03x01 - From Hunter to Huntee

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How can I say that I love God?

But I cannot love,

the ones who are right there next to me.

All you guys, the gifts that you have,

you're using it, for
the good of humanity.

q*eer Eye has been an
incredible experience.

We've showed that, we
really can love each other,

despite our differences.

- Road trip!
- Jesus, take the wheel.

Where are we going?

Kansas City.

Kansas City, Missouri?

♪ E-I-E-I-O ♪

♪ With a "yes, queen" here
and a "yes, queen" there ♪

I spy with my little...

- No!
- We're not playing that game again.

Eye...

- No, no!
- Let's switch guys.

Hey! Kids. Stop.

You guys, wait where...

- Wait, where's Antoni?
- What?

- Where's Antoni...
- We left him at the gas station.

We're in Kansas City guys. We made it.

- Hey boys, you ready?
- Let's do this.

Hi!

Hi!

In order to understand someone,

you need to walk a mile in their shoes.

- Or high-heels.
- Or wheels.

People are people are people.

We are all capable of change.

Hi!

Sometimes you just need
someone to connect with,

that says, "I see you and I
see what you're goin' through."

Self-care is an inside job.

Food, is love.

Make an effort.

You deserve it.

It's your life. Design it well.

Hey there.

- Guys, we're home.
- Yeah.

Ready for our next hero?

- Yeah!
- It's actually a heroine this week.

I love a heroine!

My Name is Jody Castellucci

and I'm 49 years old and I
live in Amazonia, Missouri.

I love being a country girl.

She was nominated by her husband, Chris.

Jody has three grandchildren.

One son, two daughters, and
Chris is her second husband.

She and Chris went
hunting on their first date

and have been in love ever since.

I usually bring a g*n
on my first date too.

I met my husband Chris actually online,

then we went hunting for coyotes.

That was our first date.

From day one I was so attracted to her.

I mean, she's like my best friend.

- She won.
- I did, I got him.

Jody grows her own produce. Awesome!

- Hunts and fishes for her own meat.
- Love that.

I first started goin' huntin'
when I was about ten years old.

I just loved goin' out and bein'
able to bring home a squirrel

and think I brought home dinner.

They include deep fried squirrel...

How do you say that animal again?

Deep fried squirrel.

- It's called squirrel.
- Squirrel, squirrel.

Squirrel is a noise, squirrel is a word.

- Girl, it's squirrel.
- Squirrel!

- Squirrel!
- It's squirrel. It's squirrel.

You guys are morons.

Jody works in an all-male federal
prison. She has a tough job.

- Wait, what?
- She's a lady guard?

I know.

If she's not wearing her prison uniform,

she's in her husband's clothing,

which is usually camouflage.

What else is new?

With a home from 1875,

it's a shrine to country living
and their love of hunting.

- Taxidermy.
- What do you think about this?

Yay, lots of dead animals.

Okay, Jody hasn't had her hair

professionally cut or
colored in over 25 years.

Wait a minute. What?

Great.

I love her hair.

That's probably one of my
favorite things about her.

My husband and my hair.

I guess it's my sex appeal to
him, 'cause it's up all the time,

so ya know, when we're
goin' to sleep or somethin'

and I let my hair down,
he's like, "Ah, your hair."

Yeah.

She pulls her hair back in a
bun to keep it out of her face

and wears mascara only.

I've never gotten to, like,

do something on this level, really.

Would love to take Jody on a fancy date

but she's uncomfortable
outside of hunting and fishing.

So they don't go out much... That's sad.

Around these parts fancy things
can make people uncomfortable.

I think Jody's kinda fell into
that, "I don't care" state.

She's always beautiful to me,

but I don't think she feels
that great about herself.

Jody and Chris have been married
for ten years but never honeymooned.

Chris is taking Jody out to
celebrate their tenth anniversary,

And Jody needs the Fab Five's help

to get ready for that fancy night out.

And then she's gonna have a
little She's All That moment.

I nominated Jody for this because,

I want her to feel good
about herself again,

I just don't think that she does.

She just needs someone to
bring out the best in her.

The mission this week you guys
is to take Jody from hunter...

- To huntee.
- Okay! Yeah!

- We're on a little farm.
- Gorg.

Oh look at the beautiful horse.

That's the one animal I
can never eat, is a horse.

Okay?

That's nice.

Oh! Woah! What was that?

- Was that a g*n sh*t?
- I think it was.

Oh, there she is.

Hello.

It's real muddy, careful.

Thank god she didn't
wear her heels today.

- Oh my God.
- Yes, queen.

Look at this.

- How are you?
- Look at those outfits.

- I'm great.
- You look gorgeous.

- How are you?
- I'm great.

That was a lovely hug.

Oh no. He wants my hair down.

Wow! Look at that.

- You've got gorgeous hair.
- It's some long, thick hair.

- Beautiful.
- Show us something.

- Please, we'd love to see inside.
- That's awesome.

- Show us in.
- Yes.

- After you.
- Okay, alright.

- Sir, after you.
- Okay.

I'm not hating this.

- That's a lot of camo you got there.
- Yeah.

There's a lot more than that.

Ooh.

That is actually, my compound
bow that I deer hunt with.

I don't even know what way is up
and what way is down with that.

- Is that how you... no? You hold it?
- No, no.

No, no, no.

Oh my...

God.

This is a horror movie.

