03x05 - Oh Baby!

[bunniefuu]

[dramatic music playing]

-Nadia, relax!
-[Fantana] Wait! Nadia, chill.

Nope. I'm out.

[Swanky] Fantana, please, come.

[Nadia] f*ck it. I'm out.
You guys are actually ridiculous.

Don't waste my f*cking time.

I got up and left
just because I got annoyed

because Diamond has been lying
the whole time,

and Fantana is being oblivious,
and a little bit silly and naive.

I feel so embarrassed
because this whole back-and-forth

is because of me not knowing
if I'm pregnant or not.

I can definitely understand
why Nadia is dramatic

because from my perspective of things
I don't want Fantana to be pregnant.

You told me
when you and Diamond started hanging out,

you're having fun.

I said, "Okay, have fun if you want."

-Yeah.
-No problem. But now, what is the story?

And if you want her to have your babies,
you need to f*cking fly to Ghana,

and go and see her parents,

and do things the right way
and then we can cross that path.

So I'm not opposing
or against your relationship with Fantana.

I want the child, but don't bring me
that "going to see the family" issue.

Get the f*ck out of here.
I don't do that. I'm not ready for that.

You know those type of pictures,

-you stand like this, you know… Just like…
-[laughs]

Oh my goodness.

Ini, this happens every day.

-This is-- Welcome to the group.
-[Zari] Welcome.

This is our family dynamics.

It's not my business, but I'm like,
"Since we're talking relationship,

perhaps I might ask my own questions
about Kayleigh's relationship with Naked,"

because I'm curious.

Like, what is it with this long,
so many years' relationship

that isn't going anywhere.

What about you two? You guys got married?

[tense music sting]

-Are you afraid of commitment?
-[Naked] I'm not afraid of commitment.

I've learned my lessons.

I know in order to proceed through life,
you can't keep making the same mistakes.

The same mistakes.

That was a little bit out of line.

I mean, obviously, you guys look like…
She looks perfect.

I would want to just know
that this is my wife.

She's my girlfriend.

"Girlfriend" means
she can be taken tomorrow.

[tense music playing]

You don't even know my mental state
as far as relationships are concerned.

If I lose her, then it was meant to be.

[tense music playing]

But you see,
that's a f*cked-up attitude to have.

[Ini] It gets to a point,

if you leave that window open
for too long,

you might never be able to get it.

And then you find out
that you let the best one get away.

[Naked] I think I'm rather annoyed.

Maybe Ini needs
to get to know me a little bit more

before she has those opinions.

He makes these excuses

to keep me, like, on a line,
just to keep me.

That's what they do, trust me.

I don't feel like I believe
your bullshit excuse, to be honest.

The more we bring up this topic
around marriage and commitment,

and the more he just deflects
and doesn't respond,

it's really making me resent him.

There's no rush. Why must there be a rush?

It doesn't have to be a rush
but give me a destination.

I don't know where the f*ck we're going.
You don't understand that.

I don't know where I'm going.
I don't know how I'm getting there.

It's an individual decision.

So if you're not ready for it,
you're not ready for it.

No, no, no. I never said that. I--

Thank you. So it's,
"Let me make up my own mind."

[Naked] But you see,
this is being hustled.

Why wouldn't I hustle? After four years,
I still don't have an answer.

No, it'll happen, like--

[Kayleigh] No, I'm not waiting for you
to decide that it's going to happen.

-I also have a life that I need to live.
-[sighs]

-[Naked] Then live your life.
-Exactly. That's the response.

-[Naked] Maybe I'm not the person for you.
-Maybe you're not.

I don't know why I'm getting so triggered
right now, but I can't help it.

It's just a feeling that, you know,
it doesn't just go away.

It's something I feel so strongly about.

And I think I'm actually,
slowly, I'm seeing the light,

and it's scary.

It's really scary.

[mellow music playing]

[Fantana] Everyone has left,
and Diamond wants us to go in the room.

That's fine with me.
I really don't care where we go.

I have my pregnancy test in my bag,

and I will pee outside if I have to,
but we're getting this test done tonight.

-Your dinner was a mess.
-You didn't like it?

That Nadia thing, I don't like it.

Because now she's trying to be dramatic
at my place.

That's very disrespectful,
especially in front of everybody.

I kind of feel like they've been
so dramatic for no good reason.

Mm.

Because I kind of feel
like she was overreacting.

I think she was supposed to be more, uh…

She cares about my well-being,

and she just wants me
to make the right decision and choice,

and she also just wants to make sure
you are not just playing around with me.

-But--
-She's doing what any big sister would do.

-Not in front of everybody.
-Right.

She would have called me and you.

Yeah, everybody reacts differently.

Nadia is just looking out for me,
but she didn't mean to attack you,

but, you know.

[music fades]

Nadia is pissed because she does not know
that I'm just playing along with him.

She thinks that I'm actually
really being delusional,

but in all reality, if I am pregnant,
my baby needs a dad.

Did you go test and see?

Yeah, I brought the test with me.
I was gonna do it after the whole thing.

Yeah, but why didn't you do that
before everybody left?

-The test?
-Yeah.

Because it's not their business.

So I'm going to do it,
and I'll be right back. [giggles]

[Diamond] Apart from everything,
this is the moment I've been waiting for,

getting the approval and getting to verify
about my upcoming baby.

[suspenseful music playing]

I just don't want to be pregnant, like…

In the beginning, it was kind of cute,
but now it's like, "No."

I feel so scared.

[Diamond] I hope when Fantana comes
with the test,

it will show that she's expecting.

I'm super excited now, and I cannot wait.

