[woman] Previously
on 90 Day Fiancé...
I'm gonna show her the house
what little house there is.
It's kinda scary.
The two most important people
in my life,
they're not just meeting,
they're also gonna be
living together.
-[in Spanish]
-Ah.
[in Spanish]
Bye.
He's been getting
disgusting videos
from other women.
[Rob] She damn near
done with me over this.
All I could hope for is that
she would give me a chance
to make it up to her.
[Nikki] Men in this region...
[in other language]
[in other language]
[in other language]
[in other language]
[Justin speaking]
It's like
he's leading a double life.
Even if Manuel
has nothing to hide,
he sure is acting
like he does.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
What is this?
I have no idea what that is.
[Jasmine speaking]
No, I'm not!
Yes, you are! Yes!
You [bleep] liar!
That's not cheating!
[Jasmine crying]
She dropped the phone
and found
some kind of lip balm
or something, I don't know,
lipstick or lip balm.
I think it was lip balm
underneath my seat
when she was looking
for the phone.
But that is... I was never
on a date with a girl.
I never cheated on Jasmine.
I... Never with any girl
in the three years
I was with Jasmine ever.
I wanna go home.
This has been a crazy ass
last couple of hours.
Jasmine won't let me explain
how that stupid lip gloss
got under the seat
and how it got there.
I was never with any girl.
[cries] Oh, yes.
-Like, please.
-This is crazy.
-Okay.
-[Jasmine speaking]
-Okay.
-Yeah.
-Okay.
-Yeah.
-I don't wanna be with you...
-Yeah. Okay.
anymore. It's the best.
-That's fine. Yeah.
-It's the best.
I didn't cheat on you
or anything--
-You did, Gino!
-I did not.
-You did!
-I was never with any girl--
You did!
[Jasmine speaking]
There's... I'm not nervous.
Just telling you
there's no girls in my life
the last three years
I was with you,
never cheated on you,
never been with a girl
in my car, never ever.
I would never do that.
I'm in love with you.
Why would I do...
I'm telling you...
I don't feel love, Gino.
I don't feel love.
I don't.
I'm telling you,
I would never do that to you.
I don't feel love.
I don't feel love.
I don't feel love.
[cries]
You have to believe me.
I have abandonment issues.
And everything comes
from my dad.
Um, he abandoned me
when I was three years old.
And he made sure to let
my mom know that he...
had not interested
on being part of my life
and that he regretted
having me.
That I was a huge mistake
in his life.
He really messed up my mind,
the way I see myself.
Because the way I see is like
if not even my dad
can love me.
Like, why any other man
will love me.
And it's hard for me
to trust on a man
telling me, "I love you
and you're pretty
and you deserve love,"
because I never had that.
Why would you love me?
Why I deserve that
if I have never had it?
[cries]
Do you wanna sit in the car
for a second, huh?
-Yeah.
-Come on.
[Jasmine sobbing]
Go on. Get in.
[Gino] I love you
and I wanna be with you.
How can I know
you're telling me the truth?
-How?
-Baby--
Think about it.
Think of all the times
you called me on the phone.
I was always home.
I was never out with anybody.
Do you understand?
I would never cheat on you.
-I'd never risk that.
-Oh.
[Gino] I love you.
I'm telling you the truth.
♪ They always tryin'
to test me ♪
♪ But I don't let it
stress me ♪
♪ And no
You can't impress me, no ♪
♪ They always tryin'
to test me ♪
♪ But I don't let it
Get to me ♪
[Sophie] I haven't spoken
to Rob
since I left his apartment
yesterday.
And Rob texts me and says,
you know, "I miss you."
Which right now it's like...
It's difficult
because it's like...
It's still the same Rob,
but it's like I'm just...
I'm so upset right now.
But I tell him that,
like, he can come over
and I guess we can...
We need... We need to talk.
I can't stay at some
random house, you know,
I've rented forever.
Like, I need to know
what I'm doing.
So, like, we need to talk.
Um, it's like, I don't know.
Like when I...
when I saw this message,
obviously,
it's like I feel
kind of not even bad.
Maybe a bit bad
'cause it's like,
you know, it's still Rob.
See, so the thing is,
I don't wanna...
I wanna do this in person.
I don't wanna talk to...
You know,
about this over the phone.
But I'm not gonna go there.
I'm not going to his house
right now.
Uh, 'cause it's gross.
I don't wanna be
in that environment,
in his dark, tiny room.
Um, so, yeah, he can
come here, he can come to me.
I need to see his face too.
I need to see if he's,
like, being genuine in, like,
how he's really feeling
about this right now.
And he also needs
to listen to me,
which I feel like
over the phone sometimes
it's just not the best way.
I'm trying to figure out
how to...
help her understand me
and understand her
and just fix this.
I don't really know what I'm
gonna say when I get there.
I just know
that I have to say something
and it better be
the right thing.
-Hey.
-[Sophie] Hey.
[Rob speaking]
Thank you.
It's a nice place.
[Sophie] Yeah.
[Sophie speaking]
How was... Um, how was
your night without me?
Definitely helped
having space from you.
[Rob] Yeah.
Yeah. I imagine it did.
I just need you to know
that, like,
to me, what that is, is just,
it's just bull [bleep]
online [bleep]
It's just, like,
it's like junk mail.
