times square!
tania: this is syngin's
first time in the states.
it's real, now.
it's reality.
there's so much to
figure out in 90 days.
i'm so excited for this.
i'm excited, too.
emily: i am going to be
sasha's third wife,
and this is his third child
with another woman.
but we're gonna last.
a lot of people may think i'm
an old sleazy rich guy
going after a beautiful
young model from brazil.
your birth year.
‐who's that?
‐anny!
anny and i only spent
eight hours together
in the dominican republic.
right then and there,
i asked her to marry me.
mike: why in the world
would this woman from ukraine
be interested in
a guy like me?
getting excited
to come here, baby?
i never expected
to date a model.
it may look like we
have nothing in common,
but jasmin and i
are meant to be together.
mursel!
the language barrier
is gonna be pretty tough.
how do you feel
that you're here?
what's that make me,
a pimp?
no, she's not
a prost*tute.
i don't have that full
soulmate feeling.
i think what's good
about a prenup is,
you decide, like,
the terms.
if it's done
in happy ‐‐
sasha's first ex‐wife,
she sounds crazy.
i need to go outside
for a bit.
why don't i
write you a check,
and buy your plane ticket
back to the dominican republic?
how many more days
until you leave?
please, mursel,
don't go.
anna:
i'm anna. i'm 38.
i live in bellevue, nebraska,
and i am a beekeeper.
i think bees
are really cute.
it's just neat how they all,
like, live together.
they all have
different jobs.
it sounds crazy,
but it's relaxing.
i just ‐‐ i enjoy
working with the bees.
of course, i get stung,
by the pain's worth it.
i love my bees.
but the most important thing
in my life are my children.
hey, boys.
oh. whoa.
hey, calm down
don't be rough in here.
my life revolves
around my children.
so, what do you guys
have planned for today?
nothing.
you don't have
anything planned?
no.
so, you're just gonna
play video games all day.
yes.
joey, he's the oldest.
he's 15.
he a pain in the a*s.
i think a big part of that
is just his age ‐‐
at least i'm
hoping it is.
gino is 14 years old.
he's a sweet boy,
but he's real sensitive,
so i got to always watch
what i say around him.
and then,
there's little leo.
he's 6.
and i just ‐‐ i know you're not
supposed to have favorites,
but he's just so cute.
i just ‐‐
i can't help it.
i'm a single mom,
so i do not get
much time to myself.
but that's life.
the boys' father is no longer
part of their lives,
and he hasn't been
for a couple of years.
he wasn't the nicest.
he was very controlling,
and it took me a while
to get out of
the relationship.
after the boys' dad,
i've dated a little bit,
nothing too serious.
i start using,
like, dating apps,
or, like,
guys would ask me out.
but i feel like american guys
like to just talk about sex,
and send me
pics.
so, it's like,
"okay, thanks."
i kind of wanted to keep
to myself for a little while.
and then,
i met mursel.
hi, mursel.
how are you, mursel?
i'm okay.
mursel is my fiancee,
and he lives in antalya, turkey.
mursel and i met through
a facebook beekeeping group.
he just, i think, saw me,
and maybe thought i was cute,
decided to message me.
the flirting started
basically immediately.
i just think he's this
really kind, sweet guy.
very handsome.
and we just started talking
every day, just about our lives.
mursel is muslim,
and he does follow, like,
no drinking, no smoking,
take care of your body.
and i am from the midwest,
so i enjoy having a drink ‐‐
or two or three.
my friends and family
thought i was crazy
when i told them that
i had met a turkish guy
that i wanted to
start to date,
plus, we don't speak
each other's language.
mursel, do you want
to work my bees?
my bees,
when you come to america.
i was worried that
the difference in our cultures
would be a problem,
but i was in love.
and a month or two
after we started talking,
mursel asked if i wanted
to become more serious.
he, like, said he had a surprise
for me on video chat.
and then, showed me this ring
that he got me,
and asked if i would marry him,
and i said "yes."
i know it's crazy.
it really is.
and this was before
we even met in person.
so, we had planned a trip
to meet each other.
right when i
got off the plane,
and got my luggage,
he was outside the door,
basically, like,
jumping up and down...
...waiting for me.
he gave me
the biggest hug ever.
and it was
just so amazing
to finally get to
meet him in person.
when i came back from my trip,
i applied for the k‐1 visa.
mursel was finally approved,
and arrives in america
next week.
i'm so excited, mursel.
i'm gonna kiss you so much.
bye.
i am just so excited
to begin our life together.
i just can't wait.
but i'm taking
a huge risk for love,
and i'm about to turn
my whole life upside down.
it's been so long that
it's just been me and the boys
that i am worried
about how mursel will fit it.
you guys want french toast,
or something?
yes.
oh, yeah.
there's bacon, too.
bacon, bacon!
we should feed that to mursel
when he comes here.
yeah, we should
give that to mursel.
anna: we're not giving
mursel bacon.
he can't have bacon,
you guys.
i have some fears
about mursel coming.
i'm worried that him
and the boys won't get along.
so, are you guys, like,
excited to meet mursel?
mursel is, like...
he seems weird.
he's like.
he seems weird why?
gino: he doesn't even
know english.
he's been learning,
and taking classes, though.
what if he doesn't
like it here?
i don't know.
i'm happy to see my mom happy
about something like this,
but i just don't care
about mursel coming.
i'm kind of
worried about it,
'cause i think our lives
are gonna change dramatically
because how he's probably just
gonna, like, jump on our lives,
and just, like,
control everybody.
what if he's not
nice to us?
i'm pretty sure
he's gonna be nice to you.
why wouldn't he be?
they haven't really had
a father figure growing up,
so i think it's really important
that they build a relationship,
or i don't think
i can marry him.
just try to be nice to him,
and give him a chance, okay?
okay.
these 90 days are gonna affect
the rest of our lives,
you know, whether or not
we decide to get married.
michael:
i'm, michael.
i'm 42 years old.
i'm a self‐employed
wine entrepreneur,
very independent, and...
i don't know what else to say
that's not douchie.
this is harder
than i thought.
hold on a second.
‐hey. michael.
‐it's been a while.
how you doing, buddy? i haven't
seen you in a long time.
it's been too long, man.
i thought i'd stop by,
check out the new vintages.
i import wine,
distribute wine,
i work in the
wine‐auction field,
and follow anything that's cool
in the wine world.
hope you still have some
available for sale.