Is she testing…

or giving birth?

[Fantana] The moment of truth.

[suspenseful music intensifies]

I hope I'm about to be
a new father in town.

[music crescendos]

Have you done one before?
Have you seen one before?

No, like, what does it say?

So it's supposed to be…

If I am, it's two,
and if I'm not, it's one.

-[heart beating]
-Mm-hmm.

-It says it's one?
-Mm-hmm.

-And one means?
-One means "no."

[heartfelt music plays]

[groans, sucks teeth]

-There's nothing there?
-That's what it's saying, mm-hmm.

Why?

Why?

I don't know.

This wasn't, like, a planned thing.

We didn't know. It was like…
You know? And now we know.

So it's like now, if you want to have one,
we're having a conversation.

Like, we could still have one.
I'm just saying, right now, I'm not.

Okay.

I don't get it. From what she told me,
everything looks-- looked like…

she is pregnant.

So how do you feel?

[heartfelt music continues playing]

In my head, I'm screaming,
I'm twerking, having a whole party.

Like, I'm not pregnant.

Diamond is delusional.

Like, why are you mad
that I'm not pregnant? Like, why?

Oh, you're making me feel so bad.

These results make me to have

second, third, fourth, tenth thoughts
about me and Fantana.

I don't even understand. I don't know.

["Elevate" by Captain Joz
and Frank Bentley playing]

[thunder rumbling]

I'm meeting up with Shakib
because last night at Diamond's dinner,

um, I could sense
something was not right, you know.

Again, I'm very good with energies,
I'm very good with auras.

And I have questions, you know,
so I just want to get answers,

and that's it.

[Shakib] Why did you call me?

Just checking in.

Last night you vanished
for I don't know how long.

Yeah. You know because of what's happening
between me, Zari, Diamond?

-Yeah.
-Sometime back, I was with Diamond.

Then he told me that, you know…
[clears throat]

…"Zari told me
she wanted to have another baby with me."

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

So you and Zari were dating?
Full-on relationship?

[Shakib clears throat]

So when Diamond told you this,
you never confronted Zari about it?

I did, but Zari kept on telling me
Diamond is lying.

And Diamond insisted.
And he says, "I have messages."

They were texting?

-Yeah.
-Did you ask to see the messages?

When I asked Zari, she tells me,
"Tell Diamond to show you."

Diamond tells me, "You tell Zari
to show you the messages."

The whole situation makes me feel bad.

It makes me feel like
maybe they are really more family.

Wow.

You know, being with a person,

and then you hear she's trying to look
for kids somewhere else, not from you.

And at the end of the day,
we don't have any.

So it really made me feel
very, very, very bad.

So, it just makes me question

what was the real reason
for him to come to you to say that?

-I asked him.
-Oh, you asked him?

You know, according to how Diamond
plays his game, you saw what happened.

-We asked what's happening with Fantana.
-[chuckles]

-Yeah. So I wouldn't take his word.
-Yeah, no.

-Right now, I--
-That's what I want to say to you.

-I consider him as my boy.
-Yeah.

But then, I don't really take
most of his words.

-Yeah.
-Yeah.

I don't know if he's telling the truth
or he's drunk,

but I don't trust Diamond.

I trust my wife, and I believe my wife.

-I'm worried about you. I'm concerned.
-I'm also worried about you.

[poignant music sting]

In my opinion,
Luis likes to act like he's okay,

but deep down, he's not okay.

So-- So, um, you know,
I don't speak to my family.

[heartfelt music playing]

Make me understand.

-Family, you mean from brother, sister?
-Yeah.

-You don't talk to anyone?
-No.

-Really?
-We're not allowed to socialize.

-But you know them?
-Yeah, I know them.

-You don't even get close--
-We can't. It's-- It's church rules.

When I got excommunicated,

or disfellowshipped from the organization
in my congregation, it was for one sin.

It was my Big Brother, Africa,
having sex scene, whatever.

I've learned to live with it
for nine years.

I've learned to ignore it for nine years,
but now it's becoming real.

You're affected because of that?

-It affects you.
-Yeah, it does.

-And they're not affected?
-They are affected as well.

So, why don't you just--

Because you--
Because if they break the rules,

they also get… You know what I'm saying?
That's all they know.

-[chuckles]
-Ah.

Yeah.

-I'm sorry about that.
-No, it's cool.

[scoffs] I mean, I'm handling it.
You know what I'm saying. But yeah.

[Shakib] It's not good if he's not happy.

But I just hope they talk,
they solve their differences

because they are family.

I want to reach out to my relatives
in Angola and Congo.

-Outside Namibia?
-Yeah.

Outside Namibia as well.
Just-- Just to find out who's out there.

You know what I'm saying?
That's something I'm busy exploring.

I'll talk about it.

I will give you details and information
about, um, the details and stuff.

We can pick up this conversation later on.

But, my-- my boy, thanks for coming.

I should bounce.

This is one
of those very tricky situations.

Because nine years is a long time
of me not seeing my immediate family.

And it hurts, like, the longer it goes.

Because right now,
I haven't started my own family,

so I have to reach out
to my existing family.

[music swells and fades]

["The Most" by BAER playing]

At first, the idea of having a baby
with Diamond was like, "Oh, you know."

But I feel like
he really had me, like, in a chokehold.

But I'm glad I'm out of it
because that was not me.

So, at Diamond's dinner,
it completely frustrated me.

'Cause I didn't understand
why Fantana defended him.

And I'm actually fighting for Fantana.

[music continues playing]

-[Fantana] Are you still mad at me?
-I'm annoyed.

