..90 Day Fiance...
Oh, my God.
You just got here, now you already
wanna leave?
I f*cking hate when you tell me
to calm down.
Honestly, I'm pissed off because
Miona is not feeling comfortable.
I'm stressed out. It's sounding
like you're upset about
how you and Miona are doing.
She's expecting a lot of sh*t and
she's not willing to compromise.
Has she always put this much
pressure on you?
Is there anything that Kara does
that just drives you, like, insane?
When Kara drinks - Yeah? ..a lot.
Sometimes she know
what makes me feel uncomfortable
and she still wants to do it.
[LAUGHS]
I wanna become a mom one day
and he keeps avoiding this
conversation.
I don't have much time when it
comes to having children.
[SNIFFLES] What do I do?
Do you think
this is gonna work out?
No, I mean in this bed,
cos I already felt claustrophobic.
Bye-bye.
He's gonna install the bidet.
I have a lot to learn about
Mohamed in the next 90 days,
but if he tries to change me too
much, it's not gonna work out.
I'm not a Muslim woman.
All right, babe, are you ready?
Yes, babe.
OK, let's go.
What's the matter?
They can see your underwear.
I can see everything.
OK, well,
I can put another jacket on.
All right. All right.
Thank you.
Mohamed arrived about a week ago
and so tonight we're going out
with my friends to have dinner
while Tharan is with his father.
OK, is that better?
Yeah, thank you.
But I was kind of annoyed that
he didn't approve of my outfit.
I didn't think it was distasteful,
but I didn't make
too much of a fuss,
so he wouldn't be upset
and still be excited about going
to have dinner with my squad.
I'm definitely a little nervous,
just because you don't generally go
to dinner with a bunch of women -
Yeah... that's not your family.
Yeah.
I'm a little nervous tonight as I
know my friends have some concerns
about Mohamed changing who I am
and I'm a little worried as well
because of his recent rules
and behaviour towards me.
But I'm trying to cut Mohamed
some slack
because I know that
the culture here is new to him.
So I hope my friends
will be open tonight
and be able to see
that he's a good man
and has a beautiful soul.
Hi.
Hello, hello.
Hi, everybody. Hi.
This is Mohamed.
Hello. Do we just...? Can we hug?
Yeah. Can we just hug?
Ah! We can hug.
Hello. Group hug.
We're excited to meet Mohamed
for the first time,
to figure out if his intentions
are real and if they're true
and as genuine as Yve's.
So thanks for coming.
Yeah. I'm so happy and excited that
you guys all finally get to meet -
I'm so happy to see you all.
Finally.
You're finally here, Mohamed. Yes.
How was the travel?
It was very long.
[LAUGHS] It was very long. Yes.
How are you guys?
Doing well, thank you.
What can I get you to drink?
Do we feel like some wine?
Actually, I'll bypass the wine
tonight. Sure.
So we'll start with water.
I got some fresh bread on the way.
Thank you. Are you comfortable
with us having wine?
So we have some questions for you,
is it OK if we - Take it easy.
[LAUGHTER]
Putting you in the hot seat,
Mohamed. Yes.
You can ask me anything you want.
Lightning round, OK.
Have you any other serious
girlfriends, besides Yve?
I was serious and I talked to her
parents to... engagement with her.
What happened?
She broke up with me
because I don't have money.
But you were so young though, too.
Yes.
But, like, speaking of age, what
did you think when you found out
Yve's, like, double your age?
She's still pretty.
[LAUGHS]
She's still pretty.
So it didn't matter?
No.
Have you ever been intimate
with any other women?
Like, had sex with any other women?
No.
No? You never, like, made out,
or, like - No.
You never were like, "Hey, girl?"
Hey.
"How you doing?"
[LAUGHS]
You never kissed another woman
until Yve?
Yes.
How did you know what to do, then,
if you've never...
[LAUGHS] No, really, like, did
you...? Have you ever watched p*rn?
Oh, my God.
I mean, I know we're animals.
We have instincts,
like, we know what to do?
You just knew?
You just... Yes, I knew.
[LAUGHS]
So we've heard Yve's side of the
love story.
[LAUGHS] Can you explain to us
your side?
Ah, you saw it and were like...
I texted you first. Yes.
OK. I understand that, in the
picture, she was wearing a bikini.
You saw her and... But I understand
it's now a problem
for her to maybe wear a bikini.
Like, is this freaking you out?
A lot of it going on.
I don't care about
anyone but my wife.
Just because she's mine.
Our traditions are different.
I mean, I know you guys seem like,
"Oh! Relief!"
but, like, even coming here,
he was nervous about me
not wearing this dress
and, like, my butt was showing.
I was gonna wear a shorter jacket
and then he was like,
"Your butt is gonna show."
I called Mohamed out
because he was being controlling.
Like, right before we went out to
dinner.
So, I felt like I had to stand up
for myself,
because it wasn't true, what he was
saying.
And that doesn't feel good to me.
It's like, I get it,
my husband's different, he's
confident in who he is as a man.
You know, he doesn't tell me
what to wear.
I never think Yve is dressed
inappropriate or in a bad way.
Well, Yve chose me,
so she know me before...
I was clear about what I like
and what I don't like.
Was that clear to you?
It's not that clear-cut.
It really... Sorry, it's not.
You didn't come to Egypt
and saw how...
That's... I'm not...
You know, we're not in Egypt.
When men try to tell women
what to wear,
it's never in a positive way, like,
how you're saying,
you're trying to protect her,
it's more controlling.
I know you're seeing it...
I am concerned that
he's this controlling tyrant
and I would hate for her just
to compromise
to a union that I think should
accept you fully as you are.
We see in your eyes too.
Are you excited? It's
your first real balloon thing.
A little bit nervous.
Yeah, you should be. [LAUGHS]
sh*t. Are you gonna be a good boss
or a bad boss?
I'm a great boss. Oh.
Guillermo arrived to United States
a few weeks ago
and today I am doing a balloon
installation
for my ten year
high school reunion,
which is tonight.
I'm feeling really excited.
Where's that little [SPEAKS SPANISH]
with the screws?
Remember I asked you to...
OK, great.
So we'll need that little box. Don't
drop any of those things, please.
And then, after that...
I'm gonna... We need the poles.
Did you just drop something? No.
When I said not to drop something?
Oh, God.
So, in high school,
I was a treasure of my class.
I was homecoming queen once.
I was a cheerleader my entire life.
It was fun. It was like...
Kind of like how they make it look
in the movies, the good parts.
So unload the stuff in the back
first, put up the chair,
take out the ladder, then we'll go
in and start blowing up balloons.
Can you grab the ladder?
I'm stressed because this balloon
installation has my name on it
for, like,
people I went to high school with.
They're gonna be, "Ten years later, Kara's making
shitty-assed balloon arrangements. Cool [!]"
You know, I want it to look good.
So, grab some balloons
and start blowing 'em up.