‐absolutely.
‐alright. cool.
and that's actually
something
that's been an enormous
amount of income for me,
and it's allowed me
a lot of freedom in life.
♪♪ boy, we came from nothing ♪♪
♪♪ all we want is to shine ♪♪
♪♪ when it's all or nothing,
put it all on the line ♪♪
i have a couple of really
beautiful sports cars.
i have a huge collection of
vintage guitar and bass guitars.
and look at this
cool watch.
i have been very fortunate
to travel a lot.
i've seen places
i didn't even know existed.
and that's one way
that i met juliana.
my fiance's name
is juliana.
she's from goiania,
brazil.
juliana and i met
on a big yacht party
that a friend of mine
was throwing in croatia.
and there was a lot
of celebrities there.
i remember,
when i first saw her,
she's beautiful ‐‐
amazing body.
i don't necessarily believe
in love at first sight,
but it's like we were
kindred spirits,
as juliana and i
got to know each other,
i quickly realized she's funny,
she's thoughtful, she's smart,
and i was amazed.
she was 20 years old.
certainly a lot of people
that may pass judgment,
may think i'm just
an old sleazy rich guy
going after a young,
hot woman.
it doesn't
bother me at all.
i don't ‐‐
i don't really care.
unfortunately,
i had to go back to america.
it was really,
really hard to say "goodbye."
but i knew it wasn't the end.
we had such a connection.
it was just the beginning
of something really beautiful.
juliana was born
in amazonia.
it's very impoverished.
she barely had
any education.
she was working with her mom
and sister as a seamstress.
but out of this, she was a
naturally beautiful young woman,
and with a stroke
of good luck,
she was discovered
by a modeling agency
but while she works to get her
modeling career off the ground,
i pledged that i would
support her
any way i can, financially,
if she needed help.
i want her
to be comfortable.
so, i gave juliana access
to my credit cards.
my friends and family
think i'm a little crazy
for how much money
i've spent on her.
it's no small
amount of money.
but she's so important to me,
and i don't want to lose that.
juliana has never been
to the united states,
not even to model
our first plan was for juliana
to come visit me
just on a normal visitor's visa,
let her spend some time here,
and see where i live.
juliana had
a legitimate job.
i could be the sponsor.
so, we felt
she would have success with it.
but she wasn't given
much of a chance,
and it was really
under the suspicion
that she wanted
to go to america
to stay there,
possibly with...
nefarious intentions.
when juliana was denied
a visitor visa, it was crushing.
we knew that the k‐1 visa
was really the only option
to get her to
the united states.
i'm dead‐set on spending
the rest of my life with her.
if she is approved, we will have
but we've been waiting so long
for her approval,
we are beginning
to lose hope.
there's been times
that i've considered
saying, "screw it,"
pick up, and move to brazil.
but i have two big commitments
at home.
dad, max farted.
shut up.
right now, i split custody
of my children
with my ex‐wife,
whom i divorce two years ago.
love max and c.c..
they're almost like buddies.
they're extremely intelligent,
very very funny.
they're the center of my world.
i love them so much.
juliana's birthday
is september
a few weeks
before yours.
yeah.
i have to do something
very nice
and american
for her birthday.
bring her to, like,
a yankees game, or something.
take her to
the american girl store.
oh, yeah?
you think she wants an american
girl doll for her birthday?
i'm leaving for brazil
next week,
to be with juliana
for her k‐1 visa interview,
and i want to check in
with the kids,
to see how they
feel about it.
after you.
thank you.
could i please have one scoop
of frosted animal cr*cker
and one scoop of
italian rainbow cookie.
michael: were so focused on
the visa approval,
juliana and i actually haven't
spoken a lot about what happens
when she finally
gets to america.
it's probably the biggest risk
i've ever taken in my life.
how is it?
‐really good.
the marshmallow's
really good.
so, juliana
should be here
if the interview
goes well.
you know
i'm leaving saturday for that.
and how do you feel
about her coming here?
our dad's fiancee,
who's from brazil,
is gonna be
arriving in america
for the first time,
and we're gonna meet her.
i was, like,
a little surprised.
i was like...
i didn't actually think that,
like, they would get married.
yeah, me neither.
i thought it would just be,
like, boyfriend and girlfriend.
for a little. and then,
not boyfriend and girlfriend.
whatever.
yeah.
what does mom
say about it?
does she talk to guys about it.
yeah.
she talks to me, sometimes.
what does she say?
she's like, "so, how do you feel
about, like, dad and..."
oh, yeah yeah.
she says that.
like any mother, my ex‐wife
is protective of her children.
her concern is that
there's no way
that juliana
is going to be able to prepare
for what it's like
to be a stepmother in america.
and what do
you guys tell her?
she's closer in age to us
than she is to you.
true.
it's fine.
nobody will know.
me and juliana are
about twelve years apart.
she's too old
to be his daughter.
but, like,
kind of young, too.
she kind of
looks like the age
of someone that would
babysit us, or something.
it's, like, weird.
michael:
you think it's weird?
you know, i do want
you guys to remember
you're still the most
important thing in my life.
and i know
it's a big step,
and it's gonna be
a lot of changes,
but just remember,
i'm always there for you guys,
first and foremost.
i don't think
any of us know
exactly what to expect
when juliana gets here ‐‐
how juliana will get along
with the children,
how the children
will get along with them.
the stakes are huge.
it is something that
i'm very concerned about.
syngin isn't ready
to have kids.
i want them
in a few years, though.
kids have always been
in my future plan.
people are thinking
i'm not a good guy
because i was married twice,
i have two kids.
now, i am with another girls,
and she is pregnant.
but i'm actually a good guy,
and i will prove it.
ooh.
that's what
i'm talking about.
my name is tania,
i'm 29,
and i live
in connecticut.
do you have any?
no. we don't.
we sold the last box,
like, last week.
aw, damn. okay.
i'm a wild woman.
i have an inner wild woman
that i'm learning to embrace.
i want to dress up
in little outfits,
and i want to play
with toys in sex,
and i like
taking natural supplements
to help, like,
boost up my libido.
it's called
"libido booster."
like, we don't have to wait
for things to be dull to, like,
have spice in
our sex life.
