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Julia just arrived yesterday,
And it's so great
waking up next to her.
So, how are you doing
this morning?
But my parents decide on making
us stay in separate rooms.
She's still not
kind of budging on the topic.
Hi, yara.
Jovi:
My mom and I are very close,
But I know she has some doubts
about yara being here
And us getting married.
So, we have any wedding plans?
What's the deal?
♪♪
I've been missing you.
It's been tense,
and all this quarantine,
I've been worried.
Are you still
not flying tomorrow?
During the pandemic, we're not
supposed to travel abroad.
This is not love.
♪♪
What do you think?
There you go.
♪♪
- Natalie!
- What?
Want to make some breakfast?
You want to try french toast?
It's bread with egg, cinnamon,
a little vanilla,
You dip it in, then you fry it.
Mike: So, first day at sequin
here with natalie.
I decided to show her
how to make some french toast
And cook it for her.
Yeah.
Five, six.
Did you say you're going to
wash the eggs?
Interesting.
I've always been the one
going to visit her
And see her and her culture.
So, I hope she learns
to open her mind,
Learn to appreciate
some new surroundings and stuff
Go like that. Fork in here.
And you whisk it up
a little bit.
Yeah.
That's probably good there.
Start a fire here real quick.
- It's beautiful.
- It's pretty outside, huh?
Natalie: Mm-hmm.
Slap it in there.
Yeah, don't step on that
too hard. You'll fall through.
See, we can do this
every Sunday,
Make some breakfast.
Have some nice coffee.
See yourself doing this?
Mm-hmm.
No, I'm just asking how
you feel. You know what I mean?
You're just going
to take time to adapt.
It's going to be cold. I know.
Unfortunately,
you know, it's wintertime.
I know it's going to be rough
this first week
While I'm at work
because we're still trying
To get stuff ready.
You can get yourself unpacked.
Start to get yourself organized.
To what?
Well, I mean, you can go
walk around, explore.
I could show you
how to ride the quad.
You could watch some movies,
you can relax.
Mike: It feels amazing to have
her in the house.
You know, it's a huge change,
And, you know,
she's going to miss her mom.
She's going to miss her family,
her friends.
I'm going to be at work
most of the day
She's going to be alone
by herself.
Do I know how she's going
to react to it entirely?
No, I don't.
But I can tell you that
she's going to get stressed out.
It's going to happen.
I totally understand that.
You know what I mean?
Mike: You going straight in?
Mmm.
What do you think?
Got cinnamon flavor on there.
♪♪
♪♪
[ chuckles ]
You don't like it, huh?
Um...
Just tell me honestly.
It's different?
You want to try a little syrup
so it's not so dry?
[ humming ]
[ sighs ]
You gonna clean up some carrots
and eat them?
♪♪
♪♪
Let's get you a big bag
of those carrots, huh?
♪♪
♪♪
Perfect. Perfect.
I would really like to get
that done today or tomorrow.
Yeah.
My name is stephanie, and
I'm from grand rapids, michigan.
I am right now training to do
The "guinness book
of world records"
Hula hoop championship,
which is 100 hours.
Well, that would be phenomenal.
I like to multitask,
So I hula hoop
with my glasses on.
That resets my circadian rhythm.
The bright green fluorescent
helps you sleep better at night.
Here we go.
And I like to stay young
By doing my youth serum sh*ts
every morning.
I inject myself with sermorelin.
I believe it wakes up
your pituitary and says,
"sh**t out.
Start producing what you had
Before you turned age 30."
Voilà.
Looking good and feeling good
Is a large part
of being successful.
I mean, I am the face
of my business.
Mama's got to go to work.
You know mama loves you,
okay, bubba?
Yeah. Okay.
♪♪
I'm a very
ambitious businesswoman.
I have dedicated most of my life
To owning and operating two
medical spas called skin envy.
- Hello!
- Hey.
We've got so much to go over.
We do. We do.
The main thing we focus on
is weight loss and age reversal.
What do you have for me?
Pam: You're going to want
to see this.
Ooh, what? What?
This is what was,
the sales for this week.
No kidding.
Thanks to my business, I've made
a very good life for myself.
That is unbelievable.
Thank you so much, my dear!
And I definitely have put 99.9%
into my business,
So dating has not been
at the top of my list.
I have never wanted
to get married in my life,
And I chose not to have children
Because of the tumultuous
childhood I had,
That's for sure.
♪♪
[ voice breaking ]
when I was growing up,
My dad suffered
from bipolar disorder.
So, it's very tough
when you wake up in the morning,
And you're not sure
if you're going to be loved
By your father that day or hated
by your father that day.