Jesus, take the wheel.

This is like, all of Snow White's
little friends, all up on the wall.

From the Jurassic era,
the Goose Pterodactyl,

often reached spans of
up to four feet wide.

- Where are these from? These are beautiful.
- These are from my garden

and these are actually cucumbers.

- No.
- Get it, get it, get it, get it.

I'm just over here working it out.

You know, before I go hunting.

An alarm goes off and then what?

Usually when I get up in the
morning the first thing I do is,

- I gotta take a shower.
- Yes?

And then I'll come over here and
I have to put lotion on my face

- or else it feels dried up.
- Yes, yeah

But a little bit of this on my face.

But that's body lotion.

Do you think that lotion has SPF in it?

It's just really smooth
and creamy on my face.

No... lady!

But I've noticed you have a
little bit of a lack of skin care.

When it comes to skin,
for me personally,

I'm more about preventing issues.

- I get a lot of redness, being blonde.
- Yes. Yes, yes.

So that'd be more about like a
sunscreen and some color corrector.

One thing I think that happens,
when it comes to our grooming

or when it comes to our
self care, it's like,

"well my job, there's not much of that

'cause I'm in a correctional facility

and then at home I'm... we're
just more like, outdoorsy,"

but I just want to spark

- a little bit of curiosity within you.
- Okay.

Because if you have an
eighth of the curiosity

that you have with like, animals
and plants, with your self care...

- Yep?
- we would get to where we wanna go.

Do you think your wife's confident?

She's confident but I don't
think she is with her looks.

She's confident in her
abilities to do things.

I mean, she's obviously in a job

where you have to be
confident. You know.

But I think, as far as
feeling good about herself,

feeling beautiful, I don't think she...

I think that's kind of gone away.

- I can tell you love your wife.
- I do.

Yeah, I mean it literally radiates
off of you that you love your wife.

I do, man. Ya know what I mean? She's...

the best thing ever happened to me.

Oh my God, two gray squirrels.

Oh, it's got fur.

Oh, wow.

How often do you like to got
to the salon? Or you don't...

- I don't ever go.
- You don't ever go?

- No, I haven't had my hair cut...
- So how do you do your color?

Actually I put it on a cap and
I'll pull it through myself.

- Ah, can we take it down and look at it in the mirror?
- Yes.

She has so much thick hair,
I was like, "Oh my God."

This is literally gonna
take me like, ten hours.

Aah!

- The highlight stops.
- Yeah.

I wanna get this color together.

I do think I need to fire you

- from doing your own hair color.
- I know, I know.

So now I'm just like your fairy,
like, gay godmother is here,

Wow!

- These are all the zucchinis.
- Nice.

Zucchini's really nice raw too.

If I shave it with a bit of olive oil,

salt and lemon juice
that's all you need.

- Oh. See I would love to try that.
- And soft herbs.

Let's go see the chickens.

Let's see what we got.

Camo, great.

- Okay?
- More camo. Karamo.

- Camo and Karamo?
- We're k*lling this camo game out here.

- So you both have full-time jobs?
- Full-time jobs.

How the hell do you maintain
a house with all of this?

Where are the grounds people?
I don't see them anywhere.

That's us.

I don't know to be honest,
sometimes, I don't know.

I mean it's, it's, it wears ya out.

- Yeah.
- It does.

That's why we don't go anywhere.
This is our paradise here.

But if you go out and if
you do something special...

Then I think you get
to appreciate it more.

- Sure!
- Right.

You would not believe. Is that a camo...

Oh my God...

- Bathrobe?
- No!

You definitely have a
very specific point of view

- when it comes to decor.
- Yes.

And I hate to say you don't
like a feminine home...

- No
- Because I don't I don't like labelling.

Everything is what
anyone specifically likes.

But you definitely like
more of a bark and leaves...

- Yeah.
- Not flowers.

Well now, show me the rest of the house,

I haven't been in the back here yet.

We have to have the dark curtains
'cause my husband works nights.

- Okay... Good to know.
- So he has to have blackness

- during the day.
- Okay.

We can accomplish the
lack of light for him,

- Right.
- without being so dark and depressing.

- And then Jesus.
- Yeah.

Do you often face Jesus
towards the bed so he can...

That's my husband's side so he...

Well, Jesus isn't usually the person

that I wanna get biblical in front of.

Girl, Jesus don't wanna watch that.

Talk me through what you think...

you wanna look like.

I wanna feel more feminine.

Then my question is: What is this?

I don't know how, to dress more womanly.

- Okay?
- So, I don't have... Everything...

Yeah, I love those though.

I guess it's kinda like,
I look more for comfort,

than what it looks like.

Oh no, no, I got you.
But don't worry about it.

- Who starts? You?
- Yeah.

- It's only diagonal right?
- Like, whatever.

- No.
- I win!

What do you see when
you look in the mirror?

Oh gosh. I see um...

I don't know. Somebody that's
aging. And I don't want to. So...

Can I stop you there
real quick? You do...

- You're 49?
- Yes.

You do not look 49.

You look incredi... Your skin is
beautiful. Your eyes are beautiful.

Remember I am gay, I
am married to a man,

so this does nothing for me...

Your boobs are fantastic.

And they're hidden away,
they're literally camouflaged.

They're camo'd.

And I want you to look in
the mirror and feel beautiful.

When was the last time
you feel like you saw that?

