Previously on "90 day fiancé"...
I do not trust devar.
It will become my issue
when he hurts you.
He's not gonna hurt me.
I asked you not to go
to a strip club, and you did.
I looked at going back home.
Are we still getting married?
We just have to do a very,
very small wedding
'cause your father and mother
won't be here.
You want to talk about it?
It's my house, my cars,
my business, my retirement.
Sign the prenup,
and we go forward.
Oh!
I'm nervous, and I'm just hoping
that everything goes as planned.
I've given her a bunch
of reasons not to marry me,
and yet, she wants to do it.
And hopefully, she's right
that I am the right one for her.
I don't know
what is going on with me.
It's difficult to describe.
Living with somebody
just for 90 days...
Whew!
Is not really enough to...
to know the person.
I feel kind of confused.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm okay.
Well, 40 minutes late.
You know, maybe I'm getting
a little anxious.
today is Nikki's 20th birthday,
so there are 20 candles
on the cake.
I'm preparing a dinner
for Nikki tonight,
and since it'll only
be Nikki and I in Hawaii,
I've asked my daughter elise
to come over and join us.
Nikki seems a bit frustrated
after signing the prenup.
Why can't you just trust me?
I need a signature,
or we won't be married, Nikki.
It's that simple.
Nikki and I are leaving
for Hawaii tomorrow,
and I want to make sure
that her spirits are up
and that she's ready
for the wedding.
Happy birthday, Nikki.
Thank you.
It's a feast in your honor.
It's very nice of mark
to do something romantic for me,
but I'm still kind of upset
about the prenup.
Hello.
Oh, hi, elise.
How are you?
Great.
Happy birthday.
Oh, hi.
Oh, thank you!
You're welcome.
So sweet.
I try.
Nikki's turning 20 today,
which is a year younger than me.
Um, still a little weird.
It's good.
Are you guys excited for the...
the wedding...
That's gonna happen soon?
Yeah, we're excited.
I mean, you know, for all
practical purposes, you know,
Nikki and I have enjoyed
each other's company,
and it... it
feels like a marriage.
That would be a good thing.
Right.
How about you, Nikki?
Are you excited?
Yeah, I'm excited.
I think they're fine.
It's just,
if they're having problems
before they get married,
you'd think
they'd have bigger problems
after they get married.
I have a present for you, Nikki.
What's that?
You know that you've
made me very happy.
What are you going to do?
And I think that it's time
to get rid of this.
Oh?
So this is something
that I want you to have.
I promise to protect you,
to shelter you.
Yeah?
To support you
and to care for you.
Try this one on for size.
I was, like,
speechless when he opened it.
I was like, "wow."
I think that an engagement ring
is a promise,
and it's a sparkly reminder
to a woman
that a man cares for her.
It's beautiful.
Well, I hope you enjoy it.
I never thought of him
buying that ring.
It proves that he loves me.
Makes me happy.
Happy birthday.
Thanks.
So will you remember
what you got on your 20th?
Mm-hmm.
I wish we had long time
to figure out our issues,
but we have to get married,
or I have to go back
to Philippines.
Oh, yes.
Over these 90 days, Nikki and I,
we've had our challenges.
But after this whole experience,
I hope she's ready
for the wedding.
Today's the day
I marry my best friend.
I'm excited.
It's here.
It all came up to this day
today, so...
It's here.
We're gonna get married.
Alexei's mom
and brother arrived from Israel.
Here they are.
My mom did make it.
I'm really excited.
I'm glad
that they were able to come.
You're here!
You're in America!
You're here for the wedding.
Oh, my gosh.
Ay, yi, yi.
It's happening.
Look up for me.
Today's the day that we
have been working for so hard.
It was kind of rocky.
Me and loren fought,
her and her mom fought.
And it...
it's not easy right now.
I know I want to marry you
still.
I mean, you need to figure out
if you want to marry me.
Well, if you think we're gonna
continue on with this wedding
when you don't even know what
the two of you are doing...
What do you know?
You and daddy are miserable.
So the wedding day's here.
I hope everything
will be all right.
Watch out.
Nice.
Schuyler is one of my groomsmen.
