01x06 - Discovery

[bunniefuu]

[theme music playing]

[woman] Tyler, we're live.

Okay. [sighs]
There's a lot coming through.

Got, like, reference to a bend
of a river and walking it and a grandpa.

It's a lot hitting me,

but I'm excited to see who's
on the other side of that door. [inhales]

Phew! [chuckles]

[Tyler] My name is Tyler Henry,
and I have a rather unusual ability.

I don't exactly see dead people,
but I definitely communicate with them.

I receive messages from those
who've passed for those still here,

proving our loved ones
never truly leave us.

I don't know who I'm going to read
or what messages may come through,

but powerful revelations await
from the other side.

Welcome to
Live from the Other Side with Tyler Henry.

A celebrity and their closest friends
are sitting right behind me

and they're here to get a reading

from the world's most
renowned medium, Tyler Henry.

I'm Amanda Kloots.

Tyler never knows who he is going to read

and will meet these guys
for the first time live on this stage.

So let's bring out Tyler.

Nice!

-Hello, everybody. How's it going?
-[Amanda] Hello!

[chuckles] How are you?

-The lights come on.
-Hi!

-I'm Tyler.
-I'm Brittany.

-It's lovely to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

-I love your outfit.
-Thank you!

-I'm Bradley.
-[Tyler] Bradley. Wonderful to meet you.

I'm Elaine. I'm, like, your biggest fan.

[Tyler] Oh, Elaine!
So wonderful to meet you.

-Jared, nice to meet you.
-Jared, lovely to meet you.

-Anais. Nice to meet you.
-Oh, Anais, it's wonderful to meet you.

Thank you all for coming.

-[Amanda] Hi, Tyler.
-How are you?

-Looking fabulous.
-I'm wonderful, thank you.

[Tyler] All right, my friends.

And we have Tyler's mom,
Theresa, here with us.

-Hi, everyone.
-[guest] Hi, Theresa!

[Tyler] That's right,
we got mama in the hizzouse.

I love it!

-[Amanda] So, Tyler, today we've Brittany.
-[Tyler] Yes.

And she is here with her friends.

Brittany, why don't you introduce
who they are and what they mean to you?

Okay, awesome.

This is Bradley.

He has been my hairstylist
for eight years,

but also became a very,
very close friend of mine.

He's been through my wedding,
through all these different things

that he was there for me for.

And obviously, your glam team
knows everything about you. [laughs]

This is Elaine.

I've been very close friends with her
for... what, like four or five years now?

-Yeah. A couple years now.
-I met her through my friend Scheana.

She's in the mommy club with me.
Our kids are close in age.

So I've been loving her
every single second since I've met her.

This is Jared.

He also has been around me
for at least eight years.

This is, like, my LA family
'cause I'm from Kentucky.

-So...
-[Tyler] Amazing.

This is definitely my LA family.

Jared became one
of my very closest friends.

Um, he started off as my makeup artist
and became my bestie.

And now we have Anais,
who is also my glam team!

She... [laughs]

She, um, has been my makeup artist
for five years now,

and I just love all of these people
on this couch so much.

Well, I love it. Evidently, it helps
to be friends with your glam team.

-[guests laughing]
-No doubt about it.

And, Tyler, Brittany is,
of course, on a very popular show,

-Vanderpump Rules and The Valley.
-[Tyler] Yes! Amazing.

Well, I'm excited to delve in today
and I'll basically just kind of scribble.

-I'll relay everything that comes through.
-Okay.

And as I communicate,
I'm big on specifics and details.

I like to get inside information,
sometimes references

to recent conversations will come through,
even if they're kind of odd conversations.

Um... Oftentimes inside jokes,
family dynamics, people's last words.

That's kind of the information
that substantiates a connection.

And that's really what I try
to get in every reading.

So as we go through this today,
we have a number of options,

obviously, as far as places to go.

Um, objects do sometimes help me
make a more direct connection

or at least focus on perhaps
who might be there, if anybody. [inhales]

And then we'll kind
of just go across the board.

So, Brittany,
do you have any objects with us today?

-[Brittany] Yes!
-I would love...

So, this might be kind
of strange at first.

-[guests laughing]
-I like strange. Don't worry.

-Do I tell you what it is? Okay!
-Don't tell me anything.

-[Brittany] Okay.
-I love it. Okay.

One sec.

This is very special.
I love that. All right.

And then the other object for me.
Thank you so much.

I love this.

[softly] Okay.

All right. I've got that.

-[Brittany] Okay.
-Amazing.

And then we've got objects over here.

I love that.

-Thank you... Oh! distinguished.
-[Bradley chuckling]

Amazing. Okay. That's sweet. Precious.

All right, we'll talk in a minute.
And then for you...?

-My turn.
-No worries.

No, I have to show you,
this is kind of funny, my friend.

I immediately, right when you sat down,

wanted to connect with you
and we're gonna talk in a minute.

-But what's so interesting...
-[Amanda chuckles]

[Tyler] ...I got to show you what I...
what I wrote down.

[Elaine] Oh my God, stop it.

So this is 10:22 today

and we got, you know,
an object with a cross on it.

-[Amanda] Oh my Gosh!
-[Tyler] And it was really interesting.

-See, we dated it, so... Yeah.
-[Amanda] Wow!

And it was so interesting
'cause it hit me right on the way here,

and I just need you to know that...

-I told you I was gonna do the ugly cry.
-[Amanda] Oh my God.

-That's okay, we love ugly cry.
-You are meant to be here today.

And the person that this is connected to,
regardless of how much we get into it,

was meant to be referred to,

and I need you to know
they're showing up today.

So we'll talk more,
but I actually want to give you this.

This would be kind
of a sweet thing to have.

-I'm framing this.
-Amazing, sweetheart. Thank you so much.

All right, so we'll talk there,
and then I'll hold on to your object.

[Jared chuckles]

I got another crazy one like Britt.

Amazing.
We like crazy objects, my friends.

-Is this like an abacus or like a...?
-[Jared] Yes, it was!

-Oh, my God.
-Yeah, look, that was a 50-cent word.

[guests laughing]

-[Tyler] Aw, precious.
-[Amanda] Aw.

I can see, obviously,
we have a pawprint here,

so unless it's a very, uh,
you know, four-padded grandma,

it's probably a pet, and that's okay.

So, let me do that.

