01x03 - Sharelle & Kurt

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- ♪ Yeah I've been hiding
in plain sight this whole time ♪

- You've met the
love of your life.

- I love him.
Like I want to marry him.

- I think Barry is the one.

- But they're hiding
a massive secret.

- I have not met anybody
in his family.

- You!

- I don't want to keep
thinking it's me.

- I'm proud of our relationship,
I want her to be proud too.

That's all.

- We're on a mission
to find out why.

- He's maybe doing
some type of steroids.

- We got missing jewelry.
A house that no one can go to.

Welcome to Vegas.

- I mean, he may be
in another relationship.

- Oh!

- I'm Rahne Jones.
Let her go, let her go.

I've been hidden.

I can't tell you how
hurtful it is.

It does make you
severely insecure.

- I'm Travis Mills.
I've definitely done it.

I've been in relationships
that I haven't posted at all.

- We're joining forces to help
desperate partners uncover

the truth about their
secret relationships.

I used to work for the
Department of Homeland Security.

- This could very well be a guy
that's living a double life.

- There's a difference
between being in love

and being a sucker for love.

- If we do not do this,
there will be no wedding.

- We'll bring these couples
face-to-face.

- The reason why I'm hiding you.

- The reason I'm hiding you is.

- I really don't know
what to do.

- To reveal their
shocking secrets.

- That's done.
- I need a second.

- You should've told me
something like that.

- You here with your ex?

- Donald!
- Donald!

- What the [bleep]?

- All right, Donald.

- Come on, man.
Open the door.

- This is MTV's

"Help! I'm In A
Secret Relationship!".

- Tonight, we're in Los Angeles
with Sharelle and Kurt.

- He hasn't introduced me to
none of his friends or family.

- Kurt thinks he's on a
relationship show,

but Sharelle wants to know why
she's being hidden.

- I don't want Kurt to come off
to be like this bad guy.

- I don't know if he's hiding
something from Sharelle.

- You definitely got some vibe
like something was off.

- He may be
in another relationship.

- Oh!

- We talked to your friend,
Blair today.

She said, Sharelle's
been hiding something.

- No, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no!

- Tell her the truth.
- Why?

You know I love you Sharelle.

- No, I don't know that.

- The reason why I'm hiding you.
- I can't breathe.

I can't breathe.

- ♪

- I feel like hiding someone
could be

for so many different reasons.

You want to have your cake
and eat it too,

so you don't want
to bring that person around.

- You want to cheat!
- You want to cheat!

- Let's cheat!
- Cheaters!

- Is there ever a situation it'd
be okay to like keep someone,

quote, unquote hidden?

- I'd say if I'm dating Beyonce,
you know what I'm saying?

And she's like, hey, we need to
keep this on the down low.

And I'd be like, okay, that's
fine 'cause I might not want

the beehive to come attack me.
Who knows?

- Very true.
Do you know what I mean?

Exactly.
- You know.

- So what is going on today?
What do we have?

- We are meeting up with
Sharelle who has been dating

her boyfriend, Kurt
for two years.

- I'm ready.
- Oh yes, whoo hoo.

- My name is Sharelle.

I live in
Los Angeles, California.

And I've been dating my
boyfriend, Kurt for two years.

- Let's roll, let's roll.

- I moved here from Chicago two
years ago and my dating history

before Kurt really sucked, okay?
I'm just going to be honest.

It sucked.

And I come here to LA,
meet Kurt

and I just feel like I've met
the man of my dreams.

This feeling is different.

Go up a little bit.
- Right here?

- He spoils me.
Not rotten, but he spoils me.

The heels, I had on heels last
night so.

- Last night?

We wasn't hanging out
last night.

Where'd you go?

- Stop playing.

- [laughter]

- It would be hard for someone
to follow him.

Like this has to work, okay?
It just has to work.

Ooh, Kurt.

- How we say it in Jamaica,
fire!

- Kurt.
That's nice.

You're in business.
All right.