I met him on a birthright trip.
To you, bud.
Thank you.
Mazel tov.
Congratulations.
This is awesome.
I'm really happy for you guys.
Thank you.
Anything on your mind,
any stresses,
or have you gotten most of those
out of the way?
Yeah.
I mean, it is stressful.
It's like, thoughts
are going through my head, like,
everything good, everything bad,
everything we had up until now.
Like, but...
What good, what bad?
I want to know both.
No, forget about it.
You don't want to talk about it?
You know, little ups and downs.
But I'm sure she's the one,
so...
I don't know
what's going on with me.
It's difficult to describe.
You know, living with somebody
just for 90 days
is not really enough to...
to know the person.
Lot of stress.
Yeah.
It really is
just an unbelievable journey
that they've taken.
I don't envy the stresses
and the obstacles
that they had to overcome
to get to where they are today.
But this is... this is it.
This is what you
both have wanted.
Yep.
But once you leave this room,
it's going to be pretty hectic.
When Alex sees me,
I really hope that he cries.
I don't think
it's gonna happen 'cause
he claims he never cries,
but I want him to look at me
and just think,
"wow, how beautiful."
I don't... what is this piece?
Are you gonna, like,
curl over it, or...?
The bachelorette weekend
was pretty intense.
But anyway, it worked out,
so just excited
to watch them say their vows.
Am I all zipped?
Are we good?
This whole process
has been extremely overwhelming
for everybody,
but I'm so excited,
and I hope that when he sees me,
he's just speechless
and thinks, "wow, there is
my bride, my future wife.
She is perfect."
Mom?
- Mom?
- Yes?
There's like two pleats
that are wrinkled.
Okay. Hold on.
Hold on.
Okay.
Okay. It's perfect.
What? This is not.
What is that?
My mom and I had that big fight,
but we decided to just
kind of bury the hatchet
and put it behind us
because now's not the time
to be fighting about nothing.
There's always
a little imperfection,
and that's
what makes you beautiful.
Love you, baby.
Love you.
Okay.
My dad has said, "you can always
say I don't until you say I do,"
and I am hoping that alexei
doesn't say I don't
because I'm ready to say "I do."
Whew!
Yep.
Whew!
Don't even exhale.
One.
I do not trust devar.
I'll be letting
Mel know my opinion.
I always have,
and I will continue.
Today is my wedding.
In the 90 days, I cry all time.
My family no is here.
We just have to do a very,
very small wedding
'cause your father and mother
won't be here.
Well...
I miss my family so much.
Si.
Si.
Stick your hands up.
Yeah, perfect.
We're getting ready
in the church,
and I'm just hoping
that everything goes as planned.
Oh!
I'm nervous.
I'm probably going to be crying,
but I'm good.
I'm really good.
I'm excited.
I just never thought
he would actually be here,
and now,
we're actually getting married.
I do not trust devar.
I'll be warning Mel
and letting her know my opinion.
I always have,
and I will continue.
Are we done?
You got it?
I got it.
I know my sister still
may have a few things
that she's concerned
about with devar,
but I think, in time,
she will see that he does love
me and that he can be trusted.
I'm feeling awesome.
Nervousness... unh-unh.
Right now,
I'm just happy to go out there
and see that beautiful lady,
Melanie, walk right towards me.
You nervous?
Kind of.
Kind of? Okay.
I'll tell you what.
I'll be nervous out there,
and you don't.
Cool?
Oh, yes.
I'm ready.
Here we go.
It was really, really
so important to me see my mom.
Whew.
Probably getting hot.
No, I'm gonna cry.
Whew!
Just, it was,
like, really emotional.
Gonna be walking down the aisle
with my dad,
and all my friends
are gonna be standing there.
And to have
it actually happening...
really unbelievable.
I'm so nervous.
Children are not the plan.
I don't want to be nagged
when your clock is ticking.
Hmm.
You feel nervous today?
Yeah, very nervous.
Yes?
You look nervous today.
This has been a journey.
and today, we're arriving
in Hawaii for the wedding.
Yippee!
Go, "yippee!"
Yippee!
Yes.