[Sophie]
What I don't understand is,
you did this to me before
and you knew if
you did it again,
I would leave you
and you know how much
you hurt me the first time.
So I don't understand
why you did it again.
I can't erase these
messages or videos
and [bleep] in my mind.
And I just don't think
it's fair.
Now, I'm here by myself.
It's like I can't leave
because where am I gonna go?
I have no one to talk to.
I have no place to go.
I don't even have
my own house,
I don't have friends,
don't have family,
I just have you.
And it's, like, I feel like
you [bleep] me over
and you don't respect me.
And it's, like,
what do I do now with my life?
I've given it up for you.
And the one thing
that I just wanted from you,
not money,
not take care of me, not this,
that was literally
just loyalty.
But someone loyal
doesn't do this.
They just don't.
[Rob] The person I've been
since you touched down in LA
is a million percent
committed.
Yes, it's been hard.
Trying to be with somebody
from another country is hard.
It's not easy.
If you were in my life
all the time,
then it would've been easier.
I'm not trying to talk
to nobody else.
I'm not trying to be
with nobody else.
[Sophie] I know... I'm not...
Look, I never said I think
you're cheating in real life.
I'm saying what you've done
and I've seen it has hurt me.
I'm not now accusing you
of being a real life cheater.
I don't think you're out here
[bleep] no, great for you.
[Rob] Have I not--
-But like, come on.
-Have I not said I'm sorry?
[Sophie] I'm hurt. It hurt me.
Have I not...
Have I not said I'm sorry?
-Yeah, but not genuinely.
-[Rob] Have I not?
Why isn't it genuine?
What part...
What about it isn't genuine?
I know it hurts you.
There is no way I can...
I can walk you
out of being hurt.
I know you're hurt.
And I am sorry.
I don't know
how to make you feel...
How to make you
feel better right now.
All I know is what I can do
and all I can do
is just not do anything
like that again.
You give me a chance,
I will make it up to you
because I'm sorry.
This looks nice,
right, sweetie?
[Ashley] He's still guarded
with me about certain things.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Your personal life is private,
like we are due to be married.
Now, I'm this lady
that his boys have no clue
who I am.
All they know is that
I took their dad away.
This is like, um, the bazaar
that we went to
in Istanbul, right?
Mm-hmm.
Why are you always trying
to have me dress simple?
Like...
Okay.
Let's go.
[Nikki speaking]
Hmm.
No. No.
Definitely no.
This is how you want me
to dress for your mom,
like very conservative?
No. It's too much.
[Nikki] Wait.
Are you trying to say you want
me more covered than this?
You know what I like to wear.
No. Not naked.
Sexy. It's called sexy.
Big boots, yeah.
-[producer speaking]
-Okay.
-[producer speaking]
-Okay.
[producer speaking]
Big boobs.
Show me what you like.
Look. It's pink.
You like pink?
-I like pink, yes.
-[Justin] Yeah?
But this mandala-style pink.
Do you know
that my grandmother,
she has these things
on her table.
It's like for coffee and teas.
-Really?
-It's doily. Yes.
Absolutely not. No, no, no.
-This looks like her--
-[woman in other language]
Ah, that's the national...
Okay.
Going into the store,
the clothes are very basic,
boring, conservative,
not my style.
I could keep going on and on
but we don't have
all that time.
-[Justin] Look.
-[Nikki] No, no, no.
I think Justin would be happy
with me wearing
a straightjacket.
I don't know.
When he says conservative,
I think that's what he means.
I don't like any
of the clothes here, honey.
I have a very
special-shaped body.
But the fact that Justin's
getting uncomfortable,
it makes me think
how he's feeling
and maybe I should compromise
my style a little bit.
This is nice. Very nice.
[Nikki] That is actually
more my style.
I would actually do
the blazer, the pink blazer.
That looks really pretty.
I will try.
[in other language]
-[Justin] Go change.
-[Nikki] Okay.
[grunts]
How is the size?
[Nikki] Let me put on
the top right now.
I don't rush you.
[Nikki] This looks nice,
right, sweetie?
My fiancé thinks
that this is too sexy.
Do you think this is
too sexy for Moldova?
[in other language]
[woman in other language]
[Justin in other language]
[woman in other language]
[Nikki] Does she like...
What's she--
Okay.
I think I'm okay.
I brought some stuff.
It's a lot nicer
than what you've been seeing.
I know this is
a little bit revealing.
I respect you.
Okay.
I totally understand
and respect
my fiancé's wishes
but he's giving me so much
anxiety of how to dress.
Okay.
-[in other language]
-[woman in other language]
[in other language]
It's very important for Justin
to feel the support
from his family,
but if someone
is gonna like you,
they're just gonna like you
for who you are
on the inside.
I can definitely tone it down,
but I'm not going
to change who I am.
I mean,
if they're gonna judge me
for the way I dress
or the way I express myself,
then maybe we're just
not meant to be.
I feel on the outside
of his family.
It's like he purposely is
trying to keep me separated.
I don't understand.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
He's still guarded with me
about certain things.
About like family dynamics
and all that.
[in Spanish]
[Ivanna] Mm-hmm.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I feel like
the woman on the side
-in his life sometimes.
-[Manuel in Spanish]
Like, sometimes, I just
don't think he thinks about
what the shoe looks like
on the other foot.
Like, now, I'm this lady
that his boys
have no clue who I am.
All they know is that
I took their dad away.
Mm-hmm.