-That's a fact.
-I know.

I'm very annoyed.

But after everything, we did the test.

And I'm not pregnant.

-Ah, thank you, Jesus!
-I am not.

Thank God!

This is the best news I could hear

because if she had to say
it came out positive?

And Diamond was the baby daddy?
I don't know what I was going to do.

So I feel if I was pregnant,
I still need Diamond and me to be cool.

That's why I was, kind of, being nice.
Like, "No, Diamond, leave it alone."

Because I don't want him to feel like,

"Oh, you embarrassed me
in front of everybody."

-I hear you.
-So I played dumb.

-Yeah.
-You didn't understand.

-You're like, "No, girl."
-No, I didn't.

-Yeah.
-Now that you're explaining it, I get it.

I can appreciate that.
Because she was thinking…

She wasn't running on emotion.

She was thinking about the future
and what that future might be.

But I get there's a strategy there.

["Bubble Up" by JZAC playing]

♪ Excuse me
But you don't understand where I'm at ♪

♪ I was all around the world
Arms spanned across the map… ♪

I'm keeping it casual for my girls.

Because I'm kind of excited and nervous
at the same time

about this pregnancy story.

Fantana, Fantana.

-Is this non-alcoholic or alcoholic?
-Alcoholic, because I ain't pregnant.

[music crescendos]

[sighs deeply]

[sings joyfully]

-Babe!
-I'm not pregnant. [chuckles]

It feels like a whole 70 kg box
has been removed from my shoulders.

-Diamond is just having a good time.
-[Nadia] Yeah.

He's not ready to settle down,
he's not trying to be in a place.

-He wants to be everywhere.
-Yeah.

And he wants to have kids all over.

So now I feel like you need to talk
to Diamond and find out.

-Like, it's not okay what--
-It's not okay.

-He could've messed up her whole life.
-[Swanky] I spoke to him.

-He literally went on his knees--
-I heard, that's rubbish!

He was like, "I can't wait
to do the baby photoshoot."

We need to go to a gynecologist,
and you just put that loop thing in.

-[chuckles]
-What is it?

A thing you put in your uterus

that blocks the sperm
like a f*cking goalkeeper.

-[laughs]
-It's just-- Let's just get the loop.

-Let's get it.
-Let's cheers to…

[all] No babies coming!

[Swanky laughs joyfully]

[Fantana] Oh Lord.

["I Don't Need You Up In My Face Rn"
by Jarry Manna playing]

♪ I don't need you up in my face
Right now… ♪

[Zari] I'm driving my husband today.
I'm dropping him off.

He's going to have a boys' thing.

I'm a little bit worried,
Shakib meeting the boys

after Diamond's dinner.

Are we still
going to have this conversation?

Is it going to continue today?

I hope not.

[song continues playing]

Do you know who's coming?

[Shakib] It's Naked.

Swanky, Luis.

Okay.

Is Diamond coming?

I know you don't want
me to be asking this question,

but is he coming?

Why would you wanna know--

Because I want
to stay off these questions of,

"Did you want to have a baby with Zari?"

"Did you want to surrogate?"
You're literally living in his shadow.

You need to be your own person.

When you keep asking questions
about Zari and Diamond,

it just literally shows
you're a little bit insecure.

Like, you have Zari,

but then this part of Diamond
makes you uncomfortable.

I'm saying I never told this person,
"I want to have kids with you."

And it feels like,
"I don't trust you. It's not enough."

"I'm going to ask you in front of him."

It's like I was brought there
like a little kid.

Because it's not something
you can take lightly.

But the thing is,
that means I'm married to you,

but you don't trust me.

You calling me in front of Diamond
is just making us look stupid and foolish.

Exactly, because you don't know how many
times I've been-- I've looked stupid

because of you and Diamond.

-Because there's nothing. It's nothing.
-You make me look stupid, not me.

-There's nothing between me and him.
-You who goes to Diamond and act like…

For me, I dead the issue about Diamond.
I'm not with him.

-Like, f*ck, I'm married to you.
-Why do I talk about Diamond?

Because of the things you do with him.

-What do I do?
-You know what you do.

You see news, what they post about you.

We are two f*cking big East African stars.

-They'll always talk about us.
-It makes me look stupid!

You've seen videos over the internet
that would really make me feel bad.

Whenever Zari is close to Diamond,

they're touchy-touchy,
they're lovey-dovey, they're…

Those funny things that they do.

You're getting triggered.

If he comes and holds you like his baby,

definitely he'll come
and play me the way he wants.

-He's going to disrespect me.
-Anyway…

-You come off so insecure, not confident.
-Anyway, if you see it like that, I'm--

-No, it's coming off as…
-Not confident? It's okay.

You can continue doing whatever
you want to do with Diamond.

-I'll never talk about Diamond.
-Because I'm not doing anything.

Okay, that's not what I see
or what the public sees.

That's why I-- I--
It makes me feel insecure.

You won the prize.
I am the prize. You have me.

Diamond had kids with me
and couldn't even settle.

But you have me. I'm committed. I'm loyal.

Why are we even having this conversation?

You keep on talking about Diamond.
Did I start the name Diamond or did you?

I wanted to clear it,
stop giving him power.

-Stop doing the same things--
-Stop sitting--

I don't give him powers.

You give him powers over our relationship!

f*ck, you're yelling again.
You're yelling again.

It's you putting me in a situation
that makes me act the way I'm acting.

For me, it's like he's just there.
He's the father of my kids.

Nothing more to it.

-I'm done talking about you and Diamond.
-Okay?

-You can do whatever you want.
-I'm married to you.

