05x05 - Family First

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05x05 - Family First

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Previously on "90 day fiancé"...

I deserve to have
the love of my life.

You don't want to stay?

No.

We applied for a k-1 visa


And we're still playing
the waiting game.

Any kind of violent act
like a fight?

I don't know.

Josh: I had physically spent
only five days with aika

When I asked her to marry me.

She has got any option she wants
to go anywhere in the world

With anybody she wants,
and she picked me.

She picked the united states.

Nicole: if azan keeps fighting
me on these things,

I don't know if he's ready
to be a parent.

It's not as easy
as you think it is.

David: not only do I have
to pay the dowry,

But now I have to go
water buffalo shopping.

I've just spent our money for
the tickets to go to america.

Now I don't know
what we're going to do.

One little fun fact
is that

We're getting married
in america.

Yeah. You want to know
another fun fact?

You're getting married
to a foreigner.

And coming up...

David: when annie and I
get to america,

We will be living
with chris and nikki.

We would like you to, you know,
maybe volunteer

To do some things
like give me a massage

Or something by the pool.

Absolutely not.

Mm.

Hey! My baby.

Josh: I'm feeling a lot of
pressure to make aika feel

At home here in america.

Just seemed like you were
looking for men in america.

Yes.

My dad has told me he doesn't
want me to marry luis.

I've got a lot of concerns
about this.

I'm sure you do.

I don't want luis to use this
for a pathway to citizenship.

That's how I feel about it.

Elizabeth:
I'm going to ireland.

I'm really scared because
there's so many things

That can cause him
to be denied.

What?

There's your age, for one,

Especially with evelyn
only being 18 years old.

I am not.

Nicole: me and azan have
a lot of trust issues

That we need to work through.

Do you love me?

It's done.
It's over.

**

Azan: let's go.
Let's go.

Nicole:
we spent the first few days

That I've been in morocco
in casablanca,

But now we're heading
to agadir

To spend the rest of our trip
with azan's family.

So far, it's been
a little rocky,

But things have been
looking up lately,

So I just hope
that it will last.

**

Azan really didn't take me out
when I was in morocco

The last time or show me around
his town, and it really sucked.

So if this trip is as bad
as the last trip

And he doesn't take you anywhere,
he doesn't take you out,

Are you finally going to say,
you know, "enough is enough"?

If azan doesn't treat me the way
that I should be treated

While I'm there, then that
could be a deal-breaker.

On our way to agadir,
azan wants to show us

The famous mosque
that's in casablanca.

May.
May.

**

[ Indistinct ]

Because if
she didn't think so,

I think maybe we'll
not get married.

Yeah?

Look, baby.
Look.

See how big it is?
Look.

Yeah.

I think it would be,
you know,

A challenge to have
two different cultures,

But I think
that would be good,

That we find the
balance between them.

Yeah.

May: look!

Tickle. Tickle.
Tickle.

Are you tickling yourself?

She's tickling her foot.

She's so silly.

Let's look. Look.
Look. Look. Look.

Say, "thank you."

Aww, say, "thank you."
Say, "thank you."

Take a bite.

- Got it?
- Oh. Yum.

Oh, good girl.
Thank you.

Say, "thank you."

I feel like there's a whole
new kind of love when,

You know, you have
may around.

Look.

Oh, you...

[ Laughs ]

Nicole: he was carrying her and,
you know, taking care of her.

It really feels amazing.

It's just so great, you know,
to spend time

With both of them
together,

You know, even though now
we don't get as much alone time,

**

And that's probably the only
little bad that I see.

Hmm?

Before we left
casablanca, you know,

I was talking to azan about
the sleeping arrangements

When we get to
his aunt's house,

And, you know, I heard that
as long as it's, like,

A personal home
or a family home,

That, you know, it's really okay
if you, like, share a room.

I really wanted to, you know,
ask azan if we can ask his aunts

If we can stay in the same room,
but I told him, you know,

"Whatever she says,
I really respect her,

And i... But at least we have
to try, right?"

Yeah.
Yeah.

I bet they are.

**

Elizabeth: getting on my plane
to come see you, baby.

This is it.

I'm finally on the plane
to dublin.

I can't wait to see
my fiancé, andrei.

We haven't seen each
other in so long,

And I can't wait to
finally be with him.

We applied for a k-1 visa


And we're still waiting.

It's super frustrating.

