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He's heading to the midwest
for a latino
who doesn't speak any English,
this is a serious situation.
Did you tell her about the ring?
You seriously think
I got you a fake diamond?
I don't know.
Danielle is acceptable for me.
You know,
when most people are in love,
they usually hold hands a lot.
Over the next 90 days, I'm gonna
be watching him like a hawk.
You nervous
about the wedding night?
Cassia and I will have
a lot of issues to work out.
Are you gonna meet me in rio?
That wasn't a good start.
When Danny has a shower
in my place,
it's kind of like reminds me
of the fact
that we've taken
a vow of abstinence.
You know, like, if she's not
happy about the ring,
are there other things?
What else isn't she
gonna be happy about?
Have you guys thought at all
about jobs?
We have a meat-packing plant
which hires a lot of latinos.
It's about 6:30 in the morning.
If cassia doesn't show up, I'm
gonna just fly back by myself.
Me and mohamed have less
than 90 days to get married,
and we have a lot to plan,
so me and the girls are gonna go
pick out a wedding dress.
Okay, come on.
Hi, there.
How are you today?
Hi. Fine.
I'm deanne.
I'm Danielle.
Nice to meet you.
I take it you guys
are the bridesmaids.
Do you have anything in mind?
More like
an a-line dress.
All right. Well, I've got
some cute ideas over here.
This is quite pretty.
I like that one.
Okay.
My budget for a dress
is about $500.
It's exciting to go pick out
a wedding dress
'cause I've never
had to do it before.
Going dress shopping with my mom
makes it really sink in
that they're getting married.
I know that
she's excited about it,
so it makes me excited about it.
I don't like it.
I don't like the top.
I hate it.
Shrek!
I don't like the back, either.
That back's ugly.
I feel mean,
but I don't like it.
Ugh, that back's ugly.
That wasn't a good start.
Here comes the bride.
I don't like the...
A 7 out of 10.
I'd say a 6.
I don't like this thing
right here.
I don't like the top, either.
I don't think any of us
like the dress by itself.
I think the girls
are being tough critics.
That little touch of blue's
kind of pretty on there.
Mm-hmm.
I think it fits her personality.
It's like modest, but not
too, like, flashy or anything.
I think the blue
looks really pretty on it.
What do you guys give this one?
Um...
Yeah, I'd go with 9.
Ooh!
We're getting closer.
What do you give this dress?
Probably a 9, too.
Well, that's pretty high.
My mom... like,
she's never fancy or anything.
She just wears,
like, casual clothes,
so seeing my mom in a wedding
dress was really emotional,
'cause you just... I
don't really see her like that.
She likes it.
Well, it's got
a real romantic look.
How much is this one?
This, $726.
When I heard the price of the
dress, it made my stomach drop
because I knew she probably
wouldn't be able to get it
anymore
because it cost too much.
I think we should probably
go home and talk about this.
Mohamed can't work right now,
so I really need to make sure
that I can afford this dress,
'cause we're on a tight budget.
Hi.
Hello.
How are you?
Good. How are you?
Since arriving, I haven't spent
a lot of alone time with Danny
just 'cause we're with
his family a lot.
So this is gonna be nice...
like, just spending time
with him alone
and planning the wedding.
I'm really excited for you
to see the farm.
I really think it's gonna be,
like, the perfect wedding venue.
Yeah.
So, are we gonna be there
alone, or...?
Um...
I...
Heather and Chuck are coming,
and I think nic is coming.
Oh, my gosh.
I was really taken back
in surprise
that we weren't gonna do it
on our own.
And Danny comes
from a big family,
but he's gonna have to step back
a bit and separate.
Hey, guys.
It's crazy.
It's cool, right?
Mm.
Hey, Bobbi.
Oh, hey.
We don't have a lot of money
to spend on this wedding,
but my friends, Bobbi and Tim,
offered us their farm
for our venue.
You want to see the barn first?
The American flag.
This would be like
a real farm wedding.
Like, you have all
the, like, noises.
I know.
Oh, we could have
the c*ck in there.
