[woman] Previously on
What about me that I'm leaving
my whole [bleep] life
just to be with you?
I'm always gonna be the bad guy
when it comes to me
and his family.
Tell me why I saw
Sophie on Bumble?
[Rob] She said she was
just trying to find friends
in America while she was here.
[man] She's on dating apps,
she's doing a lot of things that make
me feel like she's not really here for Rob.
Um, there is something, like,
he doesn't know about me.
Basically, um, I'm bisexual.
I've always known that I
was attracted to women.
But, we only have a
short time to get married,
so I have to figure out what
I wanna do with that fact.
Fifteen years ago, our
first K-1 visa was approved.
But, we had some issues.
What happened the first time?
It was like...
And he freaked.
Fifteen years forward,
he did tell me that
I'm the love of his life
and he proposed to me.
But, I've noticed that
he will not pleasure me.
Lovemaking was, in two-and-a-half
weeks maybe four times.
No it's not. No, it's not.
If you can accept me,
then you accept me.
If you can't, c'est la vie.
I sent him a message two hours
ago and he still hasn't gotten it.
Manuel's never been
outside of Ecuador
and he doesn't speak English.
His visa expires tomorrow.
If he's not on the plane,
what happens then?
- Oh my God, I'm freaking out.
- [Sienna speaking over phone]
I'm freaking out.
- [sighs heavily] Oh my God.
- [Sienna speaking]
- Oh my God.
- [Sienna over phone] Hold it in.
Oh my God, I'm freaking
out. I'm freaking out.
Oh my God. [groans]
[Sienna] Okay, breathe in.
Oh my God, I'm ugly crying.
Oh my God, I cannot... my makeup.
My makeup, my makeup, my
makeup, my makeup, my makeup.
Ugh, give me the [bleep] ticket.
Okay.
- [Sienna speaking]
- Oh my God.
[Sienna speaking]
[whimpers]
[sighs] Okay.
[Sienna] You got
this, you got this.
- Just breathe, don't even think about it.
- I'm a strong as bitch.
[Sienna speaking]
Okay.
- [Sienna] You got this.
- Okay.
Manuel is supposed to
be arriving to Rochester.
But, Manuel and I have no
contact for like, six or seven hours.
[sighs deeply]
Is he on the plane? Is he gonna
get here? Did he miss his flight?
Did he get stuck in immigration?
Did they not let him through?
Did they give him a hard
time because literally, his...
His visa expires the next day?
I am tweaking,
because I don't have any
control over this situation.
Okay.
[breathes deeply]
[tearfully] I am like, overcome
with emotion right now
and I cannot even handle life.
- [sighs] Okay... - [Sienna]
Breathe, just breathe, just breathe.
- Oh my God.
- [Sienna] That's a lot.
Am I legit having
a panic att*ck?
I'm feeling, like,
tingly right now.
Okay.
Okay.
Bring the tissues.
- [Sienna] I'm bringing the medicine first.
- Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Oh my God.
I'm freaking the
[bleep] out right now.
Oh, there you are, oh my God.
I can't keep it together,
I'm freaking out.
- [Ashley crying] -
Stop crying, stop.
- You gotta hold it
together... - [crying]
- You... you have to hold it together.
- Oh, I can't breathe.
- I gotta breathe, I gotta breathe.
- You gotta breathe.
In through your nose, out
through your mouth, hold it in.
In through your nose,
out through your mouth,
control it, in through your nose.
I should've worn a
grounding crystal today.
It just hit her finally,
'cause I feel like before,
she was definitely in a
state of, "Oh, but it's fine,
everything's gonna be great."
And then now, it's actually
here and happening
and she's like,
"[bleep] it's here, it's real
and it's all... it's
all happening."
All right.
Okay.
[Ashley] Where do
we even find him?
- [Sienna] Uh...
- [Ashley] I don't know.
Just breathe, just breathe.
You're moving a mile a minute.
[Ashley] He was
supposed to land...
Wait, okay, that's
baggage claim four.
Okay, okay, okay, I
think that's his flight.
- Okay, Ashley, hold on. Breathe.
- Breathe. Breathe.
If they have a baggage claim
number, that means they landed.
[Sienna] Okay.
- Oh my God, you're squeezing me.
- [Ashley] Okay.
[Sienna] Okay.
He's gonna come out
of... out through here,
- he's gonna come out through here.
- I know.
[Ashley] So, I'm waiting in
front of the baggage claim,
'cause I know when his
flight's supposed to land.
But, I literally have no clue
if he made his connections,
what's going on, I
don't know where he is.
I'm just gonna
hope for the best.
I hope he's on this flight,
what if he's not on this flight?
He's gonna be on this
flight, what are you doing?
[Ashley] I need to see him
get... come down that escalator.
It takes a minute, you
know that, it takes a minute.
He's on that flight.
He's on that plane.
[both exclaiming]
[emotionally] Ohh!
- [Ashley sobbing
softly] - [Sienna chuckles]
[speaking other language]
[Ashley sobbing]
[both speaking other language]
[both chuckling]
[Manuel speaking other language]
[Ashley sighs heavily]
[in English] For him to
come down those stairs,
through those gates in my city,
oh my God.
Words can't express the level
of relief I felt in that moment.
[whispering] Oh my God.
[speaking other language]
[both laugh]
[Manuel speaking]
[Sienna speaking other language]
[Manuel speaking]
- [in English] I made it.
- [Manuel and Ashley chuckle]
[Manuel speaking other
language] Bienvenido...
a America.
America.
[laughs]
♪ Don't feel ♪
♪ Don't feel, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
♪ Don't feel ♪
♪ Don't feel ♪
♪ Don't feel, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
I'm hoping that I could bring
some fabulosity to Moldova. [laughs]
Because the last time I was
there, it seemed kinda boring.
[doorbell rings]
[Nikki] Mom.
It's been nine long months
since I've seen
my fiancé Justin.
I am going to Moldova tomorrow
and my mom's on her way
to help me pack up before I go.
- Hi.
- Hi, honey.
- How are you?