Just seeing if I'm getting a sense there.

And then we'll cross that over.

And then, last but not least... [laughs]
Thank you so much.

I appreciate it.

All right, so let's just
get a sense here real fast. [inhales]

[sighs] Okay, we have a lot
of people entering the building.

-I'm excited.
-Yay!

Okay, cool. All right.

-That's the last of the logistics.
-[Brittany] Amazing.

[chuckles] I appreciate it.

-Now we'll get started.
-[Brittany] Okay.

So, I'll relay everything that comes in,
um, and we'll kind of go from there.

-I wanna hold on to this really quickly.
-Okay.

'Cause I'm drawn here.

Now, objects we often associate
with certain people,

but anybody can come through.

It just sometimes helps me kind
of meditate or focus.

One of the areas I do want to talk about,
this is kind of interesting,

is when we refer
to your mom's side of family.

That side is hitting me
like a force of nature.

Now, I have to talk about
when we refer to father figure for Mom,

I wanna go there in that department.

And I have to highlight,
in the way this comes across,

the acknowledgement of the three girls,
the three female siblings,

the three girls.

And I have to highlight
two as being similar

and one being different.

And they're kind of bifurcating

like the two over here
and the one over here.

So my question would be,

do you on your mom's side of family
have a grandfather that's passed?

-Yes, my papaw.
-[Tyler] Okay. Gotcha.

Uh, if we talk about the three girls,
you know who those are?

And I would assume
that includes your mom in some way?

-My mom and my two aunts.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

Um, would you understand
why two would be similar,

one would be different,
or why I'd be bifurcating them?

My mom
is like the forgiving soul, like me,

and my other aunts
are a little bit more like...

-[Tyler] Feisty? Feisty, feisty.
-Yeah. Feisty, yeah.

-Nothing wrong with feisty.
-[all laugh]

-Yeah. [laughs]
-It takes... Takes all kinds...

I wanna highlight,

in the way this comes across,
a number of different things.

For one, it wouldn't surprise me

if you didn't get the chance
to either meet your great-grandparents

or know one of the sides
of the great-grandparents.

Do you understand that?

I don't know any of my great-grandparents
on my mom's side.

Got it. Okay.

So that aspect would come in there
and it's just kind of acknowledgement

of who they are, who they're with.

Um, I need to bring up,
when we talk about our guy here,

he's showing me
and wanting me to single out your mom.

And there's a sweetness here
when we talk about religion, forgiveness,

understanding, open-mindedness.

A lot of that comes in and it's almost
a way to say like, "This is okay."

-[Brittany] Mm-hmm.
-[Tyler] This is good to keep in mind.

Like, if any family was a little hesitant

around, like, this happening
and mediumship in general,

there's just this sense
of like, "I'm with God."

-Yeah. Oh, thank you.
-[Tyler] "I'm with God."

And they need to know that
so they can let go of any apprehension.

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] And that comes in.

-So you understand that?
-Yeah.

-[Tyler chuckles] Okay.
-Thank you.

And that aspect pops in there.
I wanna highlight the symbol.

He's shown me a bunch of things.

Very, like, interesting in that
he could communicate just with a look.

He gives me, um,
this very interesting emphasis on...

Check and see... Two things.

One, I want you to look and see

if there are any nature areas
where there would be,

like, an area where one would walk
and find like arrowheads

or like old Native American things.

Yeah.

Do you know
about that memory specifically?

Mm-hmm.

If I say that somebody remembers
walking around the bend of a river

or like, a bend of a river specifically,
and I'm wanting to do this,

and it's sweet, and also, I think
that a guy taught a girl how to fish

'cause there's a funniness
in this of like...

"If I had a son, or if my son
was interested in this, I would teach him,

but I taught a daughter,"
in like some aspect there.

Does any of that make sense? [laughs]

I mean, it's just amazing,
'cause our farm ends at a river.

-[Tyler] Got it.
-The Kentucky River, to be exact.

And like, we have all those things.

We have arrowheads,
we have everything on our farm.

And, of course, our papaw
taught us everything, so...

I love that! It comes across as patriarch.

It's a sense of, like,

if you teach someone to fish
versus giving them a fish,

-there's analogies that come through.
-[Brittany] Yeah.

It's just very much like teaching people
how to have the tools to help themselves.

Yeah.

And that aspect
comes in very, very strongly.

There is an acknowledgment.
Whoo, gotta go there.

I gotta talk about your mom.

The kind of, wanting to single her out
and have her kind of take it easier.

Mm-hmm.

[Tyler] Um, the way
that I would word this for Mom,

is if she runs
into any health-related concerns,

things that just won't heal...

Remember that I'm saying this,

it's one thing to have an issue
and then it get dealt with,

but if it won't heal
and kind of keeps coming back,

I keep seeing putting a band...
Like, "Do I bandage this, do I not?"

"I don't wanna put..."

You know when you want
something to breathe but you can't?

It's so hard to explain.

-But remember this with Mom.
-Yeah.

Make sure to nip this in the bud.

-Yeah. Mom!
-[Tyler] I see, basically it...

and then like...
But continuing to kind of chug along.

-So do you know what that is?
-I know exactly.

She had a very bad health scare
a couple years ago

where we almost lost her.

-Gosh! Oh my goodness.
-Yeah.

-It was... It was bad.
-Um, I'm so sorry.

Uh, I feel good, though,
as far as health goes.

I'm not wildly concerned.

I just need to bring up, kind of,
acknowledgements between travel,

geography.

Um, give me one sec.

We're gonna cross this bridge
when we get there.

[laughs]

Let me look there.

Okay. Grandpa, Grandpa, Grandpa.

Kind of interesting, with his situation,
he highlights two separate...

He's separating his situation
into two things,

so it's usually indicative
of like, uh, kind of,

like previous little whole thing,

and then,
whatever the cause of passing was,

it's viewed as, like, a secondary thing.

That kind of takes me out
or causes my passing to be expedited.

There's a feeling of daughters wanting
to be around me as I'm dying,

and a feeling of a rush there
to, kind of, either get there or be there.

Do you understand that at all?

Yeah, everybody wanted
to be with him when he passed.

Everybody was.

I got to see him,
like, two weeks before he passed.

[Tyler] Gotcha.

Check and see
if there's any funny stories.