Oh, yeah!
Oh, you know what?
Dude, hang a tent,
and right after you do your
thing and you get married,
you consummate the marriage
right here.
Ohh.
Okay.
We will not be
implementing c*ck,
consummation tent.
Yeah.
Ugh.
Come on.
Crazy.
It's just too much.
So, what do you think?
I really love it.
Yeah?
Yeah.
It's really beautiful.
It is, isn't it?
Mm-hmm.
This is exactly what I wanted,
so it's good.
Yeah.
Okay.
But one of the little concerns
would be...
I mean, obviously,
I want to be with your family,
but I also think
that it's important
that we, like,
set some time aside,
not so much, like,
family all the time, you know.
Yeah. I feel like
I'm getting better at it.
Hopefully.
I think it's gonna be
a big adjustment for Danny
to let go of the...
I don't know, the covering
that he has with his family,
so I do think that it's gonna be
a lot of change
and a lot of sacrifice.
But just gonna have to do it.
I'm flying to rio
to pick up cassia.
She and I have been fighting,
and she was a little perturbed.
You made me really mad.
Are you gonna meet me in rio?
I don't know
if she's gonna make it,
and I don't have
a place to stay.
Good morning.
It's about 6:30 in the morning.
Communicated with me
so I can find out
if she's coming here or not.
If cassia doesn't show up,
she's not there,
I'm gonna just fly back
by myself.
The doors opened.
She walked through.
Morning.
Stop it.
I was quite...
I was quite relieved.
My name is cassia.
I'm 23 years old,
and I'm from curitiba, Brazil.
Tell me how you feel about me.
Jason was very busy
before I fly to rio.
He was working all day long
and just give me
the rest of the time.
Sometimes, he didn't even
talk to me.
I thought about not flying
to rio because of that,
but then I thought
it was so silly
because we worked so hard
for give up for silly things.
So made no sense.
So I decided to fly anyway.
I really like
when he doesn't shave.
I don't like him
to shave at all.
Fasten our seat belts.
I'm very nervous
because you think,
"I'm just buying a ticket
one-way,
"but I don't know
if I'll get back.
What if I get back?"
Hey, we're taking off.
Now.
Here it goes.
We're off.
Honey, we're in the air.
This is my first time
in America.
When I land, I have only 90 days
to decide if I like living
with Jason and his dad.
And just hope
that I'm doing the right thing.
I know that you would
never get her a fake ring.
That's crazy.
It was like a punch
to the gut, almost.
You know, like, if she's not
happy about the ring,
are there other things?
What else isn't she
gonna be happy about?
Let's have a little chat
right outside.
Yeah.
It's beautiful out today.
Things have been going nonstop
since daya and Cassidy arrived.
So while daya's
watching Cassidy...
Ew. That piece of bread
is ucky.
I wanted to take a few moments
to see where my mom was at
with everything.
Thanks for making coffee.
On Friday, we went to pick up
daya at the airport.
You!
Brett was completely...
like, "she's here.
I'm excited.
This is awesome."
You know, "a new start
to my life."
It means a lot.
And I wasn't picking up
that vibe from daya.
So, since you guys haven't spent
that much time together,
are you guys getting along
as expected?
There's still...
A pretty big issue
that needs to be worked on.
When we were driving home
from the airport,
you had overheard us
talking about the ring.
Yeah.
So we're gonna take it in,
and we're just gonna...
First of all, I know
that you would never get her
a fake ring.
That's just not you.
That's crazy.
And so my heart went out
to you at that moment
because I know...
You are not a cheap person.
It was like a punch
to the gut, almost.
You know, so
you know,
the thing I told her...
and I was frustrated
when I said it...
but I said, "okay.
You know what?
"If it's fake, we're just
gonna get you a new diamond,
'cause I don't want this
to be a wedge between us."
Wow.
So... You know.
I'm not sure I like that.
"Oh, we'll just get you
a bigger diamond."
I didn't say "bigger."
A "different."
A "different" diamond.
I feel like my mom has my best
interests at stake or at heart.