Like it's putting me
in like the [bleep]
-position ever, you know?
-[Ivanna] Mm-hmm. Yeah.
And I don't think
he gets that.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley] Because I'm never
gonna understand like--
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I feel very separated
from his dynamics
with his family.
They are a huge,
huge part of his life,
which I love, right?
That's [bleep] great.
Mm-hmm.
But I feel
very separated from that
and oftentimes when I'm like,
"What's going on," he just...
Everything's fine.
It's... In a way.
-You feel left out?
-[Ashley] Yes.
Mm-hmm.
[in Spanish]
For example, last night,
we were talking.
I was like, "You don't share
big things with me."
He goes,
"Well, when I share
little things with you,
you react in a way
that's like this,
so why would I share
big things?
-[Ivanna] Mm-hmm.
-He goes, "For example,
I have to send $250
to my family
at the end of the month."
And I was like, "What?
Where is this even
coming from?
You're having a conversation
with somebody, clearly,
that I'm not privy to."
When were you gonna talk
to me about this?
You can't work,
so I am being required
to do it.
So when were you going to
have a conversation with me
about what it is you were
promising others in my name?
I don't think
I do any sort of deep,
extra aggressive questioning.
I think I wanna know
the same amount of information
that anybody else would
wanna know in a relationship.
-Yeah.
-And I can foresee this
being an issue
that only gets bigger.
Yeah. Yeah.
It's not gonna go away.
[Ashley] Uh-uh. No.
[Ivanna] Both Ashley
and Manuel are playing a role
in their issues.
Ashley is reactionary
at times.
And with Latin men,
based on some childhood stuff
and just cultural stuff,
where it feels
almost like it's the mom
coming in and saying like,
"I need to know
everything you're doing,"
and the man being like,
"No, I'm not gonna do that.
I'm not gonna let you in."
[Ivanna in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Your personal life is private.
Like I am your personal life.
I am your privacy.
We are due to be married.
I need to be involved
in what's going on.
I don't think he's getting
that the bad reaction
is coming from
not being let in.
But moving forward,
can you give him
that reassurance
-that you will work on that?
-Yes.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel] Okay.
[in Spanish]
Yeah.
[in Spanish]
-Oh.
-[laughs]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay. Awesome.
Thank you so much.
[Ivanna in Spanish]
-Okay.
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
I'm supposed to be committing
my whole self to this human.
[Manuel] Thank you.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] And I'll be dammed
if I'm gonna take a backseat
when you are here for me,
in my country,
looking to marry me.
I get front seat.
He's gotten front seat
in my life for years.
I want front seat in his.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Anali's dad has no idea
that I even exist.
[in Spanish]
[Clayton speaking]
-[in Spanish]
-[Anali in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
No.
Surprise.
[singer]
♪ Ooh
♪ Tell me
What you're thinking ♪
♪ Ooh
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Generally speaking,
me and Anali
have a pretty healthy
sex life.
Every time we've been
together in Peru,
it's been pretty frequent.
So the lack of intimacy
is a little concerning.
I don't generally
have self-confidence issues
but it makes me
wonder maybe...
Did I say something?
Did I do something?
Like something's different.
What is it?
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay.
[Anali in Spanish]
[laughs]
Ah, thank you.
[chuckles]
Okay. [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
There's a few things more
classic Kentucky than horses.
So for Anali's first day
in America, in Kentucky,
I thought
there is no better thing
than to take her
horseback riding.
[groans]
[Anali in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
No. No. [in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
[Clayton] Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Anali] Mmm-hmm.
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[laughs]
-[in Spanish]
[laughs]
[in Spanish]
[Clayton in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-Hi.
-Hello.
-Hi.
-Hi. Nice to meet you.
-What's your name?
-So my name's Britney.
-Nice to meet you, Britney.
-This is my sister.
Hi. I'm Brooke.
Nice to meet you.
-Brooke, nice to meet you.
-Hi.
-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
This is my fiancee
from Peru, Anali.
Hi. So welcome to our ranch.
We're Stepping Stone Ranch.
We're gonna really show you
how to be with a horse today.
Okay.
[Brooke] Okay. So we're
gonna get up to this...
-Okay.
-top step.
-Now?
-Uh-huh.
Oh, thank you.
Okay. Just keep it like that.
[Clayton in Spanish]
Aw, thank you.
The horses are a little
bit different
than the Thoroughbreds
you might associate
with Kentucky.
I'm just hoping
he's not too asleep.
And I haven't ridden a horse
in probably 15 years,
so, at least, now I'm not
gonna look so stupid.
Okay.
Yeah. Forward.
-There he goes.
-[chuckles]
He knows you mean business.
[Clayton] Just straight.
Look straight.
Uh, nope, nope, nope,
nope, nope, nope, nope.
-[Brooke] Okay.
-[Clayton] Absolutely not.
-[Brooke] Okay.
-[Clayton] Absolutely
[bleep] not.
No, no, no.
[Anali in Spanish]
[laughter]
[Britney]
He's trying to show off.
-He is.
-Quit showing off.
-[Britney] He likes tricks.
-Show off somebody else.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
-No.
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[laughs]
-[chuckles]
[Brooke] There you go.
-Aw.
-[in Spanish]
-Aw.
-[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Yeah.
[in Spanish]
-Yeah. Good job.
-Good job for me.