Gosh, the day I got
married to my husband

I actually did look in the
mirror and I had a dress on.

- And it was...
- That was ten years ago?

- I had my hair completely straightened...
- Yeah?

I didn't even look like myself.

- Do you own a dress right now?
- No.

Do you own anything that
you would consider girly?

- No.
- Nothing?

What is that something you might like?

Oh yes! I would love to
have something like that.

- Okay, lovely.
- To go out with my husband.

Once in a while I wanna be able to
look and feel like I belong there.

So how's it been this far?

Oh my gosh!

Crazy... but fun.

So I've been hearing "I don't
know how to be feminine."

- Yeah.
- Is that true?

Growing up with five brothers on
a farm. I've always been a tomboy.

Oh my gosh! I was devastated
when I started growing boobs.

I was like, "Oh my God!
What's happening, Mom?"

You know, I didn't have
a lot of girl friends.

I got made fun of a lot because we
were poor kids that lived on a farm.

Um, I wore jeans that were really high.

I remember being made fun
of for having high waters on.

And I went home and told
my mom, and I'm like:

"Mom, what's waiting for a flood mean?"

And she goes: "Oh they're just jealous."

Yeah, when somebody's
really makin' fun of you,

sayin' you're poor and stuff like
that. I wanted to b*at 'em up.

So it was your defense mechanism,
part of the boyishness of like...

- Yeah. Probably.
- Yeah.

Ahhh. Oh my goodness. Even the...

It's... camo...

Oh my gosh!

Would you like to see
yourself as beautiful?

Yes! I am inside but I'm
just not that outside.

But, you deserve love and attention.

And I think it's sort
of getting you to a place

of helping you to understand that.

Right. It's hard for me to
do that though for myself.

- Yeah.
- Always has been.

- Yeah. It starts in here.
- I know...

Oh my goodness.

It's alright. You're a beautiful spirit.

Thought I'd lighten the mood for ya.

- He found my... he found my...
- Now, tell me...

Tell me... tell...

You found it. You weren't
supposed to find that.

Do you find me sexy right now?

I do. I find you so sexy.

Yep. Sexy, right?

So are you ready, to
be in our loving hands?

Oh, my gosh. I am so ready.

- Kiss, aww.
- Aww, aww.

Our mission is very simple this week.

We're gonna take you from hunter to...

Huntee!

I wanna show Jody that,

her house doesn't have to be frilly

and florally and pink to be feminine.

It can be... Jody.

Just because you say that
you want to dress feminine,

doesn't mean I take you
from prison outfit Jody,

to pretty princess Jody.

Jody is very self-sufficient.

But the confidence
that Jody has at home;

I want her to have
that wherever she goes.

It's not so much about how you
look, it's about how you feel.

But sometimes those are kind
of synergistic because if you

look better, you feel better.

So, do I wanna really help
her with her outside look,

and some tools in her tool-box,
to help her feel better?

Absolutely!

Femininity is whatever
she wants it to be.

It's whatever makes her feel the
most confident and the most beautiful.

I wanted to take you here because,

I feel like it has more
of your feminine touch.

- This is you.
- Not even close.

Oh, come on.

That's like a 12 year
old girl maybe's room.

Well that's exactly
what I think, like, Jody,

like, frilly little princess.

- Little princess stuff.
- Alright. No I know. I'm not crazy.

A lot of people try to define
masculinity and femininity,

with specific colors and specific looks.

To me it's about what an individual
likes, not what gender they are.

You're this beautiful feminine woman,

- that isn't a frilly woman.
- No.

You're still everything
that a woman should be.

- Right.
- Ya know?

Who has a more masculine side.

You know what, no. You don't have
a masculine side, you're just Jody.

Right. Exactly.

I've decided a cute, modern,
rustic, farmhouse look

would be perfect for her.

- You've never been here before?
- Never.

This is legit like one of my
favorite spots. Come on in.

- Are you hungry?
- Yes. I'm very hungry.

I'm genuinely starving but I'm also...

- You already screwed up.
- I already messed up.

You're gonna have to tell
me which ones I have to use.

Oh it's pretty simple.

You just work your way,
from the outside in.

- Oh, ok so salad...
- When you need a spoon you grab your spoon

and then salad or
appetizer, small to big.

- Oh, then I don't worry 'bout that...
- That's all.

That's very... easy.

- Hey. Hi there.
- Hi. How are ya?

I kinda wanna get her
out of her comfort zone

and have her try something that
she's maybe not as familiar with.

- So you've never been here before?
- Never been here before.

I just don't feel comfortable
going into a fancy restaurant...

That's... One thing, I've
been thinking about...

- The word "fancy"...
- Fancy?

The word fancy makes it sound
like it's elitist or wrong.

I want to change the word to "special".

Okay. Ya know? A special...

- Special. There ya go.
- restaurant...

that is more high-end, appearance-wise.

I don't feel like I had that confidence

to be welcomed into a place like that.

'Cause we're so, just country backwards.

- Like, with the way we dress...
- But I don't think it's country backwards,

it's just, like you have more
important [BLEEP] to worry about.

- Yeah, I got a lotta stuff goin' on.
- But at the same time,

to go somewhere 'special'
every once-in-a-while,

- Right.
- like, even for your relationship,

- your husband is so freakin' supportive.
- He is so supportive.

- Chef!
- Oh. Hey!