It wasn't his fault.
Bipolar disorder is... it's a
chemical imbalance in the brain.
He couldn't help that.
But it's definitely shaped me
as a person.
♪♪
I had an emotionally unstable
environment growing up,
So I built emotional walls
to protect myself.
Baby doll. Come see mama.
Mama's baby bird.
I have been
a lifelong bachelorette.
I know you want a treat
because you just took
Your medicines
like you're a big boy, huh?
I have never had the dream
of the big wedding,
The white picket fence,
The man who comes in
and sweeps me off my feet.
But then I met the hottest guy
I have ever dated
And the youngest guy
I've ever dated.
♪♪
Ryan is my 27-year-old fiancé
From ladyville, belize.
Before ryan,
the youngest I had ever dated
Was 20 years younger than me.
Ryan is 25 years
younger than me.
So, this is definitely
new territory.
Everybody likes
to call me a cougar,
And I'm not offended by that.
I own it.
I call ryan my cub.
So, cougar and a cub.
♪♪
I met ryan three
and a half years ago
When I was
vacationing in belize.
When I first saw ryan,
which was out on a beach,
I was very attracted to him
from the very first time
I saw his beautiful hair
blowing in the wind.
When I met ryan
on that first trip,
Everything was platonic,
But there was just something
about him that pulled me to him.
He was very intriguing to me.
I came back to michigan,
and he was just on my mind.
So, four months later,
I went back to visit him,
And that's when he and I
became a couple.
He has a phenomenal personality.
He's extremely funny.
I feel something about ryan
That I haven't felt
for others in the past.
♪♪
After dating for three years
And flying to belize
every two to three months,
We took the next step
and applied for the k-1 visa.
Pam is going to cover kalamazoo
office Monday.
I will cover grand rapids.
We did get preapproval
for ryan's visa,
But you do have to go through
The interview process
at the embassy.
And right now, the embassy
still remains closed
Due to the coronavirus.
So, I have no idea
how long this is going to take.
So, still haven't
heard from ryan.
I don't know what's going on
right now.
The challenges of being
in a long-distance relationship
Are the trust issues,
Especially when you date someone
who's 27 years old.
You wonder what they're doing
When he doesn't
answer his phone.
[ line ringing ]
Hi, dorla. How are you?
Hi, steph.
I get worried
when I don't hear from ryan,
But I call his mom
because I know he checks in
With his mom every day.
I kind of look at dorla
as my mother-in-law already,
Even though I'm five years older
than she is.
I mean, I kind of feel like
she's had more life experience
Than I have because
she's raised seven children.
How are you doing today, dorla?
I'm doing okay, steph.
Good. Good.
Just wondering if you've heard
from ryan at all today?
Okay. Okay.
Okay.
When the borders are open,
before the corona virus,
I would see ryan three,
four, five times a year.
Now that the corona virus
has hit,
I have not seen him
for nine months.
It's very frustrating
Because we are definitely
losing connection to each other.
I think he really likes
this new job. Do you?
Yes, that's exactly
my intention, too. [ laughs ]
If you hear from ryan,
please let them know
That I did try
to get a hold of him.
Okay, I love you.
Love you, too. Alright.
[ cellphone beeps ]
Well, good. At least
she's heard from him.
Let me send him a quick message.
Miss you.
Call me back... Please.
Kissy kissy. [ chuckles ]
I cannot wait
until the borders open up.
I am going to book a ticket
immediately and go see ryan.
Hey, bubba.
Sometimes I sit and think,
you know, does ryan realize
That after 52 years,
this is the first time
I'm going to be
making this sort of commitment?
You know, I never thought
I was going to let anybody in,
But I'm tearing down
this huge wall that I've built.
It's time. It's time for me
to take that risk.
Come here, sweetie pie.
Mama. Mama loves you so much.
Am I scared? I am terrified.
But if you really care
about someone,
Then you're going
to take that chance...
I love you, baby doll.
...A chance with love.
♪♪
Climb up over here.
[ laughs nervously ]
You can do it.
[ speaking russian ]
[ laughs ] julia!
♪♪
♪♪
What'd you pack in here,
your whole life?
Hey, guys, you ready? Yes.
We need to hurry up
and get home.
So, you about finished
packing up?
- Yeah.
- Alright.
Well, as soon you guys are done,
meet us in the hall.
We'll head down to the car
and head to the farm.
Brandon: After julia arrived,
we spent a weekend in d.C.
With my parents,
and now we're heading back
To the family farm
where we're going to be living.
Alright, let's go.