[MACHINE WHIRRING]
We can't use this one, it's too
shiny, we need the white-white one,
so this will be trash,
so none of these.
If it pops, we make more.
What the f*ck?
They don't have to be all the exact
same size, but not too big.
[SPEAKS SPANISH]
When Kara is stressed,
she's very annoying
and she likes to control everything
in a really intense way.
Yo. Throw that in my face one more
time and I'm gonna fight you.
Why do you have to be so mad?
I'm not mad,
I'm literally trying to work.
[SPEAKS SPANISH]
[INHALES SHARPLY]
Can I recommend you something? Sure.
I think you do one like this,
one line like the other,
one line of this,
one line of the other.
Do you understand what I mean, huh?
Just keep blowing balloons, please.
I mean, in some way,
if you want it to look good,
you should hear me, I mean,
you're not hearing me.
Yeah, go ahead, talk.
Cool.
sh*t. [LAUGHS]
You don't give a f*ck. Sure don't.
Kara definitely seems very nervous.
I don't know if it's because
she just wants to be perfect,
but I don't understand why she's
being so aggressive sometimes.
I mean, I'm trying to help you.
I feel you're a little bit nervous.
Is it because you have such a long
time you don't see these people?
Or is because of the balloons?
I would say I'm mostly stressed now
because I want to get this done
in a very small timeframe.
OK. How are you feeling about it?
The only thing, maybe I don't feel
so comfortable of meeting your ex.
I mean, what about meeting
my ex makes you feel nervous?
Is it because you think you're gonna
hear something you don't know about me?
I mean, so many things.
[LAUGHS] So many things?
I did date a guy for,
like, half of high school.
My junior-senior year, we went to
both proms together.
I'm pretty sure my ex will be there.
We were quite serious, we spent the
last few years of high school together.
Back then, I was like, "We're gonna
make it forever together."
I'm not gonna force you to talk to
him if you don't want to, you know.
I'm sure there are things that
my ex could together Guillermo
about who I was when we dated, you
know.
Stories about his future wife,
that could be concerning
cos, I mean, I haven't super
changed the core values of me
since I was 18.
I think I wanna be done.
Do you want to help me pack up?
Yeah, boss.
Those little star balloons,
we can pop 'em.
I prefer to give them to kids
in the street.
I don't know,
I think that I will save them.
I think... [POPPING]
sh*t.
Kara is the kind of person that her
opinion is the only opinion who matters.
It's just so frustrating,
because sometimes
Kara may be talk to me
like I'm an idiot,
and I'm not.
So you just made exactly what
I told you to not do.
What? You said you wanted to give
them to kids on the street.
When do we have time to give things
to kids on the street?
I really hope she's not treating me
the same way tonight
in front of her friends because,
if she doesn't respect me,
she's just gonna do
whatever she want.
That is not gonna work with me.
Again?
JIBRI:
Are you ready to meet my grandma?
Yes.
Because of this tension between
my mom and Miona,
I'm very excited for her
to meet my grandma.
What's up, baby?
I'm up here.
The coolest grandma in the world.
[CHUCKLES]
My grandma Cheyne is a wild,
strong, radical lesbian feminist.
Me being an unruly child and
especially a wild teenager,
when my mom and I would fight,
I would go to Grandma,
and she would be like, you know,
the safe place, the safe haven.
I really hope my grandma likes
Miona,
because she's always been there for
me.
That's my heart.
Oh, so you're out here
working-working? Cleaning this up.
Come on up, you can help me.
You should've told me that,
I would've worn some boots.
This is Miona. Nice to meet you,
Miona. Hey.
Oh, it's so good
to finally meet you. Yes, finally.
It's been too long. Yes.
Grandma, you look good.
You got a little blue, purple in
your hair?
I'm trying, I'm trying.
How are you? I'm good.
What is this matching, like...
You know, we're just trying to look
fresh out here. I know.
South Dakota look, definitely. You
know.
I convinced her to start wearing
the matching outfits together,
because this is my other half.
We are making a statement with our
outfits.
We're together, we're a couple.
We love fashion. And that's our
passion.
That sounded so corny. [GROANS]
Can we help you with something?
Yeah, you can always help.
You don't know what you just got
yourself into.
Have you been around horses, Miona?
No.
No, OK. Come on in the stalls.
OK. We have to go inside?
If you're OK with it.
OK.
[HORSE SNORTS]
Is this what we're going to clean?
Yes.
So we're gonna just move it...
Ooh!
Come here, baby.
Woo!
I just wanna tell you, you look
like a beautiful cowgirl right now.
That's not how I look like.
You got that Serbian muck going on.
You gotta get a little pep in your
step, get that South Dakota muck on.
You know. Gonna put a bit of oomph
into it.
I tried to help the grandma,
to kind of be a nice
daughter-in-law,
but I also had my nice shoes on,
and I didn't wanna ruin them.
This is like regular activity in
South Dakota.
Really? This is every day.
If you got horses...
I want to get out of here, then.
[LAUGHS]
So what do you think of Rapid City
so far?
Have you seen anything?
I didn't see much, but I want
to move from here, definitely.
But it's a good place to save money,
so don't speak for both of us when
you say you don't wanna live here.
How is it staying at the house
with Mahala and Brian?
I mean, Mahala is giving us
a lot of rules -
[LAUGHS]
..you know. That would be Mahala.
Yeah and she...
She was kind of commenting
on my clothing, you know.
She was saying I can't dress
like this around her... around her,
which made me feel
a little bit sad, honestly.
I'm sorry she made you feel that
way. I understand her thinking
because this is South Dakota
and this is, like, one of the most
conservative places in the country.
Yeah. So, maybe in some way
she's trying to protect you.
She might be. But, you know,
take it with a grain of salt.
I mean, Mahala's a little more
conservative than me.
Yeah, you seem like you were more
open, definitely, and cool.
[GIGGLES]
[HORSE SNORTS] Hey, come on.
You're gonna spit all over me.
Don't do that.
I need some fresh air. [LAUGHS]
You ready, Jibri?
I don't expect Miona to change
everything about herself,
to fit in, in the United States.
But I think it's gonna really be up
to Miona to make it work
in Mahala's house
because, if she doesn't, you know,
she's risking the whole reason
she came here, to get married.
So, if all this works out and you
guys are gonna get married,
like, I wanna be there,
so where do I need to plan to be?
Right here. No.
Yes. This is perfect. This is where
my parents got married.
It's not gonna be here, baby. Mm.
Sorry.
I'm definitely a beach person. OK.
And I always dreamed of my beach
wedding since I was a kid
and I think I have rights for that
dream to come true.
You wanna move to LA
and get married on a beach
in less than 90 days, so...
Yeah.
It's my dream wedding,
not anyone else's dream wedding.
It'll be harder
for family to travel
somewhere where there's a beach.
Yeah.
My main concern is I want
my grandson to be loved
and happy and excepted as he is.
And I want patience and I don't see
Miona as being very patient.