Jody. Chef Ryan.

- Hi, Ryan.
- Hey.

- Alright...
- Wow!

this is our rabbit pie. So,
it's got a rabbit sausage,

with a little burgundy escargots,

a little mustard seed vinaigrette,

reduced rabbit jus, tarragon
oil and a small frisée salad.

- Oh my gosh.
- Beautiful!

That is beautiful.

- Could do this with a squirrel even.
- Right? Exactly.

I could eat like five of these.

Same.

It's not about going
and being intimidated

and kind of scared by everything there

- but it's sort of like, it's an exploration.
- It is.

But you have this insane garden.

There's so much that you can do with it

that by coming to places like this,

you can try different
things and be like:

"Oh wow, I never thought
to do this or... "

Yeah. And I feel like I'll be doing
a lot more of this kinda stuff,

with my husband.

Because for us to be ten
years... going on ten years and...

You know, he'll pack me a lunch
and sneak love notes in there.

It's like, so awesome!

To experience stuff like this,
is... it's, it's... that's magical.

We have one more course coming.

Oh my God!

- Thank you so much.
- No, you're very welcome.

So we have a ginormous Maine Lobster.

Wow. We need a hammer.

Let's see if this one
maybe will do better for me.

That way. Yep. So elegant.

Fancy. That's the irony of it as well,

it's seen as such like, an elitist thing

but it's actually like the
messiest thing to do on your own.

See even in places like this,

it doesn't have to be
intimidating at all.

No. Not at all.

You're with the right person. We
can make a whole mess of the table

- and not even care about it.
- My gosh!

- So good.
- So good.

Okay. After you.

- I've never been here.
- You're in for a treat Jody.

I can't wait to show you around.

So, you had said: you would
like to be more feminine.

Just for my self-esteem,

outside, to portray what
I feel like, on the inside.

And I have two young daughters,

and I see how they dress and
it's young and in fashion,

- Yeah?
- And I'm not.

- I'm not tryna get you super trendy pieces,
- Right?

I'm gonna get you things
that will last a while.

All you need to do is maybe once
or twice a year, just add to it.

I love that you noticed the camo.

Is that what you gravitated towards...

That would be the first thing
I would walk in and see, like,

- "Oh, I gotta try those on."
- Why?

Let camo go Jody! I am
not getting you camo'!

I know that you've got
these preconceived ideas

of what is gonna make
you look a certain way.

I'm gonna get you out of
that. I want to show you that,

camo is not your only option.

- Right, right.
- Camo is not your friend.

Hunting, yes. In the rest of
your life it is not your friend.

- Don't wear it out to a restaurant?
- No!

And I don't know a lot about hunting,

my in-laws are from Wyoming, they hunt.

- Yes.
- And it's actually for a purpose

and it serves a purpose.

And before I met them,

if you'd asked me what I
think of people with g*ns,

I would say, "They're out of their
minds, nobody should have a g*n."

My opinion has changed a little bit.

Even where I work at, I've
got to have protection, so,

- Yep.
- I think we do need g*ns.

but I do think that people
need to be responsible.

All of us correction officers at
the Feds have to train every year.

So we make sure that we're
fire safety, g*n safety.

It does worry me that
just anybody can get a g*n.

Right. It does me too.

But you can go to a g*n-show
without even a license...

You can go to a garage sale
around here and get a g*n.

And get a g*n! And that's terrifying.

g*n laws need to be stricter.
They need to be tighter.

They need to have more
training. Definitely.

Yeah. Exactly. I think
we're on the same page,

- I love that we are.
- We are!

I love that we are, that
makes me so much happier.

Okay, then! Let's talk about clothes.

- Will you try anything on?
- I will try anything.

- You trust me? 100 percent?
- I trust you, 100 percent.

Okay, great! Jeans. You
don't wear a lot of jeans?

I do wear a lot of jeans. But like
I said, they were the hip-hugger,

- Oh?
- low-riders with the flared boot.

Sorry, I thought you
were... these, like, capris.

My husband hates these things.

- Oh my gosh.
- He calls them granny pants.

They are.

There's nothing sexy about those.

Women of the world,
who are not style aware,

if you see a pair of capri pants, run.

- Jody, follow me.
- Okay.

I've got some other things
in here for you already.

Alright!

Okay, great, come take a look at this.

Oh, wow.

Tell me what you think.

These feel so good, I feel
like I've got pyjama bottoms on.

- They're so comfy.
- Yay!

It's amazing what a bit of
stretch does for your jeans.

It's gonna feel like you're
not actually in jeans.

All I'm doing is, yes,
giving her the French tuck,

shut up everyone, I'm
giving her a French tuck.

And it is amazing how awesome
this T-shirt now looks with her,

new, revised proportions.

These are very comfortable.

So, all I've done is given you a jean

that's more tapered at the bottom,

- so it makes your legs look longer.
- A lot longer.

Good. And then I've given you a shirt
that's boxy but it's got a print.

- You were in an oversized tee already.
- Right.

- So it's still an oversize tee...
- This is comfortable. Very.

But it still looks super
feminine... and chic.

Yeah! Definitely a woman that's
out-and-about on the town,

just doing something like that.

Just take a look at your butt.

Your butt looks
fantastic in these jeans.

- It's like I've had a... a butt-job.
- Yeah!

Well okay, so here's the thing...