Next stop, north dinwiddie,
virginia. [ chuckles ]
How long?
It'd probably take you an hour.
We can get you a bicycle.
Yeah, that's
what I was thinking.
[ chuckles nervously ]
Look! Here we are.
Ron: There are the horses.
We're home.
Julia: Ohh!
[ laughs ]
♪♪
Betty: Welcome home, julia.
Come on, julia.
Let's show you some farm.
♪♪
[ laughs ]
No!
Am I? Yes.
Okay.
I feel, this moment,
my heart very happy.
Now, we're together,
we not need move.
We don't need to go home.
Don't need go, like,
another country.
We stay together and be fine.
And there you go, brandon.
Put boots on, boy.
We're back on the farm.
[ sheep bleats ]
Here, julia.
Go ahead and give that to him.
Just hold your hand this way.
[ laughter ]
Want to go see some of the rest
of the animals?
We're here at the farm,
And she's had an awesome
reaction to it so far.
We shed a few tears,
and I just love that.
It makes me feel like, you know,
She's really
going to be happy here.
Her positivity and attitude
makes me feel probably 80% sure
That will make it,
and makes me feel positive
Looking forward.
This is where...
That's where they roost,
And this is where you get
the eggs in the morning.
They'll lay them back here.
Yeah, that's where
they lay their eggs.
And in the morning,
make sure they have fresh water
And they have food
in their bucket.
Here, you want to try?
No. No. It doesn't hurt at all.
He's not going to hurt you.
Here. I'll do it with you.
I'll do it with you. It's okay.
[ laughing nervously ]
it's okay.
Come on. Let's do it together
[ laughs ]
And tomorrow, you get to get
the eggs and feed them.
Okay?
[ laughter ]
What does that mean?
What you could do
is when you get their attention,
Just go ahead and let him eat it
out of your hand.
No, don't take it away from him!
They'll be jumping over.
Go ahead. Just put it down low.
Come on valentine. Come on.
Why are you a meanie?
Look, she's got it.
This little one.
So, do you have any questions?
[ laughter ]
[ laughter ]
Climb up over here.
[ laughing nervously ]
You can do it.
Brandon will help you.
Come on. I'll help you over.
There you go.
Your inner farm girl's
coming out.
Shh! Shh! Quiet!
[ speaking russian ]
Brandon: Come on. Here. Take it.
[ laughing nervously ]
[ laughs ] julia!
Look at that. He's hungry.
He wants you to feed him.
Come on.
Just go put it in the bucket
over there.
Betty: It's okay, julia.
He wants to be friendly.
He wants to be your friend.
He wants you to feed him.
[ laughter ]
Tomorrow, don't forget...
You set to climb over and go in
And put their food
in their bowls, and they'll eat.
They won't hurt you, I promise.
Tomorrow, you got this.
You can do it!
You can do it. I promise.
We'll work up to it.
Ron: Piece of cake.
Julia, I want you to meet aspen.
Yeah, let's come up
towards the house now.
And here's aspen.
Oh, my gosh. You are so pretty!
Good job!
Betty: Aspen is a really,
really close friend.
We've known each other
for many years,
And when we travel, she stays at
the farm and helps us out
And takes care of the animals.
And I'm really glad
that she's gonna be staying
At the farm tonight because we
have to go to work tomorrow,
And, so, she's gonna be there
to show julia around.
Start teaching her everything
we have to do.
There's things
that need to get done,
And she's hopefully gonna
pitch in and help.
No better time than the present
to get your hands dirty
And have a little fun.
[ laughs ]
Yeah.
You want to see something else
really interesting?
Oh, gosh. Look.
[ laughs nervously ]
You never know what you're gonna
see on this farm.
It's a hairless cat.
She's hairless,
so she has to be wrapped up.
What's wrong?
Oh, my boots. I'm dirty.
[ laughter ]
Welcome to farm life.
Rebecca: It's been five days
since zied went
To his final interview
for his k-1 visa.
I mean, at this point,
every 5 to 10 minutes,
I'm refreshing this web page
to see if it has an update.
It has been absolute t*rture.
Oh, my god!
♪♪
Jovi: I want yara to be happy
at the end of the day,
But it's also my apartment, so
I want to have a little say-so
On what we get, too.
I don't like this rug. I'm not
putting it in my apartment.
Yeah
♪♪
♪♪
It's been five days
since zied went
To his final interview
for his k-1 visa,
And it has been absolute t*rture
every single minute,
Waiting for the response
from the tunisian embassy.
We hoped that at least we would
have one answer, yes or no,
So it's just been really,
really tough.
