Previously
on "90 day fianc"...
So today, just decided to
check on his visa paperwork.
Are you gonna
believe me now?
We'll see.
She keyed "idiot"
into the driver's-side door.
Right now, I think it's better
for anfisa to go back to
Russia.
And coming up...
While you're talking to me,
you talking to her, too?
Is that why you told me
she was dead?
Yeah.
Babe!
don't touch me!
don't touch me!
So they wouldn't think
I'd be able to --
you might need
to get a co-sponsor.
I'm worried that
I won't have a way to do this
because I don't have
the finances.
Please help me.
So, what do you think
we need to do now
for you and I
to be happy?
Right now, I don't know
where me and anfisa stand.
We're thinking about
calling it quits.
Do you want to marry me?
Are your parents
gonna be here?
I'm not sure.
If my family doesn't show up,
I'm gonna be devastated.
If they don't show up
in a few minutes,
we're gonna have to go ahead
and get started.
I know my family had doubts
about my relationship
before I went to Morocco.
And after talking to my mom
and my brother,
I feel even more confused
about our future.
You deserve
so much better.
I know.
I don't know
if I can just end it.
I know.
I know, sweetie.
I don't want to.
When people talk to me
about stuff
and have their arguments
about my relationship,
it just sounds like
that they just want me to
quit.
It really is my life,
and I hate when people just
keep
trying to tell me what to do.
...then he can change
the necessary things
for us to be together,
just like I needed to change
some things that I do.
Hey.
Hi, can I help you?
My name's Nicole,
I'm here to see Maria.
I'll let her know you're here.
Thank you.
I'm still hoping
that me and azan fix things
and work things out.
Hello.
Hi.
This is Nicole.
That's Maria.
Hi, Nicole, nice to meet you.
Nice you meet you.
So, I made an appointment
with an immigration lawyer
to find out more
about the k-1 visa
'cause I don't really know
a lot.
I understand that you had
called
us regarding a fianc visa.
What about your fianc?
What does he do?
Where is he from?
He's from Morocco,
and, so, we're thinking about
applying for a k-1 visa.
And I just want to know
a lot more about the legal
stuff
and what goes on
and stuff like that.
So, we do a lot of the work
at the front end
because we have to establish
that you guys have
a legitimate relationship.
Okay.
Where did you meet him?
Well, we met
on an app.
Okay.
And when was the first time
that you saw him physically?
Like, when you --
in person?
Yep. Exactly.
I was there for five weeks
in Morocco...
Okay.
...With him.
That's the only time
you've --
that's the only time
I've ever seen him in person.
Okay.
I would've preferred,
you know...
If possible,
that you had met more times,
you have more evidence
that we can show.
Mm-hmm.
But, like,
have you done cases
that have less evidence
that have made it through?
No.
No.
Okay.
Most of our clients
that I've dealt with
have been people
that have been in a
relationship
for a long time.
They have dated
for several years
and have finally decided that
they wanted to take the plunge
and get married.
And so, that is concerning.
And I mean, are you familiar
with what the costs are?
With regards...
Not much.
Not much?
How much does it cost
for a whole k-1 visa process?
It varies.
And we normally charge
$5,000.
That sounds like a lot.
Yes.
And, you know,
when he goes for his interview
to be able to say that I
make enough for him to be
here?
and having
a 2-year-old daughter,
you are going to be able
to establish by yourself that--
so, they wouldn't think
I'd be able to support him?
Correct.
You might need to get
a co-sponsor from somebody,
saying that --
a co-sponsor?
or in addition
to yourself,
to sign the affidavit
of support.
Who says
they would support him?
Mm-hmm.
I mean, if everything
starts to go better with us
and we really want to
go through this and
everything,
I'm worried that
I won't have a way to do this
because I don't have
the finances.
That scares me.
Do you think you're gonna get
a sponsor?
I don't know.
I guess the only person I
would
try to ask would be my mom,
and I think
that would be really hard.
It's a lot
to think about.
It is a lot
to think about.
It's not just
a financial commitment,
it's a huge commitment.
Marriage is
a huge commitment.
Yeah.
Let's share one.
I came to Vietnam
because I was suspicious
when my fianc, lowo,
told me that his visa
was delayed again.
Now that we've been
to the embassy,
but I'm still worried about
the cultural differences.