This is just one of those weird things
to look into about, um,

you know, like tobacco, chewing tobacco?

-[chuckles]
-[Amanda] Oh my God.

[Tyler] You know
when someone goes and drinks...?

This is so gross, but... Oh my God.

Check and see, when we look into this,

if there's any funny memories,
anything gross,

like a spit... [imitates spitting]
...thing that I'm wanting to do.

Can I tell you?

I don't want to drink it.
So gross. Tell me, yeah.

-[Amanda] Please tell us.
-What is it?

-Um, my papaw was a tobacco farmer.
-[Tyler] Oh!

So these are tobacco sticks
that my mom made into a lantern

that are from our family farm.

-And my whole family...
-[Amanda] Oh my God!

We're freaking out.

My whole family lives on the farm.

We're all, like,
next-door neighbors and stuff.

So like, these are actually tobacco sticks
from my papaw's farm.

-[Amanda] Oh my gosh.
-How funny!

[Brittany] Yeah, it's not a birdhouse.

-Yes.
-[all laughing]

Now I know.

[Brittany] And my mom makes them
into lanterns and does different things

because the main barn on our farm
blew down last year in a bad storm.

So there was, like,
thousands of used tobacco sticks

that my papaw did.

-[Tyler] Wow.
-So that's what this was.

And it was like the only thing
I really had in LA...

[Tyler] Yeah.

...compared to Kentucky, to, like,
bring, you know, my papaw here.

But that's crazy that you started talk...

He never smoked
or drank a day in his life.

[Amanda] What is a tobacco stick?

So whenever they hang them
in the barns, they dry on,

like, tobacco sticks and, you know?

[Tyler] What?

[Brittany]
So they're normally not this color.

My mom painted this for, like, a...

A certain type of lantern.

-But... Yeah.
-[Tyler] That is so cute.

But that's, like, amazing
that you even brought up, like, tobacco.

'Cause I'm from Kentucky
and he was a tobacco farmer.

It's not... It used to be
a full working tobacco farm,

and now, you know,
it's not anymore...

-[Tyler] Sure. Wow.
-...since he's passed. But...

Brittany, were you really close
with your grandpa?

Like, did he teach you a lot of things
around the farm when you were a kid?

Oh, I grew up
setting tobacco all the time.

Like, I sat on the back of the tractor,
put the plants in.

I'm from... I swear, my family's got a lot
of beautiful country women in it.

And we would just like wear our bikinis
and we're just all setting tobacco.

-Like riding on the back of the tractor.
-[Amanda] Aw.

Um, my papaw was literally the best man
I've ever met in my entire life.

And I've always wondered
if he was, like, proud of me, you know.

You know, it's so interesting
when we talk about timing of passing.

What... What is interesting is when we talk

about when he went
versus where we are now,

there's just this kind of sense
of seeing how much has happened.

And I don't really know how else
to explain it but there's a little feeling

of, like, things were getting
a little bit of a roll.

But then since they've taken off
in a big, big way.

And there's an awareness of that,
and acknowledgements

of just future generations' grandchildren
get referred to,

but I think for him
this would be great-grandchildren.

Does he have any great-grandchildren
here that are born?

Uh, do we have...

-Yeah, we have some great-grandchildren.
-[Jared] Crazy. No, your baby.

Oh, you're talking about mine?
Oh, yeah. I have a son.

-[guests laughing]
-[Tyler] All good. No worries!

Yeah. I have a son.

I have three-year-old son
that he never got to meet.

There you go. Okay, 'cause he's having me
highlight like the timing,

and everything since and I feel like
I need to bring... Bring that aspect up.

It just comes in.
He's like a force of nature.

And I need to let you know,
just generally, when we talk about things,

and I'm getting kind of already
pulled over here, which is exciting.

I'll get there in one minute.

Um, just keep in mind, when we talk
about Mom, taking it easy, making sure

that initial health scare isn't something
that kind of continues to be a thing.

Yeah.

But for yourself, just considering
when we talk about,

um... Two things.
So one... One thing comes through

as like hormonal-related stuff
and just keeping in mind

susceptibilities,
like postpartum related stuff.

And that's just good to keep in mind
in the event that we ever decide

to, you know, have children in the future.

I just kind of want
to go to the hormonal aspect.

And then I want to talk about,
also just keeping in mind,

when we talk about how body responds
to alcohol or rejecting something...

This is going to sound so weird,
but if someone, like, normally can drink

and it be fine, but then they get a
little older and they start feeling like,

"Oh no, this is affecting me differently."

Um, there's a degree of kind of a risk
of like, inflammation that comes up

akin to gallbladder, pancreas, that area.
Just keeping that area in mind generally.

-Yeah.
-Not worried about it, but all good.

Like, Tyler, that's for Brittany
to keep in mind for herself?

[Tyler] That'd be for Brittany
to keep in mind. Yeah, so that...

Do you still have your gallbladder?
Like, do you have...?

I had my gallbladder removed already.

-[Amanda] Woah.
-Yeah. And it was, like, hereditary.

Like, I think my grandparent, like,
my mamaw did, maybe, and one of my aunts.

So, yeah, it's been,
like, a thing in my family.

Yeah, but good to keep in mind, and,
you know, prevention is knowledge,

and it's all good. I feel really positive.

He's being like, "Brittany!"

"Stop with the Casamigos!"

-[all laughing]
-[Amanda] "Stop drinking!"

Aw.

Oh, my goodness.
Let me see where I'm going.

Oh, I'm getting pulled
different directions now.

-Let's look. And we will revisit you.
-Oh, that's amazing. Thank you.

I just want to see...

That tobacco thing

just like blew me away.
That was amazing.

Okay. Let's see if we can...

Okay. All right, where am I going?
Let me look here.

If I go... [mumbles] ...I'm drawn to you,

but then I'm also drawn to you,
and I'm also drawn to you,

but then I'm not forgetting
about you either.

-[laughter]
-Um, okay.

[exhales deeply] He's right...

I have this guy coming in who's hitting me
as a unique case, which I like.

[chuckles] I have a situation involving
a man who would have passed away

like before 70 which is kind of unusual.
Um, give me one minute here.

Can I hold on to this? Do you mind if I...?

Thank you so much.

This is kind of hard to explain.
So separate from this object,

even if it's not necessarily referring
to this individual, do you know of anyone

connected within family who would
have passed away like before 70 at all?