- [Nikki] Hello, how are you?
- How're you doing?
- [Nikki] I'm good.
- Haven't seen you since...
- How was the traffic?
Oh, bad.
- Yeah?
- Especially by the Lincoln Tunnel.
Hi, Vicious.
[Nikki] My mother is supportive
in my relationship with Justin.
I think it's a little
bit funny and ironic
because 15 years ago, when
Justin came to the United States
under the K-1 visa,
she was like, "Kick his ass to
the curb and send his ass back."
So, it's funny... [laughs]
it's funny how the tables turn
and I'm more careful of what's
gonna happen with the relationship
and she's more hopeful.
Here, give me a hug.
- Hah, packing.
- How are you, mama?
- How you been?
- Love you.
- [Myrna] What're you doing?
- [Nikki] I'm packing.
[Myrna] Oh, do you want...
Do you need some help?
Probably, but I don't
even know what to pack.
My connection with my mother
took a very, very,
very long time
to get to where it's today.
Initially, when I told my mother
that I wanted to transition,
she said she
would not accept it.
She gave birth to a boy,
and she thought I
was gonna be a freak.
Imagine being 17-years-old,
and...
hearing from your parent
that they won't accept you.
For the life that you felt
you should've been born
from the very beginning.
So, from the time of
my mother and I didn't speak.
Of course, she
accepted me years ago,
and now we're
like this, you know.
My mom loves me
and accepts me as her daughter,
and sometimes, it takes time.
- You're taking this?
- [Nikki] Yes.
- Why?
- Okay.
This too?
- Yeah.
- Wow.
- It's very exotica,
but... - Very sexy.
[Nikki] I mean, listen,
I'm all about fashion
- and this is how I am and he knows that.
- [Myrna] Well...
He knows that, but does he
want you to be toned down
- or do... I mean, are you gonna
compromise or... - [Nikki] It's... [sighs]
I'm gonna compromise with him
you know, like, I'm
gonna meet his mother,
- I gotta show you what I'm gonna wear.
- [Myrna] Okay.
I always worry
wherever she goes.
I'm worried that, uh,
they're not very accepting
of trans women,
and so, I'm concerned
about her safety.
And also her feelings.
How do you feel
about this whole thing?
Going there and meeting...
- Not meeting, but seeing...
- Second time.
His parents for the second time.
How do you feel? Are you
feeling nervous, anxious?
I'm feeling nervous, anxious,
all of it.
When I see his mother for
the first time in like, forever...
- Right. Right.
- It's just such a big shock for them to hear
uh, that their son loves,
or is in love with
a trans woman.
Uh, it's not the easiest thing.
They didn't know the first time.
Now, they'll know
the second time.
Is she accepted, um,
- meeting you... -
She accepted it to him,
but I don't know
how they're gonna be
- in person.
- React to you.
People are very
different, you know...
It's a whole different ballgame
when you actually meet the person.
Right.
[Nikki] So, I don't know
how they're gonna react.
- I know it's not an easy thing,
I mean... [Myrna] Mmm-hm.
- It wasn't easy for you.
- No, it wasn't.
When Nicole was younger,
and she was going
through her changes, um,
I was not there.
I'm gonna... I'm
gonna admit that.
[sniffles]
And it's not that
I didn't love her.
[crying] I didn't understand.
- Do you want a coffee?
- [Myrna] I do, I do. Thank you.
I regret and I will regret
it for the rest of my life.
And, um, I hope
that Justin's parents
and Justin, will love
her and accept her.
When you get there, I think that
you will get a better perspective
of what's surrounding him
and what's happening there.
I just hope he's ready because
right now I see how he's reacting
of me coming there to
his country for three weeks.
And I see how his
friends is closing,
and they're retracting and walking
away from him, and it's upsetting.
[Nikki] Justin told me himself
that he's getting
a lot of rejection
and pushback from his friends.
It makes me feel sad.
It makes me feel like
sometimes like a disease.
Like, why are they treating him
like this for his choice to be with me?
Since I was little, I
always battled depression.
- And I just think this is part of the moment.
- I know.
But the good part is
he is telling his parents
that you're trans,
that he loves you,
and he's also telling his
friends that you're trans.
So he wouldn't have gone
that far if he didn't love you.
I just feel like he's
being apprehensive
because this is a small country.
Maybe he's afraid for himself,
he's afraid for you. I don't know.
Do you know what I mean?
So we don't know what
kind of hate is out there.
[cries]
And I know that you're
going through a lot of stress.
[sniffs]
I'm just, it's a lot. [cries]
[sniffs]
[sniffs]
You just have to understand
that it's okay, Mama.
It's okay.
- [sniffs] - I think you're
gonna get married,
and you're gonna
have a good life,
and he's gonna love you,
- and you're gonna love him.
- [sniffs]
There's a lot of changes coming.
- He made the first step.
- [sniffs]
And that's telling his parents.
They're gonna accept
you. They want to see you.
Think positive. Everything's gonna
be fine. Everything's gonna be okay.
The K-1 visa is
about to be approved.
And this trip for
me is so important
[sighs] because there's just so
many things we need to discuss.
Everything that I need
in a man and a husband,
I need that reassurance because
I'm not moving forward again
and have the same nightmare
happen all over again,
coming all the way to the United
States and getting sent back again.
But the way that it's
going, I don't know.
Like, I don't know.
And I need to know,
like, if it's gonna work
before he comes.
Jasmine's picture
is normally here,
and you can see
that she blocked me
because her picture is gone.
I don't know if she
made the flight.
We're getting closer by the
minute to Sophie being right there.
You don't know what my next
move is. You don't even know.
[squealing] Hey!
I just got to the airport.
Now I'm just trying
to find my gate.
But, yeah, I'm excited.
♪ Could it be like ♪
♪ We're just fragments
of light shining bright ♪
That's clean.
Clean as it's gonna get.
Hopefully there's enough
space for all of her stuff.
♪ I don't know
what I don't know ♪
♪ But I know that it's
better off just letting it go ♪
Today is the day.