We're working out together.
We're meditating together.

We're praying together.
I really love Kurt.

I love this man.

- Toast to happiness.
- Peace, blessings.

- Blessings.
- Success.

- All of that.
- Marriage.

- [coughs]

- But for two years, it's just
been just the two of us.

I'm meeting no one on his side.
Not two months, two years.

- Me and you are just chillin'.

Why are we trying to get
everybody else involved when

I'm not ready for that?

- You know it's got to be
something going on.

I need some type of clarity
to see what's going on

with this guy,
and if I don't get the truth,

there's no way I can go on
in this relationship.

- Sharelle reached out to us
and we are going to meet up

with her at her favorite
crystal shop.

- Oh, no.
You already lost me.

- She loves rocks!
- No, that's why.

He's like.
- She loves rocks.

- No, no, no, no, no.

All right.
Dude, I'm nervous.

- Me too.
- Whew.

- Here we go.

- I mean, I don't know if
I'm more nervous the fact that

we're going in a crystal shop
or that we're gonna try to help

someone figure out why they've
been hidden by their boyfriend

for two years.

- You really hate rocks.
- Ugh...

- ♪ Feel the beat
Feel the heat ♪

- Ooh.

Hi.
- Hello. I'm Travis.

- Hi. Pleased to meet you.
- I'm Rahne.

- I'm so glad you came.
- Sharelle?

- Me? Yes, I'm Sharelle.
- Amazing.

- Is this your spot?
- Yes, it is.

This is where I come
to get clarity.

- I know nothing about this,
so like what is the purpose

of holding something like that?

- This big baby here
is for clarity.

- Okay.
- What I need.

- I need answers.
- I need answers, okay?

- All right.
- This and you.

- I want to help you for sure.

- They have a beautiful spot
back here where we can talk.

- I'm ready to go.

- This is...
- This is dope.

- This is super tranquil.

All right.
- All right.

- Why don't you kind of take us
back to the beginning?

You know, tell us a little bit
about when you and Kurt met.

You know, just kind of
set the stage.

- Okay, so I moved here
from Chicago two years ago.

And a few weeks later I was
dating from a dating app.

- ♪ Hey ladies,
you the queen, queen, queen ♪

- And I swiped Kurt's picture.

Everything about his picture,

the bio,
everything was on point.

Good energy,
so I hit him up.

And on the first date instantly,
I felt that connection.

- ♪ I can't believe that
I'm crushing on you ♪

♪ I really thought
I was solid ♪

- I feel like we're perfect
for each other.

We connected spiritually,
mentally, physically

and financially.

I started helping him
with his business.

- What does he do for work?
- Yeah.

- Let me just show you.

He does custom fedora hats.
- Wow.

These hats are dope.
As a hat wearer, these are fire.

- Do you see that?

- Damn, that's crazy.

- We birthed his business
together, I feel like.

And I helped him with his social
media to build up followers,

but he doesn't post me
on his page at all.

- Nothing?

- He posts everybody else,
but me.

And I'm like, what's going on?
- Okay.

- He hasn't introduced me to

none of his friends or family
or coworkers.

He brings them up,
but I never met anyone.

- What are his excuses?

- He's not ready.

Or we're in the middle of COVID.

And I'm like,
what the hell you mean?

I'm seeing him on social media
with his family and friends

and coworkers,
but I'm not invited.

- Everyone else can come and
meet the family, just not you.

- And that's why you're here.
- Okay.

- I don't want to keep thinking
it's me.

You know?
- I get that, yeah.

So the positives,
do you think right now are--

- Do they outweigh
the negatives?

- Yeah.
- Yes.

Like I love him.
Like I want to marry him.

- Have you told him?
- I told him I love him.

- He said I need
to call you back.

I was just like,
oh, no.

- What was the point when you
realized that something was off?

- He asked me to do his cousin,
Tiffany's credit.

I help people with credit
and taxes.

And so that's how I end up
meeting his cousin

over the phone, all right?