-[clicks tongue] My uncle.
-[Tyler] Okay.

'Cause I have to highlight,

like, male, feeling of hitting it
kind of close, I'm not gonna lie,

but I feel like I don't get to see a full
life in the way this kind of comes across.

What was your first name again?

-Mine? Bradley.
-[Tyler] Bradley. Okay.

Um, this is good to keep in mind.

[clicks tongue]

I want to talk
about where the four siblings would be.

So within family, if we think about,
like, Mom's side, Dad's side,

do you know where the four
would be at all?

Four. My dad's one of seven,
and my mom is one of...

-Oh, yes, yeah, my mom's one of four.
-[Tyler] Cool. Awesome.

-Yeah. All good.
-[group laughing]

-[Amanda] I told you this would happen.
-[guests laughing]

Like, "Wait, what?"

I'm so bad
with my own family lineage, too.

I'm like, "Oh, God, yeah,
there's four somewhere. Yeah."

I told him, I was like, "Help each other
out because you forget what you know."

[Tyler] Yes, it is true.

So if I go there and I kind of highlight
the four in the way this pops in there,

do you know of any
J-O names in family at all?

Anyone who has a name
that would start with J-O?

J... Well, my mom, her name's Janet.

-[Tyler] Okay. Okay, got it.
-Her sister is named Jane.

A lot of J-As. No Joes or Johns?

-My grandpa's John. I don't know if...
-John. Okay. Gotcha.

-And he's passed?
-He has, yeah.

Okay, gotcha. [hesitates]

We'll take a note on it
in the way this comes across.

[inhales] Do you know if anybody
has any Christian names in the family?

Like any Pauls, Michaels, like Christian...?
I'm wanting to talk about Christian names.

Hmm. [clicks tongue]

I'm not super... No.
We have very standard names in our family.

Nothing that's super exciting.

My grandpa was named Donald.
My grandmother's named Martha.

-No one exciting. So...
-[Tyler] Gotcha. Okay.

Let me look and see if we can figure out
where this religious aspect comes in.

They were very religious, though.
They went to church every Sunday.

The way I'd word it
is I feel I have to talk

about the given name, religious name.

It keeps coming in,
but it's hitting me as a thing.

Let me take this a step further.

Do you know, on your mom's side of family,
if there were kind of anything...

anything revealed after somebody died
that we didn't know before?

So, I'm going on Mom's side of family.
I have to talk about there.

And then, like, grand reveal.

Which side of family
was Uncle on that passed?

-Was that...?
-The unc...

-My paternal side, actually.
-[Tyler] Dad's side. Okay.

Let me look there.

I do have a great-grandfather,
though, that actually,

now that I'm thinking
about it, has a J name.

His name was J,
and my middle name is J,

which... named after him, so...

I see. I wonder if J was short
for anything or what that is.

But I do go there. I'm inclined. [inhales]

Do you know, if I talk about
bi-coastal or East Coast, West Coast,

I keep having to go there
and this keeps coming in.

This is just good to keep in mind.
I keep seeing my symbol

for airplane travel, flight,
and like going back and forth...

Yes.

I'm from the Midwest
and I travel a lot to...

I traveled a lot
when I started my career out here in LA.

Amazing. Amazing. Amazing.

Have you ever considered
like launching anything...

This is going to sound kind of left field.

Regardless of what you do,

there's a sense of launching something
that you in essence are the center of.

And the way that I would describe this

-is like, I'm friends with Chaz Dean...
-[guests laughing]

...of all people, and this is random,
obviously that's in the hair department.

But if you think of like somebody
who takes who they are and then creates

an entire kind of like empire around them.

-I know that's a weird thing to say...
-[overlapping chatter]

[Tyler] ...but it's almost like,
"Do the branding thing. Step into this,"

like, "Make the leap."

And I see this like being...
revolving around you.

It's kind of interesting.
So what do you do? [chuckles]

I am Brittany's hairstylist as well
as many other people here in Los Angeles.

Amazing.
So with the Chaz Dean symbology,

it kind of is indicative of
like branding, doing our own thing.

If you have any products
to create or patent...

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] ...any ideas, keep that in mind.

I recently just opened
a salon in Santa Monica

and I do have a small
little hair accessory brand.

-So that makes sense. So thank you.
-[Tyler] Amazing. Yeah, yeah.

-I feel really positive about that.
-[Bradley and Jared laughing]

Um, what I would say,

the only thing that's throwing me
is the Christian names thing.

[sniffs] I would just go back and look

'cause Mom's side and Dad's side
throws me a little... Let me look there.

Who did this belong to? I'm curious.

-My grandfather on my mom's side.
-[Tyler] Mom's side of the family.

Cool. I'm always curious
which sides come in more strongly.

What was his name?

-Donald.
-[Tyler] Donald.

-[pen scribbling]
-[Tyler] Let me go there.

And I'm just gonna...
I'm gonna hand that back...

-Thank you.
-...quickly.

And I'm just going
to see something really fast

'cause there might be something there.

[Brittany] He said, "Keep going"
on yours. [laughs]

He's already started,
now you have to keep it going.

-[laughs]
-[Brittany chuckling] Yeah.

Hmm. Let me go to you, if that's okay,

if you don't mind handing me your object.

'Cause we have
the John grandpa thing, right?

-Yes.
-This is for you.

And regardless,
I don't know if this connects,

it's just kind of where I want to go.

So let's look... See.

I want to focus on that.

Okay.

Ah, because...
Okay, I'm going to hand it back.

I know it's like a game of musical chairs.

-[guests laughing]
-I've got the situation.

I'm trying to tune into all three of you.

I have...

a bunch of strange things coming through.

This is going
to sound a little left field.

So if I talk about really,
really young passings,

this is... [chuckles] ...very different
than what we've just been talking about.

So like your guy older,
your guy come through older.

I have to highlight this feeling

of a tragic younger passing
and it keeps hitting me.

And I have to highlight,
this is going to sound strange,

but this individual
was basically celebrated

on two different dates.

And this is just good to keep in mind.

So there's, like, the initial way
that we're kind of remembered,

celebrated thing,
and then a secondary thing.

But then there's also
an emphasis on, like, starting over

on a new year, turning over a new leaf.

So it's kind of confusing.

I would want to know
when this person passed.