this is as strong
as it goes?
yeah. for sure.
other people may call "crazy."
i call "confident."
i bartend,
and i'm a social activist.
i focus on money in politics
and voting rights.
tim kaine
of the commonwealth...
i have this passion
to help people,
and be a part of change.
so, i don't have much of,
like, a dating past
because i just didn't
have time for it.
the one serious relationship
i did have was really toxic.
he was too jealous.
so, i learned
not to settle
and be with a man
who didn't deserve me.
so, i chose to be single
for six years
but then, i met this guy
through this dating app.
we just had a connection.
and he happened to be flying
the next day to south africa.
after talking for a little bit,
it sounds crazy
but he bought me a ticket,
and i flew out.
but he actually didn't turn out
to be the greatest.
he was actually
not a good guy.
so, i left
in the middle of the night.
i went out to a bar,
started drinking
with some girls.
and then, i saw a cute bartender
right in the bar,
and he said
his name was "syngin."
he was dancing,
and smiling.
and i went home
with him that night,
and i didn't leave
his side.
i stayed there
for almost two months
before i came back
to the states.
hello, tania.
i'd just like to say that
i'm going to miss you a lot ‐‐
like a lot, a lot, a lot ‐‐
like, really a lot.
not this much ‐‐
like, that much.
syngin and i were living
a long‐distance relationship
hey, tania.
it was so hard.
so, i packed up my stuff,
and i flew right back ‐‐
flew right back to south africa.
i love you.
bye.
can't wait to see you.
so, syngin ‐‐ i call him
"my mountain man."
he loves nature.
he loves mother earth.
he, like,
caters to me,
makes sure i'm always good,
always comfortable.
he'll always put me first,
above himself.
but i self‐identify
as "latina."
i am brown.
my family
came from venezuela.
i'm actually the first
brown person syngin's been with.
syngin grew up
in south africa,
and it was a segregated country
for quite a few years.
about 20 years ago,
they just ended apartheid.
so, he grew up in a culture
that was very r*cist.
so, he didn't go to school
with kids that looks like me.
you know, it's been a lot of him
needing to unlearn
a lot of what he's been taught
since growing up.
and now, like,
he's open to learning,
and he has really shown me
that he loves me for me.
i've never been able
to feel more of myself
with anyone else.
it's why i love him.
aww, baby.
so, after we've been together
for a couple months,
i kind of just told him that
we're getting married one day.
i went back to the states alone,
applied for the k‐1 visa,
and it's been approved.
and now, syngin's
on his way here.
morning, mom.
to save money, i am moving
back home to my mom's.
just have to help with the bills
around the house.
and syngin and i
will be moving into the shed
in my mom's backyard.
it's great, at least because
we will have some privacy.
it's detached
from the house.
but there definitely needs
to be work before we move in.
so, i'm not
getting much sleep.
i'm stressed out
because syngin is landing
in a couple days,
and the shed is not done,
like i told him it was.
we're gonna living here
full time a couple days.
how excited are you?
rojana: not really.
i don't have one kid
coming back
now, it's gonna be
two of them.
at this time in the morning,
you guys better be just...
don't come out 'cause i'll be
going in my hot tub,
relax, fix my drink.
it's, like,
we won't be coming out.
oh he's sleeping.
well, my daughter's
moving back.
she's got her fiance
coming back.
and i went last year
to south africa.
he's funny,
very handsome.
but from what i can see,
just down, slacker.
well, we'll see,
when he's here,
how that ambition ‐‐
now that he's got
more opportunity to prosper,
how he embraces it,
and runs with it.
he flies out from south africa
in two days.
he's crazy.
he can't believe it.
i'm getting little
butterflies about it.
syngin isn't ready
to have kids
he actually
gets freaked out.
i want them ‐‐ i want them
in a few years, though.
kids have always been
in my future plan,
so i won't be married to someone
who doesn't want to have kids
i want to have kids.
i'm also nervous ‐‐
things are different here.
and he's stubborn you know?
he's stubborn.
he's like...
thinks everything's
just okay.
rojana: yeah, but he also knows
how you are.
you can be very stern ‐‐ like,
"no. you're not doing this."
no. you're not doing that."
i know.
i'm really spoiled.
rojana: yeah. so, you need to be
a little understanding.
tania: syngin ‐‐
he's coasted through life
on his good looks,
his charm.
he thinks life is gonna happen
how it supposed to happen,
and whatever happens,
is was meant to happen.
but that's not life.
it'll all work out.
and if it didn't work out,
you're not gonna die.
i might k*ll him,
but...
i'm emily.
i'm 29 years old.
and i'm from portland oregon,
but for the last three years
i've been living in
volgograd, russia.
while i am living
in volgograd,
i am working
as an english teacher.
do you speak english?
can i have a tea?
unfortunately,
i barely know any russian.
a small one.
okay.
in my 20s,
i was kind of a wild child,
and i did
whatever i wanted.
i liked to party.
i went to a lot of raves.
i liked to
dress up for them.
i did a lot
of crazy things.
i don't regret
any of that wild behavior.
it was fun.
but my partying days
are behind me.
after i graduated
from university,
i decided to take
a teaching job in russia.
i've always liked
russian literature,
and i had
an image of russia
in my head
as kind of a wonderland.
then, i landed in volgograd,
and i'm like,
"what the hell did i do?"
i don't have friends here.
i can't read the language.
this city looks like
it's deteriorating.
and it's freezing.
you can see the snow.
it's crazy high.
as a young american girl
in volgograd, i was so lonely,
and i didn't really know
what to do with myself.
so, i decided to join the gym.
honest answer ‐‐ i was genuinely
seeking human interaction.
and that is where i met a hot
personal trainer named "sasha."
i thought he was
really handsome.
first of all, his eyes ‐‐
they're gorgeous ‐‐
and of course,
his biceps, too.
he was very into fitness,
but he wasn't full of himself.
he is very interested
in my life,
because i was the first american
he had ever met.
and he just had this ‐‐
i don't know.
he had good vibes,
i guess.
we were kind of flirting,
and then, one day,
he asked me out.
at first, things were
kind of difficult
because sasha knew
very little english.
but i'm an english teacher.
it's my job.
can you speak
slowly, please.
emily: one day, we had gotten
takeout for dinner.
we were in the elevator,
and he just looked at me,
and he said, "emily,
i want you to be my wife."