You have been wearing your
bra incorrectly for years.

- Yes, I didn't know that.
- OK, what you didn't realize is that,

you were wearing it on the lowest point,

which meant that, it
gave you no support.

Alright. Next one.

Okay, come on out.

- Oh yeah, love the polka-dots.
- Isn't it cute?

- Yeah!
- Do you see a little bit of cleave?

Just a little bit, it's
like, just peek-a-boo.

Just a modest version of it.

- It's like a little tease.
- Exactly.

Chris will be able to see
it at dinner. That's for him.

You could wear this to a nice dinner

and you're not gonna feel
like, you're over-dressed.

Right. Oh yeah.

- And then...
- Oh my gosh.

I have these. And you're
just gonna stand with me.

Okay, so you don't need to
worry about walking in them.

Okay.

- God.
- Isn't that nice?

And look how you're standing now

I wish you'd wear heels
every now and then.

- If ya don't want to, I get it.
- I will every now and then,

I would.

Do you see what that does
for the way you're standing?

Like, you've started to
sta... chest out, bottom out.

- Yeah.
- You just look so hot.

I would have to do some
runway like, practice...

- before I walked anywhere.
- Well, maybe we'll get to that point.

Everything so far has
felt... especially these jeans

and the tops have been so comfortable.

- Good.
- After having three kids. Not bad.

Not bad? Like, k*ller!

Incredible body. Show it off.

Yeah. Oh gosh, yeah.

I'm seeing for the first time
that I've never really looked

at myself to try and
make myself feel good.

You know, my husband, all
the time, like every day,

He goes, "Good morning beautiful.
You know you're beautiful."

"You're a beautiful woman" and
all this stuff. And I'll be like:

"Oh, thank you. It's just
for you." And he goes,

"No, it's for everybody, but I'm
the one that enjoys it the most."

But I always even deflect that,
like, "Oh, it's just for you."

- Ya know? "It's just for you."
- Yeah.

Yeah a lot of people have
problems deflecting compliments.

When do you think that started?

Umm. Oh my goodness.

I'd say that was probably...

Close to after my brother d*ed.

My little brother, in 1993
was 21 and he'd just turned 21

and got into a car wreck.

- And...
- I'm sorry.

Yeah, and you know, my brother
was always saying stuff like:

"Man, my sister's got
it goin' on." Or ya know?

When your brother used to tell
you that you had it goin' on...

- Oh yeah, he always said that.
- And did you accept that?

- Yeah? You loved it?
- Yeah.

I loved when he would say that.

And then after he d*ed, it felt
like, I was never gonna heal from it.

Wow.

I can't tell you exactly where
you're going because it's a surprise.

Okay.

I'm so excited.

Bye!

Oh my God.

- Hi Jody. How are you?
- Hey, sweetie.

So good to see you.

Come over.

Let's talk about your hair.

I feel like your hair is
absolutely stunning but I do feel

like she's lacking like,
a little bit of shades.

And I love your
lightness, it's gorgeous.

I just feel like when you're
pulling it through the cap

You're doing too much, so it's
creating such a harsh line.

Honey, I was shocked and mortified.

Once I started like, pulling
out the sections of that hair,

there was moments of
white, yellow, blorange...

which is a mix between
blonde and orange.

Look at all that gorgeous length, honey.

When you were talking
the other day it's like...

You want to like, incorporate
some more time in your life for you

to have these moments of, like,
grooming and pampering for yourself.

Yes, I do. Stuff I haven't
done for myself. Ever!

Yeah, we gotta change that.

I mean, it's never fun
like, picking up an expense

where you didn't have one,

but like, if you went to the
salon three times a year...

- Yeah. That would be perfect.
- Yes!

I get little chills on my triceps
every time I make a clean line.

♪ Takin' this fat outta
this hair right here ♪

If you could only take
the fat outta my stomach.

Huh? Get outta here.

'Cause after having three
babies and... your stomach...

I can't believe you had three babies.

Yeah. Yes.

How old are your kids now?

Twenty-eight, 25 and 22.

We got Joshua, Joni and Jaci.

- And I'm Jody.
- Oh, I love that.

- We're All J's.
- That's cute.

I love that story.

I definitely have my work cut out for me

because Jodie has like,


on one head.

Processing solution.

I'm just creating some dimension,
where there wasn't very much.

So, I'm kind of
strategically leaving out,

some of the stuff
that was already light,

and then re-popping some of the
other stuff that was a little darker.

So I can just create like a very
dimensional natural blonde that like...

Highlights where it's
supposed to highlight.

Exactly.

And then turn towards me.

My gosh, I am dying inside to see this.

Without any further ado,
here is the new Jody.

Oh my gosh. No way!

Oh, look at that color. Oh, my God.

- Do you love it?
- I love it and I love that part.

- Isn't it pretty?
- That's crazy.

- Ah!
- Oh my gosh, that's gorgeous!

Oh my God, keep freaking out. I
have one more surprise for you.

This looks like...

so, young lookin'. Like I feel like...

But not like, age-inappropriate young.

- No.
- Like, age-appropriate.

Really cougar young.

Ooh. I love that.

So the other thing I heard was
that, sometimes you struggle,

with walking in heels.

- Yes.
- And I just wanted to show you that...

We're gonna have a quick
little heel walking lesson.

- Yes!
- So, I'm gonna turn you right here.

Okay.