I'm running around in circles
trying to get everything ready.
Can't forget the stereo.
I got big plans on how to
greet her and welcome her.
[sighs]
It's a bit stressful, but I
think I'm gonna be ready.
Man, oh, man, oh, man.
You know, when we decided
to actually be engaged,
there wasn't a ring and
there wasn't a proposal.
But I do have a plan on
how to make it a lot more, um,
Disney princessy. [laughs]
Which I know is
important to her.
Man, I'm nervous about
this little dance, man.
My plans are to do the dance
with the roses at the airport,
propose leaving the airport,
romantic candle-lit dinner
outside the house.
Oh, man, I gotta
have the flowers.
It's seems like a lot.
If feels like a lot.
But it's like the proposal
that she deserves.
Oh, my God.
My flight to America
was absolutely horrible.
I had a layover in New York
where I literally only
had seconds to spare
until I got my flight.
This is not how I wanted to look
after not seeing
Rob in six months.
I kind of wanted to look
cute, put some makeup on,
put a cute outfit on,
but I'm sweaty and I smell bad.
[laughs] Great.
Gate 30.
That's the only one it can be.
So, 8:30 out of Kennedy
is claim number 8.
So that's the one we're
gonna go to, I guess.
We're getting
closer by the minute
to Sophie being
right there with me...
for this 90-day adventure.
It's getting so real
right now that I'm losin'...
I'm losin' it a bit. I'm
[bleep] freaking out.
Uh, but, yeah.
She's about to be here.
And I need to not
forget this dance
'cause that's the thing that's
scaring the hell out of me
is that I'ma forget this dance
because I'm so nervous.
[exhales] Oh, okay.
Hey!
[smooth music playing]
[laughing] Oh, God.
[hip-hop music playing]
[laughing] I don't know.
[Sophie laughing] Yeah!
Aah, sexy!
Oh, I missed you so much.
- Give me a kiss. Mmm-hmm!
- I missed you.
Oh, my goodness.
Oh, my God.
You made it.
- I made it. I'm here.
- You made it.
And I embarrassed
myself, all for you.
[Sophie laughing]
No, it was good. It was cute.
Rob is so corny sometimes.
It's so funny.
Like, if any other guy did
it, I would be like, "Ew."
Like I would get the "ew."
Like, if a British guy
did the stuff Rob did,
I would be disgusted.
I would never speak
to him ever again.
But, Rob, he's American,
so he can like get away with it.
But, yeah. If guys from
my hometown did it,
I'd be like, "Ew."
We made it. We made it.
- I made it.
- You made it.
Once the dance was
done, I think that...
that she thought
that was the moment.
And I liked it,
'cause it was like,
"You don't know
what my next move is.
Just wait.
Let's take it 100
steps that way."
So, here.
Here, grab... you
grab... You... Here.
Hey, what?
What are you doing?
Uh, I just wanted to actually
propose to you, though.
- Shut up.
- Will you marry me?
[laughing] Oh, my gosh.
Will you marry me?
Yeah.
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Well, you better come
up with an answer.
Yes, yes, yes!
- Yes. Thank you. Yes.
- All right, then!
I don't know
where you put it on.
- Is it this finger?
- Oh, my God, I'm shaking.
Don't shake. There you go.
I can't even breathe.
Oh, my God. What the hell?
[Sophie laughing]
Oh, my God.
I was very surprised.
And I'm like jetlagged.
I tried to make it...
I tried to make it...
I tried to make it special.
And I wanted to
do it the right way.
As a kid, marriage never
even crossed my mind.
I don't know, I just never...
I just never really
thought about it.
I don't know why, to be honest.
But when I met Rob,
like, this before we
even considered the K-1.
He was like, "Oh, one day,
I'm gonna put a
ring on your finger."
And at the time,
I was just like,
"Actually, like, that
would be kind of cute."
Like, I was like, "Maybe I
would like to marry this guy."
So, yeah, I mean,
I was very happy
when he finally did it, yeah.
Now we can go home, all right?
Yeah.
But I don't know why
you chose the airport, but.
Well, I mean, I had already,
technically, you know...
we were already engaged,
- but the actual proposal...
- Mmm-hmm.
Uh, I felt like that
needed to happen
and it needed to happen
as soon as she got to LA.
Like, "I come with this."
You gotta say yes to me
before you get
to be a US citizen
and go enjoy LA.
Aw, that's cute.
All right, baby. Follow
me to the rest of your life.
[Sophie laughing]
[Jasmine] Saying
goodbye to my family
is not easy.
[crying] And I just pray to God
that... [sniffles]
that I'm doing the right thing.
I have a new look!
And, well, I love it.
[exhales]
I'm honestly so sick and
tired of having arguments
after arguments with Gino.
So I really wanted to feel like
I have control over something.
And, well, I did!
My last visit here in
Panama to the beauty salon,
I decided to do
something super-radical.
So I cut my hair.
No hair extensions, no weaves
that I've been
wearing for 15 years.
And, as expensive
as it is in Panama,
it's even more expensive
in the United States.
And I'm gonna be completely
reliant financially on Gino.
And Gino's Gino.
It's time just to
embrace my natural hair.
I really like it. It's...
It's cute.
[bleep]
[Jasmine] Panama is home.
This is my identity.
This is who I am.
And leaving everything behind
and all the people that
I love and that love me
is very hard.
It's not easy.
I'm ready to take,
uh, my flight to Atlanta
and then to Detroit. So.
I'm sad. But at the
same time, I'm excited.
I just hope that
Gino is ready for me.
This is the bravest thing
I've ever done in my life.
Just...
uh... taking a plane
after saying
goodbye to my family,
my kids,
everything.
[sighs] Oh, my gosh.
Yeah. [sniffles]
[crying] But at the same
time, I'm like... but I'm doing this
And I just pray to God that...
that I'm doing the right thing.
Today is the day that
Jasmine arrives in Detroit.
But, unfortunately, last night,
we kind of got in an argument
and she blocked me on WhatsApp.