"what the?
really?"
it was such
a huge surprise.
but i did say "yes."
so, we have filed
for the k‐1 visa,
so we can live together
in america.
but we're not going just yet,
because...
i am 39 1/2 weeks pregnant.
and the baby is due
in just four days.
when i told my family the news,
they said "come home right now."
but sasha does not have
his visa yet,
and i can't
leave him here.
so, we decided to have
the baby here, in russia.
sash, come here.
you've got to see
what we got for the baby.
oh, wow.
it looks so nice.
i know.
so fashionable.
hello. i am sasha.
i'm from russia.
i'm 32 years old.
i'm a personal trainer.
my fiance is emily.
she is pregnant right now.
did you see this,
from my colleagues?
oh, wow.
it's a diaper tree.
it's a diaper tree.
i don't really know anything
about diapers.
oh, you don't need
to worry about this.
i have experience.
you have experience.
okay. show me.
show me now,
on the bear.
having a baby for the first time
is a scary experience,
but i'm kind of lucky, because
sasha knows what he's doing.
he has been through
this before.
i am going to be
sasha's third wife,
and this is going to be his
third child with another woman.
so...
my family thinks that sasha
will eventually leave me
for wife number four,
and i'll be stuck taking care
of this baby all by myself.
you're so good.
you're lucky.
i feel lucky,
'cause it's really important
that i have someone
who helps me.
sasha just made mistakes
in the past,
and he happened to
marry those mistakes.
but we're different.
our relationship is perfect,
and we're gonna last.
you know you're
my lifeline, right?
like, you you are
all i have.
i told you before, you don't
need to worry about this.
you know me.
i worry.
people are thinking
i'm not a good guy
because i was
married twice,
i have two kids
from each of them.
and now, i am with another girl,
and she's pregnant.
and people thinking that
this will happen again.
i will divorce again.
but it's not true, because...
yes, i made the mistakes,
but i'm actually a good guy,
and i will prove it.
i can't wait until
we're a family,
and to go to
america together.
so exciting for this.
me, too.
i'm excited, too.
i love you.
i love you, too.
bryson, can you stop?
bryson has
a lot of energy.
it takes a lot
to keep up with him.
anny, are you
ready for this?
hello. how are you?
good. how are you?
i'm fine.
how's your day going?
not so bad.
pretty tired, man.
too hot.
well, typical
florida weather.
my name is robert.
i'm 41 years old.
i'm from brooklyn, new york,
but i'm currently residing
in winter park, florida.
and i drive for
a ride‐share company ‐‐
all day, every day,
all hours.
i'm met about
five nfl players.
i bumped into
shaquille o'neal.
and i'm sitting there like...
"whoa."
i love what i do
because it gives me
the opportunity to build my
schedule around my son, bryson.
look at all those ducks
over there.
bryson: ducks!
yeah, that's a lot
of them, huh?
bryson has
a lot of energy.
it takes a lot
to keep up with him.
let's do the tire.
super warp speed?
it amazes me to see how my son
is like a mini‐me.
he just makes me smile.
he's the best kid.
who's your
best friend?
who's my
best friend?
alright.
bryson's mom is not
in the picture anymore.
came home one day, she moved
everything out of the apartment
without telling me.
so, that's how that
pretty much ended.
i'm glad that it happened,
because if it didn't happen,
i would have never
met anny.
my fiance's name
is anny.
she's 30. she lives in santiago,
dominican republic.
and she's ‐‐
hot.
i met anny through
a mutual friend on facebook.
first time
i saw her photo,
i was like "yo, shorty
is popping. she's lit."
when we first started messaging,
i was just making conversation,
just talking to her,
getting to know her.
and then,
it led to video chatting.
she's dope.
she's all that.
from after the first time
we started talking,
i was like "yo, it's time to
meet anny in person."
so, i booked a cruise
that made a stop
in the dominican republic.
the ship only stopped
in the d. r. for one day.
anny and i only spent
eight hours together,
but it was the best
eight hours in my life.
so, right then and there,
i was like,
"i have to have
this shorty."
so, i asked her
to marry me.
it was spontaneous.
i didn't even
have a ring,
but i wasn't gonna
let the moment slip away.
to people who think
this is crazy,
i say, "what the hell?
mind your business."
i don't listen to
what nobody says.
i go with my heart
and my mind.
we applied for
the k‐1 visa.
it got approved.
i haven't seen my shorty
since the dominican republic,
but anny is moving to florida
this week.
i've been waiting for
this moment for a long time,
and this is gonna be
my queen.
it's hot, okay?
unh, unh, unh.
sit back down.
come on. come on. we're not
gonna play these games.
sit back down,
and eat.
no, no, no, no, no.
when you finish eating,
you get to play with your toys,
and we can crash cars.
let's go. hurry up.
up till now, i've been
the only one raising bryson.
but that's gonna change
once anny gets here.
anny.
are you excited?
oh, yes.
i'm still feeding bryson, 'cause
captain crybaby over here ‐‐
bryson, can you stop?
anny, are you ready
for this?
you scared
of bryson?
bryson, anny called you
a monster.
when you get here, i'm gonna
take you to his school,
so, like,
you can get the routine.
but the only thing is...
the only thing is...
...crybaby....
...crybaby...
...is very...
...is very...
...cranky in the morning...
...cranky in the morning...
why are you
copying me?
when he don't want to get up,
what are you gonna do?
oh, yeah? then, how is he
gonna get to school?
he's not the boss.
anny's not gonna be able
to work, but i'm working.
so, she's gonna really
have to help me
take care of bryson.
no. you're not getting
no iphone.
anny wants an iphone,
but i really haven't gotten
anny a ring yet.
i'm not cheap.
i would say i'm more
conservative with my dollar,
because i sweat
and i work for it.
who likes
giving it away?
hold up. time out.
you said you want to have
your ring on saturday?
you want your ring.
i'll buy you
the cheapest ring out there?
i'll get you a ring
for, like...