The uscis. Gov website will
actually give you a case status
And let you know exactly
what's going on with your case.
So, that's what
I've just been checking.
Every time I look at it,
it just says,
"administrative processing."
When I'm not working,
this is this is my hobby
Right now,
checking this website.
I definitely feel better
having something to do
That makes me feel not quite
so helpless
About the whole situation.
Are you kidding? Come on!
If zied's visa is denied,
I'm just going to feel like
All of this waiting was
for nothing.
I've just been in limbo
for a year
Waiting on him to be here,
And the fact that everything
is hinging right now
On whether the embassy
thinks that our love is real,
That's really hard to take.
♪♪
Oh, my god!
Oh, my god.
"what kind of instructions
did you not receive?"
Oh, my god.
His case is approved.
I've been checking it
all morning,
And it's been saying,
"in administrative processing,"
And now it says right across
the top my case was approved.
I need to call zied.
Oh, my god. I'm shaking.
[ exhales deeply ]
Man: That's fantastic.
He's going to be in america now.
Oh, my god.
I am so happy.
I don't even know...
I don't remember the last time
I was this happy.
Zied: Hi, baby.
Hey, baby, guess what.
I'm good. Guess what.
What?
You know I've been checking
the website so much
To see if your visa is approved?
What?
Your visa is approved!
[ laughs ]
Yes! You're coming to america.
You're so happy? Whoo!
[ both laugh ]
You're going to be
with me soon, baby.
Yeah. Yeah.
Okay, baby. I'm on my way
to work in a few minutes,
But I will call
you soon, okay, babe?
Okay. Bye, baby.
You're welcome.
Bye, baby. Bye, baby.
This, honestly, has been
the culmination of two years
Worth of paperwork
and phone calls.
It finally feels real
that we're going to be
A normal couple
and just be together every day.
It's going to be interesting
to see how zied meshes
With my family and my friends.
But the next goal is
I have to move
And make sure that zied
has a home to come here to.
♪♪
♪♪
Yeah.
[ chuckles ] yeah, okay.
Last weekend,
we went to visit my mom.
Yeah, I felt pretty relieved
To know that everything
went smooth enough,
That there wasn't any conflict,
And everybody just got along,
You know,
it was a good first meeting,
And hopefully there's only
progress from this point on.
We'll see. Alright.
What? Tell me.
They're nice plates.
They're expensive plates.
It's better than the [bleep]
you had in your apartment.
Jovi: Now that we're back home
in new orleans,
Yara's not so thrilled about
the way our apartment looks.
So, today we're going
to go furniture shopping.
I know it's something important
for her,
And I want her to be happy.
♪♪
Yeah? Ugly [bleep]
Thanks a lot.
- Hello.
- Hello. How are you doing?
What brings y'all in today?
Looking for a mirror
and a rug, mostly.
Maybe a couple of small things.
Okay.
So, I need a new mirror.
I no knew there was not even
old mirror.
I just need a mirror.
And we need to change the rug.
Actually, we need to change...
There's so much things.
But that's what
we will go to get today.
Okay, well,
this is not a floor mirror,
But it seems kind of fancy.
You seem kind of
a fancy type of girl.
Yes, I like this mirror.
And you can hang it
however you like.
Jovi: Soon as we get in
the store, yara starts saying,
"oh, yeah, we need all this.
We need a new sofa.
We need a new rug.
We need a new bed."
I'm like [bleep]
I came here for a 10 minute
pick up to grab a mirror
And get out of here.
Never mind a table.
Let's just get out of here.
You need a snickers
or something?
No, I need to get out of here.
[ laughs ]
And what were y'all budget
looking like today?
Like, how much or what were
y'all looking to do?
Oh, I guess with her,
I don't really have a choice.
She wants to redecorate
everything.
It sounds like it.
I think I want to get
whatever you want
So I can get out of this store.
[ chuckles ] typical man.
I have what I need,
and I'm comfortable. I'm good.
So, what part of town
do y'all live?
Uptown? Downtown?
Downtown. Warehouse district.
Oh, that's nice.
Yeah, she don't think so.
Huh? That's the nicest part
of new orleans.
Our apartment's "too small."
You ain't got much to work with
around here.
Warehouse district? No.
That's nice.
That's really, really nice.
So, "stop complaining" is
pretty much what she's saying.
Rug.
Learn your english.
Oh, my goodness.
Now, you can't be mean
like that.
I can be when this is
what I got to deal with.
Unh-unh, there's
no excuse for that.
None.
If yara was my friend,
I'll tell her to slow down,
'cause he might not be
the one he.