Good job for me. [chuckling]
[in Spanish]
-Okay. Yeah.
-Yeah? Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Anali] Mmm-hmm.
[in Spanish]
Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[Anali in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
Okay. Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Like...
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
It's like... Okay.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Clayton] Being in this
situation is really awkward
because I can't change it.
I'm not gonna go seek him out
and try to tell him about us.
I'm gonna let her do it.
But, you know,
I'm kind of hurt that
after all this time,
he still doesn't know.
And if left to her
own devices,
she probably would just keep
this up potentially forever.
Is she hiding
some type of secret?
I hope not, but I don't know.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay?
[Jasmine speaking]
Kama Sutra.
These lubricants.
Initial name
and your ex-wife in a heart.
I had a life before I met you.
This is still important
to you?
No!
Like you don't...
You have no trust in me,
whatsoever.
No. Now? No.
Let's work out, Coco.
Let's work out.
[Jasmine] The last days
have been very stressful.
I've been feeling betrayed
after I found the lip gloss.
I haven't forgotten about it.
It is still super fresh
in my mind.
It's gonna take a while
before I forgive him.
I have always...
I have always felt,
in this relationship,
like I'm not quite sure
about how much Gino love me.
I was thinking to myself,
"Okay, Jasmine,
it might be related
to the long distance.
You know, once you're living
with him every day,
you know,
he's gonna make you feel
like you are his priority.
You are the most important
person in his life."
But I'm not feeling it.
It's just getting worse
and worse and worse.
[sighs]
I'm questioning myself.
Did I make the right decision?
But...
[sighs] I don't know.
[vacuum whirring]
This is from his ex-wife.
Gino's 40th birthday.
Forte. It's like strong.
It's a Portuguese word,
I guess.
It has the date,
and it has a heart
with a D and G.
Denise, his ex-wife.
You know,
why is he saving this?
So romantic, you know?
They save...
He saved the napkin.
Oh, my gosh.
And this is so romantic.
Look at this.
Aw. "To the man of my dreams."
[scoffs, chuckles]
"I love you, baby.
You make so happy.
And I'm so lucky to have you.
You turn me on
in every possible way."
Wow. She's lucky.
I cannot say this about Gino.
Like, look, "Sexual positions.
Kama Sutra." What the heck?
Look at all this [bleep]
and we have only
practiced one.
One position.
And these lubricants,
why does he have that?
At least, they are not used.
They are brand new.
He has never tried
to learn Spanish.
Actually,
I found in a notebook,
like he was "apparently",
I don't know,
interested in Spanish.
And the only word is...
In here is perras.
b*tches.
Like what the heck?
Finding all these things
from other women,
it makes me very concerned
to bring my family
into this house.
It just reaffirm the fact
that I cannot trust on him.
When I went through
his ex-wife's social media,
I screenshotted
like a picture of her dog.
And it's even difficult
to tell which one is Coco
and which one is her dog.
So this is Coco
and this is her dog.
They are like so alike.
He's trying to replace us.
Do you feel like
we are a replacement?
"No, mommy. We're not.
We're so unique and special.
And you're more beautiful
than her.
Yes." Thank you, Coco.
"I love you too, Mommy." Aw.
He's so lovely. Yes, I know.
I'm sorry for the trauma.
We will both get it.
After all this [bleep].
[vacuum whirring]
Babe...
Look what I got.
I got some wooden steps
for Coco,
so he doesn't have to jump
on the bed anymore.
I got Coco some clothes too.
Cute, right?
Things have been really
tense between Jasmine and I
since she found that
lip gloss.
But I'm trying to move
forward in our relationship,
but, you know,
at the same time,
I'm really worried.
I'm still worried about her
jealousy issues, to be honest.
What do you think?
You're always a giver,
aren't you?
So generous and kind.
Sit there.
We need to talk.
Okay.
What is this?
That's exactly my question.
Um...
oh, this is just old stuff.
And why...
What is it doing in our house
and why are you keeping it?
-Is that something--
-I'm not keeping it.
I forgot to throw it out
is what--
-Forgot?
-Yeah.
I can't find everything
in my house.
Gino,
you just open the drawer,
the closet, and it's there.
-What drawer?
-The ones in our bedroom.
No.
[sighs] Yes.
There shouldn't be anything
in my drawers, no.
Okay. You were trying
to learn Portuguese.
Yeah, but that was for my job
when I went to Brazil
for the first time.
There wasn't any girl
involved.
I had to learn Portuguese
'cause I was gonna be there
for six months.
And when were you trying
to learn Spanish, for me
or to communicate with my kids
or with my family?
No. This was because
I was gonna live in Brazil
for my work.
Okay. What about this napkin?
That's my 40th birthday party.
With your initial name
and your ex-wife in a heart.
-So what?
-And she...
I had a life before I met you.
Yes,
but why are you keeping it?
I'm not saving these
or anything.
I just didn't go through
my whole entire [bleep] house
and find every...
To every corner of my house
and look for everything
that I had in my past.
I'm sorry. I didn't do that.
I did not throw out
everything that I find--
So it is still...
This is still important
to you?
No!
All right.
Did you have fun with that?
I really believe that Jasmine
is being way too harsh on me
and she's, you know,
stepping over the line.
This is common for people
to keep things
from their past
relationships.
I mean, I'm not dating
these people now.
I'm not seeing them.
I'm not cheating on you.