$1.
yeah.
no.
that's for you.
my idea of a nice ring
is whatever you make in a month.
anny's idea
of a nice ring
is probably something
that she should buy.
so, if i buy you a cheap ring,
what does that mean?
she doesn't live here.
she only sees what's on tv,
and what she hears.
so, when she actually
comes here,
is she works for it ‐‐
that dollar ‐‐
i want to see how fast
she spends it.
when you get here, we're gonna
do some shopping, alright?
i'm gonna take you out,
and get you what you need.
but that ring business,
that's something i'm
gonna do on my own.
i'm getting married
within 90 days.
there's a lot of pressure.
we only spent one day
in person,
so there's a lot about anny
that i don't know about.
and my biggest fear
for when he gets here,
if it's all about money, and not
caring about me and bryson,
it would really hurt me,
because my expectations
is really high
on this relationship.
i'm gonna go check on
bryson right now.
alright.
you meet a guy
from a different country,
who doesn't speak your language,
a complete stranger to the boys,
and then, boom,
do you understand
how crazy this sounds?
jamie: i would say anna has made
some decisions in her life
that haven't come to
the best outcome.
i am afraid that this might be
her biggest mistake yet.
what happens
if she gets her visa,
and it's like, "thanks
for getting me here."
sarah: i don't know that michael
would meet a 22‐year‐old
brazilian model
if he was not wealthy,
or in the position
that he's in.
heya.
hey, jamie.
mursel's arriving
in a couple days,
and i am meeting up
with my friend jamie.
jamie is one
of my oldest friends.
jamie can be
a little harsh sometimes.
she says what's on her mind
and she has an opinion
about everything,
but you know, friends
should i guess.
hi there.
how's it going?
here's a wine list.
i'll have the chateau.
the to know.
absolutely.
would you like water as well?
yes, please.
okay. i'll be right back.
alrighty.
get this out of your way.
so, how are things going?
they're going.
mursel's going
to be coming soon.
how's the prep
going with that?
everything's
going pretty good.
yeah, i'm excited.
jamie: i have known anna
since the 6th grade.
we've grown up together
we've been through a lot
of different things together.
i would say anna has made
some decisions in her life
that haven't come
to the best outcome,
but i am afraid that this might
be her biggest mistake yet.
what are the boys think
about this relationship?
i don't know if joey's
really on board, but...
they talk to him
a lot on facetime?
they do, yeah.
when i'm talking
to him on video chat, he does.
they talk to him, but like...
so, how does that work?
because he doesn't speak english
and you don't speak turkish.
so, how does that work?
we could we speak like basic
turkish and english.
yeah?
yeah.
and you can understand
what he's saying?
yeah. like,
while we're chatting,
if we know
we don't understand
what we're saying
we'll type in something
and then translate it.
i think anna is a little naive
on the whole situation,
and she's got kind of
an optimistic look on things
and not really thinking
about things objectively.
communication is not
just words on a screen.
it's inflection of your voice,
sarcasm, body language.
i mean, we have a lot of fun
together, joke around.
but how can you really
joke on text translated?
when we're together, we can
like, you know,
you have your body.
it's like
the honeymoon phase.
we facetime
we do goofy things
how do you think
he's going to fit in?
i think him, as a muslim,
he doesn't drink or smoke.
and obviously know that you
haven't given up alcohol yet.
well, i've ‐‐ i've...
cut down.
i don't talk about
my drinking with him.
but he's like strongly
opposed?
yeah, he does not
want me to drink,
but we've had
the conversation.
i'm like,
"i'm like i'm going to drink."
it's part of american culture
and it's normal.
so i mean he's said okay,
but he wants
to be around when i'm drinking.
okay.
i guess i don't know.
i know it's crazy thing
but i think i need challenges,
or maybe that's all i know
is a challenging relationship.
maybe you've been looking in
the wrong places.
but beekeeping,
i got to meet a beekeeper
because people
don't understand.
like, i've dated guys,
and they're, like,
they're afraid of bees.
and it's like i don't want to be
dating some p*nsy
that's afraid of bees.
but they like your honey.
well, yeah.
they do like my honey.
this is going
to be a challenge for sure.
yeah.
because it's gonna be
a complete stranger
to the boys
moves in with you.
i guess i didn't think of him
as a stranger
to you,
but the boys, i mean.
yeah,
i didn't think about that.
they haven't
met him before or anything.
do you understand
how crazy this sounds?
you meet a guy
from a different country
who doesn't speak
your language.
you visit him a few times,
and then boom, 90 days.
i didn't think about
that part.
anna: before meeting up
with jamie tonight,
i was 100 percent sure
that i was ready
for mursel to come,
mursel and i do have
a lot of obstacles
ahead of us.
now i'm like kind
of thinking maybe
i don't know
if i made the right decision.
so, a lot to think about.
by pretty quickly, you know?
i know. we'll see.
let's go.
do you want to nerf blaster.
‐yeah.
today, we're going toy shopping
with sasha's oldest son daniel
okay.
whoa, he knows what he wants.
wow, wow, wow.
you're so fast.
daniel is sasha's son
with his first ex‐wife,
and unfortunately,
she only let sasha
see him on holidays.
it's really sad.
this one.
whoa.
you are a lucky kid.
sasha really tries
to be a good dad to daniel,
but he's robbed out of the time
to spend with his children.
so, daniel, what should we give
for your baby brother, too?
monkey.
he can speak english now.
great english.
i think he'll like that.
when he does get to see daniel
he's amazing with him,
though i know that he will be
a great dad to our baby.
my family is skeptical of sasha
because of his past,
especially my sister betsy.
hey, how's it going?
you wanna see?
i am huge, yeah.
four days.
oh, my god.
yeah, sasha's ready.
he's going to be in the room.
thank god.
we got that all figured out.
i'm not going to be alone.
your nurses,
do they speak english?
um, yeah.
see, that's the thing.
i don't know if they are all
going to speak english.
don't you think it's a relief
to be able to communicate
with the people
who are delivering your baby?
i speak a little bit of russian.
it's going to be okay.
you might want to learn the
russian word for it physiognomy.
you're overreacting.
i'm not so sure.
i don't want
to leave sasha.
he's the father
of my baby.
sasha is ‐‐
yeah,
he has two children already,
but trust me.
this is going to be okay.
he has been so good.
my sister is concerned
that sasha
is not going to step up
and be a father.
so i just need to talk with her
when sasha and i get to america,
because i don't know
if my sister
trusts sasha to be honest.
sorry.
sorry, guys.
i'm feeling like really dizzy.
yeah.
can i get some water,
please?
um...