It's the insecurities in you

that's making you feel
a certain type of way,

and I don't like it.

It is you that I'm with.
You are my husband.

You need to change on your mood swings
because it comes off as bipolar.

It's giving off… [scoffs]

…low-key narcissist.

To me, I think it's the opposite.
She's telling me what she is.

Her bipolar thing kicked in,
and she had to act the way she acted,

and call me all such kind of names.

[dismissively] You can go.

[tense music playing]

[music fades]

["Flex" by Yarin Primak playing]

[Luis] So, today is boy's night.
We're going to the casino.

We're going to have a good time,
you know, just chilling.

No feminine energy. Just--

You know, just catch up.
Like, where are we as guys?

-Yo, bro.
-What's up, man?

-You good?
-[Shakib] Good to see you.

Likewise. Looking dapper.

[Swanky] When I see what is happening
with Fantana and Diamond,

I know it's going to end in premium tears.

You know, I honestly, ultimately,
want the best for Fantana,

and I just don't want Diamond
to interrupt her future.

Hello, hello.
Who got money to spend tonight?

-Shakib, how have you been?
-Sometimes women are stressing.

You don't look stressed. [chuckles]

You! Are you making money
or talking about relationships?

-What's up? Welcome.
-You good? You're looking good.

[Swanky] How are you?

Always feeling good. I can't complain.

["Fumble the Bag" by Yarin Primak playing]

-[Naked] It's about time you got here.
-[Luis] What's up, man?

-You good?
-[Diamond] Swanky.

[tense music sting]

-Hi, sir. How are you? Are you good?
-Lovely to see you.

-How are you? You smell good.
-[Diamond] Shakib.

-It looks amazing.
-Smelling very nice.

-How you guys doing? Is everything fine?
-[chuckles]

-No, I'm trying to make some money, but--
-How?

These guys
have been running their mouths for--

You don't know how to play this?

Let's address the issue.
Mr. Diamond, Fantana is not pregnant.

I'm sure you're aware.

So, now that she's not pregnant, like,
release Fantana. Let her go.

[tense music playing]

[Luis] Oof!

To be honest, I'm so relieved
Fantana is not pregnant

because a Diamond baby,
another Diamond baby,

I couldn't handle that.

What's the end goal?
Being the father of all nations?

Are you trying to change your name
to Abraham? What?

[Diamond chuckles]

I think I respect having a kid
more than getting married.

We can get married today,
we can divorce a week after.

But once we have a kid,

there's no way
we can separate from each other.

Do you guys want to be in the same room
with Diamond and Fantana

when they do their things?

-Naked is clearly--
-[Naked] Seems you do.

When they are busy making out,

you're not going to be there
to pull his p*nis out of Fantana.

I think deep down inside,
Naked wants to be single, you know?

So he's living vicariously
through Diamond.

So, I mean, who endorses such behavior?

Naked DJ, why are you so afraid
of commitment?

Who said I'm afraid of commitment?

You-- You are because
that's why you're standing there--

I've been living with the same woman
for the last…

-For five years.
-[Naked] Yes.

So when will you marry her?

So the three wise men are at it again.

It's all about what Fantana wants
and what Kayleigh wants.

-[Diamond] Yes.
-[Luis] Uh-uh.

You being m*therf*cking self-centered
and selfish.

-What do you mean?
-Because you're the only one happy.

You know, Naked, he's my brother
and he's got my back.

-Guys, I'm taking my time.
-[Swanky] Mm.

-Five years?
-You can phone her right now.

Tell her, "If she wants marriage
and I'm not giving it to her, she can go."

[ominous music playing]

Why do we have to live
by Swanky and Luis' rules?

Do we not all have a choice in life?

Stay out of other people's relationships.

Kefi, I was asking
your honest impression of her.

What do you think about her?

-Of who?
-Kefi…

Okay, Kefi, I won't lie to you.

I liked Kefi from the beginning
when I saw her,

but she made it clear
she's not into younger men.

-She likes matured guys, like older guys.
-When did she say that?

-She said that from the beginning.
-The other time she didn't say that.

-She didn't say that the other time.
-She didn't?

[Naked] At the dinner.

-She won't go for you, bro.
-[Diamond] Maybe you changed her mind.

-I said, maybe you changed her mind.
-She's not going to go for you, bro.

I knew Diamond was going to go after Kefi.

He was just waiting for the right moment,
which is cool, you know.

All the best to you, challenge accepted.

I didn't say she'll go for me.
I said, maybe you changed her mind.

Luis is trying to stop me,

but what you can't do doesn't mean
that I cannot do as well.

I've got my own way.

-They are my friends. Relax. Mm-mm.
-Okay, okay.

-[Swanky] I-- I asked for your opinion.
-Okay, we took--

-I'm the chairman of the occasion.
-[Diamond] I'm the secretary general.

[all laugh]

I think the boys need to understand

that when I bring in friends
into the group,

they are not meals.

There's a billion women out there.

[music ends]

["It's Nothin'" by Helena playing]

[phone rings]

Hello.

[Diamond] Hey, Kefi. How are you?

I'm good, thanks.

Long time. How have you been?

I'm good. Who am I speaking to?

Diamond.

Ah, Diamond.

How did Diamond even get my number?

I would love to meet you.

Love to meet… me?

Oh, okay.

Luis said that he's been, like,
trying so hard to get Kefi,

but he just couldn't be able to.

You may have your way.
I may have my own way of how I can get it.

You can't do it, it's just you.
I know how I can do it.

How about we go for-- for dinner or lunch?

Oh, all right.