♪ We're feeling fine
We're feeling fine ♪
♪ We're feeling fine ♪
Jasmine's picture
is normally here.
And you can see
that she blocked me
because her picture is gone.
No, I am not in
communication with her.
[clicks tongue] I don't
know if she made the flight.
I'm worried about this.
I quit my job
because I wanted to...
make sure she's very
comfortable in Michigan.
And I don't know if
she's even gonna make it
to the USA.
But I'm really hoping I
make the right choice.
I mean, we've been waiting...
to get through the
whole K-1 process.
That's a long time.
We're supposed to
be excited about this.
This is supposed
to be an exciting day.
That's... that's been so hard.
It looks like her flight landed.
My feelings are
all over the place.
I don't know how
to feel right now.
I don't know if she's here.
Uh, I don't know if she
went back to Panama.
Um, will I see her today?
How will she react to me?
She's my soulmate. Like.
We have such a strong bond
and, like, I love her.
I just wish there was a way
that we could stop
having these arguments
'cause we have 90 days
together to figure out,
you know... [chuckles]
you know, is this, you
know, gonna be good?
Or, you know,
is there something, you
know, not so good about it?
Stay open.
What are you doing?
- Oh, my God.
- I was trying to keep it open.
I've just got here. We're
stuck in an elevator.
Who's gonna answer at this time?
Somebody who works
for the elevator company
- or LAX...
- At what time?
Rico Suave has been with
me through a ton of partners.
And like they leave,
and guess who stays.
Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.
[Ashley speaking]
Are you ready?
Rochester!
- Have fun.
- We will.
You can keep the sign.
- Awesome. Love you.
- Love you.
- Love you.
- See you later.
[Rico Suave barking]
Oh, my God.
- Rico Suave!
- Rico Suave!
No jump, bubba.
[Lyra meows]
- Yeah.
- Oh.
[Ashley] My apartment
vibe is witchy.
It's very spiritual. There's
crystals everywhere.
There's like deities everywhere.
I am beginning to introduce
Manuel to my witchy practice
in baby steps so that
I don't overwhelm him
and because it's important
for him to know all of me
before he says, "I do."
Okay.
No.
Manuel.
Manuel!
[Manuel laughing]
Rico Suave has been with
me through a ton of partners.
And like they leave,
and guess who stays.
Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.
So, as far as I'm concerned,
Rico Suave can sleep where
he wants, whether it's in the
or whether it's in the bedroom.
Culturally, Manuel is used
to telling people what to do
and how to do it.
And I come from a family of
strong independent women of color.
We dictate in our family line.
And, um...
he's gonna have
to figure that out.
- Yup.
- That's crazy.
Sophie just arrived at LAX and I
knew she wasn't ready for that ring.
I knew she wasn't ready for
me to actually do that proposal,
that actual romantic proposal
that I know she wanted,
and I hadn't done that.
I feel like I pulled
this off, like,
good [bleep] Rob.
I did pretty good.
I think so.
- Stay open.
- What are you doing?
I was trying to keep it open.
The light is on though. So,
we'll just give it a second.
[Rob] How the
hell did I break it?
Does it usually do this?
How the hell should I know
what the LAX elevator...
Well, I think it's broke, Rob.
It's not... Well, you gotta wait.
How long? You're not
supposed to wait this long.
I'mma let you figure it out.
And when it finally goes up...
- I think it's broke.
- You fixed it.
It's actually broke.
It's not even opening.
Rob.
- It's not funny.
- [Rob] It is funny.
Rob, you've actually broken it.
How the hell did I
break it? All I did was...
'Cause you... You
might slam them together.
Come on... I pushed this
button which means open.
This says door open.
- We're actually stuck in the lift.
- I didn't touch this.
We're actually
stuck in the lift.
No, we're genuinely
stuck in the lift.
- And it's my fault?
- We're actually stuck in the lift.
I'm like, panicking.
This is the type of [bleep] you gotta
be ready for, mentally just, whatever.
As long as this
reaches on the first floor
or not on the first floor,
we're not dropping.
Why would say that
while we're still in the lift?
'Cause we're on the first
floor, not on the fourth floor.
Why would you say that?
[sighs]
- Hmm.
- I'm literally, like, claustrophobic, Rob.
No, but I need to
get out of the lift.
I can't help that. There's
nothing I can do about it.
Oh, my God.
I need to get out of the lift.
I can't help that. There's
nothing I can do about it.
Oh, my God.
So, obviously,
I've just got here
and everything is great,
but like, we're stuck
in an elevator, which is
not really the best sign.
Probably.
Probably? That's
your fault, not mine.
You were the one
that clicked the button
a billion times when no
one was even coming in.
I literally clicked it one time.
You were like, oh, I'm keeping it
open. We're supposed to do this.
It didn't even work.
I clicked it once.
For me, it's like four in
the morning in England.
So I'm already very tired
and I've had a stressful
airport situation
and two flights,
and immigration and I
just wanna go to bed.
Um, so for me, it's just
like, I'm just so tired.
So it's like Rob should just
understand that and be like,
it's okay, you know,
don't worry, we'll open it.
Instead, he's
getting angry at me.
[phone dialing]
This is ridiculous.
How many people go up
and down these things a day?
How does it not work?
It's crazy.
You pushed the button six times.
Who's gonna answer it this time?
Somebody who works
for the elevator company
- or the LAX?
- At what time?
- Yes, we're on the first floor...
- We're stuck.
And we're trying to
get to the fourth floor
and it's stuck or something,
but the doors are locked
and nothing's happening.
Um, not sure which
elevator. It's the one on the left
when you're looking
at it from the outside.
- Now. Open it now.
- Opening.
Oh. Oh, my gosh.
You did it. [laughs]
Oh, [bleep].
Oh. Oh, [bleep].
Hold on, baby.
I got it. I got it.
Uh-uh.
[bleep]
Got out of that elevator.
Yeah, we're out.
Oh, my God. It's
been a long day.
I just wanna go home.
I'm not even going home.
I'm going to, like, new home.
But I guess, home.
Oh, it is going up.
See? Rob broke it. I
just clicked one button.