I'm hoping they can work things out
but I think for them to be married
within 90 days
is really a stretch.
That's a lot of pressure to try
to figure it all out
in a short amount of time.
Jibri, you got a lot of talking
to do. Yeah, we do.
You gotta buy some lottery tickets,
Jibri.
Woke up with a chance at a
new day, everything groovy
Mama. No. Dada.
Let's go wake Dada.
Da-da-da.
Dada. Dada.
Dada.
Say, "Dada."
Oh, say, "Good morning, Daddy!"
Oh, my...
Oh, my goodness.
Babe? What?
You guys are up so early.
He wants the boob already.
Oh.
I know.
How did you sleep?
Oh, my God, I can't believe it,
my first night in your house.
I know and you slept by yourself.
I'm so sorry.
Last night was my first night
ever spent with my son Koban.
And Emily kicked me out of the room,
because she said he won't sleep
if I'm there.
'I didn't travel all this distance
just to sleep by myself.'
Emily didn't take into consideration
my feelings. That bothers me a lot.
'But I just wanna stay positive.'
And I want to enjoy the morning
bonding with my son.
I'm gonna show you
how to brush his teeth.
How he likes to brush his teeth.
OK.
And while you guys do that,
I'm gonna get us some coffee.
I want us all to sleep together.
I don't want him in the other room.
But, like, I have to think of Koban
and I want him to be comfortable,
it's his home.
We just welcomed his dad, so I just wanted
to accommodate to Koban before anybody else.
OK. Good job.
I'm gonna leave him in here
with you.
All right. Let's go.
Let's turn off the water.
OK?
[TAP OFF]
Let's go.
♪ Dum-dum-dum! ♪
Oh, look at this.
OK.
Let's see what you got.
OK.
Babe, you got to go close the bathroom door
or else he's gonna go play in the toilet.
All right, babe. I'm closing it up.
[CRIES]
Moo!
I've had 17 months to figure out
being a parent and I just feel like...
I have it down.
You know? I just...
'I've been doing it by myself. It's
just been, you know, Koban and I.'
All right.
It's time for the diaper!
Don't tickle him
while you do it, babe.
It's OK.
I can handle this.
You don't even have the wipes ready.
Oh.
You have to have everything ready.
I understand. It's OK.
This is my first time.
I'm doing it alone.
I like things a certain way.
I'm a Virgo. I'm very precise.
I like it to be my way
or the highway.
So it's hard to, like, allow Kobe
to take over right now.
Quick, quick, you got to go fast.
Babe, that's the wrong way, OK. OK.
[HUMS]
And pulling his, like, wiener down.
Or else he'll pee outside of
the diaper. OK.
[CONTINUES HUMMING]
She's never seen me handling kids.
'I know I'm very good with kids.
I love kids.'
Do you believe I can do this, babe?
So I think that she should trust me
and get some confidence in me,
when it comes to our son.
All right, Daddy's gonna put you
in the car.
I'm showing Kobe around Salina. I've
grown up here, it's a small town.
I know we won't have the social life like
he's used to back in China and in Africa.
But I hope Kobe can see himself
and our family living here,
because we can't move right now,
we can't afford it.
It makes more sense to stay close to
my parents where they can help out.
Set him in. Yeah, watch his foot.
Babe, I think I should drive. I think
I'm a better driver than you are.
OK, you're not a better driver
than me. You're not gonna drive
for your first time in America
with Koban in the car.
But why? Because you guys have a very big and
wide road, everybody can do whatever you want.
But in my country, you need to be
very careful.
So I don't think... You know...
You telling me not to drive is...
is like an insult, I don't know.
I don't really care how experienced
you are in driving,
but I don't feel comfortable,
you driving with Koban in the car.
My own car? My own son?
Yeah, in MY car.
Not your car. It's my car.
So are you gonna get in the car
or not?
Fine, I don't care.
Can you buckle, please?
[SIGHS]
But I'm not that kind of a person.
I set my own rules and I live by
those rules, as a man.
All right. Can I show you Salina,
please?
Go ahead. All right. Will you hold
my hand now, please?
I love you.
I love you.
I wanna show you downtown.
That's our coffee shop.
Yeah.
Oh, look.
There's a jewellery store,
if you wanna... You know.
And we have cute little, like,
boutiques downtown.
You guys have clubs over here?
We don't have, like, a club
in Salina.
You know what I mean?
Like, we just have, like, bars.
Is this really America?
Like... Before coming to America,
everybody...
Most people want to see
this beautiful view.
Places like New York, Miami.
I feel like, you know, I'm in one of the most powerful
countries on earth and I'm not seeing any of those.
I'm gonna show you, like, a dream
house of mine.
I want a big house.
Look how big they are.
Yeah, beautiful.
So pretty.
I just can't wait for us to get
a place, like, you know...
I know. God...
Last night, like, in my head, you know, I
was like, we're all gonna sleep as a family.
But that clearly didn't go as
planned.
But it's hard, because, with you
in the bed, Koban won't go to bed.
What do you imply?
Like, I can't put my son in bed?
When he's off the boob, he can just
lay down and go to bed?
So I have to wait. Koban doesn't just
lay down and go to bed.
Babe, how many more months or days
or years do I need to go
before I can put him to bed?
I don't know. What do you think?
How long is Koban gonna nurse?
Babe, that's, like, harsh. You don't
even consider my feelings.
Oh, my God.
Mm-hm.
Besides knowing that Kobe and I
still have chemistry,
the most important thing to me is
knowing that we're able to get along.
In China, Kobe and I definitely
were on the same page.
We... didn't really fight a lot.
And now that he's in
America and we have a child,
there's a lot more bickering,
there's a lot more arguing.
It's been so exhausting,
so I don't know,
maybe Kobe and I are both just fooling
ourselves, trying to make this relationship work.
I know you're smart, but
you're not as smart as you think.
OK, Kobe.
OK.
Come on.
Get it, get it.
♪ Keep on pushing,
harder and harder
♪ Keep on pushing
♪ We're gonna
take his soul away ♪
Go and get it.
Yay for Avi! Yay!
Oh, my God, he looks so cute.
Oh, yeah!
Good boy, Avi.
Good boy, good boy.
We've only been in the US a few days. Yesterday,
Bini and I got into a fight in New York City.
Our emotions have calmed down a
lot, but we're still not on the same page.
So we need to change that ASAP.
So... how are you
feeling today? I'm tired.
Yeah.
I mean, you know, like,
yesterday, I was annoyed with you,
because I felt like, we just got here and,
like, you already wanna move to another place.
So that, kind of, really... That
upset me. You know? Like...
For me, it's just,
you know, just...
I tell you, like, an idea.
This is your country. You are
the one, who knows more than me.
Like 90% about the situation
for this country. You know?
Yeah, I understand.
I think, for now,
we should stay here.
While I do have concerns that
Bini is not always able to be realistic,
right now, I don't
wanna think about that.