- Okay, so not in person.
- Not in person.

And um, she hit me up
with a crazy message.

- His cousin?
- Yes.

- Okay.
- Read that.

- What?

- That's weird, right?
- Very.

- So I brought it to Kurt
and he was just like,

my cousin is crazy.
Don't listen to her.

He shuts down.

I'm sorry.
Just give me a minute.

- You're absolutely fine.

- This is someone you spent
two years of your life with.

Two years is a long time.

- That's why I have you guys
here to help me with this,

you know?

A part of me just wants
to shut down and walk away,

but I've put so
much time in this.

I don't want to just give up.

- ♪ I've been avoidin' his call
through my phone again ♪

- I'm sorry, I'm getting
emotional because it's starting

to make me feel like,
really what's wrong with me?

I'm not an insecure person,
you know?

- What do you think is keeping
you with someone like Kurt?

- I love him.

I love him.
I can see myself marrying him.

It's weighing me down.
It's gettin' so emotional.

Like I can't keep spending money
on crystals.

- Why do you think Kurt is
hiding you?

- Honestly,

it could be another woman.

- Do you and Kurt live together?
- No.

- I think he may be married.

- That's, that's a big,
that's a big claim.

What makes you think
that he might be married?

- Because he's--

It's been two years,
you know and I haven't

met anyone, you know?

So it's either that
or he's using me--

for my expertise, you know
or what I can provide.

You gotta start using
those hashtags.

- The hashtags?

Yeah, I'm a little busy
right now though.

- And I'm busy too making sure
everything is put in place

for Kurt's trends.

I really don't know.
I need answers.

- Does he know that
we're here right now?

- Okay, so Kurt knows we're
on a relationship show,

but no more than that.

- So he doesn't know what show.

He doesn't know what
the premise is.

He doesn't--
- No. No.

- Is there anyone
you think we should talk to?

- So he has met my friend,
Blair and Dave.

They do know Kurt.

Blair is my best friend.

And Dave's into fashion
and that's why I introduced

him and Kurt.

They're cool.
They get along really well.

- Text us those numbers.
- Definitely.

- We're gonna reach out.
- Absolutely.

- When we hear something,
you will hear something.

- Thank you.
- All right,

send us those numbers.
- Thank you so much.

- Thank you, thank you.
It's so nice to meet you.

- Thank you for coming out.

Thank you.
- Of course, you're welcome.

- I feel so bad.
- I do too.

- I mean, I would be happy
to have this woman on my arm

and show her off.
Do you know what I'm saying?

So I'm just confused as
to what the hell's going on?

- Her theory is you know
that she's like,

this is why I'm being hidden is
he's married.

Or has like a whole family.
- A whole family like damn.

- Or he's using her.

- He's using her
for tax purposes.

- She's helping him
brand his business.

- I'm going to get
to the bottom of this.

Let's check out
Kurt's social right now.

- That's a good idea
'cause I want to see

where is he going,
who's he going with.

- All right.
A lot of hats.

Very, very fashion forward.

- You would wear one?

- Possibly, but I'm not about
to give him any business

if he treat my girl like this.

You know what I'm saying?
I'm not doing that.

- What are people saying
on his page?

Like he posts a photo,
like are there girls you know

putting heart eyes?
- Right.

Uh, ooh, what do we have here?
Look at this.

This is Sharelle's friend who
she wants us to reach out to.

Hashtag styles by Dave.

- That looks like a business,
or like something like that.

- An event possibly.
- Yeah like-

- A promotion.
Right.

Ooh, hang on.
There's a comment from Tiffany.

- Okay.
- It says...

Friend.
- Okay, Kurt!

- I think the thing that threw
me by surprise

at Tiffany's message to Sharelle
was, stay away.

And it's crazy that his own
family said that.

Now unless Tiffany's
not really his cousin.

Coming up.

- You definitely got some vibe
like something was off?

- I don't want
to speculate anything,

but he may be in
another relationship.

- Oh!

- He should have told me
something like that!