Rob was like this.
Now it's like, chill.
Um, is he here?
[phone dialing]
Where are you?
I'm on floor four. I used
the elevator properly
like a normal
person and it worked.
Wha...
Why are you angry with me?
Why are you angry at me?
I'm just wondering. You
don't think you broke it?
All right, chill.
I'll go with you.
I'm not [bleep] the whole day.
I just proposed. I just did a
dance in front of everyone.
I just waited and paced
around for her to get here.
I'm so excited and it
took all of 15 minutes
for her to be pissed off at me
about something that I cannot control.
In my defense,
you did control it
'cause you did
break it, but yeah.
And that's a
ridiculous response.
- [laughs] - That's just
the stupidest response.
My reason is I'm very, you know,
I'm extremely tired.
It's four in the morning...
So you're not helping.
You're not helping the moment.
You're ruining the moment.
He knows that when I block him,
he did so wrong.
If I haven't blocked
him, we're still, you know,
I'm mad, but not that mad.
But it was a good thing
that it was a long flight
because I had a lot
of time to think about
my relationship with
Gino and I, kind of,
previewed in my mind
all our happy moments
and the love that we
have for each other.
It made me calm down.
And I'm still a little bit mad,
but not as much as I was
before taking the flight.
[Gino] The longer I'm
pacing back and forth with
waiting for Jasmine and she still
hasn't walked through the door yet,
and I'm waiting for her,
and I'm waiting for her.
I'm thinking in my head,
you know, is she coming?
Why isn't she here yet?
We've been waiting
forever for this day
and this is not the
way it's supposed to be.
- Baby! - Mi amor!
- Oh, my God!
- Baby!
- Oh!
- Oh, my God!
[both laughing]
[Gino] I missed you so much.
[both speaking indistinctly]
I can't believe you're here.
I can't believe you're here!
Okay.
Oh, my God. Welcome to Michigan.
Oh, my God, it's okay.
[whining]
- Coco. Oh, my God.
- [both laughing]
- Coco, where are you going?
- Coco.
Oh, my God.
- Coco, are you okay?
- Daddy is here.
I'm so excited to see
Jasmine in Michigan.
It's an awesome feeling.
It's a dream come true.
Finally, after three years.
Look at you.
Coco, you remember me?
It's finally happening,
baby. Can't believe it.
No more goodbye.
Let me see ya.
The tongue, the tongue.
Stick it out. Mm.
- Mm.
- [both laughing]
I can suck Gino's
tongue every night
- for the rest of my life.
- [both laughing]
And on other things,
but I'm not gonna say it.
[both laughing]
Oh, you got a new haircut.
[laughs] Yes.
Did you change your hair?
- You noticed.
- You got a haircut.
- I love it.
- Ah!
- Oh, my God.
- Coco is desperate, baby.
You look wonderful like that.
You like it like this, right?
Yeah, it's very natural.
Baby. Baby, listen.
I have never loved
anyone the way I love you.
This is the hardest thing I
have ever done in my life.
Just moving and
leaving everything behind.
I have never done it
and I never pictured
myself doing it for anyone.
But you changed that
- because you're my soul mate.
- You're so beautiful.
You're my soul mate.
And I cannot live without you.
Even though sometimes I
wanna strangle him a little bit.
[laughs]
Okay, let's make a
promise right now.
We're starting fresh and new.
Let's forget about yesterday.
Yesterday is in the past.
Pinky promise no
more fights, ever.
All right.
- Okay?
- I'm game for that.
- Promise?
- Yeah, I promise.
- No more fights.
- No more crazy fights.
I'm so happy that
you're here, Jasmine.
I'm gonna annoy
you. I mean, love you
- for the rest of your life.
- [both laughing]
I love to hear that.
- Mm.
- Mm.
We have 90 days now.
As of today, 90
days to get married.
And I think it's gonna
be so exciting and fun.
You know, my family's there and,
you know, it's just gonna be awesome.
I'm dying to see our house.
More than stay in our
house, I wanna smell it.
Smell it?
[laughs] I wanna smell it.
What kind of smell
are you hoping for?
Like flowers, like cleanliness.
I can spray a
little Lysol to it.
You should've done it before.
You knew that I was
coming. [chuckles]
There's no turning back.
[speaking other language]
I feel nervous because
she's trans and the
people in our country
are narrow minded.
[speaking other language]
I'm from Chisinau, Moldova.
My friends and
family call me Igor.
But my fiance from United
States call me Justin.
Nikki says she calls me Justin
because when I was younger,
I'm looking like
Justin Timberlake.
It's her version.
I work as a personal trainer.
I work out like, five
or six times a week.
Fitness is important.
In my life, for me...
To clear my mind and
take away all the stress.
I'm ready for everything.
Tomorrow, is coming, my
fiance, Nikki, from United States.
And I feel nervous
because she's trans
and the people in our country,
they're watching,
like, narrow minded.
And for me, it means a
lot of attention from people.
And the first thing, I'm
worried about her safety.
[upbeat music playing]
[both speaking other language]
I'm meeting with
my friend Sergei.
[all speaking foreign language]
[speaking English]
[all speaking foreign language]
My friendship with Sergei is
stronger because
he accepted this.
And now, he's
understanding me much better.
[both speaking foreign language]
[speaking English]
[both speaking foreign language]
Nikki had a lot
of surgeries from
the last time I saw
her in Moldova.
And that makes
me feel more calm.
[speaking foreign language]
[Justin laughs]
[in English]
[in other language]
[Justin speaking]
[Gino] Here's our home!
[Jasmine] Everything
looks so old and dusty.
[Gino] Let's have a look at the
bathroom. I want you to see...
- Well, don't look at that.
- [toilet flushes]
[Jasmine] [bleep] Unbelievable.
Baby, is this air conditioner
or... or the weather?
This is air conditioner.
We're in the building still.
- Okay.
- But it is not gonna be warm like Panama.
- Ooh.
- All right.
- It's cold in here.
- Let's see where we are. Yeah. Yeah.
- Huh?
