on you,
i wouldn't have
just assumed
that you were doing
something wrong.
i mean, baby,
you can't act that way.
if you were to get in trouble,
she could've pressed charges.
do you know
what that means for us?
they'd never give you
your citizenship.
you know, if we lose that,
then what do we have?
then you have to go
back to mexico, and then what?
it's okay with you
to go back to mexico.
it's your fault.
i said,
"i can't dance with you."
that's what i did.
and you walked up
right at that moment.
okay.
okay?
okay?
we've sacrificed
a lot to get to this point.
i love you so much.
i would never do anything
to hurt you.
baby, i love you so much.
i care about you so much.
okay?
i hate to see you
this upset.
i hate to see you cry.
jonathan: i'll accept the fact
that it didn't look great.
and i'm really conscious of the
fact that it affected fernanda.
i see how it would've looked.
and she needs to know
that no matter what,
i love her to death.
i want you to know
how sorry i am.
i mean that.
i'm not just saying that.
i mean that.
i know.
it's your fault.
i pay a lot
for my makeup.
fernanda's expl*sive.
i've seen her do
some crazy things,
so i just want to try to avoid
that as much as possible.
and when i introduce her
to my family,
this kind of thing
cannot happen in front of them.
eric: i'm not sure if my mother
completely supports my decision,
marrying larissa.
so, i'm thinking about proposing
to her pretty soon.
life will not be dull.
don't tell me what to do.
like, it's my kid.
i'm gonna tell you one thing.
you're not gonna be an to me.
larissa has been here
for a few weeks now,
and she's very disappointed that
between the couch and the car,
she's not getting
what she wants.
i want to make her happy,
so today
i'm gonna fix that
and give her a ring.
when i first proposed
to larissa,
i didn't have a ring.
but now larissa is here,
and i'm looking forward
to putting the ring
on her finger.
we've had a tough start,
and i hope she accepts it.
hey.
i want your opinion
on something.
okay.
ooh.
what do you think?
she wanted
a big stone, so.
-oh?
-yeah.
so i'm thinking about proposing
to her pretty soon.
i'm not sure if my mother
completely supports my decision,
marrying larissa.
i think my mother loves me
and wants the best for me,
but i don't think
she's yet convinced
that larissa
is the right woman for me.
-you love her?
-i love her very much.
well, that's just
what's important.
i love her enough
to put up with her crap.
life will not be dull.
life will not be dull.
-mm-hmm.
-that's okay.
life needs
to some excitement.
debbie: i think larissa and colt
have a lot of obstacles
in front of them.
they're gonna need
a lot of patience.
i don't know that larissa
has a lot of patience.
but she's gonna have to learn
to have some,
you know, work on it.
well, once larissa and i
get married,
we'll have to figure out what to
do with our joint bank account.
we'll have to add
her onto it,
especially once
she gets a job, obviously.
i really like the idea of having
a pooled sum of money.
we all
live together, so.
you want my name
off of it, or --
-no.
-okay, all three of us on one?
i think that's fine.
you just have to
explain to her...
how it works?
...yeah, and put her
on a budget sometimes.
no, i know.
i think larissa has plans
on me moving out
after they get married.
we'll have to wait and see.
i'm gonna
run back upstairs.
you want to put that away,
hiding it somewhere,
or you want me to --
-you wanna hold onto it?
sure.
i think when larissa and i
do get married,
it'll be more real
to my mother to like,
"well, she's not leaving,
i guess."
i mean, right now, basically, we
have like a 90-day return policy
or just something like that.
but once we say "i do," then
she's here for the long haul.
steven: it's been a few days now
since olga's given birth
to our son, richie.
and i'm hoping that she's
finally getting discharged
from the hospital today.
i haven't been able to spend
more than an hour a day
with him, and it's
beyond frustrating for me.
i flew all the way to russia
to be with them,
and all of these russian rules
are keeping us apart.
so i just can't wait to bring
olga and the baby home.
the next step is to get my son
his american citizenship,
and for olga's k-1 visa
to be approved.
and then we can all go over
to america as a family.
hey.
oh, yeah.
hi!
okay, so what's the news?
are you okay?
-mm-hmm.
-and?
can you come home
with me?
-yes!