I don't wanna do this no more!

- ♪ I'm on the ground everyday

♪ I do what I gotta
I move like a shotta ♪

♪ Like I'm in the line
for the Jays ♪

- TRAVIS: We're in Los Angeles
trying to uncover why

Sharelle's boyfriend, Kurt has
been hiding her for two years.

We contacted Tiffany,
Kurt's cousin who sent

Sharelle a clear message
to stay away.

We also reached out to
Sharelle's friend, Dave

several times and we finally
got ahold of him.

- Yo!
- What's up?

- Hey, my name's Travis.
- My name's Rahne.

- We got contacted by Sharelle.

So how do you know
Sharelle and Kurt?

- Me and Sharelle
go way back, man.

She's from the Chi.

- Talking to Sharelle,
she said that yeah,

she introduced you and Kurt.

You guys actually kind of
hit it off.

- Uh, we went
to a fashion show in LA.

That's how I met him.

He does custom
and I love hats,

so that's how we kinda bonded.

- Sharelle said that Kurt
has tried to like kind of

keep her separate.

- I don't know if he's hiding
something from Sharelle.

I don't know, you know?

I don't want to speculate
anything, but--

- You definitely got the vibe
like something was off?

- Yeah, um, he may be
in another relationship.

I don't know.

- Okay, hold on, hold on.
Why do you say that?

- You know he kind of dipped off
at the fashion show.

- With someone else?

- No, he was on the phone,
so I go over and he didn't know

I was you know approaching.

- Oh!
- Have you told Sharelle this?

- I never told Sharelle.
I didn't say anything.

- Okay.

- You know, I know she came
to you guys,

so hopefully you guys
can help her out.

- Right.
- Yeah.

- Thank you, guys.
- Peace.

Not just like a dude,
but like saying, I love you.

- Yeah and you know,
she said I love you to Kurt.

He did not say that back.

- That's the craziest part.

Everything's pointing to him
being in another relationship

whether it's a woman, a man.

Who cares like we just need
to just figure it out.

- Figure out what the hell
that is.

Got some
interesting information.

What is Kurt hiding?

- ♪ Out of pocket
gettin' money in my jeans ♪

♪ Like a rocket
Give me space I'm a king ♪

- Yesterday was a lot.

I was tossing and turning
all night.

Hopefully, we can get in contact
with some other people,

get some more answers.

- We really don't know,
but...

- Hello.

- Hello, this is Tiffany.
Um, I'm returning a call.

- Hi, Tiffany.
This is Rahne and Travis.

We're MTV.
How are you?

- Hey, what's up?

- Well, Tiffany,

we got contacted uh,
by a woman named Sharelle.

I believe you know Sharelle.

- Yes.

- Sharelle contacted us because
uh, she needed some help

with her relationship
with her boyfriend, Kurt.

And uh, you are Kurt's cousin.
Is that correct?

- Yes, that's correct.

- And you did send
Sharelle a message

after you two worked together,
uh, pretty much saying,

don't mess with him.

- Yeah, I sent that message.

It was very weird
because it's like,

I want to have loyalty
to my family,

but Sharelle is
such a good person.

- Yeah, she's very sweet.

- She just wants some clarity
and some answers about

their relationship.

- Well, I owe Sharelle,
so um, if she called you guys,

I don't mind talking to you.
- Amazing, amazing.

- sh**t us the address, and we
can sit down and have a chat.

- Oh, I'll text you now
'cause we need to talk.

- Thank you, Tiffany.
- Thank you so much.

- Thank you.
- Bye.

- Ooh.
- Jackpot.

- This must be her right here.

- Tiffany.
- Tiffany.

- Hi, how are you? Rahne.
- Hey.

- Nice to meet you.
- I'm Travis.

Thank you for meeting us.
- Yeah.

- You know it seems like
all of us want the best

for Sharelle, right?
She wants clarity.

She needs help with some answers
and it's Kurt that's not giving

them to her.