What one of these heels,
feels the most Jody?

Which one would you pick?

- Really?
- It's bold, it's different.

It is bold.

When you're walking in heels,
it's all about confidence.

So I go like...

See how she's like, a
little criss-crossed?

Yes.

So, now let's see, do you... do
you feel like, you need a spotter,

- or you feel like you got this?
- I think I can do it.

Oh my God. She was just
like: "Heels, moi. Yes. Love!"

Ms. Jody.

Like, she can still change a tire,

she can still sh**t a
squirrel in the head...

- But she just takes care of herself.
- Exactly.

Get that hair tie off and then drop it.

- Oh. Oh.
- Oh sorry, Chris.

Stop making me bend over
and dropping stuff, Chris.

Think a bend and snap, but now.

Oh, you just dropped your hat.

You're just like the most
gorgeous person in the world.

I do, I feel so pretty. You just
don't even understand what you did.

- Thank you for doing that.
- You deserve it.

And it's so not about like, looking
pretty, so much as just like,

giving yourself a little bit of love.

Oh my gosh yes. I'm gonna do
that more. So much more now.

It's unbelievable.

Now I'm gonna care.

Hi, everyone.

- Hi.
- Hi!

- This is my friend, Jody.
- Hi.

Jody. This is everyone.

Hello, everyone.

In Jody's mind, when it
came to being feminine,

she thought that she
was, "doing it wrong."

There is no one way to be a woman.

You're going to sit in the
middle. Everyone take a seat.

So I've gathered a
group of diverse women.

Who have different backgrounds,

that can empower her to feel
confident about who she is.

First of all, I know that five men
have come in your life and are like,

talking about your self confidence
and beauty and femininity.

And for me, that's great...

But it's not.

I think it's important for
you to be around other women.

- Yes!
- For you all to talk.

I know that growing up you
were always around the boys.

- The boys, yes.
- Even with your job...

- You're always around men, right?
- Right.

When was the last time you were
in a big group of women like this?

Never! Ever!

Well, good, so you're in your
sister love circle right now.

- Oh. I feel it from all you guys.
- Good. Good.

Hi.

- I'm Donna, and I'm so glad to meet you.
- Hi, Donna.

One of the struggles
that I've been through is,

trying to fit into society's vision
of what I'm supposed to look like.

I wish I were taller, wish I were
thinner. I've done so many diets,

- I can't even tell you.
- Me too.

We're redefining what
it means to be feminine,

- because that could look like anything.
- Anything.

I'm loyal, to my friends.

- And I'm independent.
- Yes.

This is what a woman looks like
too. This is not an anomaly.

- You know, this is exactly who I am.
- Exactly!

And exactly what I
was meant to be and do.

- I'm also pretty independent.
- Independent!

And pretty strong.

It doesn't matter,
if I have perfect skin

- or a million different things.
- You still feel like a woman inside.

I still feel like a woman and I
still, more importantly, feel like me.

- Creativity.
- I'm a good listener.

I have a giving heart.

- Sensitive.
- My passion...

I think I'm a good friend.

I love being a mother.

- Sometimes too sensitive. Like...
- Me too. I'm very sensitive.

I'm always giving to other people
and I've stopped caring about myself.

I lost my little brother,
when he was 21 in a car wreck,

and I didn't realize that
had really shut me down.

And I just constantly wanna
give and never receive.

I just kinda put a wall up

of ever receiving anything
that's complimentary.

Being able to be vulnerable
in front of people is hard.

It takes strength.
You're just full of it.

- Thank you so much.
- You're welcome.

That means so much to me.

You have a joy about you.

- Thank you.
- That is encouraging for me.

You're like a breath of fresh air.

What I love most about this
experience, is how open Jody is.

She is just receiving and she is
connecting with all these women.

Something she said she
hasn't done in years.

And you start to see for the first
time, she starts to truly believe,

that she is special, that she is
beautiful and that she is important.

What does it feel like for
you to be around this diverse,

group of women right now?

So awesome. It's like, amazing,

to know everybody's so different

but we're all strong women.

And, that means so much
to see. It's just awesome.

Femininity isn't what I'm thinking,

it should be, when I'm
looking in the mirror.

It's what I want it to be
and how I feel confident.

- It's right here.
- It's all right there.

I'd just like to end
things on a group hug.

Can we all do it?

It's a circle of love. Come on in.

- We're gonna shower you with love, OK?
- Yeah! Yay!

Have you enjoyed your week?

I have been on cloud
nine, enjoying the week.

To the point where I can't even sleep.

That makes me so happy.

- It's just blown my mind.
- I love that.

I'll just honk the horn,
so they know I'm here.

All right, you ready for this?

Oh my goodness.

Hi!

You ready to see what we did do?

Oh my Gosh!

No way. Oh my God!

Get out.

This doesn't even look
like the same room.

Not at all.

Oh my God!

No way. Look at that.

I painted everything white.

I got rid of the dark,
depressing wallpaper.

I got rid of the dark, depressing wood.

- See we still have a bird wall.
- That looks gorgeous.

- That looks gorgeous.
- It's like they're all flying together.

Exactly.

And I like that it's not
too masculine or feminine.

She's gender neutral.

I am gender neutral.
On everything like that.

- Your spectrum.
- I love a spectrum.

Oh my gosh, yes.

- Oh my gosh!
- Gorge. Love it!