-yes.
ow.
oh, i'm sorry. gotta be gentle.
gotta be gentle.
i've got --
steven:
i've barely had the chance
to get to know my son
over the past couple of days.
so it really hurts me when olga
tells me not to touch him.
like, it's my kid.
let me learn on my own.
relax.
no, olga.
it's -- it's fine.
so, leave the baby,
and you go get dressed.
he's not eating.
go get dressed.
all right, olga.
come on, seriously. dress time.
let's go home.
it's so frustrating to me
that the day that we get
to leave the hospital,
olga's taking her time.
all i want is to bring olga
and the baby home.
i've been waiting
for a long time.
so i feel like if we don't need
to be in the hospital,
i don't want to be
in the hospital.
i can do it.
he can throw up on me
if he throws up.
you go get dressed.
-i will!
-now, please.
now.
i've already
done it all, again.
when?
i did it when
i first walked in, yes.
pick up what?
is it hard
to be nice?
literally, you could say
"please," olga.
when olga criticizes me
and tries to tell me what to do,
it really can set me off.
i just get really defensive.
i come from a family
who does have anger problems.
now that i'm a dad,
i don't want to be talked
to that i did growing up.
i want it to be
completely different.
i want to make sure i'm getting
into a marriage
that i know
is not gonna be unhealthy.
i'm gonna tell you
one thing.
you're not gonna be
an to me.
seriously,
you're not gonna be.
no, you
are not gonna be an.
grab your own stuff.
you want to be
an a*s, find it.
you want to be an a*s,
you can look.
olga.
baby's hungry.
olga?
hey.
i'm really nervous about asuelu
meeting my brother, nick.
i got you a gift,
from my own personal stash.
i can tell.
kalani: today's our first
morning in utah.
asuelu is still
not talking to me,
and i really don't care
at this point.
you're already packed
everything in, yeah?
i apologized, so i feel like
he should talk to me.
but he's just ignoring me.
and we still have
a little bit of driving to do.
we didn't even make it all the
way to the new house last night.
you need help?
i don't even know
which one it is.
kalani: oh, yeah.
it was a really uncomfortable
car ride to the new house.
asuelu likes to shut down
when we have fights
and just ignore me,
but over time, he kind of gets
over it and will talk to me.
so i just feel like
i need to give him space
when he does that.
yeah, it's cute.
so, we're moving into
my parents' retirement home
with my brother, nick.
my parents don't live
in the house full time.
it's like their second home,
their retirement home.
but they will be
vacationing there a lot.
got him?
yeah.
i like the color.
hello?
nick?
no?
mom? dad?
anyone?
i'm really nervous about asuelu
meeting my brother, nick,
just because i haven't
really told my brother much
about asuelu.
so basically, all he knows
about asuelu is my dad
and my sister don't like him.
but i don't really know
how asuelu and nick
being together will go.
hey!
-hey.
hey.
what do you want me to call you?
that's way too long.
american --
i'm really loud, so.
i got you a gift,
all right?
so, it's from my own
personal stash.
there's that.
that's for you.
oh, my goodness gracious.
nick gave asuelu a condom.
my brother is a jokester,
but i feel like
when you first meet
someone's significant other,
you probably shouldn't just
be like, "here's a condom."
i can tell.
-wow.
-come here.
why are you giving my fiancé
a condom?
well,
you already got one.
let's make sure we can
take care of this one
before we have
another one.
okay. so, living
arrangement-wise, you're --
so, mom and dad
will be up there with me.
and downstairs is
where you guys will be.
all right.
can we look around, then?
yeah, you guys are good
to go down there.
i got to get ready for work.
-all right.
-all right, i'll see you, nick.
-nice to meet you, too.
i am her oldest brother,
and i do take responsibility
of not only her,
but my nephew.
i just really want to
get to know him
because in my mind,
they don't know each other.
i love my sister,
and so i think it's important
for asuelu to understand
that my sister doesn't need him.
and i'm extremely protective.
so, what did you think
about meeting my brother?
no, i don't know.
sl*t people
don't use condoms.
smart people
don't use condoms.
-oh.