If I talk to you, do you know...
Relate to any tragic-related passings...

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] ...of anyone who, like, died early?

My friend Johnny Bash was m*rder*d.

-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
-Yeah.

-[Tyler exhales deeply]
-Very recently.

[Tyler] And so... And it's kind of strange
'cause this John thing

has been, like, hitting me,

and I wonder if it's kind of like a link
in trying to communicate.

Um... [clicks tongue]
What month did this happen in?

Gosh, I blacked out.

-[Tyler] It's okay.
-Maybe, like, a month ago?

-[Tyler] Okay, so...
-It's crazy because I didn't even

bring anything that I had of him
so it's crazy that you picked that up

because that has also been
weighing so heavily on my heart.

I'm so sorry.

I'll tune into this and see
if we can get more information about it,

but I have to highlight...

I also had a cousin
who passed away in May.

-Gotcha.
-Five months ago.

-Okay.
-And it was his birthday month.

[Tyler] Aw.

-And we celebrated him after the passing.
-[Tyler] Oh. Okay.

I think I might be with you a little bit.

-He was, um... I want to say 54, 55.
-[Tyler] Okay, gotcha.

-[Jared] How'd he die?
-[Tyler] If I go...

-I'm going to kind of jump back and forth.
-[Anais] In his sleep.

Aw.

If we talk about your situation
with the person that passed,

there's a sense, I don't know
if you just mentioned how he died,

but I have to talk
about accountability, responsibility,

people talking about like... [inhales]
...I don't want to say who's to blame,

but there's a feeling of when we talk

about family-related matters,
this kind of sense

of what do we pin this on
in kind of a larger capacity.

The only thing I would describe...

Check and see if anybody
was out of town when he died.

Yeah.

There's a feeling of being
out of town upon receiving the news.

Do you understand that at all?

Um...

-Not at this moment.
-[Tyler] Yeah.

Um...

But I don't...

[Tyler] How did he pass?

-Um, he had an accident...
-[Tyler] Okay.

...so he jumped off a boat,

landed on his neck, I think,
and got handicapped and paralyzed.

[Tyler] I see.

And he had a caregiver,
and he pretty much went crazy.

-I don't know exactly what happened.
-Sure.

m*rder*d him when he was at home.

-Oh my God. Okay, got it.
-[Elaine chuckles]

-I know. It's very morbid.
-[Tyler] Wow.

I wasn't sure if she had mentioned
if it was a m*rder.

It, like, slipped past the aspect

that comes in as, like, accountability,
feelings of trying to get a clarity.

There's an acknowledgement
of being celebrated in...

I'm gonna go here though.

Go to you. We'll talk about...

-You said cousin had passed.
-[Anais] My cousin.

[Tyler]
Do you know if there were questions...

There's this feeling
of trying to maintain sanctity

of the body in questions
of whether to do an autopsy or not,

and a feeling of, like,
one person being game for that...

-Yes. [sniffles]
-[Tyler] ...and another person not.

-Do you understand that kind of discord?
-Yes.

[Tyler] That keeps popping in
and that would relate to him for sure.

-Who's his "mini-me" or is he a "mini-me"?
-Oh my God.

[Tyler chuckles] Because I want
to talk about that for you.

Oh, she was just talking
about that with us earlier.

[Anais] That's what he calls his daughter.

[Tyler] Oh, great.
Okay, so there we got the mini-me,

and I definitely need you
to know this feeling

of wanting to connect with this little one

and an acknowledgment of that bond.

-Um...
-[Amanda] Do you call her mini-me?

[voice breaking]
He would call her mini-me.

-Gosh, Tyler.
-[Tyler] Aw!

That's precious. I love it.
See, we're knocking it out.

-On live television. All right.
-[guests] Wow.

[overlapping chatter]

-And I... I just...
-That's so amazing.

I need you to know there's a sense
of levity, of relief, of peace.

I... Of course,
their passings do not define their life,

but there's this sense of,
"Ah, I just should have had more time,

decades... [chuckles] ...and I didn't."

Um... There is a very clear kind
of sense of needing it to be known.

There's this feeling
of wanting to squash misinformation

-around his passing...
-[gasps]

[Tyler] ...and the rumors of how he died
versus how he actually did.

He's like, "Don't let that
make the grief process harder."

[Brittany] Oh!

[Tyler] I don't want you to feel
like this is gonna make this harder

because he's giving me, as weird as it is,
I know this is kind of a unique situation,

but he's like, "Okay, it happened."

-Like, open and shut.
-That's what he was.

-That was his personality.
-[Tyler] Yeah.

[Brittany] Oh, my God. Anais!

[Tyler] And so you understand that message
of kind of differing, perhaps,

discussions around
how someone passes and causes death.

And he's just like, "It's all good."

Like, I'm taking very much a sense of not
as dramatic as we might think.

Like, that's the only way to describe it.

-[Jared] We were talking about this.
-Yeah, he fell asleep. Yeah.

Anais, can you share
how that relates to you?

So, he is a cousin.
Um... we grew up as, like, a sibling.

He was like a brother to me.
And... [inhales deeply]

There was a time where we didn't speak.

We had to set boundaries, my whole family,
and we got word of his passing.

It was very tragic.
He was young. [sniffles]

Um... He died in his sleep.
We don't know for sure what the cause was.

Was there a question
about the autopsy like Tyler mentioned?

-Yeah. Yeah.
-[Tyler] So sorry.

She was literally telling us about this
while we were getting ready today.

-[Amanda] Wow.
-Yeah.

That's amazing. And so often
I find when conversations get referred to,

sometimes it's really indicative
that they're with us,

that consciousness
is clearly kind of complicated...

[laughs] ...and they're around in some way.

We'll continue to kind of see
if we can get a little more there.

-[Brittany] That's amazing.
-[Elaine] You got exactly what you wanted.

-[Tyler] I love that.
-That's amazing.

That was exactly
what she wanted to come for, so it's...

It's just, yeah, it's incredible.

Kind of like...
[grunts, speaks indistinctly]

-[guests laughing]
-We're gonna figure it out.

What... Give it one sec. Uh, how...? Ooh.

I love when I get pulled
in two different directions. [laughs]

Either way, I'm gonna end up talking
to you two separately

at a later time and... you too,
you can come along.