- Well, let me just say this.
Kurt is actually a great guy.

He really does
have a good heart.

- On our phone call,
we asked you about your DM.

It was very much,
you're a good person.

Stay away from my cousin.

Why were you so forceful in,
in the way you approached that?

- I thought that, that was just
his friend, but then Sharelle

explained something that seems
like they're in a relationship,

so I was like, wow,
who is this, Kurt, you know?

In this relationship,
things do seem a little muddled.

Sharelle is a great person.
And she really changed my life.

But I don't want Kurt
to come off to be like

this bad guy.
- Okay.

- But he is holding on
to some secrets.

Kurt was married three times
before Sharelle.

- Three times?
- Three times?

- Three times.

- Did you meet any
of his ex-wives?

What was that like?

Not good?

I think that's a shock to me,
you know, hearing you say that

Kurt's been married three times
is, why is he kind of stringing

Sharelle along for two years?

It seems like there's
no problem for him

to just jump into marriage,
get a divorce,

jump into another
marriage, divorce.

Then dating Sharelle
and being like, whoa,

I don't want to commit.

- Right.

- That's like where it's
something weird.

- If you think three ex-wives
is a secret,

Kurt is hiding
an even bigger secret.

- A bigger secret than
three marriages?

What, what's bigger than that?

- I do feel like that
at this point,

it's Kurt's news
to tell and not mine.

But Sharelle is a good woman

and I feel she needs
to know the truth.

- And thank you for wanting
that for her.

- It seems like we've
got some work to do.

- Yes, we do.
- Tiffany, thank you so much.

It was really nice to meet you.

Have a great day.

You know, as helpful as Tiffany
was pointing out the fact

that Kurt has been married three
times, she still wouldn't budge

on telling us the big secret.
- Right.

- And that leaves me thinking
that, that has something to do

with what Dave told us
on the phone yesterday.

- And him overhearing Kurt
on a phone call

at the fashion show telling
someone that he loves them.

Ooh. We got a text from Blair.
- Okay.

- She says...

- All right.
Let's hit her up.

- [line trilling]

- Yo.
- BLAIR: Hey.

- Hi, Blair.
How are you?

- I'm great.
I'm great.

- Sharelle reached out to us
because she needs some answers.

Can you give us any insight as
to that relationship with Kurt?

- Well, Sharelle is one
of my best friends.

I've been knowing her about
seven or eight years now.

One thing about her in all
of the years I've known her,

she loves hard.

Like she goes all in
for like anyone she's dating.

- She is willing to do any
and everything to support

this person?

- Yeah. And Kurt has been,

I kind of see
a little shadiness.

- Shadiness in what way?

- The fact that
she has not met anybody.

I think that people
should love out loud.

He needs to do that.
- Yeah. We definitely agree.

- I told Sharelle this.

If they feel like, okay,
this is going somewhere.

This is something we want to
grow and we're trying to get

to a better place as a couple.

- Okay.
- Okay.

- This changes everything.
- About to have a heart attack.

- I know for a fact
that it has been bothering her.

- Blair, so what is Sharelle
hiding?

- [sighs]

In her past relationships,
she's always been an open book.

She's never done this before.

I do know she has a major
secret, but I'm not blowing

the whistle on that.

That is all Sharelle.
That is all up to her.

- All right.

- Well, Blair,
thank you so much,

you know for hitting us back.

- Please take care of her.
- We will. We will.

- All right, Blair.
- Have a good day.

- Oh boy.
- I feel a little misled.

- Yes, absolutely.

- I feel like Sharelle is
keeping something from Kurt.

And what Tiffany said,
Kurt has an even bigger secret

than the marriages.

We need to sit down
and talk to Sharelle.

- Yeah.

- [knocks on door]

- Hey, Sharelle.
- Hey, Rahne and Travis.

- How are you doing?
- I'm good.

- Good to see you.
- Come on in.

- You too.
- You want us to

take our shoes off?
- You know what?

I would prefer that,
but it's okay this time.