However, I tend to really make
decisions on my own.
Do you think that
it's just the ring,
it's just about the ring?
Or... You know, like, if she's
not happy about the ring,
are there other things?
What else isn't she
gonna be happy about?
When we finally set
foot on that airplane,
it hit us just how real this is
and what a big change
we're about to go through.
We're moving to
the United States together.
We're starting a new life
together.
We're getting married
in 90 days.
Anxious, yes.
Yamir's never lived anywhere
else except for Nicaragua.
We're going to be moving in
with my parents,
who he's never met before.
We're living in a small town,
midwest,
so this is gonna be
a really big adjustment for him.
When we land in the united
states, gonna have 90 days
to prove whether or not
yamir wants to live this life
here with me.
Are you ready?
I know.
Hi, dad.
Ah, doctor.
Hi, buddy.
We've e-mailed yamir.
We've chatted.
The biggest challenge
is gonna be communication,
but luckily, we have Chelsea,
who will be our interpreter.
Well, shall we go?
Let's go.
Mohamed arrived from Tunisia
about two weeks ago,
and he's still adjusting
to America.
Mm.
So, I'm gonna get ready
to go to work.
Okay.
So what are you gonna do today
what time I'm at work?
Mm, I don't know.
I'm gonna be worried about you
when I'm at work.
Why?
Because you don't know
anything here in norwalk.
No problem.
There's nothing to worry about.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
It worries me that mohamed
don't know no one here.
He'll get bored.
I need time to meet people.
So I walk by myself outside.
I was walking, and I saw some
guys playing American football.
Before, I just seen people play
it in TV, so I went near them.
My name's Tate.
My name is mohamed.
Nice to meet you, mohamed.
Nice to meet you, too.
But I don't know
the rules of the game.
Oh. Well, we'll...
we'll teach you.
We'll teach you.
Okay.
Hi, guys.
I'm mohamed.
Kurt.
Kyle.
Jeff.
Nice to meet you.
From Tunisia.
Can I touch the b...
the ball first?
Yeah.
I never touch it.
In my country...
do you know soccer?
Yeah.
We call football for the soccer.
So what I should do now?
Basically, he's gonna try
throwing the ball to you.
You want to get down
as far as possible.
Go!
Throw it like that.
Okay. Ready?
Let's go.
Ohh.
Hey!
So, how do you like football?
It makes me tired.
Yeah.
Good game, though.
When I went to play with them,
I remember the times that I go
to play with my friends.
Yes, for sure I miss my friends.
I miss my brothers.
I miss my family.
Yeah, uh...
What do you guys do
when you have together time?
It's been very bombarded
with people.
There are some things
in his life
that he probably needs
to sacrifice.
"I can't do all that."
This is the bedroom, honey.
How can we sleep in there?
We're... this is called
a work in progress.
His room was a mess.
So, we've made it to America,
and we're gonna meet
my father soon.
And I just hope they get along.
To know if I'll get along
with Jason's family,
that I don't know if I will.
Oh!
Oh, my god.
No.
Hi!
I have gleaned from listening
to those two talk
that she doesn't like clowns.
And I thought, "aha."
Hi.
Hey, long time no see.
Hey, how you doing?
Good.
How you doing?
I thought, "ohh, what?"
I don't know
if is American thing.
Oops.
Don't fight.
Don't fight.
I'm gonna go change.
This nylon suit's k*lling me.
We'll see you back
in two and two.
Oh, yeah.
Look at all this.
This is the...
this is the bedroom, honey.
How can we sleep in there?
We're... this is called
a work in progress.
Um, yes, unless you want
to sleep on the floor.
His room was a mess.
Getting home,
you cannot even rest?
Whew.
Oh, boy.
Look at that pool.
Wow.
You like the pool?
You want to go for a swim?
N-n-n-not now, thank you.
I was not really expecting
the green water,
and I don't know how
they got that pool so dirty.
There's things that we want
to do to the house.
I like this house.
It's pretty.
Um, but what you would like
to do on the floor?
You would like to just
stay this way?