You know, he's a little snippy,
so I'm not used to that.
I don't like all the sparkly
[bleep] on the rug.
Why? We like it.
Okay, I don't like it at all.
I don't want this sparkly rug
in my apartment.
I'm not putting that
in my apartment.
You have to make her happy.
I'm sorry.
I don't like this rug. I'm not
putting it in my apartment.
Yeah.
Where are you going?
You can't say
"your apartment" anymore.
She just moved here.
♪♪
Jovi: Oh, well.
You have to go apologize.
Why? Because!
What, you mad now?
Why? 'cause I don't
like the rug?
I don't like the rug.
Get a white-colored rug
and get those pillows.
You serious?
♪♪
Jovi: I think I'm being
sensitive enough to yara.
I want yara to be happy
at the end of the day,
But it's also my apartment,
So I want to have a little
say-so on what we get, too.
What can I do
if I don't like the rug?
You think I'm going
to put this ugly rug in my house
And have two ugly rugs?
I agree with you.
Okay, I agree
a white rug would look nice.
I already told you we can buy
a white rug,
But if it's not one I like,
why would I buy it?
Oh, my god.
You're ridiculous.
♪♪
Don't appreciate what?
Your bad taste for this rug?
♪♪
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[ woman speaking french
over p.A. ]
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I am excited to go to mexico,
and I'm excited to see amira.
I'm excited to spend 14 days
on a beach resort
With the one that I love.
But, really, I can't wait
to bring her back to america
And start our 90 days together.
♪♪
Hey, mom.
Let's go.
♪♪
♪♪
It stresses me out
that amira and I have not
Been together
in over six months.
It's tough to be apart,
especially during this pandemic.
So, if we don't take
some sort of risk
And get amira to america,
We are ultimately not going
to be able to use the visa.
But amira is worth every risk
I could possibly take.
Our love is worth it to me.
♪♪
Seven of cups.
This is you, all the treasures,
All the joy,
but look at up here.
There's a snake there.
You've got to keep
an eye on him.
Stephanie:
I'm worried these cards are
Picking up on my energy
and not ryan's
Because I have a skeleton
in my closet, too.
♪♪
♪♪
Stephanie:
Come here, turkey bird.
[ cat meows ]
Is my baby ready
for his key-lime yogurt.
That's your favorite.
♪♪
What are you going to think
about having
A daddy in the house?
You going to like
having ryan here?
Ryan is my 27-year-old fiancé
from ladyville, belize.
We did get preapproval
for ryan's k-1 visa.
We're to come
to the united states,
But everything has been halted
due to the coronavirus.
So, I can't get to belize,
he can't get to america.
So, our relationship is totally
in limbo right now.
Guess who's coming over,
big boy?
Maria's coming. Whoopsie!
This whole process has caused
so much stress
And there's been many times
recently when I've called,
And he doesn't answer.
So, today, I am inviting
my friend and psychic
Over to do a reading for me.
Hello. Hi.
So glad to see you.
I mean, I've always believed
That a lot of people
have that gift,
But she's the real deal.
I'm getting the wine.
Make mine a double.
Okay.
She's told me enough things
that have happened
That no one would ever know.
So, I listen to her
wholeheartedly.
Oh, cheers. Cheers.
And I need maria's skill set now
More than ever
to help calm my nerves.
Alright, I got my cards.
Okay. Alright.
What is it today
that you need to know?
I mean, I'm going to be
leaving for belize
As soon as the borders open.
And how many gifts
did you pack him this time?
Well, I bought him
a [bleep] ton,
But I can't
I can't take him everything.
Are you still
buying him watches?
Yes. Yes, I know.
I know. I know.
Maria: I knew stephanie
way before she met ryan.
She's a very sensitive soul.
She graciously gives of herself,
and I'm really, really worried
That her heart's going to
get broken.
[ cellphone ringing ]
There's ryan calling now.
Hey, dear.
I love your hair.
It's getting long. Yay!
So, where have you been all day?
Okay.
I choose to try
not to think too much
About what's going on
over there.
I mean, I don't believe it
because there's many times
If he's just fishing
or with his buddies,
He'll answer and say,
"hey, what's up?"
Sweetie, I want you to meet
a friend of mine.
Maria's my psychic.
We'll be meeting up, I'm sure.
I'm sure I'm anxious
to have a sit down with you.
Yes.
I'll be keeping
an eye on you, yes.
Of course I am.
As soon as the borders open,
I'm packing our stuff.
[ laughs ]
He's got her twisted
around his finger
And she's all giddy
and all happy, and that's great.
I love to see
my friends like that.