In the back of my mind,

I know very well
that you're Fantana's boyfriend,

but then… Oh, well.

-I'll be waiting to hear from you.
-All right, we'll chat soon.

All right. Bye.

Bye, Diamond.

["Can We Get a Rewind"
by Lee Richardson playing]

I miss my family,
so I decided to invite my cousins.

[song continues playing]

-[cousin 1] Hi. How are you?
-Hey.

-[Luis] Good. How are you?
-Good.

Ninety-eight percent of my family
is baptized, I can't interact with them.

So the two percent who are not baptized,

those are the ones
that I can engage with and interact with.

-I haven't seen you in a while.
-Yeah.

-Mm.
-Girl, you know the situation, so…

Mom and Dad are actually getting old,

so Mom's-- Mom's fear is like her dying,
you not attending her funeral.

[heartfelt music playing]

And them going out every time
door to door…

I think it's like they're preaching,
but people will be like,

"Why are you preaching?
Your son is out there in the world."

You know, I think that hurts them a lot.

And, you know, one of the messages
from… your mom and dad

is that they hope
that one day you will return

so that you can have
that family bond again.

It really breaks my heart, you know.

If I do go back, what happens to me?
What happens to the person that I am?

Because then it's like
I'm k*lling a part of me.

I think if anything, you guys must
just tell everyone that I'm trying,

I'm doing my best.

I love everyone.

I miss everyone very much.

Your mom and dad, they love you a lot.

-Yeah.
-The family, our kids want to see you.

It's a bit hard for us.

[sighs] I don't know… I…

[chuckles] Speaking of kids,
I hear that you want to have a kid.

Yeah.

Unmarried?

-You mentioned surrogacy.
-Surrogate. Yeah.

So, another part deep down inside of me
for also wanting to have a child first,

they can't deny the child, you know.

If I take the child home,

they have to accept the child
because the child is innocent.

When I drop off the child or something,

so at least I'm seeing you,
what you look like.

You can see that Mom and Dad,
they are doing fine.

-Are they healthy?
-Exactly.

[Luis] I just wanted to fast-track
the process of having a child

because I miss my family.

And I feel like this is my one shot

to actually just have
that family bonding link, you know.

-We love you so much.
-I love you too.

[music ends]

[dramatic song playing]

I hope the drinks are chilled.
Like, I want everything to be on point.

I'm inviting the girls.

I just want a chance to get to meet them.

Just to know a bit more about them.

And my girl, Annie,
who would've been the only familiar face,

has been MIA.

So I'm like, "Okay, I need to put
a call across to you first,

before this tea party."

Just to get a heads-up
on what's really going on.

[line ringing]

-[sighs, chuckles]
-[Annie] Ini!

Annie!

-Wait.
-[Annie] Oh my God!

Girl, I cannot believe
that you're not here.

Don't flog me,
I know you're angry with me.

But don't flog me on that.

I cannot flog you,
but you know it's all love.

Ini, that's my sister.

I'm excited she's in South Africa.

I'm just sad that I'm not there
right now that she's there.

So I'm excited to take this call.
Let's see what's going on.

Oh! Annie, so when are you going
to be here now?

Because I need you here.

So many-- So many things going on. I'm--
Okay, so I'm meeting with the girls today.

I'm hosting them for tea.

[amusing music playing]

Give me the tea about these girls.
I don't know what I'm going to expect.

I've been hearing a lot of small comments
here and there, here and there.

First of all,
when Swanky introduced you to everyone,

how was the reception?

Everybody's quite warm, quite receptive.

The guys are amazing.

-The girls are nice so far.
-The guys are.

But I'm hearing
there's a problem on the ground.

[in Pidgin] What did you do?

I don't know what I did to all of them.

[in English] What about Zari?

I also heard you guys
had a major fight with her.

It was the dinner I went for.
They ganged up on me.

No, but the problem started
from her wedding from what I hear.

You know, Ini, now you're not asking me,
you're telling me.

Ini is trying to say what's going on.

Everybody's complaining,
Annie this, Annie that.

These people, you don't even know them.

They are not supposed to be
a priority in our first conversation.

Everybody said that the boy is too young,
so it wasn't just, "Annie said it."

Mm.

[in Pidgin] Let's do this face to face,
not on the phone.

[in English] Let's leave the conversation
till we see.

I think it would be more ideal.

I'm like… I'm not even down for that.

So, when you're getting here,
we will talk as adults.

-Okay, baby girl, wish me luck right now.
-I love you.

I'm going to go have tea with these girls.

-Bye, queen.
-Bye, darling.

Oh, gosh.

["On Fleek" by Thyra Oji,
Anton Flanders and Shane Carey playing]

Today, Ini has invited us to a high tea.

Ini.

-Hey, babe, how are you?
-[Ini] Oh, hi, Kayleigh.

As per usual,
I am the first person to arrive.

Nice and punctual.

[song continues playing]

-[Ini] There she is!
-Hi.

The ladies look amazing.

But this is how we roll.
Like, we don't play, we look good.

And this high tea is giving high tea.
Love it!

So who's coming today?

-So I invited all the girls.
-Okay, cool.

Because I'm just so eager
to meet everyone personally.

-[Nadia] Yeah.
-Uh, I spoke to Annie.

You spoke to Annie? Wow.

I want everybody here,
then I'll tell them what the reaction was.

-I really hope--
-Is she coming?

She's not coming.

[tense sting]

[dramatic hip hop song playing]

-Fantana.
-[Fantana chuckles]

I don't really like tea.

I don't like things that are outside.

But I love Ini, so I'm here. [chuckles]

-Are we going to drink tea?
-You can drink champagne.