There's no reason for you
to be pissed off
right now about this.
Excuse me.
[Devin] Yes. It's a heart.
[Nick speaking]
[Devin] Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Where are you going?
[chuckles]
[Nikki] I don't know.
Sometimes I feel like
I'm not the girl for you.
[Nikki] No. I don't feel like
you're sexually
attracted to me.
I always... That's what it is.
You can't handle me.
You can't handle me.
[singer singing
in other language]
[Nick speaking]
[Devin speaking]
-[in Korean]
-[in Korean]
[in Korean]
[singer singing
in other language]
[in Korean]
[Nick speaking]
[Devin] Hmm.
-Do you like them?
-[Devin] I do.
You know?
I like cute things
and this is all...
-Yeah, it's cute.
-very pretty.
Oh, look at this.
Actually, no.
This is for prost*tute.
-[laughs]
-I'm serious.
-[Devin speaking]
-No, thanks.
-[laughs]
-Why not?
It is real exciting
to be taking pictures
for our engagement.
[laughs]
It's something
that I really didn't think
we're gonna have
the opportunity to do at all.
So it's really exciting.
Look. Look, how she...
How happy she is.
Are you ready?
-Oh.
-[chuckles]
Look at you.
Is it pretty?
[Nick speaking]
Cute. I'm serious.
[Devin] I love it.
[giggles]
[Nick] Wow. It's perfect.
[chuckling]
[Nick speaking]
Very cute.
-Are you ready yet?
-[Nick] Yup.
Oh, wow. Cute.
[chuckles]
Look at you.
Good. You look good.
Yeah.
So...
[Nick speaking]
Wow.
[Devin speaking]
[singer]
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
♪ Whoa, whoa, oh
-So we do this sign.
-Do this.
Yeah.
This is very Korean thing.
Can you see this shape?
-Yes. It's heart.
-It's a heart. Yeah.
[laughs]
[Nick] Okay. Let's go down.
Look at those house.
[Devin] I like them.
[Nick speaking]
You wanna take a seat here?
[Devin] Okay.
Yeah. I'm nervous. Yes.
So...
Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa. Wait.
Oh, my God. [chuckles]
Huh?
You will?
Yes. [chuckles]
Come here.
[chuckles]
All right.
[chuckles]
[Nick] Yeah!
[Devin speaking]
I just don't know...
I don't know what to say.
[chuckling]
-[Nick speaking]
-[Devin] Yeah.
[Nick speaking]
[Justin] Baby, are you ready?
Almost.
I mean, I got dressed already.
[Justin speaking]
I know, baby.
I'm just finishing the hair,
and then I'm gonna throw
on my dress.
Today, I'm meeting
Justin's family
and I feel nervous.
What if they act weird,
you know?
It's not an easy thing
to accept their son
falling in love
with a trans woman
from the US, you know?
I just hope
everything goes smooth.
[man] That.
-[woman speaking]
-[man] Than.
[woman speaking]
[man] View.
How long have you
been using that app
to learn English?
Eight hundred and ninety-two.
Nice.
Have they taught you
the word horny?
Horny?
-Horny? Yes.
-No.
You know, when your pee-pee
gets like this, you know?
Does it teach you that?
[Justin speaking]
Honey.
Do you like it?
-[Justin] Yeah.
-Does it look presentable
for your family?
Regardless of Justin
telling me to dress modest,
I have an open mind
and I'm willing to compromise
his demands or requests.
And I can do conservative
as long as it's a sexy
conservative.
-Really?
-Yeah.
Oh, my God. I got
a compliment out of you.
[Justin speaking]
[car engine revs]
[Nikki] Yes. Yes.
[Justin speaking]
Mmm-hmm. I'm nervous.
I know. I'm just
a little bit nervous.
[exhales] Okay.
Even if I'm still all done up,
I still look like
a regular woman.
Like that's just who I am.
I don't know. I don't know.
Like, honestly,
I don't think...
Like I don't know.
Sometimes I feel like
I'm not the girl for you.
No. It's not just makeup.
It's everything.
I noticed that the more time
that I spent with Justin,
sometimes he just
doesn't reassure me
with the way that I look
and making me feel confident.
So, yeah,
I start feeling insecure.
Maybe I feel like
I'm not his cup of tea
and maybe he's with me
for the wrong reasons
and maybe he thinks that
that girl's attractive
and pays attention
to someone else.
I don't know. I'm not him.
Honestly, I don't feel
like sometimes
you're sexually attracted
to me.
I don't know
if it's because of me.
I don't know if it's because
you're like asexual.
You're not into anybody.
I don't know.
I don't know what it is.
I can't figure it out.
Only you know.
Okay. Okay.
From last night, we had
an amazing time together.
And then brand new day, right?
-Yes.
-You're laying on your back.
-Yeah.
-Okay?
And I'm just
touching your chest.
-Yeah.
-Not sexually.
I'm not trying
to get you turned on.
I'm...
Oh, I was? I was?
-Like...
-I was...
I was... I was...
I was touching your chest.
I was... Okay.
I was touching your chest.
I was touching your chest.
You can't handle me.
It's...
Like that's what it is.
You can't handle me.
You can't handle me
and we're not meant
for each other,
so let's just leave it
like that.
[woman] Have you decided
on beverages?
I think we decided
on everything.
Oh, wonderful.
What are we talking?