I've never been to Hawaii,
so I'm excited to see
the beaches, the views,
everything.
There we go.
Yay!
Hello, Hawaii!
I'm here!
Aloha!
Oh, beautiful.
It's so beautiful here,
and I love it.
Hawaii is absolutely amazing.
We're having a wonderful time.
But I want Nikki
to be absolutely certain...
absolutely certain that she
wishes to spend her life
with me.
The past 90 days
has been wonderful.
We've had some moments,
but we've been honest
with each other,
and we've communicated.
We've been open.
And we got through it all.
And I know going
into the marriage
that I have to be adamant about,
children are not the plan.
Mm-hmm.
I feel like
I'm letting you down.
I mean, I do understand.
You don't want
to have a baby yet.
But I'm really being positive
about future,
maybe just one kid.
I don't want to be
a disappointment to you.
I don't want to be nagged
when your clock is ticking.
Mm.
It's okay.
I understand, and I accept that.
The fact that you accept
that, you know, is wonderful.
It hurts me, though,
but it's part of a relationship
that you have to give up
something for your...
for someone you love.
I love mark, but sometimes,
it's really hard
to think never having children.
Having a wedding day,
getting married,
finally being with Carolina,
this is what we worked for.
Buddy.
Fernando, brother!
My friend Louis
is officiating the wedding.
He's known me for a long time,
mostly as a bachelor,
and I'm sure he has doubts
that I'm ready to get married.
So is this really gonna happen?
You're still...
you're going through with it?
I got dressed up.
Being dressed up doesn't mean
you have to go through.
We can still go
have a beer, you know,
and we can, you know...
No, dude.
You're sure you want to do this?
This is it.
This is is, man.
Help me out with the...
Okay, sure, sure.
I've been very critical of
marriage for a very long time,
so here I am, basically
going against my own advice.
Usually, I'd be talking myself
out of this, but...
I could be a spokesperson
for staying single, but...
After 18 years of marriage,
I can tell you,
the exit's that way.
Carolina's sacrificed a lot
to be here.
She left her family behind,
put up with my crazy mother.
I've given her a bunch
of reasons not to marry me,
and yet, she wants to do it.
There you go.
So, man, I'm worried that I
can meet up to the expectations
and hopefully that she's right,
that I am the right one for her.
Okay.
Family Fernando
now is my family.
Carolina, let me see you.
Oh, my god.
It's so beautiful.
You feel nervous today?
Yeah, very nervous.
Yes?
You look nervous today, no?
But you look so pretty.
Put the flower on your hair.
Let me see it.
Maybe I can help you.
No is easy.
I give it to you.
I no sure Fernando mom like me.
You know, my mother,
she asking me that you gonna be
a good wife for my son.
I say to her, "yes."
I say, "Carolina is strong,
and Fernando need
to having a strong woman."
So I think it's good
to be strong.
With Fernando.
Not with me.
Because I'm strong, also.
Carolina, I feel happy
that you gonna be
my daughter-in-law
and also my daughter
because I don't have...
I don't have daughter,
so...
Now, you gonna be my daughter.
But don't fight with me,
and don't cry.
No.
No crying for right now.
Whew.
I feel kind of confused.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm okay.
Well, 40 minutes late.
Now maybe
I'm getting' a little anxious.
Whew.
Melanie... beautiful lady
walking down that aisle.
I'm telling you,
it is an overwhelming feeling.
It was a bit cold in the church,
but seeing her,
it's like the sun just hit me.
Today, two special people,
devar and Melanie,
have committed to enter
their next phase of life
together, and we
all have a front-row seat.
Devar and Melanie have vows
to share for each other.
Ready?
You start.
You are the love of my life.
You are the missing half
that made me whole.
I will always...
You okay?
I will laugh with you.
And cry with you.
For you, I will be...
For you, I will be the best
possible version of myself.
As your husband.
As your wife.
By the power vested in me
by the state of Pennsylvania
and faith church,
I pronounce you husband
and wife.
Devar, you may kiss your bride.
Give 'em a hand out there.
The k-1 visa, I would
do it 100 times over again.