We're having dinner with my whole family tonight,
so I just wanna put it behind us for now.
[AVI SQUEALS]
[DIALLING TONE]
Um...
The last time I
talked to my family,
I was in the airport
and I miss already my sisters.
Uh...
Uh...
[SIGHS]
[BOTH LAUGH]
I never met Ari's
siblings before,
but they know about
all the problems,
like me and Ari,
especially when Ari,
when she come back in America,
thinking I'm cheating on her.
'Because of that
situation, I'm so worried.
Ari's family, maybe
they will judge me.'
middle line:90% position:50% [BILAL LAUGHS]
It's a nice little chilly night.
It's so cold. I know.
♪ I don't care no more
♪ Don't worry about a thing ♪
Yeah. [LAUGHS]
I'm a little cold.
Shaeeda's been here for a little more than a week
and, you know, we've... we've had some tense moments,
but we're gonna
try to put the past
in the past.
Your city is beautiful.
KC is nice now? It's
beautiful. That's nice.
So take me and spin me
around. Spin you around? Yeah.
Ah! [LAUGHS]
Tonight is gonna
be a nice evening.
Something I've
been thinking about
and I have a nice
surprise for her.
Oh, my God, babe, look at that!
Isn't that like... Is that a
gondola or something like that?
So romantic.
We gonna have
to do that one day.
Well, I know you said that...
one day, you'd like to
be on one of these, so...
one day is today.
So... In the
night. In the night.
Feels like Paris,
don't it? OK. Paris.
[CHUCKLES]
Even though things
have been rocky,
at this point, I just want let bygones
be bygones and move forward.
Oh, wow.
You know, one of the reasons
why I fell in love with Bilal is
his romantic side,
he's like... Oh, my God.
He's like the type that was written
in those storybooks growing up,
that we used to read as teenagers
and be like, "I want this type of guy."
He is super romantic.
I think that's what every
woman wants in a man.
Here we go.
We're off.
The definition of romantic.
What are you thinking about?
Just feeling so overwhelmed
and happy and...
and grateful.
Like these are the
things that I prayed for.
You know?
I've been single
for so long. Yeah.
Thinking that I'll
never find love,
being a hopeless romantic.
Mm.
At one point, I thought
it was not meant for me.
I had so much moments,
when I was just crying.
Like... Yeah... really
frustrated, thinking that, OK,
I'm never gonna find love,
I'm never gonna be happy.
I can, I can relate...
very... very much with
everything you're talking about.
Like, marriage is
something I've wanted...
since I was ten years old.
You want it and you want it bad.
You wanna find the right person
and share their life and
share these experiences with.
But then, also, in the back of your mind, it's
like, well, maybe marriage is not in my cards.
Like...
the person I'm
meant to be with...
doesn't exist.
Going through a divorce,
I was left broken-hearted.
You know? Just the feeling of...
not being wanted.
Love... It feels like it's
been running from me,
even though I was always
trying... trying to find it.
But Shaeeda is an amazing person
and it feels like a dream.
Almost feels like
we're both dreaming.
I think there was many different times where
we both felt like this might not happen.
You know? Um...
So... we're very
fortunate and blessed.
But, at the same time, I
also have the fear of, like,
what if things don't work out?
Once upon a time,
you said maybe
marriage is not, is not for you.
Mm. And I know when I met you,
I said I didn't want kids,
because I gave up on everything.
I gave up on love,
gave up on family life.
Mm-hm. But then...
when you meet
the right person...
..that can change completely.
Mm.
I feel as if I've met
the right person.
And I know you are
the right person for me.
About 110%.
Yeah, but that's...
that's good to know.
That's good to know.
I do wanna have kids.
[SOFTLY] Yeah.
Yeah.
You understand?
I understand where
you're coming from.
We've only spent like...
seven days with
each other, physically.
Right? Yeah. Besides now.
So, just, you know, the time
to get to know each other.
I think that like... once you...
..you've, you know,
you find love...
..and you have it...
you have to work even
harder to maintain it.
So the whole dynamic of,
like, putting a child in the mix,
you know, that's something
totally, completely different.
My biggest fear is to get married
and have to go through another divorce
and have children
from that divorce.
The reality is we do need more time
to get to know each other much more
and for her also just to adapt.
Of being in a whole
new country. You know?
When you throw
a child into the mix,
everything's changed.
We don't want to put
unnecessary extra stress.
Mm.
You know, at the moment.
I just don't wanna wait
too long. You know?
If Shaeeda and I
don't agree on the baby thing,
it can become an issue, it could
potentially even drive us apart.
Yeah.
Can you cover my head more?
Is it good?
Hi! So good to see you.
How long has it been,
Tonight is the high-school
reunion. I'm feeling really excited.
I'm excited to
see all my friends.
You're so cute!
Hi.
I'm excited to introduce them to Guillermo and have
him see a little bit more of where I came from.
..so then I had to...
He's like, "Remember when
your mom punched you twice?"
Like, pop, pop! And
you just fell to the ground.
I was like, "I do
remember that."
Yeah, he's cute. I'm super
excited to show him off.
You feel proud? Yeah.
That's good. Yeah.
Ta-da!
Yeah, it's a Kara sandwich.
'I am mostly excited for him to meet my
best friend Jasmine and her husband Alan.'
It will be the first time they're
meeting Guillermo, which is huge,
so I want that to go well.
You got to also understand, you're getting
married to Kara, so you're getting married -
To the trio... to us, too.
All right, so the big
question. Why Kara?
I mean... she's a
beautiful person.
I met her...
Having fun. Yes.
But also, I don't know why,
she showed me
that beautiful part of her.
And she make me
feel in love with that.
So how many kids do you want?
Do you want kids?
I do want kids.
You do want kids.
I don't have limits.
You could say two
or three. Wow, OK.
I would like to have a whole
family, a whole soccer team.
They're 11 men.
[HAPPY SIGH]
I wanna see that lady
full of kids. You know?
[SMOTHERS GIGGLES]
I know that I make her in love,
when I tell her I
want to make a baby.
Yeah. It's hot.
Um...
I don't want 11 kids.
OK, so how many kids?
Minimum two. Maximum three.
So two or three. Two or
three. She wants three.
You want like 19, so what's
gonna happen? I mean...
Well, what you do is, after you
have your last kid, you just tie it up.
Then there's no accidents.
Talk about it after the first one.
I think it's the time to revisit. He's like,
"I'm 23, I'm ready now, like, I wanna start now."
And you're not? Oh, hell, no!
I'm like, maybe two, three years.
Like, let's get married,
let's enjoy married life.
But, OK, what about the reasons why you
want to start in three years and not now?
Because money, I wanna sleep through
the night, I wanna go out and drink.
Sleep through the night.
That's a big one, trust me.
I get the part of wait some time
to make money, because
we need our house. Yeah.
But I don't get the part, like,
"I wanna take some time to sleep a little bit more,
I wanna get some time to drink a little bit more."