- Are you gonna give us a pass?

- Okay, you guys.
What do you have for me?

- Uh, we have a lot, honestly.
- Okay.

- What do you know about

Kurt's past dating life?

- Uh, he said it's too emotional

to talk about
his past relationships.

And I really want to know
because I want to know

why are you single?

You know, did you mess up?
You know?

- So after we left you
yesterday, um,

we spoke to your friend, Dave.

- Okay.

- He let us know
that at this event,

Kurt stepped off to the side,
took a call from someone.

- Mm-hmm.

- Told this person,

I love you.

- Why wouldn't Dave
tell me that?

Like why?

- I think Dave was hesitant
because he said that it

sounded like he was
on the phone with a man.

- I don't believe it.
- We're here to update you.

- I understand that,
but I just don't know

why Dave wouldn't you know,
inform me of that.

Like that's--
Uh-uh.

- We can set that aside for now.

Um, we got contact with Tiffany.

Tiffany let it be known
to Rahne and I that Kurt

has been married three times.

- Wait.
Come on. Go back. Go back.

- So he's been married
and divorced

to three different women.

- I don't care.

That's something
I should know about.

- I agree.
- After two years.

- 100%.

- He should have told me
something like that.

- She said that the three
failed marriages

obviously was a secret,

but it is not the big secret.

- There's more?

He's still married?

- We do not know.
Tiffany wouldn't tell us.

- She was very adamant
about that information

coming from Kurt.

- I mean, Sharelle,
if I'm being completely honest,

we feel like you haven't been
100% honest with us either.

We talked to your friend,
Blair today.

- Okay, my best friend.

- She said, well, Sharelle's
been hiding something too.

- She would not say
I'm hiding something from Kurt

and then tell you guys that.

- She didn't tell us
what it was.

- She did not tell us
what it was.

- She said you need
to ask Sharelle.

- Because there's
nothing to tell.

It's nothing to--
Come on.

And you're starting
to piss me off and

I'm not trying to give you
that energy,

but it's starting
to piss me off.

- We have it on camera.
- We can run it back.

- No, no, no, no, no, no!
I don't want to do this no more!

And this conversation is done!
Oh my God!

- Travis and I just confronted
Sharelle about a secret

she's been keeping from Kurt.

- You don't understand.
I am right here, right here.

- She needs to come clean too if
this relationship is gonna work.

- Got my weave
and [bleep] sweatin'.

I wasn't ready for that.

Okay.

Let's do it.

My bad for lashing out
on you guys.

It was just a lot
to take in at once.

Yeah, I'm hiding something
from Kurt.

But the only way
I'm gonna come clean is if

we get Kurt to come clean.

- You don't need to tell
Rahne and I tonight.

I think what Blair was trying
to get across was if you guys

are going to be in a happy,
healthy, loving relationship...

- I'm afraid of how this is
going to turn out.

- We're gonna text Kurt tonight.

Hopefully after our conversation
with Kurt, we can sit the both

of you down and it's not going
to be easy, but I think it's

just definitely necessary in
order for you to get the answers

that you so desperately need.

- Let's do it.
- All right.

- All right, Sharelle.
We will see you tomorrow.

You try to get
some rest tonight.

- Thank you.
I appreciate you guys.

- ♪ I can form a plan
if you wanna rise ♪

♪ Was working in the dark...

- Kurt still has no idea what
this show is about.

The only way we're gonna get
the answers we need

is to meet with him
face-to-face.

- [knocks on door]

- Hi.
What's going on?

- Travis. We were texting.
- Hey, good to meet you.

How you doing?
- Rahne. Thank you.

- Come on this way.
- These are the hats.

- Yes.
- Those are crazy too, man.

- This is my little backyard
out here.

You know, it ain't nothin' big.

- Okay, cool.
We're casual.

- You know.

- You know, I know that
you guys decided

to do this dating show.

You don't really know what kind
of dating show it is.

Well, you know Rahne and I
are here because we got

contacted by Sharelle.