[guests laughing]

But I wanna take a step further.
So, for you, I wanna hold onto your stuff,

'cause the cross thing
really struck me right off the bat.

-Um, who is that connected to for you?
-My mom.

[Tyler] Okay, I'd love
to hold onto that object again,

and let's see if we can get anything
along those lines,

'cause it was just hitting me.

I was like,
"Don't you forget, don't forget."

-[Elaine chuckles]
-But it was symbolized through an object.

Okay, let me look here.

We're gonna talk about since 2020
and then before 2020.

And that'll kind of help us bifurcate
when we talk about passings

and things along those lines.

So, do you know of any significant deaths?

If I talk about before 2020,
like on Mom's side of family...

[clicks fingers]
...what comes to mind right away?

My grandpa.

Okay. If I go to Grandpa,
and we talk about Grandpa,

and then I talk about a link
with him with a female

that would have passed away post-2020,

-who would that be?
-Grandma.

[Tyler] Okay, gotcha.

'Cause I'm wanting to link up, in the way
this comes in, these two individuals.

-Now, it's on the same side of family?
-Yeah.

Okay. Um, when we talk about family
in a larger scale, do you know if...

This is gonna sound strange.
I'm going to my throat. How weird.

Throat voice speaking.

Um... That's usually indicative of some kind
of problem verbalizing or vocalizing.

This is gonna sound kind of odd.

Uh, do you know if any
were not conscious at the time of passing?

-My grandma. I think she had...
-[Tyler] Okay.

I feel like
there's a respiration of fluids.

-I have to talk about trying to...
-[Elaine] Yes.

Basically, my vocal cords
feel, like, hurt, like, useless.

But I feel like I'm having
to talk about inflammation.

And for her, I would have been concerned
around like lungs, breathing,

that kind of thing.

-And that comes in for her.
-Yeah, she was...

I don't know the right terminology,
but throwing up.

[Tyler] Got it. I'm so sorry.

Um, a lot of fluids
were coming out when she was passing.

Gotcha. Yeah.
It comes across as like when you kind

of clear your throat too much
and you kind of get a sore throat.

It's very much this feeling,
but I have to go there.

I have acknowledged levity.

There's a reference of... Phew. Oh, phew.

Um... [laughs]

Do you know of any situations
in family where a family member

raised somebody who was not
their biological child?

-That's kind of an interesting thing.
-Um...

Like any situations where any aunts
or uncles step in

and like help raise anybody
or like, I don't know,

I'm going a generation above.

-And I have to talk.
-Not that I can think of right now.

Where's the three on your mom's side?

-The three?
-[Tyler] Yeah.

So, how many siblings
does Mom have, basically?

Six.

Okay, so when... how many are girls,
how many are boys?

-Three girls.
-[Tyler] Three girls. Okay.

So, we'll go there and we'll talk
about those three girls.

I'm for some reason having
to highlight someone helping out

with care, childcare,
somebody helping someone else.

When we also talk
about that side of family,

this is gonna sound a little tricky.
[chuckles]

You know when someone passes

and they're kind
of the glue that hold things together

and then when someone dies
everyone kind of scatters,

different dynamics happen,
but it wouldn't surprise me

if within family, we see like a passing

and then just like that side
of family just kind of goes their own way.

Yeah.

And there's a sense of not wanting
to be hurt by this,

but just kind of, it is what it is
in a larger capacity.

And that kind of comes in there.
Um, do you know, if we talk about...

[clicks tongue] Mm...

Oh, who's the... above your mom
generationally still alive currently?

So, like, if you think of who,
like, Dad's parents or Mom's parents,

do you have anybody
on that generation that's still with us?

Not that I can think of.

[Tyler] Like, no siblings of grandparents
at all that are still alive?

-No.
-[Tyler] For sure?

-Not for sure.
-Not for sure.

-[laughs]
-Okay, no worries.

I don't think I know
my grand-grandparents, so...

Okay, gotcha. They're basically
having me highlight health stuff,

Dad's side of family.
Give me one sec there.

Wait. Yeah, no.

-[chuckles]
-[Tyler] Going to Dad's side. How weird.

Um... Give me one sec there.

And then I want to bring up...

Hmm.

Do you know if anybody would have dealt
with any brain-related issues

at the top of your head,

like anything that would have affected
cognizance, cognition, clarity of mind?

Keep having me talk about being struck,

struck by this and then kind of like
don't feel the same afterwards.

-My husband's dad.
-[Tyler] Okay.

He was very healthy and then mentally
he just declined really quickly.

Gotcha. Um, within that family,

is there a two males
named after each other

or a name that would be passed down
within that family that would be male?

Um...

Like Dad's first name
into someone's middle name

or like, for example,
his grandfather and then his...

-Yes, Lawrence.
-[Tyler] Yeah.

-So, like, if I take that name, is that...?
-Yeah.

-I think so. Yes.
-Okay. Double-check.

But that's kind of one aspect
that I'm going to there.

Do you know of any situations
where two sisters don't speak

or were estranged?

I think my... my husband's mom
and her siblings don't talk.

All good.
And sometimes it happens, it's all good.

It's just kind of an acknowledgement
or a reference there.

[Elaine] Yeah.

One thing to just keep in mind
is there is an acknowledgement

for some reason around,
we talk about this,

lighting a candle and I just see
a candle being lit. [chuckles]

And it just comes through symbolically.

Remember that I'm saying this,
if there's any places

that you can create
like an altar or a space,

I see carving out a space
in, like, where I live,

-to put this and it's kind of interesting...
-Okay.

...and I'm lighting a candle
in the way this comes in.

So, it's just something to consider.
Check and see.

Just remember one thing
when I'm saying this.

There is some reference
to, like, Mark, Marcus,

or something along those lines,
and I don't know who that would be,

but it does pop in.
Do you know of any Marks?

No, I don't.

[Tyler] Okay, Mark, Marcus.
Marcus, Marcus, Marcus, Marcus, Marcus,

Mark, Mark, Mark, Mark.

Would this be
on my husband's side of the family?

I have no clue. It literally just hit me.

Do you know any Marks
off the top of your head?

-Um, my driver that drove me here.
-[guests laughing]

Well, that's weird.
Is he actually named Mark?

-[Elaine] Yes.
-[Brittany] Oh, my God.

So, I know that's weird,
but, uh, strangely...

I'm kind of just blacking out
at this point.