You don't understand
that? No. What? Sorry.
OK, well, think about
that after your first one.
start having kids.
In four years? No. You said 33.
Oh, wait. 32.
I think start trying,
officially, at 32. I
mean, we're trying, baby.
No, we're practising. OK.
So, with you wanting, you know,
four kids or a soccer team...
Not four, it's a
soccer team... 11 kids,
so that means
that you're ready...
to be her family forever.
Is what it is in life.
If you want to be with me, baby,
you will have my whole life.
I will work hard.
I will give you
whatever I can give you.
I will always try,
because I love you,
because you make me
feel a beautiful person,
because you make me better.
I need a tissue.
No, it's fine. It's the rain.
You're saying the
right things, Guillermo.
Dripping on me.
No, I'm just kidding.
Don't be so nice.
Don't listen to that.
Three years later, she's gonna
be like, "You're not nice enough."
Continue to do
it. No, it's true.
Your friends are really cool.
The only thing is...
I think, at the reunion,
you can feel everyone
or every group being separate.
And it's probably how everything
was in high school. [LAUGHS]
Well, everybody had their clique,
like everybody had their group.
If it could be my high-school reunion,
I could be, like, talking with everyone.
I talk with everyone.
No. You do.
But not everyone...
is like you.
Yeah.
[CONVERSATIONS OVERLAP]
It's been hell a long time.
It's a pleasure. Guillermo.
Nice to meet you.
Kara.
Aah! My stranger danger.
Hi.
Long time no see, bud.
I haven't seen my
ex-boyfriend Kris in ten years.
It was like a huge transition, going from high
school to university and I think I was growing a lot.
And so the relationship...
didn't feel
conducive to my soul.
Anyways, you live and you learn.
Oh, my God. What is up?
I was just explaining to them
about what's going on. My fiance...
Where he at? He's literally
there. The banana-leaf shirt.
Oh, OK, OK, OK. How
long y'all been together?
Two years. You're
already engaged?
Yeah. sh*t.
Back in high school, Kris was like the sporty dude,
played basketball. He was the athletic jockey guy.
Now he raps
and so... he
looks like a rapper.
You remember prom,
when your mom caught us?
[GASPS]
Yeah, I'm bringing
it up! Oh, my God.
[LAUGHS]
You're still looking good though,
bro. Thank you. I've been working hard.
I've been dancing a lot. What
kind of dancing? Latin dancing.
Still doing the
bachata? Bachata.
So you ain't making
your own music? No.
You could sing your ass off. Like, I
would get you on one of my songs.
Oh, yeah, he's
not fussed. That...
I got this tattoo that
says "not fussed".
It means "I don't give a f*ck."
You need to get that redone.
It's OK. It has
character. Oh, my God.
Come here.
Hi.
What's your name? Nice to meet
you. Guillermo. Nice to meet you, man.
I heard a lot about you
already. I'm Kris, yeah, I'm Kris.
Grab a chair maybe.
Yeah, pull up, man.
Kara's ex-boyfriend, he's the
kind of person that doesn't feel...
..afraid to show...
many colours, like
very strong colours.
No shame, I think he's saying.
Just that I would
never be like that.
It's just interesting that Kara
was with someone like that.
Mm... Yeah.
And what did you guys
do together? Like, what -
We were Homecoming King
and Homecoming Queen.
We would have been
Prom King and Prom Queen.
But you can't win both.
Can't win both. Can't win twice.
I was Best Dressed.
She was Best Dressed.
How was with... your relationship -
With Kara? Yeah, yeah. Wild, bro.
What is mean, wild?
She's crazy, she's crazy.
Shut up. Kara was so
f*cking controlling, bro.
Like, if it don't go this way,
Kara's losing it. I'm a visionary.
Is she controlling with you?
She's, right now, the kind of person
that likes to say what she wants.
And she... Yeah. And
she gets it, right? Yeah.
So this is what you
do. Tell her no, bro.
No.
No. No, no. No, no, no.
No, no, no. Say no, bro, say it.
"No." If you don't feel
the same way, say no.
I ain't gonna lie,
Kara's controlling.
You know that, I can
see it in your face.
I'm looking at you right now.
You're like, "Yeah, she is, bro, yeah."
I have goals and I have
aspirations and I have plans.
And so, when they
don't go... She loses it!
I don't see them working out. The reason why is
because, you know, he's kind of shy, kind of quiet.
He's not enough man.
You know what I mean?
Kara's gonna control that. If it
don't go her way, there's no way.
Best of luck. Best
of luck to them, man.
Like, best of luck to them, man.
I'm not even gonna lie, bro.
We were up each other's asses.
We were young, bro.
Teenage love. We were in love.
I'm not gonna lie,
we were in love bad.
What happened? We call it
"puppy love". But what happened?
Do you want me to
be honest? I mean...
Go ahead. I would love to hear
this. We've never talked about it.
So I was at college and I
went back home for a break.
And we were laying in the bed.
Her phone went off.
Ohh! She's asleep, I'm up.
So I'm going through
her text messages.
She was like, "It was so good seeing
you." Like, "That kiss was amazing."
What do you think I did? Probably
lost it. Woke her up out of her sleep.
The middle of the night. I said,
"What is this?" I threw the phone.
I left.
Never.
I didn't remember any
of that. Like, in my mind...
But is it the truth or not?
When he said that, I was like, "Oh, yeah,
I did kiss that guy in massage school."
You know what I'm saying? It all came back, but, like,
for ten years, I literally hadn't thought about it.
Damn.
If you got trust for her, great, but
the one moment she shows you
you can't trust her,
go about your life, bro.
I'm speaking man to man,
I'm telling you right now.
In retrospect, we should have
called it off, like, you know when...
Sorry, but it happened and
you cannot make it not happen.
But you learn and you grow.
I'm speaking from experience.
She did what she did.
When he said that
Kara cheated on him,
it definitely makes
me feel mad with Kara.
I never thought that Kara did
something like that to someone else.
And it's something that...
scared me, because...
I need to be careful.
middle line:90% position:50% [KOBAN CRIES]
I know, bubba.
My baby's crying.
Oh, my gosh.
Daddy to watch you, huh?
Oh, my goodness.
Kobe and I just got back from touring
Salina and he's so upset with me.
I don't know if it's about last night,
that I didn't let him sleep in bed with us.
I don't know what's
going on with him.
Luckily, I'm gonna be
gone all day nannying,
so hopefully we can both take a step
back, so we don't continue arguing.
Oh, my goodness,
goodness, goodness.
Aw!
He's a big boy.
He's tired. He's so tired.
He woke up too soon.
I know but I'm not gonna
leave until he, until he's fine.
I don't want his first time being
with you and he's all upset about it.
I feel bad, because I
know Emily feels like...
I won't be able to do this.
But I need to prove
myself to Emily,
that I can be a
good dad to my son.
So she has to trust me.