Welcome to your bedroom.

Get out! Oh my gosh.

Amazing.

Picture it, okay? You've just
woken up. Let's do a little wipe.

- Like we did the other day.
- Yes. That is awesome.

After you cleanse you're gonna come
in with a little bit of facial oil.

I'm just doing a drop. And
then always remember your neck.

This is a color correcting primer.

I literally apply it
straight from the bottle

and it's going to prevent
you from using too much.

- Wait! Rub it in with this.
- Oh. That's right.

These are the most amazing
make-up brushes I got you.

You wanna put it straight on the
skin, instead of putting on the brush,

because your fingers are pourus. So
this is going to use so much less.

And let's just do a
skinny, little mascara.

Like, nothing crazy. Oh my God! Yes!

You're just giving me
application for days honey.

Can we even talk about how
freakin' gorgeous your skin looks?

Oh my gosh. It's glowing.

- Love that.
- Uh. Love.

- Oh my God. Love indeed.
- Don't...

- This looks...
- Look at you!

- Gorg' right?
- Yes.

- Do you love your look?
- I love it!

- I love you.
- You're amazing.

I've made your closet very simple.

Very organized. I got you great basics.

Oh yeah. So they're
like my own T-shirts.

They're your own T-shirts.
They will fit you beautifully.

I see camo.

- Yeah, you see camo.
- I can't believe you did that.

Let me explain why.

It's very fitted. Like,
when you put that on

it's gonna show the curves
of your body beautifully.

So, I'm not trying to tell
you, you can't do camo anymore.

- My other camo'll be only in the woods.
- Yeah. Let it go.

- Leave it in the woods.
- Let it go.

And then, I got you more jeans.

Those comfortable jeans?

This is how I want you to
think of this in the morning.

You're not going anywhere fancy
so, you've got a pair of jeans.

What will I look like today?
Ah, I'd probably like a T-shirt.

- Great.
- Yes.

All I'm doing, is putting
the T-shirt with it.

Maybe you're going
shopping, with your daughter.

Throw on a heel. And you
might grab lunch afterwards.

So then, I want you to try this on.

- It's not a jacket.
- Oh, wow!

It's just gonna add a pop of something.

- Will you give it a try?
- Yes.

Okay, boys.

- Hey.
- Hey boy.

You. Are. Not. Ready.

- Oh my God!
- You are not ready!

- Oh my...
- Holy [BLEEP].

Oh my God.

Look at her!

Oh my God.

I'm like... I'm walkin'
so good in my heels.

Yes.

- Walk back to us.
- Yes!

- Go Jody.
- Turn around and come to us.

Hit. Hit. Knee. Knee.

You are a bombshell, baby!

Jody the girls, my God.

- I know.
- What? I know.

This is like, young Christie Brinkley.

- Yes it is!
- Yeah it is.

- Sorry.
- Calm down.

All of the deer heads on the
wall just moved towards you.

- Yes!
- Yes.

What all of this has done
for your confidence...

I hate that we use the
word confidence so much...

Body language.

Your self-esteem, it has
gone through the roof.

I want you to feel this sexy all day.

- And every day of the year.
- Every day.

- And all it is, is jeans and bloody T-shirt...
- T-shirt! I know.

- So sexy!
- Oh, I know.

- I feel it.
- Yes you should!

You look in your 20's.

- I feel like I lost 15 years. Easy.
- Fifteen years. Easy.

- Easily.
- Fifteen years.

I'm so glad you enjoyed this
one 'cause we're onto the next.

- Oh no!
- I love the kimono.

She said her family hasn't seen
her look like this in 25 years.

And I actually called them and
invited them here to see her.

So, they just texted
me and they arrived.

Come on in. I had to
bring the family in.

She is confident. She's standing
tall. Her hair is flowing.

And so they had to be
part of this moment.

That's what makes it special.

What are you guys expecting with
this? Do you like, sense anything?

Or, do you have any like, inclinations?

- No.
- None at all.

Well, I shaved her head.

- Ready for this?
- Yeah!

Come on out, beauty.

Oh my God.

- Beautiful.
- Oh my God.

You look beautiful.

Don't I look so much younger now?

- Yes.
- Oh, and confident. I love that.

I know.

Your hair looks so beautiful.

- It's beautiful.
- Oh my gosh!

Don't I look like I'm so young.

Oh sweetie. Oh my God.

I'm goin' shopping with you more often.

- Look! She's wearin' heels.
- I know.

Sit down and take it in with us.

I haven't ever taken
time for myself to...

make myself on the
outside look beautiful

and feel like the same
as I do on the inside.

But it doesn't even matter
if I'm in camo or not,

I'm still gonna feel a bit
more beautiful now than ever.

And take the time for myself.

And you know, I quit
doing that when John d*ed.

And, this is...

I didn't realize that.

So, this has been an amazing
transformation and week

and the confidence is unbelievable now,

- on how I feel about myself.
- Yeah.

Slash, you look amazing.

- Yes.
- Yes.

You do look beautiful sis.

You look like a weight has been lifted.

And you just look extravagant.

- Looks like you got your joy back.
- Yes.

Nailed it.

You look happy.

Oh, yes. I am so happy.

Just as happy as can be.

You go and wow that,
wonderful husband of yours.

I know, I'm going to die.

What do you think he's going to say?

He's not gonna say anything.