So we're gonna do a Kolsch,
the Gilroy.
-Right.
-We're gonna do the ceviche.
And we're gonna do
the spaghetti.
-[woman] Wonderful.
-Thank you.
[indistinct chatter]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[speaking Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Oh, God.
We laughed
at the counseling session.
He spoke a lot.
Was very vocal
and very open to receiving.
Now, he's saying
he doesn't wanna go back.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I'm not liking
your attitude right now.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[Ashley speaking Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
You are being a grumpy kitty.
You are being
a very grumpy kitty.
[babbling] [in Spanish]
I can literally not wait
until we go home
and you get in bed
and you relax
because you are at a 12:00
and I need you at a 2:00.
-[in Spanish]
-[Ashley] Yes.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Oh, God.
We are in the middle
of this restaurant
and you were acting like
you have no sense whatsoever.
You do not speak to me
like that.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
No.
Okay.
I've had a few moments
where I'm wondering
if this was the right move.
Yeah, I definitely have.
We've had bumps
over my career,
and me identifying as a witch,
we've had bumps
over sending money back.
We've had bumps
over me spending money.
We've had bumps
over all sorts of things.
I think the reason
why we stay in this
is because we worked so hard
for two plus years
to give up after 30 days,
it just can't happen.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Clayton speaking]
I'm nervous about introducing
my sister Brandi to Anali.
I was wondering
why there's no posting
of you on her page.
-Because of her dad.
-So her dad
doesn't know that you guys
are together?
No.
[Brandi] I don't know
what her intentions are
with my brother.
Just a weird situation.
How do I know that she's just
not here for a green card?
I spend the rest of my life
trying to show you.
[Sophie]
You said that first time.
The first time
Rob online cheated on me,
it took over a year for me
to trust him again.
And obviously,
we don't have a year
this time
before we get married.
It was wrong
and I understand that.
It could have been
a lot worse, but it wasn't.
And it would never
ever be that wrong again.
You give me a chance,
I will make it up to you
because I am sorry.
Okay.
I spent the rest of my life
trying to show you.
You said that the first time.
We only have 90 days
to get married,
so I really only have 90 days
to get over it.
But, I mean,
I'm willing to at least
go home with him to our home
where all my stuff is
and give him at least
the time of day to, like,
try and make things
better with me.
Right now,
it's not looking like
I can trust you again
without having
to have this
toxic relationship
where I'm always
checking your phone
and it's like
privacy invasion,
which I don't...
I think everyone
should have their privacy,
but if people take advantage
of it, then they lose that.
[sighs] I made a mistake,
and I told you
that was a lapse in judgment.
I'm sorry. And I meant that.
I just don't want you
to feel like
there's just a million
other things I'm doing
when that is it.
[Sophie] The first time
Rob online cheated on me.
It took just over a year
for me to trust him again.
And obviously,
we don't have a year this time
before we get married.
It just sucks that I have to,
again, go through the hurt
that he's caused me
and have to learn
to trust him again.
It's like I wish
I would've found out
in England,
because I definitely
would've been...
I would not have been coming
to America right now,
but I'm already here
and I only have 90 days
or else I have to go back.
I think, you know,
I've been slow
in the process
of transitioning
from being single for years
to having a girlfriend
and the relationship I have
being long distance,
you know, it's not made it
any easier to do all the...
Make all the right decisions
at all times.
And it's unfortunate
that I slipped up
a couple times.
It was wrong, but it-it...
[sighs] It was wrong.
And I understand that.
It could've been a lot worse,
but it wasn't,
and it would never ever
be that wrong again.
Well, I'm starting...
I started trying
to make it up to you
by bringing a rose today.
It's first step.
I know you like them.
And I'll try every day.
Thank you for the rose.
Smell it.
I think that Sophie
is considering
not crucifying me completely
for this
and possibly
giving me another chance.
So that gives me
a little bit of hope.
Okay.
And I'm begging and I'm hoping
and I'm praying
that we can back on track.
[Sophie speaking]
[Rob speaking]
[in Spanish]
[scoffs] Okay. Yeah.
-[Clayton] Yeah. Wrap that.
-Thank you.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Anali laughs]
Today, I'm introducing
my sister Brandi to Anali.
I'm nervous about
introducing Anali to Brandi
because Brandi's
the only sister.
So she's naturally
more protective
when her brothers have,
you know, their girlfriends
or she's meeting them
for the first time.
[in Spanish]
[chuckles]
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[Clayton] Rough time.
-Oh, she's just
overprotective.
-[Clayton] Well...
-That's all I can say.
I mean...
I wanted to take Anali
bourbon tasting
because bourbon in Kentucky
is just as big as horses.
Those are the two things
that come to mind
when I think about Kentucky.
So this is the other half.
And plus, my sister
likes to drink.
-[Clayton] Whoa.
-[woman] Hello. Welcome
to [indistinct]
-Hi.
-Hello.
-Ooh.
-[woman] Yeah...
Yeah.
I'm hoping that everyone
can just have a couple drinks
and get loose, get along,
get to know each other.
So are any of these
like nuts per chance?
[woman] No. So, someone here
-has an allergy?
-Yeah. That's me.
-I'm... Yeah.
-[woman] That's you?
-Oh, there's...
-[laughter]
-Hi.
-[woman] Hello.
-Hi.
-Hi.
-Hi, Brandi.
-Hi.
-Hi.