-Have champagne, or whatever you like.
-[Fantana] Yeah, I can drink anything.

[amusing music plays]

Please tell these ladies what's happening
because they don't know.

Oh, yeah. I'm not pregnant.

-[laughs]
-Thank God.

-It's not my story to tell.
-I can have champagne. Yay!

-Cheers to that!
-Let me drink to prove it.

-[Kayleigh] Here's to not being pregnant--
-I have to make sure.

[chuckling] That's the last thing
that any woman needs

is to be pregnant by Diamond.

Mm.

[dramatic song playing]

After attending Diamond's event
the other day, and it was so messy,

I feel frustrated because
I have to deal with the father of my kids.

I have to deal with
my newly wedded husband.

Zari is here.

Hi, ladies.

[Zari] And coming to Ini's event…

[sighs] Is there gonna be more drama?

Is it going to be more peaceful
and just sipping tea?

Big F!

-How are you?
-Always wearing the skimpy.

[amusing music sting]

Fantana again.
That's not how they dress for high teas.

It's supposed to be glamorous.

It's supposed to be classy.
It's supposed to be giving rich.

How is this skimpy?

Like, babes, can you just release
this girl out of your grasp?

-But it looks nice.
-Nadia's is short.

-I see that.
-[Kayleigh] My dresses are always short.

-Oh, Kayleigh!
-Always. Mine are always short.

I did want to curse her out,
drag her through filth,

then say everything about her.

But, at the end of the day,
this is Ini's event.

And I'm practicing this thing

where I'm trying to resolve my issues
like a young lady.

[music ends]

What's up? What's going on?
What did I miss?

How's the husband?

-He's good, bro, but, "Eish! sh*t!"
-[all laugh]

[Zari] The other day, sh*t was happening.
I was like, "Damn, bro!"

What happened?

So, I'm driving my husband off
to go meet the boys.

I'm like, "Please, if Diamond is coming,

may I request
that we stop this whole baby--"

"Did you want
to have a baby with him?" question.

Because you keep dragging it,
and it's not making you look good.

Do you know how it feels
that my husband pulled me off the group?

He can't trust Diamond over you.

-Exactly.
-In her face.

So what is Diamond taking you for?

Every time he asks it, Diamond feels like,

"Okay, there's something about me
that presses him."

-Of course.
-Shakib needs to ignore Diamond--

-He needs to grow bigger than that.
-Yeah, that's it.

But I'm just hoping
I can put all of this to end someday.

If you stay you're very strong
because even me… [chuckles]

Does it make sense right now
why I left Diamond?

Does it make sense?

I was with him.

-But he was all over the place.
-Yeah.

That is where Annie needs to step in
and say, "Bro, f*ck you. I'm out of here."

-Annie?
-Annie?

-Yeah.
-Why Annie?

It's an example.
I couldn't stay with that bullshit.

Annie, 2Face. Sorry.

-[Zari] Yeah.
-I hear you.

-Someone needs to talk to her.
-Ini, you spoke about Annie.

She actually answered.

-She doesn't respond to anything I send.
-[Zari] Wow, you're joking.

[Ini] She feels like
she was being ganged up against.

I feel like we must also
have that empathy to say,

"Okay, why is this person
going off so much?"

Because it's not normal.

Annie can be very sweet.

She does also have her demons.

She's very epileptic.
She's very unpredictable.

No, I still want to get to know her.

-You don't know Annie yet?
-You need to get to know Annie?

You've been getting to know each other
for ten years.

-No, I still want to get to know Annie.
-You confuse me. Me, I don't understand.

Maybe she's going through a lot.

We don't know
why she acts the way she acts.

I kind of feel like
something could be happening to Annie.

I don't know. I want to get to know her.
I want to find out what it is.

Maybe we're just sitting here.
We don't know what's happening.

Give her a break.

Let me tell you,
I get it that you guys feel this way.

I'm not taking anything
out of your pain or whatever.

I'm not here to save the day.

I'm just saying, let's just be
a little bit more kind to her.

[intriguing music playing]

-[Ini] And just see if we can get her…
-Nadia!

-[laughing]
-…to have a change in character.

-Nadia, can you be kind?
-Nadia will come around, don't worry.

If you're a good person,

regardless if you're going through
the worst time of the year,

it's not an excuse to treat people badly.

So I will not be held
in an emotional prison by her

because I don't care enough to.

[music distorts and ends]

[rap music playing]

[Nadia] Kefi hasn't been
at the past event.

I think it's important
to check on your strongest friends.

I feel like Kefilwe is a strong woman,
but she deals with a lot.

[doorbell rings]

-[Nadia] Hi.
-[Kefilwe] Hey, my baby.

-Your house is so pretty.
-I'm good. Thank you, my love.

-It's gorgeous.
-Come here--

Do they sell the houses like this
or did you re-do your house?

-I-- I re-did my house.
-Really, like floors, chairs, everything?

Floors, everything… The walls.

-It's so beautiful.
-I basically did everything.

-My goodness, thank you.
-Oh, that's cute!

-Should we have the champagne now?
-Yes. Yes.

So I'm so excited to see Nadia
because there's just a lot going on.

-Whoo! [chuckles]
-Whoa! Opa!

I just want her to know we're concerned
for her and her well-being,

and just, "We're here for you."

Babes, I needed to see you.

-Let me tell you the tea.
-Yeah.

So Zari, at the safari,

she threw some shade
about my marriage, by the way.

What did she say?

She said she bounced
into, uh, a post about me.

-Yeah.
-That it was an advertisement.