The floor?
The floor.
What?
Yeah, we just put it in, honey.
I just... that's brand new.
And the other part.
That's tile.
Mm-hmm.
I don't understand
your question.
It's different.
Yeah. Yeah.
No, that's fine,
but it's different.
Jason and I have been a team
for many, many years.
She'll... she'll see her place,
or not see her place.
I think they need to change
some things and fix the house.
Hey.
Oh, hello.
So, what's the plan?
Yeah, we got to go do church.
What time are we leaving?
We have to leave
at, like, 5:30.
Okay.
Which is, like...
now.
I'm gonna get a shower.
Is that okay?
I'll be back.
Okay.
I would want it now,
but we can't have it.
So, are you excited?
To?
Meet my pastor?
Yeah, I am.
Yeah?
I'm kind of nervous.
In order to get married
in Danny's church,
you're encouraged to go through
counseling with his pastor
and his pastor's wife.
I am really hoping
that this meeting
will give me some sort of peace
and clarity.
All right, we got to go.
I think we're late, so come on.
Let's go.
Well, you guys have a, uh,
fast track in front of you.
You're already
in this 90-day condenser.
Yeah.
But what we're experiencing
right now
is that he's working a lot,
and I'm not,
so there's, like,
all this time on my hands.
So what... what do you guys do
when you have together time?
What's that look like now?
When we have together time?
We haven't had together time.
It's been very bombarded
with people.
Like, he needs to... there are
some things in his life
that he probably needs
to sacrifice,
'cause I'm another part of it,
so he has to make space,
and something
needs to be given up.
Well, and the reality is,
you've already made a lot
of those sacrifices.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, you have cut
a lot of strings
to be here.
I'm only 21.
And I think I've given up
a lot... my family, my home.
It's very difficult trying
to kind of build a life here.
Like, I think I'm almost,
like, latching on to him
so much more
'cause he's my only sense
of comfort at this point.
When I hear you say, like,
you know, it's hard to leave
your family,
your support system,
you don't have them here,
it automatically
makes me feel like
"okay, now I become
all of her friends.
I become the family.
I become everyone."
And for me, that's, like,
giant weight on me,
and giant overwhelming.
And I'm like,
"I can't do all that."
So, um, there's going
to be things
you're gonna have to give up.
Some of that attention that's
been given to other people
is gonna need to shift.
Yeah.
You know, to Amy.
I can feel that happening.
It's scary.
It is scary, and it's hard.
You know, but it's also
"is she worth this to me?"
We have a diamond we would like
to get checked out.
My fiancée seems to think
I might have got her
a fake diamond.
Little concerned about it?
Oh, no!
Have you guys thought at all
about what you're going to do
for jobs?
We have a meat-packing plant
which hires a lot of latinos.
Today's yamir's
first day in America,
and we're heading
to my parent's house,
which is where we'll be living.
Isn't it pretty?
It's pretty.
Yes.
Managua's a pretty rough
and tough city,
and galesburg's a sweet,
small, midwestern town.
So the difference is gonna be
pretty big for him.
Okay, I don't know
"welcome" in Spanish.
Bienvenidos.
Bienvenidos.
You can say "welcome."
I can't believe that, yesterday,
I was in managua,
and right now, in Illinois.
Come on.
This will be where
you're going to live.
Okay?
Wow.
So come on downstairs.
Whoa.
Wow.
This is basement.
It's really cool.
How do you say?
Like, the first time...
like the story.
Like, the story time
that you hear about,
sitting around the fireplace.
Things are off
to a pretty good start.
But I can tell yamir's
thrown off a little bit
just by the newness
of everything.
And I know my parents
still have a lot of questions
about how we're gonna
support ourselves.
Looks great, Michael.
Yeah, dad.
Thank you so much
for making this.
This looks really, really good.
Have you guys thought at all
about what you're going to do
for jobs or...?
Priority in my life
is speak English.
It's a sh-allenge of my...
challenge.
A challenge of my life.
Mm-hmm.
We have a, um,
meat-packing plant
which hires a lot of latinos.