-Nice to meet you.
[Brandi speaking]
[Brandi] Hey, Mom.
[in Spanish]
Taste of Kentucky, is it good?
-Delicious.
-[man] Yeah.
-Cheers to ours.
-You say delicious.
-Cheers.
-[man] Cheers.
[Anali in Spanish]
Ooh, okay.
What kind of alcohol
does she drink at home?
Is this weird for her?
[in Spanish]
Cool.
How does she like living...
I feel weird like
speaking to you
but asking questions
about her.
How does she like
living with Mom?
[Clayton in Spanish]
[Anali in Spanish]
Like a big change.
[in Spanish]
She left her family for me.
It's a big change.
[Clayton in Spanish]
Yeah.
Cute.
I know nothing about Anali.
It is weird that I don't
know anything about her,
just because of the fact
that me and Clayton
are fairly close.
Maybe he's not telling me
things about her
because he thinks
I will probably be a bitch
if she is just coming here
to use my brother, um...
So why haven't you, like,
said anything about her?
Because I literally know
nothing about her.
Honestly, just, you know,
being honest,
you have typically had,
like, problems
with my ex-girlfriends or like
girlfriends at the time.
So, I didn't wanna
tell you too much
about her because
I don't want you to have
something in your head
when you guys meet.
Like, I was looking
on social media
and I was wondering
why there's no posting
of you on her page,
but she's all over yours.
[Clayton in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
It's a long story but her dad,
there's like...
She doesn't want
to post things...
-Yeah.
-publicly because of her dad.
So her dad doesn't know
that you guys are together?
No.
I don't know
what her intentions
are with my brother.
Clayton's last girlfriend,
I think she cheated on him.
So I'm always gonna be
on guard for everything.
I mean,
I have the same question
and I'll be on your side
for that one.
I... It's kind of weird
to me too, but--
Well, where does he think
she is right now?
Uh, he thinks
that she's in America,
but he thinks
that she's here for work.
Did you know that?
-[Clayton in Spanish]
-That's [bleep] up.
[in Spanish]
[Brandi] Is her mom
and dad together?
[Clayton]
She said that her dad
is like a worrying type
person,
but if he had known--
So is she, and she knows.
-I mean...
-[Clayton] Yeah.
I know, but...
I know, it doesn't sound
good to me either.
So just to be like blunt
and just don't wanna
b*at around the bush.
-[Clayton] Okay.
-Like, how do I know
that she's just not here
for a green card?
[Clayton in Spanish]
[Anali in Spanish]
She is saying that
if that were the case,
she wouldn't have
left her family.
I can't imagine her
faking something like that
for two and a half years.
I can.
I don't think
that she would be able
to fake something that long.
People do it all the time.
Hmm.
I'm not sure if I'm more hurt
or more annoyed.
It seemed like she had
kind of an attitude
to begin with.
I don't know
where it came from,
but it's unfortunate
that she's wanting
to show this side of her
on her first meeting
with Anali.
Well, this was fun.
You have enough to drink?
No.
What's the thing
that worries you the most?
What concerns you?
I'm just over it.
So, is that like a nothing?
Like, what answer is that?
[Brandi speaking]
-[Clayton] I'm just...
-[Brandi speaking]
I don't know what to say.
I think she's probably
pissed at me
and a little bit of me
doesn't give a [bleep].
I love my brother
and I do think
that maybe he is blinded
by love a little bit.
And so he is missing
some red flags,
but I am gonna be
overprotective
always, even when he's mad.
[in Spanish]
I think since Gino had
a bachelor party already,
we should do a girls' night.
-He had one?
-[Michelle] They went out
to a strip club
the day before you came.
Hi.
I have an appointment.
[woman] Follow me, please.
Okay.
I have had so many arguments
with Gino
and I've been
going through hell
and very difficult situations
ever since I moved with Gino.
So, I'm gonna do
some pampering for myself
to take my mind
off of things.
And I'm so pissed off,
you know, that I don't care
how much it is gonna cost.
-Hey.
-Hi, my dear.
Hi. How are you?
It's so good to see you.
So nice to see you again.
I'm trying to, you know...
Having a hard time trying
to decide which should I get.
They're almost the same,
but I like that one.
Right?
Today I'm gonna be
meeting Michelle.
She is honestly
the only family member
I actually feel
comfortable with.
She's not judgmental.
She's open to get
to know me for who I am.
I used to do this
with my sisters all the time.
-[Michelle] Aw.
-[Jasmine] But I have you.
-You save me.
-[Michelle] You have me.
I am so tired.
-Yeah. Yeah.
-I bet. Cleaning Gino's house?
[Jasmine laughs] How you know?
Yes.
He didn't help?
-No.
-Ooh.
-[Jasmine] No, not at all.
-No, not at all?
[Jasmine speaking]
-It was like...
-Oh, no.
How is it going, you know,
like being together 24/7?
This is the thing.
Since I've been cleaning
the house
and I'm trying
to organize everything...
-It's there.
-[Jasmine speaking]
I think a lot of people do.
Dana has stuff.
-Really?
-[Michelle] Yeah.
And you're okay with it?
I am.
-[indistinct]
-Oh, my gosh...
I think you just need
to maybe try to trust him
a little bit more
and believe him...
In him a little bit more
because, like, he loves you.
And I think maybe for you,
maybe sometimes it's hard...
It's hard for you
to accept love.