i'm feeling really dizzy,
so i'll text you later,
okay?
bye. okay.
love you. bye.
okay.
hey, i need you
to come get me.
i don't feel good.
i feel really dizzy.
her sister was talking about
our relationship
and what about the baby.
then emily started to feel
dizzy, and she called me.
and i just came immediately.
you know my sister isn't
really supportive right now,
and i really need her.
and i know i'm making
my family worry
and i'm putting them
in a scary situation.
it's not a scary situation.
now, i feel a little bit nervous
because of emily.
she scared me a little bit.
that's why i came.
i just don't think you should
really get married.
now that he's coming here
to the states,
i don't think syngin knows
what he's signing up for.
i just think that you're
going to drive him away.
anna: i have some concerns
about mursel coming.
if mursel and the boys
don't get along,
that's going to probably stop us
from getting married.
tania: today, i'm having lunch
with my little sister tiana.
she's newly married.
she is a new mother.
i love her so much, but we are
just very different people.
she wants to make sure
that this k‐1 visa is 90 days.
getting married is
the best thing for me to do,
so she's concerned for me.
hey.
hey.
oh, i'm so hungry.
me, too.
hi.
are you you today?
wonderful. how are you?
wonderful, thank you.
want to try some wine
or c*ck?
no, i'm fine.
okay. here's our menu.
thank you.
i'm not drinking till
syngin gets here.
so, thursday you're going
to get syngin.
yes, i am.
how long are you guys
going to stay out there though
before you come home?
for a couple days,
but mommy's not
that happy about it.
what?
having us.
why?
we both of us
moved out so long ago,
and now she's going to have
two people living with her.
i never imagined being 29
moving back home
to my mom's backyard
living in a shed
with a guy from south africa.
i mean, it's we're doing
what we have to do
until we're able to save up
and move out
and take our next steps.
and it just sucks
that he's going to fly in,
we're gonna get
married in 90 days.
that's three months,
and then it takes about,
like, five to seven months
for him to go a work permit.
mm.
i think once we have, like,
our vision and our to do list,
like we we able to touch
our dreams, you know.
like, we want to buy land,
we want to have kids,
i want to have kids, like,
i want to go travel the country.
like...
what?
have you even
talked about that
or are these all like
your ideas
and things that you're going
to push on him?
do this.
go, go, go.
tiana: i went to go see them
in south africa,
and sometimes i don't think
that they're a good match.
you're very get it done,
get it done,
i'mma get it done.
i am.
you know i'm controlling.
you know i'm controlling,
but i also have
a great view of things.
syngin knows tania
when she's more relaxed,
more at ease
because she's not home.
she's in south africa.
now that he's coming here
to the states,
i don't think the syngin knows
what he's signing up for.
tania's like controlling,
she's very opinionated,
so i'm not sure
how he's going to handle that.
i don't know. i'm just surprised
that you're getting married
in general,
because it just always seemed
like you were never
going to settle down,
you were never going
actually gonna get married.
i know. i still feel
a little shocked by it.
i just feel like my biggest
concern with him coming here
is that you're going
to make a rash decision.
what do you mean?
i just think
you're going to be rushing,
you guys getting married,
and now you're saying
something about kids.
so i feel like you're
just trying to have
everything together
before 30.
i just think that you're
going to drive him away.
what?
i think you're going to
drive him away
you think i'm going
to drive him away?
why do you think
i'm going to drive him away?
what?
you're just a very...
independent, fierce woman.
no.
i mean, yes,
but no.
i think we do great.
like,
we communicate a lot.
like, we talk a lot.
feel like you do all the
talking, and he just.
a lot of time,
he's very stubborn
and doesn't want to listen.
sometimes it's not
what you say,
it's how you say it.
tania: so, my sister now
that she's like newly married
she feels like she's
an expert on relationships.
oh, that drives me crazy.
you obviously don't hear
the way you talk
to your husband.
but i'm kinder than you.
you're definitely
not kinder than me.
yes, i am.
no, you're not.
i'm literally call you
a professional b*tch.
what do you think
i call?
you angry b*tch.
but not to my husband.
my sisters always going try
to put her opinions
in my relationship,
and like for some reason
always attack me, telling me
i'm asking for too much
or too demanding
or too bossy or too bitchy
and all of this when it's like
you have your own relationship.
my sister's always kind
of thought that about me,
so it doesn't really
faze me now.
i know what i want,
i know what i need,
and i can't feel bad for
sticking by those.
i have big plans,
and syngin
has to prove himself
these 90 days.
i'm actually really done
with this conversation.
i just don't think
you should really get married.
anna: today, i'm going to the
airport to pick up her mursel,
and i am just so excited.
i can barely contain myself.
i'm welcoming a guy
that i met on the internet
who i've spent a couple
of vacations with into my home,
and i'm planning on marrying him
in the next 90 days.
i know it's crazy. it really is.
it's crazy, but i love him.
i'm really excited
to show mursel my bees.
we talk a lot about our bees
and showing each other videos
and pictures.
anytime we're inspecting
our hives, we videotape it.
i do have some concerns
about mursel coming
i'm worried that he's not
going to like the u. s.
he's not going
to have his family.
he's just gonna have me
and my boys,
so he's basically alone.
or what if the language barrier
is just too huge.
but my biggest fear ‐‐
my biggest fear is mursel
and the boys don't get along.
that's for sure one thing.
i think right now they're
going to test the boundaries
and see what they can
get away with
and what irritates mursel.
i told them they had
to give him a chance,
that he was a very important
person in my life.
if mursel and the boys
don't get along,
that's going to probably stop us
from getting married.
but i believe
we're meant to be.
we're meant to get married.
okay.
alright.
i'm ready.
i'm nervous.
i've invested a lot of time
and feelings
into this relationship.
we've got a lot
of pressure on us.
we need to make sure
that this is the right decision
because this is forever.
anna: i'm nervous.
i've invested a lot of time
and feelings
into this relationship.
we've got
a lot of pressure on us.
we need to make sure
that this is the right decision
because this is forever.
mursel.
good. how are you?
i am good.
you're good?
yes.
my name is mursel.
i am from antalya, turkey.
i am 38.
your bag.
oh, mursel. go get it.
he finally got here,
and i'm so excited.
we've been waiting so long,
and i'm just so happy he's here.