And she explained to us
over the course of two years

during your relationship,
she hasn't really met anyone

outside of you.

- Have you introduced her
to your friends, family?

- No, no, I haven't.
I have not.

I have not because I feel
that I'm gonna do that

in my own time.

- Sharelle felt the need
to reach out to us because

obviously she feels like
you're hiding her.

- Hey, can somebody
come get my mike?

- Look, Kurt,
there's something else.

You're gonna want to hear this.

- What? What else?

- Sharelle knows about
your three marriages.

- So have you been
married three times?

- I have been
married three times.

- Do you think you've kind of
withheld that information

in fear that Sharelle wouldn't
want to date you?

- Yeah, I think so a little bit.

- We also know that
there's something else

you've been hiding
from Sharelle.

What we do want to know is
if you would be willing

to sit down with Sharelle
and tell her the truth?

- Why?

- You don't think
that she deserves it?

- Well, it doesn't
concern you.

- We're just trying to help
Sharelle get some answers.

- Okay.
Let's do it.

- After finding out why he's
really on this show,

Kurt has agreed to sit down
with Sharelle and tell her

why he's been hiding her
from friends and family

for two years.

Is Sharelle ready
to hear the truth?

And will she come clean
with her own secret?

What's up, Sharelle?
- Hi.

- How are you doing?

- My anxiety is
through the roof.

- I don't know what's gonna
transpire inside, you know,

if he's able
to be honest with you,

are you gonna be able
to be honest with him?

- I'll try.

That's what we're doing
right now 'cause I know

that's what's needed.
- Let's do it.

- All right.
Let's do it.

- Sharelle. Kurt.

Sharelle, you hit up
Rahne and I a few days ago.

You were very distraught um,
with the feeling that Kurt

had been hiding you.

- All we want is for you two
to be on the same page

and to figure out what the next
steps are for your relationship,

whatever that is.

So Sharelle, do you have
anything you want to say?

- Kurt...

You know I love you.

You know, but you've been
hiding things from me.

Hey, I understand like
you need to get to know me

in the beginning,
but after two years?

Why haven't we moved forward?

Why haven't I met people?

Are you embarrassed of me?
Is it me?

I'm really not liking what
I have been hearing.

- What have you been hearing?

- Rahne and Travis talked to
your cousin, Tiffany.

And she told them that you've
been married three times, Kurt.

You don't think that's something
I should have known about?

Like you should have shared
that with me?

When I swiped you,

I was looking
for a relationship and marriage.

You knew this.

Rahne and Travis talked to Dave.

He told them he overheard you
telling someone you loved them.

He said it sounded
like a guy's voice.

You never have told me
you love me.

- You know I love you, Sharelle.

- No, I don't know
that from you.

I don't know who you're saying
it to, but it hasn't been me.

- Can you put yourself
in Sharelle's shoes

and at least try to see where
she's coming from?

- Yeah, absolutely.
100%.

Yes, I've been married three
times and the reason why

I didn't tell you that is
because you know, you're young

and I figured you want
to be married

and I didn't want to lose you.

I know eventually I had
to tell you

that I was married three times.

And then the other reason why
I'm hiding you is because

I did tell somebody I love them.

Yeah, and it was a male.

- What the [bleep] is this?

- The reason why I'm hiding you.

- I can't breathe.
I can't breathe.

- Is because...

- I did tell somebody
\h\h\h\hI love them.

Yeah, and it was a male.

- What the [bleep] is this?

- The reason why I’m hiding you.

- I can’t breathe.
\hI can’t breathe.

- Is because...

\h\h\hI have a son,
a 22-year-old son.

A 22-year-old son.

His name is TJ.

\h\h- I don’t even know what
to do with this information.

\h\h\h\h\h- Is this at all
like a deal breaker for you

\h\h\hthat he has a son
or is it just the fact

\hthat he kept this
from you entirely?

- I don’t even know what to--

I have mixed emotions, but...

why did you keep that from me?