- Is this air conditioner still?
No, this is...
- Michigan cold weather, baby.
- [Jasmine] You're [bleep].
Is that our car?
This is my car. Our car now.
Baby, you have smoke
coming out of your mouth.
What the [bleep]?
[Gino] This is Michigan.
I [bleep] hate it.
[Jasmine] I was not born
to be in this kind of weather.
I... I'm scared of stepping
out and... and dying,
immediately, instantly
from hypothermia.
[Jasmine speaking]
[Gino speaking]
[Jasmine laughs]
I... I mean, how can people
live in a place like this?
Oh, it feels warmer.
I feel it in my ass. Thank
you. My ass was frozen.
[kisses]
- [Jasmine kisses] - Aren't
you happy to be together?
Yeah, baby. But
focus on driving.
- Yeah.
- [Jasmine] I am.
I always dream about this day.
And I should be
happy but this place...
It's, like, so gloomy,
so dark.
[Gino] Here's our home!
I think that God didn't
want people to live here.
But people insisted
on living in Michigan.
[Gino] Come on, Coco.
Come on in.
My ass is freezing.
Why are we entering
through the laundry?
I'm gonna let Coco see his home.
This is the laundry room.
- Okay?
- Yeah.
Where we do the laundry.
Got the laundry tub and
the laundry... etcetera.
[Jasmine] Oh, this is the
decorations you made for the interview.
Whoa, yeah! Look at the
decoration. What do you think?
Does it look like Panama?
- Um...
- Huh?
Baby, you cannot place
the Panama flag like that.
It's not in the right position.
It's upside down.
[Gino] What?
[Jasmine] Help me fix it.
What do you mean
not in the right position?
It's a sign of disrespect in our
country to put the flag upside down.
[Gino] Disrespect?
- Oh, yeah, I didn't mean any disrespect.
- Yes.
The first thing that I notice,
as soon as I enter the house,
is the ugly colors of the walls.
That was the first impression
and after that, it
doesn't smell like...
something is rotten in
here but it smells like,
kind of garbage, like, dusty.
[Gino] This is the
kitchen. Come on in.
- And what is this trash can?
- [speaking indistinctly]
[Gino] No, that's
for recycling bin.
That's where I put all
my frozen food dinners.
This good stuff. Good food.
[box thuds]
[Gino] Oh, there's
nothing much up there.
Um...
- Yeah. [chuckles] -
[chuckling] Oh, my gosh!
[Gino] You think it
needs some reorganizing?
- No, it's just, like, why so many cans?
- I mean...
- Yeah. You think it needs some reorganizing but...
- Just noodles
and more noodles and...
This is literally trash. Why...
Why do you save the plastic bags?
Oh, I save those for
travelling and stuff.
[Jasmine] If the health
minister comes to this house,
and see that kitchen,
we are gonna all be in
quarantine, something like that.
Because I do believe that
there are living organisms
that haven't even been
discovered yet in the world.
Chocolate milk.
[laughs]
- That's why you have farting problems...
- [Gino] I love that stuff!
[Jasmine] ...and this
is how your farts smell.
I don't know how you
have made it to 54 so far.
You're very lucky.
You should be dead.
- This is my favorite. This... - No,
you have to say goodbye to this. Um...
You're not eating from a box.
- That's... - This should
be full of veggies.
- Broccoli...
- That's... That's, like, just a backup plan
if... if we don't cook.
Okay. So, if it is a
backup, what is the main,
- like, plan A?
- [Gino] Yeah...
I didn't have high
expectations about this house.
But it is worse than I thought.
I'm not used to live like this.
And if he doesn't
start making changes,
I will never gonna
feel, like, at home
and I don't know if I'm
gonna be able to stay here.
[Sophie] Oh, my God.
Is it safe to be arriving
at your house this late?
- I mean... - I mean, I think
I've only heard a g*nsh*t...
once or twice in the three years
that I've lived in that... on that street.
- And...
- Still too many.
And there's only... And there's
one b*llet hole in the window.
[Sophie] So, a lot of
sh**t happen in that area.
It does.
I've looked it up.
You watch too much TV.
I looked it up.
[Rob] Oh, they've
blocked off the whole area.
Bam, bam, bam.
I want a new bed,
like this structure,
the bed, the mattress, the
blankets, the pillow, everything.
I haven't told Jasmine
yet but I quit my job.
I can't afford all these
changes right now.
[Jasmine] Your future
wife left everything behind
just to be with you,
is not sleeping comfortable
because of the bed,
and you're okay with that?
Well, that tells
me a lot about you.
[Rob] Call it home, baby.
- You wanted to be in LA, right?
- [Sophie] Yeah.
- It's my home now.
- Now you're here.
Oh, my God. LA based.
Is it safe to be arriving
at your house this late?
- Is it safe?
- [Sophie] Yeah.
- For who?
- For us.
I mean, I've done it every
day for, like, three years.
[Rob] Like, it's not that bad.
Like, there's some
nonsense that happens but...
You know, a g*n sh*t
every now and again,
- but not that... - Oh,
'cause that's so normal.
- [chuckles] - Not that...
It's not very... Not very often.
[Sophie] Well, we don't
have g*ns in England.
- [Rob]...
- [Sophie] That's not a normal thing
to just hear g*nshots,
oh, occasionally there.
I mean, I think I've
only heard a g*nsh*t
once or twice in the three years
I've lived in that... on that street.
- And...
- Still too many.
And there's only... And there's
one b*llet hole in the window.
I wonder what
happened over here.
[Sophie] Oh, my God.
- [siren wailing] - [Rob]
What is going on over here?
Look like a standoff
or something.
[Sophie] We get into
Rob's neighborhood,
I have been here before
but I don't feel, like, safe.
Obviously there's
bad places in England.
I'm not saying whole
of England is great.
I'm just saying where
I lived in London, um,
the streets are,
like, cleaned up after,
like, homeless people have places
to go so they're not just on the street.
It's, like, completely
different to where I was living.
She don't know anything
about what the hood is.