-i mean, if you don't want to
have a baby,
it's what people use.
i thought we agreed on, like,
two, maybe three.
monkey's only
five months old.
so what, you want to have
another baby already?
no, not right now.
we kind of have to, like,
plan and figure out,
like you're not working,
i'm not working.
so it would be kind of dumb
to have a baby.
asuelu has no idea how expensive
it is to have a kid in america.
i think he is used
to how things are in samoa
where he just thinks like,
"oh, i'll just go in the back
and, like, grab a pineapple
and feed my baby."
it's different.
you have to buy formula.
you have to buy diapers.
there's taxes.
you have to have
your kid go to school,
and what if you
want to pay for school?
there's all these other factors
that you have to consider.
we definitely need to
get on the same page
before the end of the 90 days.
you need to get some tension
out on this bag.
i didn't consult with my family
before i asked fernanda
to marry me.
i knew they would have
some problems with it.
are you serious?
you didn't talk with your mom
at all about me?
-i'm 20.
-you 20? hold up.
you 20, getting married
in a month.
they think that, you know,
me getting married is a bad idea
because i'm young.
-you ready, baby?
-yeah.
jonathan and i,
we had fights before,
but not one like this
in the club on the beach.
but i forgive him because
he's the only person
that i have here.
we got to come back
and clean up a little bit.
and i think he understands
all the things
i am give up for him.
ready to get
our fitness on?
yeah.
since fernanda and i got
in a huge fight,
we've really been working
on our communication.
and so, there's a few things
that i haven't really
mentioned to fernanda
and she deserves
an explanation.
but i'm little worried
on how she's gonna take it.
high five.
squeeze, baby.
squeeze at the top.
three, two --
hold it at the top.
hold it for five.
hold it, hold it.
get a little lower.
there's a lot of sexual energy
when fernanda and i work out.
i'm doing my workout,
and i can't even get it done
'cause i'm staring
at fernanda.
she's sweating, she's working
hard, she's making noises.
push, push, push.
that a girl.
let's just end this workout
and go home, you know?
that's how
i was feeling.
got to be on your toes.
don't watch me.
watch the bag.
in a couple days, we're heading
to chicago to meet my family.
and fernanda doesn't want to
plan the wedding
until she gets their approval.
what are we gonna do
about the wedding in chicago?
but you're not marrying
my family.
my mom -- you know,
the rest of my family
are really excited to
meet you.
of course, she's excited.
but you know, she might be a
little bit harder on you than --
than i've told you.
my relationship with my mom
is not great right now.
and i haven't been completely
open with fernanda about it.
my mom and i used to have
a great relationship.
we grew up like she was
my best friend for a long time.
and i feel like this last year
has kind of changed that.
you know,
time that i spent --
normally i would've spent
with my family,
i've been spending in mexico
getting to know you.
and she found out
that i was getting
engaged to you on social media.
i didn't consult with my family
before i asked fernanda
to marry me.
i knew they would have
some problems with it,
and i just did not want to
have that conversation.
there's some resentment
for that.
and i think in the beginning,
it's gonna make things
difficult for fernanda.
of course, i've told her
about you, baby.
of course.
but when i mentioned it to her,
she was like,
"are you going through
a midlife crisis?"
like, she already started with,
like, these crazy questions.
of course not. of course,
i'm very proud of you.
but i knew if i told her,
she would've said no.
of course.
your family's different
than mine, baby.
listen.
we have a short amount of time.
we have these 90 days.
and then after that,
we have a life full of --
we're gonna make it through
this just fine, fernanda.
i feel really bad
that fernanda feels like
she's caught in the middle.
obviously, the trip
could go really bad.
if fernanda feels like
she doesn't have a family here,
then she won't be here.
i know that that's the case.
we worked so hard to get here.
and if this doesn't go well,
this could be the end of it.
you look
beautiful tonight.
thank you.
you look handsome.
thank you.
i know you've been
wanting to go out,
so i thought
we could go out.
where?
maybe it could be
a surprise.
okay.
i hope you're hungry.
i'm starving.
excellent.
colt: larissa has been living
with my mother and i
for a few weeks.
and i finally feel like
it's a good time
to officially
propose to her,
because when i first
proposed to larissa
i didn't have a ring.
and now that larissa
is here in america,
i wanna do the whole thing --
get on one knee,
tell her i'm madly
and deeply in love with her,
and that i want to spend
the rest of my life with her.
i think she deserves it.
i'm taking larissa
to the stratosphere
because it's the tallest
building in las vegas,
and it's really romantic.
oh, this is
the stratosphere.
yes.
surprise.
uh-huh.
just hold my hand. you can
squeeze it as hard as you can.
if you vomit,
i will hold your hair.
it's okay.
i know you're afraid of heights,
but --
that's why
i didn't tell you.