All right, I'm gonna
give him to you.
I don't think he's gonna
be very happy, but...
It's OK.
Come here, buddy. You
can put the bottle down.
It's OK, let me
see. I know, baby.
It's OK.
Oh, no. He's so tired.
He probably needs
a new diaper now.
[CRIES] It's OK.
Oh, my...
It's hard for me to
just give away that...
parenting, you know, card
and just, like, allow Kobe
or anyone to watch him.
You know? Like, I'm his mom
and I wanna be
here all the time,
but, realistically,
it can't happen.
You know, I have to go to work,
so... But it is hard to leave him.
I'm sorry. Oh...
[CRIES]
It's OK. Oh...
[CONTINUES CRYING]
He's going to be fine,
he's going to be fine.
Oh...
Oh, my God.
Bubba, sorry.
Oh... He's OK.
Oh, look at this, look at this.
It's painful, for me to sit back and listen
to Koban cry, when I know I can stop it.
Look at this one. Look
at this one over here.
But he's got to learn and they
have to develop that relationship.
Most people have already
had 17 months to figure this out.
And now he's having to
play catch-up on everything.
Oh, my God, look at this.
I'm not ready to leave
Kobe alone with Koban yet.
I don't think Kobe has a lot of
experience with younger children,
I think more of his experience
is with school-age children.
And that's a big leap.
All right, so we're gonna
start with this one. Look at this.
Look, it's Grandma.
Uh-oh.
Somebody's learning
French for the first time.
I think we're gonna be having an
all-serious one over here, learning French.
[SPEAKING IN FRENCH]
So do you have very much
experience working with kids?
Yeah. This age? Little kids?
Not really this age,
but I'm used to kids.
Yeah? So what was your
experience? Like, nieces and nephews?
Back in China, first of
all, I used to teach kids.
Like kindergarten. Like, I used
to teach kids at the age of, like,
two, three,
four, five, six, seven, eight.
Stuff like that.
When I get to stay
with those kids for, like,
one week at most,
they all become my best friends.
Yeah. They always want me,
like when I'm passing around.
They're all like, "Kobe! Kobe! Kobe!
Kobe!" Yeah, it's always fun, so...
It's a little different when it's 24
hours a day and when they're littler.
[SPEAKING IN FRENCH]
And white here, we say...
Your little nose. Oh.
It's OK, buddy. It's
all gonna be fine.
Daddy is here.
'I don't need anybody
to supervise me.'
And there is just no way I can ever
let anything bad to happen to him.
Hey, buddy. Here you go.
There. Some lunch for you.
Yeah.
So I have some things I got
to do, so I'll let you watch him.
It's OK, he's gonna be fine.
Wa-ter.
Dooh-dooh!
Mm!
All right, buddy. I'm about to
get you something to try. OK?
Um... Oh. Hello!
Hi, buddy.
Hi.
Hey, babe.
What are you doing?
Hi, pumpkin! Oh, my God.
What?
What is that?
Ground nuts?
Babe, he can't
even eat that. Why?
Because it's a choking
hazard, look how little they are.
Come on, babe. He's never
even had peanut butter.
How do you know he's not
allergic or has an allergy?
Here's the thing.
I've been in Koban's life,
since the day he was conceived.
I pushed him out of me.
I know exactly how
I want to raise him.
Kobe needs to respect
that and follow it.
And once he proves
to me that he can,
I will let him chime
in a little bit more.
Please don't give those
to him when I'm not here.
Go grind it up, he
can't eat it just like that.
Look how small those are.
Look. Seriously, look at that.
Kobe is trying to
feed him peanuts.
Oh, Koban!
I leave for one day,
buddy. No, he's a big boy.
No.
Say, "I don't want
those peanuts, Dad."
middle line:90% position:50% Ari! Yeah?
Can you please come
on. I don't want to be late.
OK, I'm coming.
♪ Top of the world, yeah
♪ We're unstoppable ♪
You look cute. Thank you.
I like the way you walk. Like John
Travolta in Saturday Night Fever!
Tonight we've got
a baby-sitter for Avi,
because Bini and I are
having dinner with my family.
Although he's met my mom and dad, Bini
still has not met my brothers or my sister.
I want my siblings to like my future husband,
because their opinion is really important to me.
And we're going to be a family,
so it's really important
that they get along.
I'm excited for you to meet
my brothers and sister and...
Yeah.
It's crazy, me and you, we've been together
so long, but they never got to meet you.
So I think they'll
definitely be curious.
Last time, my brother was like, "Just break up
with him, if you're gonna be this miserable."
There's a lot riding on this
dinner going well tonight.
I think Bini wants to be
really close to my family.
I feel like life here is gonna be more
isolating for Bini, so if he has a community,
if he can connect to my family,
he'll have an easier time of it.
But I know my family may
be a little apprehensive of Bini,
because they saw how bad things
were going before, when I was in the US.
What about me? I
need you. Avi needs you.
Your friends are not
the most important thing.
God knows who you f*cked and
God knows what you've been doing.
I don't even care and I
don't even want to know.
Since we're sharing a wall,
I've heard some conversations
that are very heated and colourful.
But it seems to me like...
you're more serious about
where you're going with your life.
I love you, but you
need to wake up.
I think my sister will
be the toughest on you.
Oh, my gosh.
Hi. Hey.
Oh, my gosh, I saw you.
You saw me, but
I still get my hugs.
Hello, Biniyam. Biniyam.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. How's it
going? It's good. How are you?
I wanna be, like,
perfect Ari's husband.
I want to try my best.
Do they look like you thought?
Yeah, it's good.
No, do they... Do they
look like... Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Is Princeton as nice as
Ari described it to you?
Uh... Ari, most of the
time, she tell me, like,
Princeton is, like, green
and I don't understand it.
Just now, when I coming, I understand what
did she mean. It's so green, so beautiful.
So it's just a little bit different.
Just a little bit different.
It's a big difference.
That's nice, yeah.
I have a big question
for you. Yeah?
How do you like living
so close to Ari's family?
You have one of us on one side, one of us on the
other. You're in the middle, between Kristin and I.
You like that, right? I like it.
So we can always be in
your business all the time!
Go walk to my house in three minutes
and Kristin's house in two minutes.
Yes, two minutes. Yes,
already, I am two days,
so that's, yeah,
actually, I like it.
Close to find.
Are you telling the truth?
Yeah, I'm telling you this.
The apartment here is
very much better, of course.
Everything is nice.
The views, the
breathing. It is cool, like.
What's the difference?
Here... they have house water.
A washer-dryer.
A washer-dryer. Like...
We had a washer. You don't
remember? Yes, it was smaller.
Mom said we could wash a single underwear in
it. One underwear at a time! A manual washer.
So do you like it better?
Yeah, and now... It is a very
good apartment here. I like it.
Well, I'm so glad you're here.
Honestly, I was so
excited to meet you, finally.
Yeah, thank you. But I still have to
ask you some questions. You know?