She... She's seen
too many movies and
- she doesn't know what the hood is.
- He's a... He...
He watches hood movies
with me all the time, right?
- They're movies!
- I... I know but they're all based, literally, in Inglewood
- and they're all people dying...
- From the early 90s.
And getting sh*t, and he's like, "Oh, I
live just around the corner from there."
And it's like, stop
showing me that then.
[siren wailing]
Oh, they've blocked
off the whole area.
Bam, bam, bam,
it's three, four...
Three or four cop cars.
But that's not our street.
See, we're still like...
- That's one minute away from your house.
- We're still like...
We're still like a mile
away from the house.
- We're almost a mile away.
- Two minutes away.
We're point... We're 0.9
miles away from the house.
I don't know miles. We're two minutes
away. In England we do kilometers.
A lot of sh**t happen
in that area. It does.
I've lived in way
worse neighborhoods.
This is not that
bad. It's really not.
Well, for someone from England
where we don't have any g*n
crime or anything that scary...
- Y'all don't have any g*ns.
- Yeah, exactly.
We don't have g*ns
so I'm not used to that.
[Rob] Home sweet home,
baby. Home sweet home.
[Sophie speaking]
[bleep]
[Rob] Man, that bag
is heavy as little as it is.
Ohhh!
[Rob] So, yeah, uh...
That's very nice.
How cute.
[grunts]
Oh, my God.
- See, it looks better than it did before.
- Yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
[Rob] You notice anything
different about this spot?
- Anything at all?
- [Sophie] Uh... um...
You know, I gave
you a little desk area,
you even got a little TV on there so
we can game together and stuff like that.
- And then, uh...
- Yeah.
[Rob] Got you your own
dresser in the corner.
Tried to make it a
little bit, um, more of a...
viable with me and you
can be more comfortable.
Um, I thought you
painted the walls though.
I did paint them, as in they don't have
smudges and stuff all over them anymore.
Well, yeah. It does look better
to be honest than last time.
I know it's not like...
- The best. [laughs]
- [Rob] ...luxurious.
But it's still... I think it's,
you know, definitely comfy.
Yeah.
My apartment in London is very
different from Rob's place in Inglewood.
It's like, I live
in an apartment.
It has, like, a little rooftop
area which is super cute
and you can, like,
see a lot of London.
Um, it's, like very
bright and airy.
Mine is very clean.
Rome! Hello.
[Rob] He's like,
is this really you?
[Sophie] He's like,
is it you? [chuckles]
Hello! Rome, it's me.
I don't want this
to be where I live.
I kind of, I'm just
hoping that, like,
this is where we're at right now
and then we'll move to
somewhere, you know, nicer
and that I could feel
like this is my home
and I can, you know,
take pride in doing it up,
and I'm safe and all that stuff
'cause right now it just feels like...
I'm thinking of it as like just,
I'm there temporarily while
we figure something out.
Where am I gonna put my stuff?
[Rob] That blue dresser's yours.
[Sophie] Okay.
Yeah. There's not so many...
Definitely looks like a guy's home.
- [chuckles]
- It is.
- It's been a guy's home. Like,
I mean, the... - Doesn't look like
that a woman lives here.
The framework is a dude's home.
Can we get pillows, cushions?
[Rob exhales sharply]
- That would look pretty.
- [Rob] You and pink. Why you keep trying to put pink...
- I don't know.
- Why you keep trying to get pink into my life?
What happened to,
like... Don't you have...
like, tables and
chairs that we can sit?
I used to have a couch in here.
And it was like, the whole
room was so packed.
Like, why even add stuff
to it if we don't... if we're not...
Okay, no, it's fine. I mean,
we'll find something soon.
- So, for today it's all right.
- [Rob scoffs]
Keep saying "for today."
It's gonna be here
tomorrow too, trust me.
I know it's not
the perfect spot.
And I wish I could
give her more.
I wish I was... I had
that already right now.
But I don't. So...
I'm gonna move forward
and just stay positive
and let that, kind of that
negativity and judgement,
um, kinda like, you
know, off the shoulders.
I'm not gonna let
that [bleep] get to me.
[Sophie] What is it?
- Oh.
- Um, just like a little bit of Mexican food
to take us back to Mexico.
- Yeah.
- [both chuckle]
[Sophie speaking]
- [Rob chuckles] -
You're just talking
and I'm just looking at
your face. Sorry. [chuckles]
- [Rob] You made it. Was it worth it?
- Mmm-hmm.
Yeah.
You got the ring
on the right finger?
- This one.
- [both chuckle]
- Yeah, got it.
- [Rob] You the one stuck out the wrong hand.
I don't know anything...
When I told you I don't know anything
about weddings, I know nothing.
I don't know what finger
it's supposed to go on...
- Me neither. I... I'm... -...I don't
know any of the rules. [chuckles]
I can't even lie. I
don't know either.
We're getting married so
we should probably look into...
- What married people should know?
- [Sophie chuckles] What...
- Yeah. [laughs] -
[Rob] Yeah, probably.
[Sophie] Tomorrow, it's like
I'm gonna have my bearings.
Right now, I'm running
on, like, two hours sleep,
so, it's like, feels like I'm just,
like, in some random dream.
But, um, yeah. Tomorrow,
it's like I can wake up
the first day, like,
next to him in LA, like...
It's gonna really hit
that this is my new life.
[chuckles] But I'm sure I'll still
feel like it's great, I'm happy.
Oh, let's hope. Let's hope in
the morning she still feels all that.
[Sophie laughs]
You want a churro?
I'll try a bit, you know.
Yeah, you eat that churro.
[both laughing]
Um... [chuckles]
Let's go upstairs.
Coco, upstairs.
[Gino] Is that pee?
- [Jasmine] No, that was here before we entered.
- [Gino] No, that's...
- That's pee.
- No. I promise.
Yeah, I'm telling you.
- [Jasmine] Okay.
- [Gino] Touch it.
Or put your finger in it.
Go ahead.
[bleep] Dog.
I'm so sorry.
- I'm gonna clean it. I'm gonna clean it. I promise.