There's something about devar
that, from day one,
I've always known
that I was going to marry him.
You can't really describe it.
It's just a connection
that you have with somebody
that devar is the love
of my life.
I fall in love with her so deep,
there's no way out.
Hunter has a couple things
that he'd just like
to say to his mom and devar.
When I see hunter
and devar together,
it almost makes me want to cry
because,
um, I don't think
I could've found anyone
better in the entire world
to be a stepdad for him.
I love devar,
I love all my seven children,
and I love Melanie
just like my daughter.
When I first heard about this,
I would've never thought
in a million years
that I would be here
celebrating with Melanie.
Devar's crying at the ceremony,
I thought, "oh, my goodness.
He really does love my sister."
That you cannot fake.
Melanie and devar's love
is real.
I love you.
It better be real,
or devar is going to
have to deal with me.
I love devar with all my heart,
and I'm so excited
to start our lives together.
Well, my beautiful, lovely lady,
just say she love me
with all of her heart,
I love her with my heart,
my lungs, my liver, my kidney.
I love her with every piece
of me.
Oh, my god.
I'm getting married, like, now.
And I think now the nerves
are sitting... like, setting in.
Are you ready?
Are you ready?
Are you ready?
Whew.
The whole 90 days thing,
it was hard.
It was very difficult
at some points.
But when she came
around the corner
and I saw her coming down to me,
I know
I made the right decision.
I am ready to say "I do,"
and I'm ready to marry her,
finally, the love of my life.
I did all this to get
to this day,
and I'm ready.
¶ don't need a preacher
to save my soul ¶
that's it.
I take her from here.
Yes.
I take her from here.
That's how it goes.
I'm all yours.
That's it.
¶ I see the fire in your eyes ¶
blessed be all of you who come
here today in the name of god.
Loren and alexei,
it's been a journey...
a journey across the world.
But somehow, it was meant to be.
And now, in the presence of god
and this assembly,
do you, alexei, take loren
to be your wife, to love,
to honor, and to cherish?
I do.
Okay.
I didn't hear you.
I do!
Loren, do you take alexei
to be your husband?
I do.
I do!
Good!
We heard it.
And repeat after me.
Be consecrated to me...
Consecrated to me...
Be consecrated to me...
With this ring...
With this ring...
As my wife.
As my wife.
I am for my beloved...
I am for my beloved...
and my beloved is for me.
And my beloved is for me.
Mazel tov!
Mazel tov!
You may kiss the bride.
It's done!
Now we're married.
It's my pleasure
to introduce alexei and loren
for the first time
as husband and wife.
Mazel tov.
Oh, my god.
We're married!
It was such a hard journey.
And now, I'm married to the love
of my life and my best friend,
and it's so surreal.
I, like...
I'm beyond, beyond happy.
And now,
we get to have sex tonight.
Yeah.
Oh, my god, yeah.
I just wish them
all the happiness in the world.
Yeah. They look so happy
together, they really do.
Don't drop me!
Don't you drop me!
Whoa!
Hey, loren!
We had to get married
in 90 days,
and we had a problem or two
and a fight here or there,
but if I had
to do it all over again,
I would do it in a heartbeat,
without a doubt.
It was so worth it.
It wasn't easy,
but, yeah, it was worth it.
Married to the love of my life.
Aw. Thank you.
Butterflies in my stomach.
It's time.
I need to decide if I really
want to be with mark.
How's it going, mark?
I don't know.
She's not here.
Since Carolina's parents
can't be here,
we're having a smaller wedding
and leaving the big church
wedding for later,
but they will be watching
the whole thing on Skype.
Butterflies in my stomach.
Okay.
It's time.
They're ready.
Let's go.
Whew.
I'm... already, just thinking
about it's gonna make me cry.
I love Carolina, and just to see
her and everything this means...
Wow.
I see Carolina in her dress...
in her wedding dress...
and she's beautiful,
she's glowing.
I see Fernando.
I see my parents
in the computer,
and this moment,
I feel really, really happy.
Dearly beloved,
we are gathered here today
to join this man and this woman
in holy matrimony.