-What was an advertisement?
-My wedding.

Oh, your wedding.

My wedding was an advertisement.

How can I do a campaign
if my dad and my whole family is there?

Is there?!

I mean, imagine such a lot of admin
just to do it for content?

How is that even possible?

I mean, there were so many scenarios

where I felt like Zari is just being
a very nosy person.

Like, we really had
sentimental, um, conversations.

And she also spoke
about her personal life,

where she started from, you know,
with, um, her first husband.

-And it really touched me.
-Yeah.

Imagine after being touched, you know,
that Michelle Obama speech,

all of a sudden,
"Mm, Kefi, I saw on the blogs…"

Do you see? That was very sneaky of her.

Zari, when she speaks and says statements,

it does sometimes come across
as being catty or shady,

but she could genuinely just be saying it.

It just comes across as shade.
You know what I mean?

Also, Zari knows how to get, like,
that energy out of people.

Like, you sometimes
just want to wring her neck.

[chuckles] And I get it.

I don't trust that girl
with-- with an ounce.

I'm black and white.
I don't know how to pretend.

-Yeah.
-And I made it clear even to her.

Listen, "Let's not force this thing.
If we're not gelling, we're not gelling."

"Let's not force it."

["Jumpa" by Captain Joz playing]

-[Kayleigh] Knock, knock.
-Come in.

[Kayleigh] Is this how you live
when you come to South Africa?

-Like a king!
-[both laugh]

Hey? How are you doing?

Today, Luis has invited me and Ini
to his spot.

I am really curious as to what it's about.

[Ini] Luis was very welcoming to me
when I met the group.

So I'm here looking forward
to getting to know him better.

-Oh, wow!
-Ini!

[Ini] Hi, guys.

-How is it going?
-How are you?

Mwah, mwah.

I've learned my lesson in this group.

When you meet someone the first time,
you need to have a one-on-one.

Taking the surrogacy thing aside,
that's why I decided to invite Ini over,

just to get to know Ini for myself

before hearing what everyone is saying
and based off other people's opinions.

-What do you think about everyone?
-What do I think about everyone?

I got a really nice reception.
I mean, I didn't know what to expect.

So when you started speaking,
introducing yourself,

this is what you do and stuff,
I was genuinely excited,

because I was like, in my mind,

"This is someone
who's in my field of industry."

What do you do?

I do what you do.
I do movies, I do film, I direct.

Like, I'm a serial entrepreneur
just like you.

Mm, that's interesting.

So when you said it, I was excited,
I'm like, "Oh my gosh,

this is someone I can actually sit down
and have a conversation with." You know?

But I'm sorry,
I-- I really have to ask this.

Um, you're beautiful, you're accomplished.

I'm sure there are lots of guys
in your DMs.

Why did you choose the surrogacy route?

Wow, we're back there.

[tense music playing]

Please, not the surrogacy thing.
I'm done, done talking about it.

But I share my story with Luis,
just to give him further insight.

Obviously, I-- I-- I am expected
to share my story, you know.

And, obviously,
that's a huge part of my journey.

So I'm happy to share it
as long as it's to-- it's to help,

not because I have to explain myself.

Because I've experienced it…

[Luis] Mm-hmm.

…I'd like to hear what your--
what your-- what your concerns are,

what you needed to… What--

Because I hear
that that's a thing for you.

I don't have one specific reason
why surrogacy.

Again, people don't realize
the loneliness you feel

when you're alone for eight years,
and you don't have anyone to call family.

It's easy to say, "Yeah, don't worry,
just date, blah, blah." Stuff like that.

But the severity of loneliness,
people don't get that--

-It's called an emptiness.
-[Kayleigh] Everybody needs love.

No matter how hard you are,

or how comfortable you are being single,
everybody needs love.

There's absolutely no kind of love
that compares to that love that you feel.

You will feel it. Like, it's so embedded.

It's-- It's so powerful and so strong
that I get it when you say,

"Look, I don't want to wait,
I just want to do it."

Because I got to that point as well,

and I said, "You know what,
I'm not waiting. I'm doing it anyway."

And I went for it.

At this point,
this reality is starting to hit hard,

and, honestly, it's starting to feel like,
"Dude, you're missing out on something."

"You're missing out on-- on that love,
the laughter, the growth,

the celebrations, the--
those cherished moments."

And it-- it hurts.

Also, you know, I mean, my two cents,

is that past trauma is one thing
that holds people back from the future.

The fear of what had happened,
the trauma of the past.

It's-- Even look amongst us,
like, for instance, your guy,

I-- I don't know why I want to call him
your husband so bad.

My husband?

-I don't know. What should I call him?
-Are you trying to rub it in?

How many more times
do I have to tell this woman,

"I don't have a husband."

"I have a boyfriend." Let's get it right.

[Ini] So what's--
You know, what's really the story?

Are you one of those guys
who don't want to be married, or…

No, I-- I want to get married,
and I want to do it with him, but I feel…

He's just running away from something,
and he doesn't take me seriously.

No, he-- he does.

-You think he does?
-Yeah, he does.

So speaking from "the boys,"

I can say that we are having
those conversations.

To say like,
"Bro, it's been four, five years."

"Either commit or let her go."
You know what I'm saying?

So he's saying something to you?
You see, that-- I'm not getting that.

When Quinton and I first met,

he was the one that came to me,

that wanted marriage,
that wanted to have kids.

He was the one that brought it up first.
And something has changed.

I don't know what it is,
and he's not willing to give me answers.

Every time I see another year go by,

I'm just-- It's-- It hurts me to know
that I'm, like, in the same place

in terms of our relationship.