- Oh!
[Jasmine] Come, Coco.
- [Gino] Look at him.
- [Coco barks]
- There you go. Now he's faster than me.
- Yeah!
- Look at you.
- Go ahead. Yeah!
[Gino] Come on,
this is our bedroom!
Not bad, right?
Look at that view
out the windows.
Dead now but they'll be alive
and kicking come summer.
Let's have a look at the
bathroom. I want you to see...
- Well, don't look at that.
- [toilet flushes]
What do you think?
[laughs]
- [bleep] Unbelievable.
- [laughing]
[Jasmine] Gino, you
knew that I was coming.
You're saying there was poo?
- [laughs] Yes.
- [Gino] No.
Poo in the toilet?
Like, what's wrong with Gino?
The log, because it
was very, very big,
it was like, just like...
there, floating.
This is very
promising. I like it.
I have so much of space
here and... and, you know,
I have so much light
from the environment,
like, we could change in
this for something better,
a very good, you know, toilet.
This is completely,
you know, out of style.
- [Gino] Yeah, that's older. I'll agree to that.
- [Jasmine] Yeah, or like...
- I'm thinking, like, you know...
- You...
about renovating everything.
Even this tiles,
what is this material?
- I have no idea.
- [knocking]
I think it's great ideas and
stuff but don't forget we need to
budget our money.
So, this is the bed?
Yeah, you wanna try it?
[Jasmine] How long
have you had this bed?
It's not that old actually.
[Jasmine] How old is this bed?
Uh, I would say...
I got this bed after...
my divorce.
- Actually. Yeah.
[grunts] - After.
Were you sleeping
with... with her on this bed?
No.
What are all these things?
I don't know but, like...
Oh! I put, like, lotion
on, all over all the time.
The lotion I use. And I always sit on
the bed and do it and it gets all over.
Am I gonna get pregnant
with that? [laughing]
[bleep]
[chuckles]
Just tell me and I
don't sit there without...
- These sheets...
- underwear.
These sheets here probably
need to be washed soon.
I would say that.
- They're satin sheets though.
- Listen.
I want a new bed, like
this structure, the bed,
the mattress, the blankets,
the pillow, everything.
This...
[Gino] Yeah. Super
comfortable for me.
What I'm saying is we have to have
money for all these things you wanna buy.
We have to, like, prioritize
what's most important.
All I know is that I won't feel
comfortable sleeping on this bed.
So, if you're okay
with that, knowing that
your future wife that
just travelled 2,300 miles,
and left everything behind in her
country, you know, just to be with you,
is not sleeping comfortable
because of the bed,
and you're okay with that?
Well, that tells me a lot about you.
It's kinda stressing
me out, you know,
listening to all the changes
that Jasmine wants to do
because I haven't
told Jasmine yet
but I quit my job
so I don't have my income
from my job anymore.
So, I can't afford all these
changes right now, today or...
within the next 90
days or the next... year.
That's...
[clicks tongue] That's
a big concern for me.
[in other language]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
[in English] This witch thing is
gonna be hard to... to navigate through.
I'm a mother [bleep] witch, hoe.
Like, how are you
not getting that?
[Ashley in other language]
[Manuel speaking]
[Manuel whistling softly]
[speaking]
[in English] Thank you.
[in Spanish]
[sighs]
[Ashley, in English] We
had a crazy-ass first day.
And Manuel tried about
three or four times to say,
"Okay, Rico, floor,"
and Rico jumped back up
because that's what Rico knows.
So, I'm hoping, over
time, Manuel will realize
that's a battle that
he's not gonna win.
My dog does what he wants.
He's a god.
[Ashley, in Spanish]
[Ashley speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
No.
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley] Okay.
[doorbell rings]
[Ashley speaking]
[in English] I'm still happy
that this is happening.
I'm still happy he's
in my apartment.
And I'm still happy that I'm not
arguing with him over the phone.
At least he's in person.
But I want my partner
to love and respect
every single part of me.
Even maybe the parts
that he doesn't understand.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel muttering]
[Ashley speaking]
[Ashley, in English] I got
a lot of work ahead of me.
[door closes]
[exhales heavily]
[muttering in Spanish]
[in English] Can
I just, like, vent?
This witch thing is gonna
be hard to navigate through.
Because he's not understanding.
He's looking at these old-school
witch from, like,
Snow White definitions.
I'm a mother[bleep] witch, 'ho.
Like, how are you
not getting that?
[Manuel, in Spanish]
[Ashley, in English] I'm not okay
being judged that way by my partner.
My partner shouldn't
judge me, period.
And I would be going against
everything that I believe in
by marrying somebody
who doesn't understand
or respect what I do.
He's gonna get there
if he truly loves me
and is in this relationship
for the right reasons.
Um...
We have some work to do.
[woman] Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...
[Jasmine clears throat]
Whoa!
Look at you! My nurse.
It's our first night
together after... months.
You have no idea how horny I am.
[laughs]
[giggling]
I'm a little hesitant because
of how he left his family.
Without saying goodbye.
[in Spanish]
[in English] He said,
"It's fine. I do what I do."
He doesn't want to
argue about this, but fine.
I do a lot smiling and
nodding with Manuel.
My mom is gonna
be doing a lot of,
"What are you saying? No, sir."
I know he says he's
in for the long haul,
but can we, can I trust that?
Aw, I missed you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Fifteen years ago, when our
first K-1 visa was approved,
I don't feel like our love
was ready at that time.
You're not shelving
me in the dark.
Okay, we will see.
That's bull[bleep]
'cause I haven't
ever cheated on you.
[Sophie speaking]
[Rob] I made a bad
choice. I apologize.
We only have, you know, 90 days,
to decide if we're gonna
be together. This is, like, it.
When are you gonna let it go?
Baby, you spent
$10,000 on butt implants?
She lied to me about it.
Do you remember that
you were giving me money
for the wedding dress?
Yeah, I gave you money
for a wedding dress.
I took that money.
This is exactly the [bleep] kind
of [bleep] that I'm worried about.