He's gonna just sweep
her right off her feet

and they're going to
have a wonderful night.

What a difference.

It was nice to meet you.

Jody is incredible.

All we did, was high-light
all the very best parts of her.

So all I want her to do, is remember,

that she can be feminine,
that she can feel attractive.

There's no shame in
self-love and self-care.

I hope that she remembers
everyday, that she is beautiful

and that she is worthy of the
love that everybody gives her.

That's it.

- Do your things, have fun.
- I'm going to. Thank you so much.

- Goodbye. Love you.
- Love you.

Oh, my God and don't do
anything I wouldn't do.

Oh, I'm going to.

Do you recognize this?

- Oh no. But wha...
- Yes!

- Oh, is this all from Jody's garden?
- Yeah!

This looks delicious.

It's just a marinated
zucchini squash salad.

I cannot wait to see what
Jodi's husband thinks of her.

- Thank you.
- Gosh.

Oh, my God, Bruley.

Here.

I'm just gonna reiterate
how disgusted I am

when we feed him with a fork.

You want him to eat with his hands?

- What are you?
- Yeah.

Press play Bobbers.
Let's give this a go.

She has the kindest face.

- I love her.
- I think she's got a sexy face.

- Woah.
- He looks so handsome.

My God.

Wow.

- Oh my gosh.
- Um, this is unreal.

You look like...

Like a movie star.

Yes you do.

Holy mackerel.

- Dang!
- Ho ho. I knew it.

- He flipped out.
- I love a hand over mouth moment.

- You look amazing.
- Gosh.

- No wranglers.
- Yeah. No stranglers.

- Yeah.
- My God, he's handsome.

Let's do this.

- Yes.
- Aw.

- Hi.
- Hi.

Oh, this is beautiful.

- Look at this.
- Wow.

Oh, It's a little Venice boat.

It's a little gondola.

I've been looking
forward to this all week.

Me too. It's just crazy.

If we do this again, I'm
bringin' a fishing pole.

And I love it that she's
really feeling herself.

- What a gorgeous couple.
- Right?

I want a gondola ride.

I have a li'l somethin' for ya here.

Oh my gosh.

I want you to...

- Open it.
- Oh my gosh.

- Oh, yes.
- That's so sweet.

Oh, wow.

- Yeah.
- Beautiful.

- Got it?
- Okay.

Oh, wow.

You're the most beautiful
woman in the world.

And I feel that way
now. Thank you, baby.

- He's so in love with her.
- Yeah, yeah.

You've always made me feel beautiful.

But now I feel like, when you
say that, I feel it even more.

'Cause, I'm gonna take
care of myself more

and actually like my Mom said today,

she said: "You look
like you found your joy."

Aw.

Awesome!

We've got champagne?

- Mm hm.
- Woah.

And it's not fancy
anymore. It's special.

I agree.

To more of that. To more of this.

More of this.

This week has been,

such a learning experience in that,

it wasn't anything about the outside,

it was so much more about the inside.

And being able to feel beautiful

no matter what I'm in.

No matter what I look
like. No matter what I wear.

Hey guys, I'm gonna be back. One sec.

- Where's he goin'?
- Wow.

I feel like I'm going to
explode with just happiness.

I can't stop smiling.

You thought of everything, I swear.

Thank you so much.

Room service.

Hello. Come on in. Oh my goodness.

- Antoni!
- Oh, my God!

That's where you went.

What are you doing?

Oh my gosh.

I couldn't let anybody else
bring it, other than me.

I'm like: "Where did Antoni go?"

He's a crazy little boy. Look at him.

- Un petit homard cuit.
- Holy...

So we have our, Maine Lobster,

with king crab sections.

Lord almighty.

Oh my God! He prepared a
lobster and we got zucchini?

Enjoy your dinner guys.

- Thank you so much.
- Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Also you look really beautiful.

- Thank you.
- And so do you.

Thank you very much.

We got another one goin' here.
Bring it on home here we go.

What'd I miss?

- Oh!
- Hey.

It took you so long
that it's day-time now.

You silly little girl.

Get that off of there.

Then you take these and you...

- Oh, you did great.
- Ow, right in the neck.

- Got me in the neck.
- We gave Jody the space to tell us,

the kind of woman she wants to be.

And everything about Jody now, is
totally a reflection of the woman,

she actually is.

Everybody is a different
point on those scales

between masculine and feminine.

And whatever point you're at,
at the scale, is just fine.

Yes, you look beautiful but
I can tell you feel that way.

- You know you're beautiful.
- Yeah that's what I learned, a lot.

Beauty is believing in yourself.

It's knowing that you're worth it.

Beauty, is confidence.

- Yeah!
- Voilà.

If you feel confident about who you
are, beauty will radiate from you.

Beauty is, when you are so
connected with your own heart,

you don't need to
explain anything to anyone

because you know that you are
beautiful just the way you are.

- To us. And a great evening.
- To tonight.

Terrific, awesome, unreal evening.

To our Amazonian Queen.

Bonjour tout le monde,
je m'appelle Bruley

et je suis un petit bulldog français.

I... Mm-hmm.

This is our gorgeous bulldog, Bruley.

He is... French apparently.

And his Mom works down the hall.

- And we just love him so much.
- Yeah.

Now, he's our team mascot and he
comes and goes whenever he wants.

And he's just a magical bay-bay.

What a cutie.

Bye bye.