When my mom suggested
that yamir try to find work
at a meat-packing plant,
I hope that yamir
didn't take that the wrong way,
because what she was trying
to say was that,
when you come to a new place,
sometimes you need to take the
work that's available to you.
So, yamir, do you plan
to continue a career in music
or try to here
in the United States?
He wants to just do everything,
and do like everything in music.
He also has to make it...
like, how to survive
as a musician
if that's really want
he wants to do.
He knows that he just
can't step out
of the Nicaraguan music scene
and into the U.S.
music scene.
That's not gonna happen.
Time will give him the ideas
of what he can do
to make it work.
After talking to my mom,
I wanted to prove to daya
that this ring is not fake
so that we can all move on.
So today, I'm taking her to
a jeweler to have it checked.
This part in here doesn't
actually, like, matter to me.
But I'm also concerned
about Brett's reputation.
Because, you know,
he works hard for it,
so I want to protect him, too.
Um... I know that
he won't do such thing
that, you know, would make us
be embarrassing to everyone,
especially my friends,
so that's the reason
why we're here right now.
Hi.
How are you?
What brings you in today?
Well, we have a diamond we would
like to get checked out.
Okay.
There's a little
black speck in it.
And my fiancée seems to think
I might have got her
a fake diamond.
A little concerned about it?
Oh, no!
Let me go clean it up,
and we'll have our gemologist
look at it under the scope
for you, okay?
And he can tell you
about it, okay?
So hold on a sec.
Even though I know
that it's a real diamond,
I'm still feeling
a little nervous.
If this diamond is fake,
then what?
I mean,
is daya gonna look at that
and fly back to the Philippines
and just leave me?
I don't know.
And he's concerned 'cause
there's a black spot in it.
So he wants to find out
more about it.
Okay.
Well, let's check it out here.
How you doing today?
Good.
Yourself?
Well, doing pretty good.
When you look in the microscope,
the main flaw
that's gonna set the grade is
kind of a blackish color.
I just want
to make one thing clear.
Yes.
That is a real diamond.
This is definitely
a real diamond,
and the things that
you're seeing inside of it
help to prove that.
I think, ultimately, daya
doesn't like the black spot,
whether it's a real diamond
or not.
I like the design.
I like the size.
I just don't want
the black spot in it.
The wedding is not off.
I still love him,
so I'm still gonna marry him.
That's all that matters.
Good.
Love you.
Love you.
¶ Baby, tonight,
tonight, tonight ¶
back in Nicaragua,
yamir was a hugely successful
pop star.
¶ Baby, tonight,
tonight, tonight ¶
¶ no need to cry,
we'll be all right ¶
he wants to make a career out of
music here in the United States.
So tonight I decided to take him
to an open Mike at a local club,
and I'm hoping
he'll want to perform.
¶ Baby, tonight,
tonight, tonight ¶
hit me.
Music is very different.
These guys sound really good.
Wow.
There's a large supreme.
Thank you.
American pizza.
So, do you like the music?
It's very different than mine.
Do you think they would
like your music?
I don't know...
You might just want to feel
things out and see, like,
if you can find other people
who have your interests.
I know it's going to take time
for yamir
to feel like himself here.
He's basically starting his life
from scratch,
and he's doing it all for me,
so I definitely feel
the pressure
for things to work out.
I met some guys,
and we played football.
After that, they invited me to
go with them to have a drink.
It's really hard
to meet new people,
so you need something to do
like having some drink.
There you go.
Thank you.
Yeah.
And we sit there,
and they start asking about me,
my fiancée, my country,
my culture,
where I come from... everything.
So you met your fiancée online?
We liked each other,
and I proposed to her
to come to visit me.
She came. She liked
the place. She liked me.
And then she asked me
to come here.
It's kind of hard to find a girl
that you're like,
"wow, I think
I want to date her."
A lot of them are ones that you
don't really want to take home
to your parents.
Everyone has looser morals.
Yeah.
There's a lot of hooking up
that goes on.
What does mean, "hooking up"?