[Tyler] No, it's okay.
There's a lot to process.

I'm so sorry.

But weirdly, that name just hits me
as a kind of secondary thing.

So, perhaps something to look into,
but literally sometimes

names will come through people
we were just interacting with. [chuckles]

It's all kind of coming in there,
and then what I'm gonna do...

-I'm gonna give this back to you.
-[Elaine] Thank you.

'Cause there's more there,
but I want to kind of take a sec

to reacclimate.

I want to kind of see where we can go,
so it sounds like...

Mom passed. I'm so sorry.
Were there any questions

related to that circumstance
or that situation,

anything that went unresolved?

-I mean, I found her...
-[Tyler] Oh.

...and she passed a week
before my daughter was born.

Oh, my God.

And she was supposed to show me
how to be a mom.

[Tyler] Gotcha.

So it was very hard being one without her.

[Tyler] Yes, of course.

-And finding her that way was very hard.
-[Tyler] Oh, I'm so sorry.

I just want to know if...

it was a bad passing or...

[Tyler] Gotcha. I'm so sorry.

-[Elaine] Yeah.
-You know, it's interesting.

Every reading is a little different,
and some might connect very clearly,

and others, I can feel
a little bit of a distance.

And it's sometimes almost as a means
of just trying to kind of protect...

[chuckles] ...in the way that comes in.

There is a sense of levity and lightness,

and I would love to be able
to talk to you privately.

[Elaine] I'd love that.

But I gotta let you know, when this
comes in, there's a sense of children,

and happiness and joy.

But it's so much more
than that one cause of passing.

-Thank you so much.
-Of course, absolutely.

I want to look there.

[clicks tongue] Let me go...
Let me, let me, let me look.

Let me see here.
My friend here with the abacus situation.

-[guests laughing]
-Let me hold onto that abacus.

[Amanda] Yeah, he's like,
"Pick me, pick me, please!"

[Tyler] Let me... Let me look here.

All right, let's see
if we can give this a shot.

Who is this connected to? I'm curious.

-My paternal grandfather.
-[Tyler] I love it.

All right, let's give it a shot
and see if we can...

[Amanda] And that's a game?
I don't know what that is.

-It's like an abacus.
-It's like an old-fashioned calculator.

I think, like, where they
used to count things or something.

-[Brittany] But how?
-Before my time. Girl, I don't know!

[Brittany] I'm like,
"It slides both ways." How does it work?

[Tyler] Yeah, as if division
isn't hard enough already, I'm like...

-[groans, sneezes]
-[Amanda and guests laugh]

Excuse me. All right, so I got
to highlight a couple different things.

One thing, we're going
to talk about this person.

There's a number of different things.

So, um, within family, basically,
if I highlight a grouping of boys,

if I talk about the males...

I've got a lot of testosterone
in the way this comes through.

Do you know of multiple male siblings
off the top of your head?

Yeah.

Okay, how many
approximately would there be?

There's me and my brother.
My dad and his brother, um...

My cousins on my... My aunt's sons
are both brothers, obviously.

-[Tyler] Lots of boys.
-Yeah, lots of boys.

Got it. When we talk about somebody
who had a dog

that would be like a Golden Retriever size
or like a Labrador size dog...

-I want to highlight that.
-[Jared] Okay.

That does kind of come in
as, like, a mid-sized animal.

So, not something super large,
not something necessarily super small,

but that does pop in.

Do you know if anyone ever had
any Labs or Golden Retrievers?

We did, yeah. We're a Lab family.

-[guests laughing]
-[Amanda] Aw.

Check to see if anyone had
any darker Labs specifically.

We had a chocolate Lab, Montana.

Yeah, he passed, but we're dog people,
so I love him so much.

[Tyler]
I got to highlight, within your family,

do you know of a situation
where there would have been two passings

in under four years or so?

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] So, when Grandpa passed,

do you know if anyone else passed
around him or is this someone else?

Definitely, yeah.
I mean, yes, there was some...

I think my great aunt passed around,
maybe within four years of that time.

[Tyler] Okay.

On that side of family, are you aware
of medical conditions and stuff?

Do you know of any
Alzheimer's-related stuff or Dementia

on that side of family?

Not... Not really right now,
but my grandpa I wasn't close to,

and he had certain
mental health conditions

that kind of barred us from being able
to see him a lot or frequently.

-Gotcha.
-So, I don't know if that was from...

-[Tyler] Technically that.
-Yeah, if it was actually that, but...

The reason I ask
is 'cause I basically see who I am

towards the end isn't who I want
to be remembered earlier on.

And anytime I get that feeling,
it's generally indicative

of like who I am,
I kinda lose my cookies towards the end.

[chuckles] I don't want...
I almost want to be remembered

for this earlier incarnation of myself
versus the older incarnation of myself.

Yeah, I mean, the few times
that I saw him growing up,

it was weird,
and awkward and uncomfortable.

It's not... I mean, this isn't
like the most, you know, like,

"Oh my gosh, this is so positive."

I mean, it is nice to... But it was
a complicated relationship for sure.

Um, especially with my dad and him.
And yeah, so rarely saw him.

And then when we did see him,
we were like, "Oh my gosh."

-[Tyler] Right, a lot there.
-Yeah.

Got it. This is so random.

I'm kind of switching gears here.

I'm just going to hand this back
to you really quick.

Okay, you know those stars
that you stick up in your room?

Okay, I'm just trying to think
of how to articulate this.

-The glow-in-the-dark ones?
-[Tyler] Yes, the glow-in-the-dark stars.

On your ceiling.

You stick up on your room
when you're a kid

and you, like, look up at them.

I'm seeing like a succinct memory
of this, but it's weird.

It's like glow-in-the-dark stickers.

Did you have those at all?

-[Elaine] Yeah, of course.
-I did too. [chuckles]

-[Tyler] I'm going up on my ceiling...
-[Brittany] Yeah.

But I have to talk about...

I'm like just trying to throw me back
to a timeline.

Give me one minute there.

[clicks tongue]
This is kind of interesting for you.

Dad's side of family and Mom's side
of family is very separate

in the way this kind of comes in.

And what's interesting
is when we talk about Mom,

there's this sense of when I embrace you...

I'm trying to think
of how to kind of articulate this.

You make up for your dad's family.

-[Tyler chuckles]
-I do.