'cause i love you
too much.
oh, it's there, it's there.
go, go, go, go, go!
-see, you made it!
-i am not happy.
well, you will be happy
once you see the view,
i promise.
wow.
oh, this is so cute.
thank you.
wow.
see, it's not too bad.
hey.
you guys ready to order?
yeah, i think i wanted
an old fashioned.
-okay, nice choice.
-well, what about you?
you want some dessert
or something?
-no, i don't feel good.
-you don't feel good?
-water?
-you want something? water?
-yes, water.
-i'll be right with you guys.
thank you.
yeah, i understand that,
but look at the view.
you can see
our house from here.
well, you don't have
to look out there.
just look at me.
i got the best view right here,
looking at you.
-all right.
i got your order.
-thank you so much.
all right.
you guys enjoy.
cheers.
how 'bout that?
salud?
i really hate.
you hate it?
i'm sorry
you don't like it.
why don't we get up
and walk around?
are you still afraid
of the heights?
maybe less?
colt: just needed as much time
as possible in the 90 days
to make sure
we're right together.
i feel like i found the person
i've always wanted to be with,
but it feels weird.
i mean, i have the ring
and everything,
but things
have not gone perfect,
but i would be a fool not to
take the chance and go with it.
i hope it makes her happy.
you know,
i got you a present.
-for me?
-yeah.
it's true.
you know,
i got you a present.
it's true.
yeah, it's true.
i don't know if you
might want it, but --
aah!
larissa,
want to get married?
oh, look at that.
look at the sparkle.
yeah.
i just officially proposed
to larissa, and she said yes!
what do you think?
just like you.
- where's your ring?
- two, one.
colt: i think my mother
will be happy when she finds out
that larissa
and i are engaged.
regardless of how my mother
feels about larissa,
her son is getting married.
so i think she'll be happy.
mom?
hey.
you like it?
beautiful.
yeah.
we gotta go to bed,
so we'll --
-fine.
-yeah.
-yeah.
i love you, guys.
i think that the ring that colt
bought was very beautiful.
but he spent
a lot of money on it,
and i am worried about that.
but there's still time before
they actually get married,
so we'll just have
to watch and see.
-hey, what's up?
-hey, what's up, brother?
oh, yeah. no doubt.
i appreciate that.
anthony, bro.
so, where are you
from, man?
jamaica? cool.
how you like it up here so far?
listen, let me tell you
about living in mechanicsburg.
living there
for years, bro.
the stuff you --
you ain't even experienced
what you're gonna
experience yet.
it's only
the beginning.
like,
the snub nosing.
-i mean, well, listen --
-no, it's not hard.
it's that they
real disrespectful.
anthony: people in
mechanicsburg, they act funny
with people
from other countries.
they act like, you know,
"this is my ground, this is --"
you know what i mean?
"this is mine, mine, mine.
y'all shouldn't be here."
that's how they act
in mechanicsburg.
jay: huh?
you here to go to school
or something?
did you meet her
over the internet?
oh, she was down there.
-nice.
-so you are -- you are engaged?
oh, man.
oh, man.
you getting married
next month?
how old are you?
-you 20?
-yeah.
and you getting married?
hold up.
you 20, getting married
in a month.
you ready for that?
- you think? nah, brother.
- you got to know.
kendell: you got to know
when it comes to marriage,
'cause this is a bond
that y'all can't break, now.
he getting married,
coming from jamaica.
michael: he getting married...
and he only 20.
-for one jaunt.
-for one jaunt.