I want to show you that I care
and respect your culture,
but at the same time,
like,
I'm not gonna step back
into the 1950s.
Tonight, we're meeting
up
with my friend iteade.
How you doing?
Good.
He's a very good friend of
mine
who was my roommate
here in Vietnam.
All right, thanks.
All right.
Yeah.
Two dudes, really?
Oh, really?
Yeah!
Okay.
That's good.
It's pretty out here,
though.
Yeah,
better than "nice".
Like, a couple of days ago,
right?
Yeah, I am.
We've been having, like,
all these visa delays and
stuff,
you know?
Like, everything is
kind of...On hold.
So, as soon as he gets his
documents and can finally
move.
Well, they have concerns
because they've never met him.
We met online,
you know what I mean,
and the whole
"Nigerian prince" thing.
There's, like,
these big scams.
People e-mail you and they say
"oh, I'm a Nigerian prince,"
and, "give me
your bank account
information,"
and they just think,
like, it's a big joke.
Whoa.
Well, you know,
lowo wasn't completely honest
with me in the beginning.
Yeah, the know about that,
too,
so, like...
Yeah.
What?
When?
And there was
nothing serious.
So, while you're
talking to me,
you got her on the other
phone,
you talking to her, too?
Like, you trying
to rekindle --
like, you trying
to have a family?
What's going on?
What do you mean?
That doesn't mean anything.
But I really want
to be with narkyia.
Why am I just now
finding this out?
And you're just so nonchalant
about it, like,
"yeah, I was talking to you
and her. So what?"
It's in the past.
So, what were you doing --
it is in the past,
but it makes a difference.
Maybe I didn't want
to talk to you
while you were busy
trying to have a family.
You're still talking to her?
No!
It doesn't matter, lowo,
you didn't tell me.
Yeah.
You are
a a*s
Wow.
That's what you're--
wow, yeah.
Really, you're just gonna
do that and go?
Really?
That's some bull
Is that why you told
me
she was dead?
- Yeah.
- You are a a*s
Really, you're just
gonna do that and go?
Really?
Look at that,
that's some bull
That's some bull
I don't want
to talk.
Leave me alone,
Mike.
I don't understand
why he thinks that's okay.
Like, it's okay,
just nonchalant,
just to be cool, like,
"oh, yeah.
I was talking to her, so
what?"
Crazy.
Right.
If narkyia can just listen to
me
for one second, just one
second,
this wouldn't have been
a big deal.
I just feel so stupid.
I thought that lowo
really had come clean with me.
And now to find this out,
that he's keeping this
away from me,
it just makes me feel like,
what else is he keeping?
Babe!
Babe.
don't touch me.
Hold on.
Hold on, babe.
don't touch me.
don't do that.
don't do that.
Lowo,
leave me alone.
Babe, this is --
leave me alone!
You make me look like
a fool.
No, you're not.
Yes, you make me look stupid.
Yes.
Lowo.
No.
Leave me alone.
Look at me.
Come on now,
babe.
Lowo.
No, I don't want
to talk to you right now.
Where's iteade?
Take him with you.
Take him with you.
Babe, I'm sorry.
Take him with you.
Go stay with him.
Babe...
Leave me alone.
I got to go.
I got to go.
Please let me go.
Please let me go.
I don't know
what's gonna happen.
I don't know what I'm gonna
do.
Leave me alone.
The last couple days
have been pretty rough.
Anfisa came really close to
getting a ticket back to
Russia.
Anfisa's not very reasonable,
and she doesn't really seem
to compromise.
It is hard being with somebody
that thrives on conflict
like that.
I'm Literally
making a deal
for 15,000 Dollars,
It up.
And you're really
I've been staying at work
because I'm not really sure
about going back
to the apartment.
She didn't get on a flight
yet,
but right now, I don't know
where me and anfisa stand.
I feel like...
If I go back to the apartment,
I think that we'll just end up
arguing again and...
One thing'll lead to another.
Hello?
Hi.
What do you want?
Where are you at?
Why does it matter?
Where the
are you?
Why does it even matter
to you?
What do you want
from me?
Hello?
We're just gonna end up
getting into another argument.
What's the point?
I'm not trying
to avoid the conversation,
I'm just saying that --
if you can talk
like a normal person,
then I can be there.