Like, when Mom views you,
there's a sense of,

"I have all this love,"
like, "I have this, this..."

-Yeah.
-"...I don't necessarily need that."

-[chuckles]
-Yeah.

And that kind of strikes me
as interesting.

There's a feeling in the way
this comes across of...

Actually, around when she passed,

check and see if there were any birthdays
that were just around the corner

or were just like right there.
'Cause I feel like I'm excited.

I'm seeing like, "Oh, we're gonna..."
I'm seeing marking a calendar.

Yeah, it's weird.

It keeps coming in.
Do you know of any birthdays around then?

-My daughter.
-[Tyler] Oh! Oh, right, right!

-'Cause you were born, right... Okay.
-Her daughter was born right after.

Do you know of any other birth dates
around or was it just daughter?

-I think just my daughter. Yeah.
-[Tyler] Just Daughter. Okay.

Double check, but it comes in as,
like, celebratory, positive, happy.

But that would strike me
as, like, immediately after.

When we talk about that aspect there,
my brain...

My brain.

Oh, interesting.

Hmm. Couple... On a side note,

this is good to keep in mind
when we talk about

COVID-related stuff within family.

-Yeah.
-This is kind of strange.

They're not wanting me to worry about...

Huh. Like, vaccines?
And they're not wanting me

-to worry about, like, COVID stuff...
-[Elaine] Oh my gosh.

[Tyler] ...but there's
a vaccine conversation and I'm all for it.

-It's crazy.
-[Tyler] Yeah, it's coming in and, like...

Blowing my mind.

It's normally not an area
I would, like, go, but it just kind of...

It keeps popping up
and they're doing this for me.

That symbol of, like,
wiping the hands clean.

It's usually for me indicative in the past
of, like, letting this go,

not needing this to be, like, an answer,
but, like, there's aspects there.

So how does that apply?

So my mom has a very long history
of strokes.

-[Tyler] Got it.
-She had COVID.

I know this is going to be like a...
you know, this is a debatable topic

and whatnot, but she had COVID,
she survived it.

And then I was just like,
"Don't get the vaccine..."

-Yeah.
-"...because you have a history of strokes."

-[Tyler] Sure.
-And you survived it,

so you're fine, you're not traveling,
you're not going anywhere.

She doesn't even go anywhere.

She's like my mom,
all she does is stay at home.

"So please don't get it."
And she always said she won't.

So, after she passed
and I was cleaning out her stuff,

that was when I found her vaccine card.

I see.

And I've always...

I... [sighs]

Because I always, like,
kind of blamed myself

because she had all these, like,

"Oh, my leg's hurting." I was like,
"Why didn't I see those signs?"

"Why didn't I ask? Why didn't..."

-You know, why didn't I do more?
-You know...

So, I've been kicking myself for it.
Why was I so against just her getting it?

-[Tyler] Yeah, sure.
-Why was I so against that?

Maybe she would have been
more comfortable telling me.

-[Tyler] Aw.
-You know?

And if she told me, I would have taken
these symptoms more seriously.

-[Tyler] Yes.
-You know?

I think a lot of people at home can relate

to being in that kind
of precarious situation.

And when it comes to this,

there's just very much
an insistence on COVID,

vaccine, all good.

I don't feel like this...

We're all learning
as we go with the whole thing.

Nobody knows Yeah.

[Tyler] And that's one of those things,
is it was unprecedented times.

Yeah.

It was very expedited,
and so everyone had different views.

-I just wish she...
-Mm-hmm.

I wish I wasn't, you know...

I wasn't like, "Do not get it," you know?
I was just like, you know,

"Your health is not the greatest
to receive it," you know?

And I just wish I was
more of a comfortable space for her

to share that with, and maybe
I would have taken things seriously.

Maybe I could have helped it.
I don't know.

It just blows my mind
that you even brought it up

because it's been, like, a little...

-[Tyler] Oh! Of course, it's in there.
-[Elaine] Yeah.

You know, we always think of the maybes

and the shoulds, and I can tell you
even under the best of circumstances,

people have regret.

We wish we would have called up the phone.

We wish we would have, you know, not said,
"Oh, I'll catch you later," you know?

It's so normal even
under the best of circumstances

when we know they're going to pass...

[Brittany] Mm-hmm.

...to have regret, and I can just tell you,
by and large,

the intensity that comes through
is very strong,

but with a sense of levity and joy,
and if there was anyone that she wanted

to have her see out in this life...

And I'm not saying
that was the reason why she passed either.

-[Tyler] No, exactly.
-You know?

But it's just something
that she kept from me

that I felt like she couldn't share,
also hurts.

-[Tyler] Yes, exactly.
-You know.

I'm not pointing fingers at all, but...

I'm glad we were able to bring
that clarification.

-I'm glad you did too.
-And hopefully let that aspect go.

That actually kind of like lifted
a lot of weight for me.

-Good. That's what it's all about.
-[Elaine] Yeah.

Tyler, I have a quick question for you.

In the beginning, you mentioned
that you were seeing a river

back before you came out here.

[Tyler] Yeah.

I mean, did that obviously relate
to Brittany and the river?

I think so. It was interesting,
of, like, walking the curve of a river.

[Brittany] Yeah.

And that, like, property,
and the way this comes across

of, like, a bend,
and I feel like I want to walk it

and, like, look in the dirt
and find things.

-It's really cool.
-Yeah!

Like, it would be cool
for a kid to go explore it.

Oh, and, like, my sister is so into that.

Like, she's always, like,
looking for different things

that she can find out there.

I mean, my family has owned that property.

My papaw was born in the house
that my mom lives in right now.

[Tyler] Yes.

And my whole family
is next door neighbors.

So, like, all three of my aunts,
my uncle, my mamaw,

my mom, they all live next door
to each other on that big property of land

that ends at the river.

-[Tyler] I love that.
-Yeah.

Tyler, that was just mind-blowing, wow!

-[Brittany] So, that's amazing! Yeah.
-[Amanda] That was amazing.

-Thank you.
-[Amanda] Amazing job today.

-Thank you!
-[Brittany] Thank you! That was amazing.

Thanks for having us.

No doubt. I'm excited
to connect again in the future.

We'll be in touch.

Thank you so much
to Brittany Cartwright and her guests,

for everyone at home
for watching our show.

We'll be back next week
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or celebrities.

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