Yeah. Don't worry.
So... I'm scared now.
Um, the last time she was
here and you guys were fighting,
I heard you guys fighting through
the wall, what was going on?
Uh...
Uh...
I don't want to just...
I'm sorry. Oh, my God. So you
were afraid she wasn't coming back.
That sounds like a nice answer
to tell your future mother-in-law.
Yeah.
[LAUGHS] But is it true?
Yeah, it's true.
Just... It's true.
Because every time I ever called
you on the phone, he wasn't there.
Or, if you called me,
like, he was never there.
I'd be like, "Where's
Biniyam?" "Oh, he's out." "OK."
Me and my sister have
a close relationship
and, you know, we video-chatted
a lot when I was in Ethiopia.
So she worries that he might
revert back to that old behaviour.
Could you see yourself
staying in the US for a while?
Yeah, of course. Like...
I came now in the US
for good opportunity.
I'd rather your dream morph
into ten more Dancey Dancey
and not the ring.
So, Biniyam, I have a question.
Who is paying the bills? Have
you guys talked about that?
Like how you're
gonna work it out?
It's more expensive to
live here than in Addis.
So I'm like thinking, he
can't work, you're not working.
It's hard.
We have our concerns about
their sustainability together.
Yeah, she needs
to get a job, too.
First. Because he's not
working. Absolutely. Yeah.
It's a little nerve-racking, because it's not
easy to live without making a living financially.
So your major dream
is to be a UFC fighter?
Yeah. Whether
you're with Ari or not.
Right? Is that
what you said? Yes.
OK. Is that why you're here?
Are you nervous?
No, no, no.
He's lying.
This disapproving
silence is so...
horribly strong.
I think Bini is having a
hard time communicating,
which is really frustrating, because that's
what's led to so many of our fights in the past.
And now this.
Sometimes I worry... that I
love Bini more than he loves me.
Or that...
he doesn't love in
the same way that I do.
And I wonder if, you know,
we'll ever work out our trust
and communication issues.
I mean, I'm the real prize
here, better than a green card.
If I decide I wanna marry you.
Yeah, me, too,
I'm saying this. Oh.
[BALLOONS POP]
This is therapeutic.
f*ck high-school reunions.
We are back at the reunion venue to break down
the balloon wall that we put up for the party.
And it feels very much like we're
back at the scene of the crime.
Guillermo meeting my ex-boyfriend
last night ended up being
a lot more awkward than I
had intended or anticipated.
So...
What? How are you feeling?
Are these your ex?
Is this my ex?
You have those feelings?
No, I don't hate him.
He's a nice dude.
Right. He's an
interesting dude... for sure.
You think? Mm-hm.
Well, damn.
I'm still thinking about
what happened yesterday
and those things that I
didn't knew about her.
And it's definitely putting
tension in the room.
It's like something
that you can feel.
Um, so what did he say
that made you feel
some type of way?
He said that you cheated on him.
You never told me that, actually.
I actually forgot. I swear, I
thought I just broke up with him.
How will... How are you gonna
forgot? I mean, in some way, sorry,
but, for me, it
feels like lying.
Because how will you...
forget that you
cheated on someone?
Well, it wasn't significant
for me, obviously. And...
I don't know, you
make him feel so bad.
How many times have
you cheated on someone?
I mean...
like, twice, probably.
Are you gonna do that to me?
No. I mean, because,
did you really change?
Absolutely, I was like...
So you think that you're
not gonna do it again? No.
I hope you learned a lot.
Yeah. Well, ten years
is a lot of time to learn.
About yourself. I'm just saying,
I'm just saying that I hope.
'I feel weird and disappointed.'
But, at the same time, I give Kara the
opportunity to show me the real person she is.
I mean, she can
try to cheat on me,
but then I will have
to just walk away.
I will just leave her.
Did he say anything
else that stuck out to you?
How do you feel about him
saying that you got to tell me no?
It's totally true. I don't know if
you really know, because you...
you like to control people
and you like to control me.
You tell me what
to do every time.
Or... accepting everything
you want, even if I don't like.
You make me feel that I don't
have any power in the relationship.
Like, you are just doing whatever you
want and thinking that it's the right way.
But, like, part of the reason why we make a great
couple is because, like, we're not the same.
Because two of me is,
like, too much. Right?
Right. And so, like, I think, sometimes, we
complement each other, but it can get lost.
Right, but you got to change.
I don't want to feel like...
you don't love all of me.
You know what I mean?
It just feels like
you're trying to, like...
..change parts about me.
I'm not telling you
that I will change you.
I'm not actually the kind of person
that is gonna tell you what to do.
I like to hear,
but when I talk, I...
I'm, I'm waiting
for the same thing.
So I need to work on my
listening is what you're saying.
Yeah.
I don't ever want my partner
to feel that he's not heard.
But there's some
times when it's just like...
what are we talking about?
Like, what is the point here?
And so sometimes...
it does go in one ear
and out of the other.
One of the things that makes a
really good relationship is respect.
And, definitely, if...
someone in the relationship
doesn't hear the other one...
..it's really disrespectful.
It's like it's not taking
care of the relationship.
Yeah, I would agree.
OK. So make the change.
Do you accept that?
Yeah. And I agree.
I fully, totally hear you and
understand where you're coming from.
I'm very aware that I talk a lot and
I'm not a good listener all the time.
And I hear you.
Well, something that I really
hope, too, is that your words...
became actions.
Because you like
to talk a lot of sh*t.
And then you don't do anything.
That thing, just
to let you know,
it could make us
have big problems.
middle line:90% position:50% [HEAVY EXHALE]
Lately, it's been definitely
awkward and tense in the house.
Between my mom and Miona and everything else,
I haven't had much time to work on my music,
but I need to tell Miona about this opportunity
that I've got in Chicago, with my band Black Serbs.
Space Jazz just talked to this
guy last night, this guy Alex.
He's a major producer.
He wants to work with us.
Like, literally,
within two weeks.
The only thing is it's in Chicago,
like you have to come to Chicago.
I gotta get married in 90 days, bro.
Do you understand what's going on?
I'm talking about a
once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
Yeah, man, I... sh*t.
I'm a little nervous that I
might have to convince Miona
to go on this trip, because...
there's been tension between
David and Miona since they first met.
Not to mention, we got so many other things to
do and really this timing couldn't be worse.
But whether she wants to come
or not, I need to go out there
and take advantage
of this opportunity.
Hey. [DOOR CLOSES]
What's up?
What happened?
David is kind of like...
he pretty much needs me to come to
Chicago in the next couple of weeks.
He called me and he told me that this producer
wants to work with us, so... It's really cool.
I mean, this is a
big opportunity.
Yeah.
What do you mean, yeah?
I don't know.
I just... It makes
me disappointed.
Disappointed for what?
Disappointed, because, again, we're
gonna go there and you're just gonna...
I'm just gonna be alone
again there or something.