-you ready to be with --
-one meal at 20.
anthony:
you ready to eat the same meal
for the rest of your life?
you 20, cuz.
kendell: i mean, you can only go
with that one doughnut
for the rest of your life.
you giving up your whole life,
your whole culture,
for this woman.
it's just -- it's just like
it's a setup for failure, cuz.
you got to marry me in 90 days,
or you got to get out.
i hope their marriage
can sustain it,
but that's a lot to deal with.
you're only together for 90
days, and then you got married.
that's a lot.
to be in love, to be married,
that's a beautiful thing.
i would never --
-yeah.
i'm not a person to knock
marriage -- a real marriage.
but...
you're about to be
in the prime of your life.
let's say you marry this woman
and you give it like,
six, seven good strong years.
jay: yeah.
but then at the end you're like,
"you know what, i can't do it."
but you just gave up seven years
of prime years
that you can't get back.
michael:
bro, don't get married, bro.
god dang, man.
bro, look.
don't get married.
i'm telling you,
don't get married.
"i love you, i love you,
i love you,
i love you,
i love you, i love you."
this is
what i go through.
she know i'm at work
and she know i'm a barber,
and she blow my phone up.
don't get married, bro.
to get married right now
at this age,
i think it's the wrong
move for him.
he hasn't been
all over the world.
he hasn't been anywhere where
it's a lot of beautiful women.
not to say that the girl
that he's going to marry
isn't beautiful,
but it's a lot of temptations.
and we get weak, and sometimes
our weakness takes over.
and he might mess up.
anthony:
marriage is a commitment, bro.
it's a lot
to think about, cuz.
but there's --
there's that sand clock.
it's ticking.
you don't have time
to really sort it all out.
-yeah.
-it's that execution date, bro.
that's a crazy situation.
how long can you be married
to her until you get a divorce?
-two years?
-oh, you cool.
michael:
yeah, marry her, man.
marry her, man.
eric: leida's been blowing up
my phone while i'm at work.
she wants me to get over
to the place
we have rented for her family,
and her family wants to
talk about the apartment.
i feel horrible that this has
disappointed her this way,
but i feel betrayed because
i should've at least been there
when her family sees the
apartment for the first time.
what's going on?
well, first of all, tasha has
been on notice to move out.
second of all, allessandro
should stay
in the bedroom with us.
well, it's not out of
the question for us to move.
this is something that we'll
have to discuss with tasha.
we know that one of us
needs to move out.
either we do and we go find
something better,
or she does and we make
this work until we buy a house.
okay.
i know they want to make sure
their grandson's
gonna be in good hands,
but the apartment
has no bearing on that.
as long as i don't have, like,
walls of spikes
that are gonna fall on him
or something, or wires exposed,
you know, an unsafe
living condition, no.
i think it's more
about their image.
i dare say they would rather
me live on credit
and overextend myself
and live beyond my means,
just to have the appearance
that they want.
we are working
on getting a new place.
tasha was supposed to be out,
but...
leida's already angry
at tasha,
and she hasn't even
met her in person,
because tasha
left the place trashed,
but i don't believe
tasha did it on purpose.
leida: no.
i will handle it.
you don't have
to pay for it.
we got it.
-yeah.
i can cover the rent
for another place.
it's not a big deal.
eric:
leida's dad offered me money,
and i don't want it.
i knew her family was wealthy.
i did not bring her here
for her family's wealth.
i don't care about it.
could i use the money?
of course i could use
the money --
we're buying a house,
we're getting married.
we paid for a visa.
but i don't want this to be
a sign of weakness,
so i'm not gonna
take the money.
here's the deal.
i love her very much,
and i'm gonna
take care of them, all right?
we'll get the problems
with tasha resolved.
we don't need to kick her out.
it's okay.
i appreciate the offer
to help us pay
for a different place,
but you don't have to.
we got it.
i -- i can do it just fine.
don't worry.
next time on "90 day fiancé"...
-who's that?
-some friends from jamaica.
acting like
i'm a prisoner or something.
you're not
in the same country as them!
colt:
i like your glasses.
uh, thank you.
i like yours, too.
larissa expects me to be not
friendly to the opposite sex.
calm down
a little bit.
careful, man.
if he's doing dangerous things
with oliver still,
i'm not marrying him.
i'm just telling you,
it's not safe.
tasha: that's not happening.
i'm not going to change
my lifestyle.
maybe you guys
need to move out.
you're not gonna tell me
to stop touching my son.
well, i feel like
you're crazy.
what are you talking about?
what day?
like crazy, steven,
like this.
i just don't like being told
what to do.
oh, my honey.
if my mom doesn't accept her,
this is just gonna be
game over for us.
you're 19. do you want to
get married at this point?
obviously, yes.
hold off.
don't do it.
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