I know. I miss you, too.
I love you, too.
I just see something
in his eyes.
Is he really with stephanie
Because he's madly in love
with her, or is he madly in love
With all the stuff
that she can bring him?
Well. [ chuckles ]
Now you get to see him,
you got to hear his voice.
He is a very likable man.
But there is something
in his eyes,
He likes that attention.
Oh, he loves attention.
So, we'll see.
We'll see what the cards say.
So, pick three altogether.
[ sighs ] okay.
♪♪
Thank you.
Alright.
Okay, so, the first card.
Oh, wow.
This is so accurate.
This is you going on a journey.
And you're apprehensive,
but excited at the same time.
Alright, the second card
that you chose.
This is not necessarily
the best card in the deck.
The chariot.
There is another woman
around him.
And I'm being objective.
There's no other way
I could read this card.
It shows two completely
different women in his life.
Stephanie: Even though
I love ryan with all my heart.
We've also had
a lot of trust issues.
♪♪
Maria actually told me
a few years back that ryan
Was still talking
to his ex-girlfriend.
He swore up and down
that's just totally not true.
But I have picked up
his phone before.
He's texting multiple women.
So, like, wow. This is not
the person I thought I knew.
And that was that
was really tough on me.
It was really tough.
♪♪
Alright, the last card
that you drew...
Seven of cups.
This is you,
all the treasures, all the joy,
But look at up here.
There's a snake there.
There's something around you.
There's some deception.
And I'm telling you now...
You've got to keep
an eye on him.
While I'm concerned
about ryan's infidelity,
I'm worried these cards
are picking up on my energy
And not ryan's 'cause I have
a skeleton in my closet, too,
Something I have not told ryan.
♪♪
There's one thing I really,
Really need to talk
to you about.
When I was there
about a year and a half ago,
I caught him again on the phone
with three different women.
I threw ryan out that night,
and I was crying.
Right after, his cousin
harris called me,
And I slept with his cousin.
♪♪
Basically, it was "over"
between ryan and I.
Yeah. Yeah. But that's...
Alright, then. I don't know.
[ sighs ] oh, god.
I'm just not... you know me.
I'm just... I'm such
an honest person.
And, again, I would have
never slept with his cousin
Had I not found, you know,
All of those other texts
and everything.
I was angry about
so many things that night,
And harris is just such
a loving person,
I mean, he really, truly cares.
And I said, "I've got to be
getting on a plane tomorrow.
I'm going home.
I can't deal with this."
And he said, "no. No. No. Stay.
Let me come let me come visit."
You know, one thing led
to another with harris.
And then after that,
ryan and I end up back together,
But I've never told him
about harris.
I have been holding
this secret from ryan.
You guys both have a lot
to come clean about,
And harris is probably going to
be blabbing at some point.
You know, obviously,
you may have to say something.
[ sighs ]
This would k*ll ryan to know,
But if I'm going to bring him
to the united states
With the k-1 visa,
I want to move forward
With a clean slate,
so I need to come clean
About his cousin harris,
And I'm not sure
if our relationship will survive
When he finds out the truth.
♪♪
What's wrong?
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Mike: Today, game plan is
to take natalie to town
Just to get a little sense
of her directions
And her bearings and stuff.
I'm going to be at work
most of the day.
I'm gone
before she even wakes up
And come back sometimes
It's going to be hard.
She's gonna be alone by herself.
There's going to be no one there
on the mountain.
On top of that, we still have
some [bleep] to work on,
Some serious [bleep] you know?
I can't give you
an official answer
On how we're going to work
on those things.
♪♪
So, nighttime was
a little different, right?
The end of the woods?
The woods never end here.
When it comes a little warmer,
I'll take you to creek,
And you can catch
a little rainbow trout.
How about that?
So, like, in the woods there,
There's a small thing
called a creek, and it's water
And so you can go fishing in it.
When it gets a little warmer,
I could take you in the woods,
And I could show you
what I'm talking about.
[ chuckles ]
You don't have to catch a fish.
I'm just asking
have you ever fished before.
Oh, okay.
We'll just go through town
right now.
I'd like to show you
a little bit here and there.
Perfect timing right now.
The sun's out.
It looks nice, you know?
This is the co-op
where my dad worked and ran
For 25 years here.
Mm-hmm.
They got little antique shops
And gift shops
and stuff like this.
They got nice clothes
and stuff, you know?
Just more, like, home town,
small stuff, you know?
I never seen that one.
It's very far...
A two-, three-hour drive.
I think probably the weekend
after would be better.
That way, we could spend
some time there, you know?
It's just really short notice.