I'm happy. I'm happy, and I love him,
and I don't want to be with anyone else.

-But--
-[Ini] That's so sweet.

I feel I need to start thinking
about myself as well.

[Ini] You-- Well…

I'm happy with him,
I don't want to lose him,

but that doesn't change the fact
that I want the next step,

that I want to get married.

I just-- I want to have
a final conversation with him

where I ask him what he wants.

And if he's not going to give me
my answers, I have to walk away.

[music fades]

[mellow music playing]

Well, I'm taking Kefilwe out on a date,
and I can't wait.

And, you know, Platnumz never failed.

Diamond and I are finally meeting,

and my intentions are for him
to actually prove me wrong

on the perceptions that I have about him.

Hi.

-How are you?
-What's good?

I'm good, thanks.

Sometimes I can tell--
my instincts can tell me,

"You know what, Diamond?
You got this one."

This is what I feel like.
I feel like I-- I got this one,

and I can't wait.

-How are you?
-I finally made it.

I'm good. And you?

I've been good.

So, why am I here?

No, just to get to know each other.

-Mm-hmm.
-I've been hearing a lot about you.

Beautiful things about you.

I've got, like, this type of moment

with different people
from the family, like, the team.

-Okay.
-But I haven't gotten one with you.

Seeing Kefilwe, like,
here with me, one-on-one,

like, this is vibrating me a bit
in my heart, like,

this-- this is something I bring
comes in my heart.

I'm trying to see
if it can work between me and Kefilwe.

I don't want to lie to you.

Well, so I've got
a little present for you.

-Wow, that's so kind of you.
-Yeah, okay.

-Thank you so much.
-I've got a flower for you.

-Um…
-Oh, wow.

-Thank you.
-Of course.

Hopefully you may-- you may like this.

Thank you.

[Diamond] My instincts tell me
that she's heading there.

And I have a very… good experience

when it comes to these type of ladies,
so trust me, I'm getting this one.

Do you believe in love things?

Do I believe in love?

I don't, to be honest.

[intriguing music playing]

I had so many failed relationships
that it never gave me any hope.

So at this point now you're… You gave up?

I'm not interested, not that I gave up.

Going forward, I'm not going to date
anyone from South Africa.

Good.

-Mm.
-[Kefilwe] Diamond getting so excited.

Diamond strikes me
as a person who's a player.

No, darling, that was not for you.

How's your relationship with Fantana?

Relationship? What do you mean?

Um, I think, aren't you dating?

-With Fantana?
-Smashing.

We're smashing sometimes.

Then?

We're smashing sometimes.

I didn't hear that.

I say, we're smashing sometimes.

So you're not dating?

We're not serious.

But then from what I've played, my part,

it made her feel like,
"I can be serious with this m*therf*cker."

Are you getting my point?

-Okay, I'm trying to get your point.
-Trying to?

[groans]

It was kind of distasteful.

I'm a human being.

I need to smash sometimes. That's--
I-- I can't avoid it. I was born that way.

Okay, wait. Hold on.

Other people in the picture
besides Fantana?

[heart beating]

[tense metal sting]

[dramatic music playing]

Uh…

[scoffs]

Fantana…

[tense music playing]

So…

What's this?

[music builds]

[music fades]

This is the most f*cked-up thing
in the world.

["Better Than Ever" by Vic Sage playing]

♪ Oh, now they call me, I've seen 'em ♪

♪ All of those ties getting severed ♪

♪ I told 'em all I can't let up ♪

♪ They cannot talk to me never ♪

♪ Give me a shot and I ooh ♪

♪ I swear I sh**t like Berettas ♪

♪ Yeah, yeah ♪

♪ They getting nervous, I've seen it ♪

♪ What I've seen
You wouldn't believe it ♪

♪ They say they want it, I need it ♪

♪ Damn, I'm going dumb
Like I dropped outta class ♪

♪ Get in my lane
And I'm going right past ♪

♪ I turn it up, watch me go to the max ♪

♪ You ain't in first
Then you're last ♪

♪ I told 'em I'm coming right back ♪

♪ I got the flows
Like from the tap ♪

♪ And I came from my city
That's right on my back, ooh ♪

♪ Oh, now they call me, I've seen 'em ♪

♪ All of those ties getting severed ♪

♪ I told 'em all I can't let up ♪

♪ They cannot talk to me never, yeah ♪

♪ Give me a shot and I ooh ♪

♪ I swear I sh**t like Berettas ♪

♪ Yeah, yeah
They're getting nervous, I've seen it ♪

♪ What I've seen you wouldn't believe it ♪

♪ They say I want it, I need it ♪

♪ Damn, I'm going dumb
Like I dropped outta class ♪

♪ Get in my lane
And I'm going right past ♪

♪ I turn it up, watch me go to the max ♪

♪ You ain't in first
Then you're last ♪

♪ I told 'em
I'm coming right back ♪

♪ I got the flows
Like from the tap ♪

♪ And I came from my city
That's right on my back, ooh ♪

♪ Oh, now they call me, I've seen 'em ♪

♪ All of those ties getting severed ♪

♪ I told 'em all I can't let up ♪

♪ They cannot talk to me never, yeah ♪

♪ Give me a shot and I ooh ♪

♪ I swear I sh**t like Berettas ♪

♪ Yeah, yeah
They getting nervous, I've seen it ♪

♪ What I've seen
You wouldn't believe it ♪

♪ They say they want it, I need it ♪

♪ Damn, I'm going dumb
Like I dropped outta class ♪

♪ Get in my lane
And I'm going right past… ♪