Basically, here, you can, like,
meet a girl the first night,
and you can pretty much
get it in with her.
In my country, we can't do that.
- Oh.
- Yeah.
Yeah, it's... it's pretty common
around here.
Do you play pool?
Pool?
Really want to play some pool.
Okay.
Let's finish the beer,
and then we'll try it.
Hi. What brings you guys
out here?
I'm Tate.
Alicia.
Hey.
I came here for my fiancée.
Yeah.
Oh.
I came here for my fiancée.
Yeah.
Okay.
One lady there in the bar,
she came to me
and she tried to talk me
in different way.
I don't know,
because I don't even know her.
I've been here all my life,
but I always like to pick up
the new guys that I don't...
you know, that I see.
Want to play pool?
Yes.
- Are we playing partners?
- No.
You and him,
and I will be with him.
Yeah, but I'd rather be
your partner.
Okay.
All right.
So why can't they be partners,
and you and be me partners?
Okay, I will be with me and you.
I'm trying to ignoring her
because I don't know how to do
with this kind of people.
You should come here more often.
Yes, I will.
You know why?
Why?
Why?
Because I can guarantee you
you're gonna have a lot of fun
if you come here.
Okay. Okay.
She tried to touch my body,
and it's the first time
it happened to me.
In my country,
even the girl like the guy,
and she start talking and say
like that, "I like you."
No.
It will never happen.
Nice shot.
Nice shot.
Beautiful.
I didn't like it.
And Danielle is not like that.
It's make me feel good,
and I'm happy for that,
'cause she's not one of them.
How you doing?
I quit.
Jason's home
is totally different
from my home in Brazil.
I thought it would be
a bigger city,
but of course it's not.
I see trees everywhere
instead of buildings.
Hi.
How are you?
Hey.
How's it going?
Good. How are you?
Not too bad.
You have room
for two more today?
Of course.
Come on in.
People here
in spring hill are old.
I... I could not notice
many young people here.
I think I will have a hard time
making friends in this town.
You're not gonna
go out clubbing?
No.
Okay.
'Cause clubbing here
in spring hill's
a little different.
Yeah.
Old guys.
Old guys and walkers
and wheelchairs.
Okay, so, you start
with the lettuce.
And then, America,
we just pile everything on.
Like do a...
yeah.
Nah.
You ever had potato salad?
This is chocolate?
That's chocolate pudding.
You ever have blue cheese?
No.
It's very fattening.
I'll start the diet tomorrow.
Tomorrow?
You say that you were going
to start today.
That is true.
Do you like bacon bits?
Huh?
These are imitation bacon bits,
but I don't care.
- Honey.
- Yeah?
When do you think
I could start modeling?
Are you sure that's a good idea?
Why not?
I mean, I guess
we could talk about it.
W-what kind of modeling
were you thinking about doing?
Uh, bikini.
Bikini?
Why not?
What do you think about, like,
working trade shows and stuff?
You know, like, we went
to the auto show
and you just stand there
in a gown
with, you know,
your hair done, and "ta-da."
Looks stupid.
Have you thought about
if things don't work out
with... between us?
Um...
Or I don't like the place?
Well, I mean, I've tried
not to think about
whether or not we don't get
married or not.
What if I don't like America?
Would you like to move
with me to Brazil?
Um...
I would hope that we could try
to make it work here.
Mm, yeah, hope.
Have you thought about it?
Not really, but something
we have to think about.
I don't think 90 days is enough
to decide to have
a wedding or not.
The worst case
is just see what happens,
and if doesn't work, okay.
You can just move on.
Nothing lasts forever
unless you want to.
Next time on "90 day fiancé"...
I just want you to understand
why everyone was so shocked.
When I always have to defend
our relationship,
it just makes it harder.
Hey, uh, isn't that
a little revealing?
You want me to wear this.
Oh!
Whoo-hoo!
I don't know my position
right now in myla vox.
Who substituted you
in the concert?
My dad has concerns
about your race.
You lying.
You make me lose
everything there.
I'm afraid
that you're gonna leave.
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