Yeah, we can't go this
coming weekend,
Today's, Sunday, so, Friday,
We can't go this coming Friday,
this coming weekend,
But next weekend we can.
It's such short notice.
Yeah.
[ sighs ] alright, look, listen.
So, I can't get Friday off.
I would have to go to work
and then drive all the way back
To get you,
and then drive all the way back.
Does that makes sense?
Hey, baby.
Are you okay?
Babe, we can't go
in four days, love.
I'm sorry.
♪♪
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But this is the big
shopping center here.
There are some nice restaurants
and stuff over there.
This is where I go
get my hair cut over here.
It's nice to get out here
and walk around.
Want to check it out?
♪♪
Mike: Natalie got this little
on and off switch.
She goes quiet quite often,
And it's sometimes
really tough to figure out.
So, I mean, I just take it
as she's processing something.
What's wrong?
Hmm?
You got to use your words here.
What's wrong?
♪♪
♪♪
♪♪
[ crying ]
I'm not asking you to talk about
a specific subject.
All you're telling me
is you're cold.
Mnh-mnh.
♪♪
[ line ringing ]
Trying to figure out
what I'm going to do.
[ speaking arabic ]
♪♪
♪♪
[ chuckles ]
[ speaking arabic ]
♪♪
I had it in morocco.
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Just landed here.
I'm really excited,
a little nervous
Stepping off the plane
at puerto vallarta,
My my heart is b*ating so fast.
We've been apart
for so many months,
And now I'm going to get to see
her in just a couple of hours.
This is quite a journey.
It's very exhausting,
But I'm sure amira's had a very
exhausting journey, as well,
And I can't wait for us
just to be together.
The plan is for amira and I
to meet at the airport
In puerto vallarta.
We're going to quarantine
in mexico for the next 14 days.
Then we'll fly home
to california,
And we're going to start
our lives together.
[ cellphone beeping ]
[ line ringing ]
I am absolutely devastated at
the news that I just received.
Amira's parents told me that...
They told me that amira is
detained in mexico city,
And I have no idea where or who
or how or what or...
I don't know what's happening.
[ line ringing ]
[ speaking spanish ]
I did a lot of research
on this loophole through mexico.
It looked like a way
it looked like a path
In order to make it happen.
So, I am incredibly confused
About why
she was really detained.
Trying to figure out
what I'm going to do.
I looked into
the french embassy,
And I don't believe
they're open over the weekend.
I just... I don't know.
I am lacking in leads.
I'm lacking in...
Confidence in my ability
to figure out where she is.
I'm very worried.
♪♪
I don't know what to do.
I have a reservation
over at the resort.
I'm going to go over there,
set up shop,
And see if I can figure out
some information.
♪♪
I've seen the detention centers
in the united states,
And they look
absolutely horrible.
And for her to be in a situation
that may be similar to that,
It leads me to feel great pain.
♪♪
I just arrived at our hotel.
I have probably had
one of the [bleep] days
I've had it a long time.
♪♪
I need a drink.
♪♪
[ car horn honks ]
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[ car door shuts ]
[ beep ]
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So, you're not, you can't
respect my opinion at all
In the furniture store
Because I didn't want to buy
the same rug as you, like,
You can't respect my opinions?
[ can lid snaps ]
That I didn't like the rug
that you wanted.
'cause I did not like the rug.
You have a place to live,
don't you?
♪♪
In our apartment. Ok, I know
I said your apartment,
But I don't see what's the
big deal. It's our apartment.
Hey, I meant...
♪♪
You know, I've been doing a lot.
I've been trying to move
into this apartment so fast.
I've been trying to...
Yeah, okay, the stuff,
You might not like it,
but I still had to move it in,
I had to organize it,
I had to try to make things look
half decent before you arrived,
So just please try to understand
that it's not... It's not like
I've just been sitting at home
doing nothing.
♪♪
I really want you to understand
that I'm sorry
For whatever happened
in a store today,
I didn't really...
I didn't want you to be upset,
I didn't want you
to be angry with me,
For sure not storm out
in the street like you did.
Alright, you know what?
We're going to get
what you want.
I'll order all this stuff online
And we'll have it
in a couple of days.
You can choose what you want,
and then we'll go from there.
Ok. Drop it. I'll take it to the
trash now, no big deal.
Ok.
I realize that yara's
in a position now
That she has nobody to go to...
If something goes wrong for her,
She has to come to me.
I have to be accommodating
To the fact that
she's just moving here.
I have to understand
she's not completely happy.
But at the same time,
she needs to understand, like,
She just moved there and she
needs to compromise to me too.