All right.
I guess
I'll be there soon.
Bye.
Bye.
Part of me just wants
for anfisa to go home.
But ultimately, I think,
for her,
coming all the way out here,
I think I owe it to her
to listen.
I'm gonna go see him
in December, and may's g
do not drag that child
clear across the world.
There is more --
all you guys --
listen to me!
You guys
just want me to stop.
Listen to me.
Are your parents
gonna be here?
I'm not sure.
My parents
are not exactly supportive
about Pedro and I
getting married.
We're gonna have to go ahead
and get started.
Right now, I don't know
where me and anfisa stand.
We're, you know, really
thinking
about calling it quits.
Do you want to marry me?
I met
with an immigration lawyer,
and she told me
I don't make enough
to qualify for the k-1 visa,
but if I have a sponsor,
then we'll be able
to make it work.
I'm gonna ask my mom
to sponsor azan,
and I know it might be
a long shot,
but I hope because she loves
me
and she wants me to be happy
that she might consider it.
What's up, Nicole?
What did you
want to talk about?
So...
I went to the lawyer today,
in tampa.
And we were just talking about
the k-1 visa and, like...
For azan's visa,
I have to make, like,
a certain amount of money
to -- for him to --
to take care of him,
'cause he can't work right
away.
So, like, I probably
don't make enough money.
So, you're thinking,
right off the bat,
You're pretty much...
Well, if that happens,
I'll have to have, like,
a sponsor for him
or, like, a co-sponsor.
And that would be
the only way
I could probably get him
over here on a visa.
Yeah, so,
who were you thinking?
Mom...Come on.
"Mom," as in...
Put mom's name
at the top of the list,
is that
what you're saying?
Really?
Look, okay,
even if you --
hypothetically,
if you sponsored him,
you wouldn't actually
have to take care of him.
Like,
there would be papers,
but, like, you wouldn't
actually
have to take care of him.
I would just be responsible
for him?
Please help me.
Just to get him
over here,
because I want to be with him
and he wants to be with me.
No, honey,
I can't do that.
I would be --
stop, mom.
Look, okay, look, mom --
I love you. I love you.
But, mom,
if no one else co-signs,
then I don't know
what I'm gonna do.
Do you know how much
I have to make?
I have to make $25,500
to be able to take care of
him.
What am I gonna do?
Get another job?
But even then,
it's gonna take a little
while.
Honey, I'm not --
I'm not gonna --
I'm not gonna sign for azan,
honey.
You're gonna have to
think of another way.
I'm pretty clear.
I am so over this.
I'm ready for this to be done.
I hate to say,
"nice to see another hurdle",
but, you know, to me,
it's just one more thing
that says that there's
something wrong with this
and we don't need
to pursue it further.
You need to just...
Concentrate on you.
And on may.
Can you
honestly tell me
that this is best
for may?
Especially what happens
when he has his own children.
He loves may.
You don't know that!
The man --
yes, I do!
He told me
he loves may.
The man has never even
met that child.
So?
He'll meet her soon.
I'm gonna go see him
in December,
and may's gonna come
with me.
No.
No, what?
Do not drag that child
clear across the world
to a place
she's not familiar with
and a place
you're not familiar with.
I've been there
once already.
Oh, yep,
that solved everything.
And, boy,
what a great time you had!
Whew!
Nothing bad happened.
I'm done
with this conversation.
You're gonna have to
get her a passport
so she can even get on a plane
to go over there.
Where do you think
you're gonna get
this sudden windfall
of money?
So?
No, it's not a "so," Nicole.
So?
What?
I didn't ask your permission
for that, so...
You know, my brain
is, like, fried
even thinking about it.
So then the conversation
is over.
No.
No, because I need you
to stop and think for a
minute.
Mom,
I still love him.
I need you to stop...
I love him
and he loves me.
That's it.
...And think for a minute.
Think about what?!
There's more --
all you guys --
listen to me!
You guys
just want me to stop.
Listen to me.
You know
we care about you.
I know.
You've got to figure out
what's most important.
Is it what you want?
Or what may needs?
Now our conversation's done.
I feel like this whole visa
and
relationship stuff is a mess.
But I know I'm gonna do this.
And I don't know
what I'm gonna do, honestly.