I mean, you can
stay here, if you want.
I don't wanna stay
in Rapid City, Jibri.
[SIGHS]
I want to be with you. I don't want to be
with your parents. I came here for you.
OK. Well, if you come with me, are you
gonna be able to get along with David?
I don't know.
What you mean, you
don't know? I need to know.
Depends how he's
gonna - Nah, this is...
If he's disrespectful, I
can't be respectful to him.
Do you understand, like, when the opportunity
calls I got to do what I got to do?
OK. So I'm trying to please
everybody. It's super hard.
Jibri knows that David and I
don't have a good relationship.
We briefly met
two, three years ago
and he was being
judgy towards me.
He was giving some comments to
Jibri about me that were unnecessary.
Um... So I didn't feel, like, a good
vibe from him from the beginning.
Just promise me that you're gonna try to keep
it as cordial as possible with David, please.
OK.
You really mean that?
Of course. That doesn't
sound like you meant that.
That is the best I can do.
I'm happy that Jibri is working on
the music, but I'm actually hoping that
David is going to cause a scene, because
that's how he's going to show his true colours.
And I hope that then Jibri is
going to see who he really is.
We are talking about
your feelings non-stop
and, essentially, nothing changed
for you, except me being here.
How did nothing change for
me? You can still live your life.
You can still work on your music. You can still
be here with your parents. I have none of that.
I left my job. I left my family.
I left everything to be here with
you and now I'm following you.
I'm here, I'm following
you to Chicago.
And I say one wish
and it's like too
much to ask for.
What's too much to ask
for? A beach wedding.
[DRAMATIC SIGH]
I'm just saying we might
have to prolong things.
Yeah. When it comes to your wishes, we
don't have to, but when it comes to mine,
we have to prolong everything.
That's not... That's not,
that's not how it is, baby.
I do all this for you,
go with you to Chicago,
stay with you here,
with your parents.
I want my beach wedding.
So, if we're going to Chicago, we have to have
a beach wedding? That's what you're telling me?
If we go to Chicago, we do.
'I'm tired of hearing about
the damn beach wedding.'
We can postpone
this beach wedding.
We can do this when we need to
and we have the financial means.
So the fact that Miona's bringing this up like a
bargaining chip, in order for me to finish out an album
that's gonna help both of
us is extremely frustrating.
The relationship is starting to feel like a
competition, based on who is sacrificing more.
And I don't like that.
I don't wanna talk about it. I
need to get out of here for a while.
And... yeah.
[DOOR OPENS]
[DOOR SLAMS]
♪ News flash, whiplash,
hit me with your 40-watt smile
♪ Yearning, learning
♪ It's probably gonna
hurt for a while ♪
You seem quiet.
You're acting like you
wasn't there or something.
What?
You didn't hear what they said?
Yes. I heard what they said.
So, do you think it's nice?
You seemed like you were...
OK.
No. I'm not OK.
I just hold it for you.
Mohamed has a right to feel...
disrespected, but I don't
think it was intentional.
I think that it was...
a little too much for Mohamed,
coming from a completely different world.
I respect your culture
and the difference
between here and Egypt,
but they didn't do the same.
They... like...
They're judging me all the time.
Actually, I'm
disappointed with you, Yve.
When I told you my
opinion about your clothes,
that was a private moment,
between me and you.
Well, first of all, Tatiana knows
that we had a huge fight in August.
Oh, so you told Tatiana about the
fight with me? Because I was upset.
I didn't talk to you for two or three days. That's
the longest we've never talked before, ever.
Back in the summer,
Mohamed was furious that...
I went on a family trip and I was
at a hotel and I went to the pool
and did not have a
one-piece bathing suit.
And I just thought it was
really trivial and not a big deal.
You know why? You told me,
"I'm going to change myself."
No, I did not say that! You said
that. That's bullshit, Mohamed.
In this point, you take
advantage of my...
That's BS, like, it's... I'm
wearing a bathing suit.
I don't have time to go
run around with my son
in a pandemic to go find
a one-piece bathing suit.
I'm sick of being judged myself,
too. Like I can't even put on
a dress that I think is nice
without you giving me a hard time.
"You can't wear that jacket."
Do I do that to you?
All this drama
over a frickin' bikini.
Who cares about
a f*cking bikini?
After you said that, you did it.
Oh, please, give me a break.
You met me, the first
picture you ever saw,
then you DM'd me,
was of me in a bikini.
And now I can't wear a bikini. I told you I'm not
going to marry a woman wearing a bikini anymore.
You told me at the first, when I
met you, that you wanna change.
You wanna - What? Change
from what? No, I don't.
All right.
I don't even know what
he's talking about, actually.
I chose to stop eating pork. I told him I
would only drink on special occasions.
And I've cleaned out my closet for
things that I know he wouldn't approve of,
but there's other
things that I kept
that I still might wanna wear.
But I never told him I'm never
gonna wear a bikini again.
I am absolutely furious.
I tried to tell you
that, you know,
obviously, things
are different here.
You can dress whatever you want.
Drink wine or whatever.
But don't get married.
Are you going to
choose a bikini over me?
♪ I can't protect you now
♪ Now that I can feel
♪ It will only break you down ♪
I am not a Muslim woman and...
I don't wanna be
told what to do.
I don't think that I go out
looking slutty or anything like that.
I'm proud of the way I look
and I don't think that I should
feel judged or ashamed for that.
And I don't like to feel that from
the person that supposedly loves me.
I'm not gonna...
live my life feeling controlled
and feeling like I'm a bad
person for just being who I am.
As much as I love him,
I won't get married, if we
can't, like, figure this out.
..90 Day Fiance...
Get in there. Scoop it up.
Why don't you put
more on your shovel?
I feel like I'd have to show you how
it's done. Just let me do what I'm doing.
'Her attitude drives me crazy.'
I wish you would
just listen to me.
I'm losing my patience.
It is compulsory for us, men
and women, to learn our religion.
Every time we have a
discussion, you give me a lecture.
Do you feel like it's a
lecture? All the time.
When Bilal goes into
lecturing mode, I think,
"Yes, Daddy." "No,
Daddy." "OK, Daddy."
We're gonna be moving
to Dallas real soon.
[SPEAKING IN PORTUGUESE]
He's family.
We're getting married, so he's
gonna be part of your family, too.
I am getting the experience
of what it feels like to be...
a woman in the mosque.
Oh, I'm sorry.
It makes me feel a
little uncomfortable.
I wanna help her to study Islam.
So you didn't think to tell me that
you would be training with a girl?
Hey... What's your name?
So you have full make-up
on... Get out of my way.
No, you never told me that.
If you're not gonna be honest
about what you're doing, I'm done.
This is bullshit.
Ever since you guys got
together, you different.
I'm gonna be his wife. I have his
best interests always.
No-one is seeing the real Miona
and everybody's judging her.
The band broke up because of Miona.
I'm reaching my boiling point.
Stop, bro.