I put in a lot of effort
into this relationship,
As much as she did.
Like, everything I do
Is basically to make her
feel more comfortable.
Better now?
Yeah. Bicycle is going to be
a couple days.
I'll find my lock.
Ok. I'm sorry. Come here.
Ok. Understand.
Ok. I'm sorry.
Understand.
Mom: How about if we show
you your room?
How cute!
I think maybe that we should
keep talking about it
And maybe you'll
change your mind.
♪♪
♪♪
Welcome to your new home, julia!
We have iguanas.
Dad: [ laughs ]
So let's continue our tour.
Here's brandon's room first.
[ gasping ]
[ laughter ]
Oh, no! No! [ laughter ]
What's that? Nothing, nothing!
Are you serious?
[ laughter ]
Oh! Ooh, no. No.
[ laughter ]
Apparently, they weren't going
to be as responsible as need be.
So that's just your role
as a parent.
Well, you know what?
How about if we show you
Your room.
How cute!
Very nice!
Home is wherever I'm with you.
Do you like this room? Yes...
Think you're gonna be
happy in here?
If you're done, we can go look
at the rest of the house now.
One thing I will show you,
this is not a trash can.
[ gasps ]
[ laughter ]
This has crickets in it.
No! [ laughter ]
It's the chameleon's food.
Oh, this is...
No, they don't jump out.
They won't jump out.
Do you want to touch one?
[ laughs ] just kidding.
No, no. It's okay.
I'll teach you how to feed
the chameleon later.
Alright, betty. I'm going to go
start cooking some steaks.
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Looking forward
to an american dinner, yes?
Ugh.
Julia, how do you like
your steak? Do you like it
Well done? Medium rare?
How do you like it?
All right.
Red in the middle? Mm-hmm?
Or all the way darker?
Darker. Okay, so that tells me
what I need then.
Do you like this kind of
salad dressing?
Do you like
balsamic vinaigrette?
Dad: You don't know?
Do you like vinegar
and oil on your salad?
Well, you can try it.
Maybe you'll like it.
Dad: Say grace. Say grace.
Oh.
Bless us, oh, lord, in these,
our gifts, which we are about
To receive, the bounty of
christ, our lord, amen.
And thank you, lord,
for julia's arrival.
We look forward to having her
become a member of the family,
And we hope she embraces
and loves the farm
As much as we do. Amen.
- Amen.
- Amen.
That was great.
No?
It's some new traditions
for you.
So after everything you've seen
on the farm today,
Is there anything that you think
that you wouldn't ever be able
To warm up to
or be comfortable with?
We're out in the country
and there are deer,
There are a lot of different
animals out here
That are wild animals.
It's, you know,
Part of farm life.
Yeah. She's scared
to sleep alone.
Yeah, tonight you have to be
in your room
And he has to be in his room.
She said that no.
Yeah.
Yeah, she said no.
But you're not married yet.
I mean, I would think,
I would think...
That you would feel
weird sleeping together in...
His family house, his family...
Without being married.
With us being in the same house
Like one room away.
Don't you think it's just like,
Really, we need to get married?
Don't you feel weird about...
I think maybe that we should
keep talking about it
And maybe you'll
change your mind?
No.
This is serious.
I know you're trying
to make light of it
Because it's an uncomfortable
situation for you.
We understand that. Ok.
So it's not a joke.
This is not a joke. All right.
Don't make it a joke. Ok.
We thought we had it
all kind of straightened out
And everybody
was cool with everything,
And then all of a sudden
it rears its ugly head again.
Pushing the envelope.
Brandon was, like,
not paying attention.
And he needs to push back on her
a little bit,
Saying, "this is my family,
this is my mom, this is my dad.
This is a matter of respect."
and I agree.
He needs to take
a little bit of a stance here,
And I think he understands that.
But there's no bending
on this side. Trust me.
None.
Announcer: Next time on
"90 day fiancé..."
I cannot say for sure yes
or no right now.
[ pig oinking ]
[ chicken clucking, screams ]
[ pig oinks ]
Julia. Your neck.
A lot of russian women
promise sex,
Everything that goes with it
to attract them.
You did not. Brandon!
Do you know how much money
I have into the process of this
Whole k-1 visa?
I mean, thousands of dollars.
If brian does have
alternative motives,
Then where does
that leave stephanie?
Yeah, but your parents
are in the philippines.
Meditation. Stained glass.
Couldn't you see yourself
getting married here?
♪♪
I'm leaving for work
for a month...
It's going to be
a little bit tough.
She just got here two weeks ago.
She's going to be on her own.