But I still want to do this,
so there, that's it.
The last 90 days
have been the craziest days
in my life.
I would do everything
completely different
if I could
go back in time.
I would tell my parents
the moment that I'm engaged
and maybe save myself
some stress on my wedding day.
Pedro's actually here
on a k-1 fianc visa.
And we have to get married
on Thursday.
You lied
about everything.
What are you
trying to say?
If you have thought about
having a prenuptial agreement.
This is a stressful situation
for me.
I don't know how I'm gonna
get through this day.
I hope my mom and dad
will be here.
Whew.
And my family.
Gege possibly will be
the only person at my wedding,
but I'm thankful that she
wanted
to create a special evening
for us in a park.
Today, we're getting ready
for the wedding ceremony,
but Chantel doesn't know
if her parents are coming.
So now it's kind of like
a big mess.
Oh.
Aww.
Hey, gege.
Hey!
You look beautiful.
Babe.
Oh, gege,
this is so pretty.
I know,
you like it?
Yeah.
I just wanted
to make it special.
And hopefully, your parents
will be here, as well.
The way gege set everything up
looks so beautiful,
but I really don't
expect anybody to show up.
Are your parents
gonna be here?
I'm not sure.
You're not sure?
Chantel and Pedro came to me
in a little situation
about them being engaged.
And they didn't tell
their parents.
Is your brother coming
or...?
He wasn't happy at all,
so I don't know
if he'll be here.
Okay.
We both
don't have our families here.
It's getting late.
My parents
are not exactly supportive
about Pedro and I
getting married,
but if my family
shows up,
it'll mean the world
to me.
Oh, look.
I hear someone coming.
Look, there it goes.
Actually came.
When I see my parents
and my sister
and I don't see river,
I just assume
that he's not coming.
Hi, everyone.
Hey.
Hey, Pedro.
Hello, bishop.
Hey, how you doing,
Karen?
I'm good.
It's very good to see you.
We're here to support
our daughter in her nuptials
that, of course,
we just found out about.
But before
we give her way today,
we definitely have to
talk about some things.
Oh.
Yeah.
Okay, go get it.
Oh, yes.
It was
really stressful...
Oh, well,
you know, but --
...to get this done,
but --
just let
the stress go.
Life is
full of surprises.
All right.
Let's see here.
So, inheritance,
is it listed?
Here,
you can look at it.
"In additional consideration,
each party shall --"
let's see here.
Can you see?
Oh, yes.
It looks like
everything is in order.
Very good.
You guys took what we were
saying under consideration.
If river's not here,
we're going to get started.
Okay.
Where is river?
Basketball game.
Basketball game?
So do you know
if river's gonna make it?
We're gonna have to go ahead
and get started.
if river's not here,
we're going to get started.
Okay.
Where is river?
Basketball game.
Basketball game?
It breaks my heart knowing
that
river doesn't want anything
to do with my future husband.
I hope that he'll come around
for me in the end
'cause we're family.
So, do you know
if river's gonna make it?
We're gonna have to go ahead
and get started.
Okay.
Oh, river made it.
River!
Yes, I'm sure.
Tonight, I only came
because my sister called me
and she told me
she really wanted me to be
here.
And I didn't want to hurt her
the same way she hurt me.
When I finally
see river come through,
he still seems a little upset,
but at least he showed up.
Yes?
All right.
Well, let's everybody
get in place.
Dearly beloved,
we are gathered together here
to join together this man and
this woman in holy matrimony.
Pedro?
Repeat after me.
I, Pedro...
I, Pedro...
...take thee, Chantel...
...take thee, Chantel...
...to be...
...To be...
...my wedded wife...
...my wedded wife...
...to have...
...To have...
...and to hold...
...And to hold...
...till death...
...till death...
...do us part.
...do us part.
I, Chantel...
I, Chantel...
...take thee,
Pedro...
...take thee,
Pedro...
...to be
my wedded husband...
...to be
my wedded husband...
...to have
and to hold...
...to have
and to hold...
...till death do us part.
...till death do us part.
I pronounce
that they are husband and
wife.
I was pleased
with the ceremony.
I definitely believe that
Pedro and Chantel are in love,
puppy love.
We wish them the best,
and we are just praying
and blessing them.
Congratulations.