how do you feel
that you're here?
here.
you can write in tur‐‐
flying?
what?
the language barrier
is going to be pretty tough.
we can have really
basic conversations,
but if we want to get into
a more serious conversation
we do have to use
a translator app.
very late.
no?
but the app doesn't
always translate correctly
or i know more mursel tries
to just think
he knows what i'm saying,
even though he doesn't
so it causes some problems.
hi, mursel.
hello.
nice to meet you.
oh, nice to meet you.
mursel, who is this?
who is this man?
omar.
yes.
yeah.
we just met
at the airport.
at the airport, today.
oh, you meet at the airport?
okay.
okay.
nice to meet you, anna.
nice to meet you, omar.
hey, man.
good luck with that.
bye, omar.
okay, let's go.
you have your bag?
yes.
mursel is finally here,
and i'm just so excited.
we're staying a night
in a hotel by the airport,
and i'm looking forward to our
first night together in america.
i am taking a rest but, you're
always taking a risk with love.
nebraska is very far,
mursel.
chicago.
i'm hoping
everything goes right.
i really hope he likes the u. s.
in the next 90 days,
i'll be married
or heartbroken.
what do you think, mursel?
wow. very nice room.
you ready to sleep, mursel?
yes.
do you have pajamas?
pajamas?
but, right now,
i just know we're both
just so happy
to finally be together.
why you sending me
all these angry emojis.
robert: i really hope
and he's not all about money
because this is a red flag.
have you talked about
how she's going to step parent?
i don't pretend at all that
she's going to take
over a mother role
like you.
these kids are going to be like
you have no authority over me.
i don't know juliana.
it will be a rude awakening,
and i worry about it.
robert:
anny gets here in four days.
i can't really afford right now
to get anny
a big iphone that she want,
expensive
or really a nice ring yet.
but i want to get her something
special for her arrival
so she knows she's appreciated.
i really don't know nothing
about lingerie,
but i know what looks good
on a woman and what turns me on.
hello. how are you?
hi. um, i'm looking
for a piece of lingerie.
okay.
it's for my fiancée.
something sexy,
seductive, you know.
and do you know her size?
i don't know.
do you know what pantie size
she wears?
i would say
she got a big butt small.
that's kind of ‐‐ okay.
i would say
something like, uh...
you look a little confused.
are you nervous?
no.
okay.
i don't know the first clue
were anny size is.
only thing i know
is she have nice curves
and a voluptuous body.
this is her here.
aww. she's beautiful.
thank you.
yeah, should probably be more
like a medium‐large
in our sizes.
i'm just looking at stuff
that i would like to see her in.
got it.
something that's like,
"take me, baby."
right, got it.
we have some cute things
like this.
this is a corset.
imagine her walking
around the corner.
yeah, but there's no legs.
men come in looking
for their wives,
and we love for men
to think about the woman
when buying it versus
the benefit that they'll get.
but that's usually
what's on their mind.
so, how did you propose?
i did it on the beach
in punta cana.
well, when she gets here,
i'mma do it better than that.
yeah?
yeah.
how long did you
spend with her then?
i spent out there ‐‐
i was a day out there.
just a day?
yeah.
okay.
yeah.
so, you're engaged
right there?
yeah.
i was pretty much ‐‐
pretty much it.
mm‐hmm.
at the time that
i proposed to anny,
i didn't have a ring
but it just came out.
it just felt right.
but even though
she say yes already,
i want to do it with a ring.
i'm gonna do a redo,
so i'm going to take her out
to the beach, get on one knee
and propose the right way.
i like both of these pieces.
tareen: okay.
and it'll look real good
and tempting, you know?
sounds like you all have
a incredible bond.
give me one second.
ooh, let me step out
one second.
i get a text from anny,
and she just sends me
a ton of angry emoji faces,
and it really pisses me off.
what's going on?
what is the problem?
why are you sending me
all these angry emojis?
i wired anny so money
to do some last minute expenses
before she get
to the united states,
as she calls me up whining
because she can't access
the money due to her i. d. issue.
i sent the money. it's there.
you bothering me like
i didn't send it.
i sent it and it's there.
anny, you keep sending me
angry emoji faces
is not helping the situation.
alright?
right now i really hope
anny's not all about money
because this is a red flag.
thank you.
congratulations.
she's a beautiful woman.
thank you.
yeah, bye.
bye‐bye.
why don't we swing
by the new house
on the way to mom's house,
huh?
yeah.
yeah.
cool.
michael juliana has
her visa interview next week,
and if she is approved,
i don't think any of us know
what life will be like,
what kind of adjustments
that may mean.
it remains to be seen.
we'll be moving
in less than a month.
i have to get a lot of
furniture, you know.
it's a big house, right?
yes. you guys will have
your own big bedrooms.
can't we.
after sarah i got a divorce,
i decided just to rent
an apartment in greenwich,
and i've been living there
for the last three years.
but with bringing juliana
to america,
with the kids getting bigger,
we have outgrown it.
so i have decided
to buy a house.
okay, guys.
it's like right.
see down there?
it's so cool.
i like the color.
and cece fell asleep.
cece?
cece,
there's the new house.
‐oh, my god.
‐can you see?
‐yeah.
‐yeah?
no. no, you're right.
the new house is literally
one right turn away
from my ex‐wife
sarah's house.
i'm not sure what juliana
will think about the house
being so close to sarah's.
i'm hoping she won't be
uncomfortable with that.
i'm hoping she'll realize
it's helpful for all of us.
i think she feels ‐‐
she doesn't...
i don't think she necessarily
she feels like
not liking that,
but i think it's sort
of unusual circumstance.
i think she's okay with
would juliana,
because she's not as much
as like a step‐mom.
she's more she's more like
one of us, kinda.
yeah.
okay, guys.
sarah and i've been together
since we were quite young.
we were both
in our very early 20s
when we first started dating,
and had children
relatively young.
i think that also ended up
being a strain
on the relationship later.
we both grew
and grew differently.
by the time we ended up
going through divorce,
we weren't at all
the same people we were
when we first got together.
‐hey. ‐hello.