Fernando, do you take this woman
to be your wife, to love,
to honor, to comfort her,
and to keep her,
in sickness and in health,
for as long
as you both shall live?
I do. Si.
Carolina, do you take this man
to be your husband,
to love, to honor him,
to comfort him, and keep him,
in sickness and in health,
for as long
as you both shall live?
Si acepta.
Please place the ring
on Carolina's finger.
I give you this ring as a token
and pledge of our constant faith
and abiding love.
Carolina?
I give you this ring
as a token and pledge
of our constant faith
and abiding love.
I now pronounce you husband
and wife.
Very real?
Yeah.
I love it.
I love you.
I love you.
In 90 days, we have not resolved
all of our issues.
The k-1 visa is difficult,
process is difficult.
Yep. Very.
A long process, maybe.
Yeah.
It's worth it, yeah.
What she doesn't know is she's
kind of giving me a new life.
She's, um...
Aw.
What?
She's made me a different person
and, uh...
Just makes me think a lot more
about the future
in a different way.
Mm-hmm.
Nikki and I have been
waiting so long for this moment,
all the planning,
and it's finally here.
Today's the day.
Have a good day, sir.
Thank you so much.
Oh, hi. Nikki?
Yes.
Hi. This is Lexi
from face of beauty.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
Come in.
Thank you.
Today's my wedding day,
and I really feel mix emotion...
exciting, shaky.
So, Nikki, where are you from?
I'm from Philippines.
Oh.
Came here on k-1 visa.
Actually, I was also
Wow.
Yeah.
So I totally know
how you're feeling right now.
That's great.
So you guys have kids?
No, not yet.
Oh, I see.
How about you?
No.
Mark is saying
that he don't want...
he don't want to have kids.
I don't know.
When he's ready.
Maybe he will change his mind
in future, I guess I'm hoping.
Right now,
I feel kind of confused.
You're okay?
I'm okay.
I do ask myself if I really
want to give up having no kids.
Wow.
It's beautiful.
I found my love,
and today, we will be betrothed.
Hopefully, Nikki's on her way
here.
In 15 minutes, I'll know.
I have to marry mark, or I
have to go back to Philippines.
I need to decide if I really
want to be with mark.
So where would you like
to go today?
Well, 40 minutes late.
I don't know what to think.
Well, feeling a little nervous.
Nikki's not here.
She should be here.
I was feeling pretty good
about it all,
but, you know, maybe
I'm getting a little anxious.
How's it going, mark?
I don't know.
She's not here.
You look beautiful.
Beautiful.
I turned around and saw Nikki
in her wedding dress,
and I thought, "wow."
Stunning, beautiful.
This is someone I wish to spend
the rest of my life with.
I'm not marrying mark
because I want to have kids.
I'm ma... I'm marrying mark
because I want to be with him.
Mark, do you take Nikki
to be your wedded wife,
to be her husband,
partner, and best friend,
to love, honor, and cherish her
in all your days together?
Yes, I do.
Nikki, do you take mark
to be your wedded husband,
to be his wife,
partner, and best friend,
to love, honor, and cherish him
in all your days together?
Yes, I do.
Nikki, I knew from the instant
I met you that you were the one,
you were my destiny.
A man could look a lifetime
for half of what I found
and be the luckiest man
on this planet.
You are a godsend.
My prayers were answered.
Thank you.
With this ring, mark,
I promise to love you always,
to make you happy,
as much as I can,
to be by your side always.
Thank you.
And love you till the end.
I now pronounce you partners
in life, husband and wife.
You may now kiss your true love.
Love you.
Mm.
We're married.
Yeah, we're married!
Yes!
We're now married!
Yeah, we're so happy
now we're married.
Happy. Happy, happy.
Happy.
Life is like that, you know?
If you find happiness,
it's like a wave.
You have to ride it
as long as you can.
I was kind of sidetracked
by love.
And you're young.
I am young.
You're young.
Never forget that.
But I'm still young.
I still have all my teeth.
No cavities.
Those are not fake, right?
They're not fake.
The 90 days was a lot of stress.
It's a roller coaster,
but it was perfect.
It's perfect.
So perfect.
The end is perfect.
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