Look, what happens
a month from now?
Or two months?
A year?
Congratulations, Pedro.
We definitely gonna have to
keep an eye on Pedro
because time will tell
with Pedro and Chantel.
Yes.
Whether Pedro's in it
for real or not, you know,
I'm always gonna have my
doubts,
but tonight, I did see him
on a little emotional side.
And that's what Chantel needs.
Yes.
If this was to make her happy,
I want her to be happy.
I just want to see her happy.
Congratulations, Chantel.
And Pedro.
Whoo!
Now, you definitely have to
take care of our young
daughter.
Yes, indeed.
Not telling my parents about
ahead of time has really
caused
sort of an uphill battle.
It's gonna take us
some time
to regain the trust
of my family,
but I think
that we can do it.
Okay, baby?
Sorry.
Okay.
Te amo, okay?
All that matters
is that Pedro and I are
together
and we love each other.
This is my husband,
and I'm his wife.
Good!
Anfisa gave me a call
because she wanted
to talk things over.
She made some reservations,
and we're gonna go out tonight
and assess everything.
Means a lot that anfisa's
reaching out to me.
But I think that we're,
you know,
really thinking about
calling it quits.
so we need to decide
something.
Let's go.
Hi, good evening.
Good evening.
This place is nice.
Well, I really appreciate you
going out of your way
and booking this
for us.
So...
I know, the pressure's
just been crazy.
Like, we have to get married,
or you have to go back,
like...
I know.
I love Jorge,
but since I arrived,
I want him to give me
more attention.
I didn't think I'd be spending
so much time alone
here in America.
I don't think Jorge realizes
that it's really hard for me,
and I would like him to be
more
supporting and understanding.
So what do you think
that we need to do now...
...for you and I
to be happy?
And...
I totally get it.
It's hard for me, too,
because, like,
sometimes I feel like you
don't
appreciate what I do for you.
Like all those
long hours?
And I would come home --
it's just because
I missed you.
Not because...
Of any other reason.
Okay.
I see what you mean.
For the first time
since anfisa got here,
she's opening up
a little bit more.
And it feels really good.
I put myself in her shoes,
and I see what the problem is.
I try my hardest
to give you as much of my time
as I possibly can.
Like, I understand
that you say that you miss me,
and it's just hard
that, like,
we end up having an argument
because of it.
Like it turns in
from something so small
to a full,
blown-out argument.
And things just
go sour.
Like,
do you want this?
Do you want to be here
in America?
Do you want to marry me?
do you want to marry me?
What I want from you is to be
a little bit patient.
I feel like I need to change.
I need to be more calm
and more patient.
So I'm gonna try to do that.
I know sometimes
I can be...
A little mean,
a little too crazy.
I'm sorry about that.
Money?
Wow.
Money is not anything
to fall in love with.
I'm worried that if
I lose everything and go
broke,
like,
would you still love me?
Her response that
she would still be with me
no matter what
gave me peace of mind.
And after our talk, like,
I just feel like
all this weight has been
lifted
off my shoulders.
I'm ready to be with you
for the rest of my life.
Like, I'm gonna try my best
to do whatever I can
to be a better man
to you.
I'm happy.
I feel like
at this point in my life...
I need a partner
to settle down with
because if I don't
settle down now...
I don't think it'll be
something
that will happen in the
future.
It's either now or never.
I'm just ready for the next
step
with anfisa.
Now we have a few more days
until our 90 days is up.
We can just do a court
wedding,
just get paperwork done.
And the real big wedding
later when you are ready.
Like, I'm ready
to marry you.
I'm ready
to be with you.
I mean,
when you're ready financially.
All right.
I promise you
that I'm gonna give you
the best wedding
of your life.
Did you guys
hear that?
You better.
Love you.
Next time on "90 day fianc"...
Well, then you know
what you can do now?
Go fulfill
your obligation.
Can't keep giving him chance
after chance after chance.
I hope that our love
is strong enough to last.
Today's the big day.
Like, now it's gonna be a
matter
if you're leaving or staying.
Like,
you're staying.
That's nerve-wracking,
not knowing if Patrick's
gonna act like a jackass.
I've been told not to do it.
I don't listen to other
people.
I do what I want to do.
...If there is
anyone
in the audience
that objects to this union.
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