‐how were they?
they're good.
we had a lot of fun.
we're extremely close friends,
and actually grown closer
and closer after our divorce.
and i know this is gonna be
really difficult
for juliana to accept.
so, from the beginning,
i have to help her realize
that that's all in the past.
has you figure out today.
it was great.
we'll have to sort out
the summer for them, you know?
i know. it's kind
of stressing me out.
well, you know, like
a lot's up in the air
until we know what happens
with juliana.
yeah.
i don't know that michael
would meet a beautiful woman
who happens to be a 22‐year‐old
brazilian model.
if michael was not wealthy
or are in the position
that he's in,
i don't know juliana.
all i can go on is the trust
that i have in michael
to make good decisions
and to have max and cece
as his first
priority and concern.
she's so excited to be a part
of max and cece's life.
have you talked about
how she's going to step parent?
you know, there's no list
of here's your duties
and obligations.
i don't pretend at all that
she's going to take over
a mother role like you.
juliana moving here
and living with max and cece
and their father is going to be
a big disruption in their life.
i don't know if juliana is in it
for the right reasons.
i hope she is.
i don't know her
and i'm not in her position,
but just like being around kids
and everything,
that can really stress
somebody out,
especially
when they these kids
are going to be like
you have no authority over me.
juliana and michael, they know
how they are with each other
without the kids,
but they don't know
how they are with each other
with the kids.
to go from one country
to another right into step‐mom,
it will be a rude awakening.
it would be for anyone,
and i worry about it.
what happens
if she gets her visa
and its like, "thanks
for getting me here.
i'm out."
i think the probability
of that is extremely small,
but i'm fully aware
she's a much younger woman.
and no telling what could happen
when she gets to america.
i know that this
sort of situation
isn't easy for anybody,
and sarah wants to make it clear
with juliana
that she is still
the mother of max and cece
and what she says goes.
i can understand that
and i respect it.
i'm just crossing my fingers
that it doesn't end up
creating any problems
for anybody.
he landed 10 minutes.
i can't right now.
i really
he's landed, i'm late,
and now my heart's beating
so fast
i don't know what to do.
i drove from connecticut
to new york last night
to pick up
my south african fiancé
from the airport today
ah, syngin's flying in.
but a long time
since we have been together,
and it's it's gonna be like
one of the best days of my life.
he's landing in like less
than two hours.
i don't even have an outfit yet.
i'm just trying to breathe.
whew.
i don't even know
where i was starting.
after syngin lands,
we're staying in new york
for a couple days.
i'm going to show him
around new york some.
he's talked about times square
and like seeing it on tv,
so i can like, "voilà, new york.
come in.
i'm sorry.
‐good morning.
‐good morning.
i asked my two best friends
monique and marian
to come pick up syngin
from the airport with me.
well, your lipsticks done.
some eye concealer.
it's pretty much all leftover
from yesterday.
just my under eyes
i'm little nervous about it.
syngin.
we're getting syngin today.
we're excited.
so excited.
it almost feels like
we know him.
we hear a lot about him.
he sends a lot of love
audio messages,
as i like to call them.
it's not just honeymoon
stage anymore.
i don't exactly know
how things are gonna go,
but i mean we're happy
to support.
happy to be here.
happy to support.
so, this is like outfit one
i think this
is like my favorite.
yeah. i love it.
this one i found
in my mom's closet,
so thanks, mom.
and then this is like leggings.
no. i like that.
that's pretty.
okay. alright.
thanks.
i definitely like things perfect
in how i envision them,
and so i have this vision
of syngin coming to america
and what that looks like.
hurry it up, girl.
we're gonna be late
to pick him up.
i'm running late,
so now i'm going to stress.
i have a lot of stress,
a lot of anxiety.
tania.,
we have three minutes.
what's up at the room,
though?
are we supposed to be putting
rose petals down or...?
oh, my god.
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
this will be enough
from this.
honestly, one flower.
alright.
‐okay.
‐alright, so we're just...
we only have a few minutes too,
so hurry up.
‐yes, let's go.
‐can i get a hello?
like, damn.
‐you look good.
bow‐chica‐wow‐wow.
no, you look amazing.
i'm like running on no sleep,
but i look fly,
and i have a little sex corner
set up next to the bed
for once syngin
comes into the hotel room
for the first time.
i have the natural lubricant,
because if you can't
put it in your mouth
don't put it in your vag*na.
and some natural condoms
and a new vibrator
i just bought.
i'm romancing him,
sexing him up.
we all can do it.
we all want to have sex.
we can all initiate it.
what's our eta to the airport?
alright, so it's still 8:40.
we're like an hour away.
yeah, it is.
yeah, an hour.
we'll be fine.
just getting out
of the airport regularly
and off the plane
is a lot.
i could never drive
in new york though.
this is crazy.
so, i wanted
everything to be perfect.
like, obviously, i always
want things to be perfect.
and now instead
i'm like freaking out.
i'm running so late, getting
stuck in traffic to the airport.
i'm already looking online like
his plane is set to land early
i am all over the place.
oh.
what?
he's landed already.
he landed 10 minutes ago.
i can't right now.
i really can't.
i'm so ‐‐
i'm really mad right now.
what if he
just comes through security
and i'm not there
to greet him
in the way i want to greet him.
if he walks out of customs
before i'm there...
he's landed, i'm late.
i hate when things don't
turn out how i planned them,
and now my heart's
beating so fast
i don't know what to do.
this season on 90 day fiancé.
i didn't fall in love
with anny's body
i fell in love with anny's mind.
natalie's full of life
and she brings
excitement to every day.
i'm done.
mike will be her son
on the k‐1 visa,
so i'm here to get me some
botox, baby.
oh, my god.
oh.
we're going to practice.
i literally
have a clock inside me
telling me you need
to have a kid now.
it's ‐‐ yeah.
you don't think
you could be jasmin's
lottery ticket out here.
my friends think jasmin
is using me
to be in the united states
with her sister,
but i'm not worried.
i want from you
is to not parent.
i am their mom,
and nobody will ever
know them
better than i do.
how does mursel's family
feel about your kids.
mursel doesn't want
to tell his family.
that's messed up.
michael.
do you still want to get
married, or no?
it's painful.
there's no rule that says
you have to marry him.
he's the father of my child.
there's a pattern.
he gets someone pregnant.
it all falls apart.
you found robert
on the internet,
and then all of a sudden
you're here in america.
i'm telling you, though,
i'm don't have much more time!
god, you're
do they want you
to leave soon?
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