\hThat would have helped
open up a lot of things.

- I didn’t know that.

Because I feel like you might
\hwant to have kids some day

and that would have pushed you
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\haway from me.

And I didn’t want that.

\hI’m sorry.
I apologize.

- Does TJ know about Sharelle?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No.

\h\h\h\h\h- How does that
make you feel, Sharelle?

- Like Kurt may have a problem
with me, like he’s embarrassed

about me or something.

I don’t know.
\h\h\h\h- No.

- I’m not good enough
\h\hto meet his son.

- Yeah, it sure seems like that.

\h\h- Do I not add
to your happiness?

\h\h\h\h\hI can’t make you happy,
but at least I try to add to it.

\h- When you got here today,
I asked you if Kurt was able

to be open and honest,
\hare you gonna be able

to do the same thing?
\hAnd you said, yeah.

- Kurt, I know when
\h\h\hwe first met,

\h\h\h\h\hI said that,
I didn’t have any kids.

Well, technically,
I don’t have kids.

They’re all are grown.

- You brought me up in here to
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\huncover mine

and you got this going on.

Oh, come on.

How many kids you have?

- I have four children.
- You’ve got four kids?

- And three grandchildren.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- Grand babies?

Nice.

Oh, wow.

\h\h\h- So you said
you have four kids.

- Four children.
- Four children.

\h\h\h\h\hAnd on top of that,
you have three grandchildren.

- Three grandchildren.
\h\h\h\h\h- You’re 35?

I’m just trying to get the,
\h\h\hget the math correct?

Do you know what I’m saying?

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You know,
we’re coming clean, right?

\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hRight?
- I can’t believe this.

- You know,
we're coming clean, right?

Uh, I know when you saw my
profile it said I was

35 years old.
- Yeah.

- That was a lie.

I'm 42.
- Wow.

- Kurt, if you would've seen
Sharelle's profile

and it said 42.

- It wouldn't have changed
anything.

- So you would have still-
- I'm more upset that

she had a fake profile.

That's deceiving.
- No, it's not.

- I can't believe this.

- I'm not laughing. I'm trying
to keep it in right now.

I just... You guys are both
dealing with the same thing

that you're keeping in.

- I was trying to get him to
open up first.

- And you guys have both
kind of pointed the finger

at each other.

- Yeah.

- You guys are dealing
with the same, exact thing.

That's no comical to anybody?

Kurt, how does it feel
knowing your girlfriend

is a grandmother?

- No, I'm a glammy.
- A glammother.

- A glammy.

- So I have three girls,
one boy, all right?

Sierra is 27.
Ricira is 24.

Girica is 22.
And my son, Dajavier is 19.

- Sharelle, let me ask you this.
Do your kids know about Kurt?

- Somewhat.
- Explain.

- They know I'm dating someone.

- They just don't know
who you're dating?

- Right.

- There has been dishonesty
throughout on both parts, right?

If you can get past that,

there's more likeness there
than not.

Now that we have all the
information

laid out on the table, Sharelle,

would you be willing to have

Kurt finally meet your family?

- Kurt is my best friend.

Yeah, we kept some things
from each other,

but I felt like
I found my best friend.

- And Kurt you know,
hearing Sharelle say that

she wants to introduce you
to her kids and grandkids,

do you think that kind of
opens you up to maybe one day

introducing her to the rest
of your family?

- Are you okay with that?
- Yeah, that makes me happy.

- Look at that smile.

- Do you want anymore kids?

'Cause I got some more
left in me.

- Hey.

- Let us get the
hell outta here.

That's my cue to leave.

Ah, man.
- Thank you so much.

- All right.
Appreciate ya.

- Be safe.

- ♪ It's always been you
my love ♪

- Wow.

- Sharelle, this is TJ.

- Oh, my goodness.
- Hey, Kurt.

- They are so precious.
- This is my daughter, Girica.

- Nice to meet you.
- Oh.

- One, two, three.
Posted.

Whoo.

- ♪