-Yeah.
-[Michelle] And, you know...
So, maybe you need to work
on like accepting it
and believing it.
-[Jasmine] Right.
-You know?
Uh, now I feel bad.
I felt for Jasmine today
because she just
wants to feel secure.
She truly left her home
to come here and, um,
make a life with Gino.
And she found
upsetting things in his house
and he's not
communicating openly
and he needs to like
make her feel safe.
I think we should
do a girls' night.
Oh, my gosh. I will love that.
I actually used
to do that, you know...
-Yeah.
-once in a month
-with my friends.
-[Michelle] Yeah.
I miss them so badly.
Like, you guys are together
You need a break, right?
Yes. He's my personal driver.
I'm his maid, his cleaner,
-his, like, chef [indistinct]
-Yeah. You need to get away.
You need to get out
and have some fun.
[Jasmine] Yeah,
because I need a break.
Well, since Gino had
a bachelor party already,
maybe we should get
some girls, have some fun,
have some laughs.
He had one?
-He didn't tell you?
-No. He told me
that he was, like, not having
a bachelor's party
until I came
and I was gonna organize it.
He had it the day
before you came.
[Jasmine] The day before?
And what did he do?
[Michelle] They went out.
Okay, but where?
To a strip club.
[Jasmine] I need
to understand, how is it?
Like, the women
are touching them
or it's just looking
at them dancing
or they are touching them?
Do you think
a woman touched Gino?
It was a bachelor party.
I'm sure he got touched.
-[Jasmine] He got touched?
-I'm sure.
Here I am feeling guilty
for getting mad at Gino,
being very hard on myself,
blaming everything on me,
like, yes, maybe, you know,
I'm too jealous.
I have trusting issues
after finding all these
things from his exes.
But I should have
trusted my instinct
because I was right.
He's in big trouble, Michelle.
If he didn't tell you
or he didn't say
that he had one
or you told him you couldn't,
like, they had...
I mean, I can tell you
they had one.
[Jasmine] Gino is keeping
secrets from me.
I'm trying to keep it cool
in front of Michelle,
but all I wanna do
is go home and face Gino.
[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] Yeah.
You should.
How?
I'm passionate.
You're [bleep] cold.
You do it all the time.
Not just an excuse,
but okay
if that's what you wanna say.
I feel that Justin
has a way of gaslighting me
and making it like, you know,
my feelings don't matter,
they're not valid.
[Nikki] No, no, no.
My touch, I...
You feel like
I'm gonna eat you.
It's been constant, constant,
like, mess things that you say
to me to put me down.
He really goes
there with like the...
What he says to me.
You know this.
This is who I am.
It's never changed.
I'm passionate.
You're [bleep] cold.
There's just so much
I can hold until I snap.
-[sighs]
-You need a simple woman.
I am not her.
-[Justin] Okay.
-I will never be simple.
-But...
-Do you understand this?
-Okay.
-Do you understand this?
[Justin speaking]
Every time?
[sirens wailing]
I don't get it.
A robot [bleep].
-Oh, my goodness.
-[Justin] I had to...
[Nikki] Yeah. So much
you have to learn...
-hold in my head.
-[Nikki] at 36 years old.
-I'm thinking about this.
-Thirty-six years old
and you're still learning.
[Justin]
Don't push me, please.
-Don't push me.
-Don't push you.
I have many things
about what I'm thinking.
[sighs]
[Nikki] Yes.
Good. You should.
Me too.
-All of it.
-[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] How?
How?
I think the biggest problem
for me and Nikki
right now is...
[Nikki] What have
you given me?
-At this moment?
-Accepting me?
Accepting you.
[Nikki] Oh.
Now you come here
and stay like
a big problem for me.
-Okay. Perfect. Perfect.
-Try to be nice.
I'm leaving.
And you always take
everything as a [bleep] joke.
Only with jokes.
-Are you sure about that?
-[Justin speaking]
I'll meet your family
and be sweet and nice.
But honestly,
if I could go like this
and be back at home,
I would do it.
Like, that's how I feel.
[sighs]
I literally...
I just don't know
why he's with me if he has
so many [bleep] complaints
about everything.
And I'm like,
"Am I settling?"
No, I'm not settling
'cause I'm in love with him.
But is he in love with me?
Like, I don't know.
Sometimes I just feel
like so empty inside.
[sighs]
[woman] Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...
-[Devin speaking]
-[Nick] Yeah.
[Nick speaking]
[Devin speaking]
[in Spanish]
Me and Anali haven't had sex
since she's arrived,
but I'm hoping that
tonight that changes.
Cheeky, cheeky.
[Anali in Spanish]
-This is my stepfather.
-Hi.
Hi.
[in other language]
She didn't know
that Nicole is trans.
Do we have your blessing
to get married?
[in other language]
I'm just... I'm tired
of being disappointed.
I'm tired...
Oh, this is so nice.
He thinks
that like romanticness
equals something expensive.
I'm still
gonna check your phone
so that I can trust you again.
Every time
that you think about
my mistakes from the past,
remind yourself
about our potential future.
Like, you can't just like act
like nothing happened,
you know?
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]
-[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I am having revelations
in real time
how much his family
depends on him.
[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I would love to know
what you did the day
before I arrived.
-[indistinct chatter]
-[Gino] Whoa.
You act like I cheated
on you or something.
That's the way it feels.