You don't know
what's going on.

You have no control over it.

So I met with
our immigration lawyer

To see what's taking
so long

For andrei and I's visa
to be approved.

So, he never violated
the tourist visa?

I think he overstayed
a little bit.

Another glitch could be
whether or not

He has some kind of arrest,
any kind of violent act,

Like a fight,
an as*ault, a battery.

That would be visa fraud.

I'm really scared now
because I know

That andrei has a serious
temper at times,

And I'm really hoping that

There's nothing
that he had done before

That would stop us
from him coming here.

**

I'm going to ireland because
I'm so sick of waiting.

I can't wait another day for us
to just be with each other.

**

**

**

Oh, my god.

It was good.

It was good?

I couldn't sleep.

My name is andrei,
and I'm 31 years old,

And I'm coming from
chisinau, moldova.

I'm so excited.

I'm happy that I'm here,
finally.

[ Chuckles ]

Aw, you're sweet, baby.

What?

As soon as he said,
"I have something to tell you,"

And he wasn't smiling,

My stomach just started
shrinking.

You do?
Yes.

Ah!

You did that on purpose.

Oh, yeah.

Oh, my gosh.

I know.
I'm so excited.

When he first was, like,
breaking it to me,

I thought that it was
going to be something,

Or something like that.

I was freaking out,
so when he finally...

No, but I'm just...

I'm...
[ Laughs ]

I'm so happy.

I missed you, baby.

I'm so excited that we finally
have this interview,

But at the same time,

I am still really nervous
because the lawyer scared me,

So I have to talk
to him about it

Because if andrei
has anything to hide

And there's something
that he wasn't telling them,

It's automatically going to
be considered visa fraud.

Them booking his interview
could be them

Bringing him
face-to-face to say,

"You lied to us. You're denied.
Get out of our face."

**

**

- Luis, open your mouth.
- Uh-huh.

Ah!

You didn't catch it.

Look at me.

Look at me
so you can catch it.

Want me to draw...
Want me to draw a house?

Yes, please.

And this is a house?

- Yep.
- Yeah?

And then you put people.

What is the color is this?

Orange.

This is in spanish,
it's naranja.

Naranja.

The color, naranja.

Naranja.

How do you say in english,
this color?

- Blue.
- Blue?

You know it in spanish?

It's blue, blue,
blue, blue.

This is azul.

- Azul.
- Azul.

Yes, in spanish.

I like teaching her spanish
word so much, yes,

Because it's my language, and I
want she follow me everything.

Umm...

Padre.

Padre.

Pa?

Dre.

- Pa?
- Dre.

Padre.

Exactly.
[ Laughs ]

Ay, ay.
Your new father.

Your new padre.

Mm.

- Why not?
- I already have a dad.

- No?
- Yes, I do.

No me?

- Nope.
- Are you sure?

Never.
Never you.

- Never?
- Mnh-mnh.

But I going to be
your mom's husband.

But you're not my dad
or my friend.

Why you did that?
Hmm?

Because I don't like you.

Kensley.

Unh-unh.

- Yes.
- No, you're not.

I don't love you.

The only person I love
is my mom

And my sister and jess.

Sorry, you're not my dad.

I don't love you.

Why not?

David: little stressed this morning
because I have to hand out


To the entire village,

But I am afraid
of running out of cash.

I trust your judgment,
evelyn,

But I can't like someone
I don't even know.

**

**

Oh, I don't think you should
have to worry about that.

Even if you don't have makeup
on, you're still beautiful.

Aww.

David: today, we are having
a traditional

Thai engagement ceremony
in annie's home village,

And I'll be presenting
her parents with gifts

In exchange for
her hand in marriage.

We bought gold...

How much is 11 baht, again?

Wow.
That's a lot.

The two water buffalo,
how much are they?

...and most importantly,
the 50,000-baht dowry.

Little stressed this morning

Because there may come a point
where I am asked for more cash.

As a matter of fact,
I expect to come a point.

That's why she said,
"let's bring emergency money."

I am afraid of running
out of cash.

I can't even fit my wallet
into my pants,

Which in a little while,
won't matter anyway

Because there won't be
anything left to put in there.

Can I put it in here?

All right.
I'll figure it out.

It's no worries.

I'm excited, nervous.

I just want to have a great time
today and make it special.

I hope chris and nikki
can make it,

But I would understand because
nikki doesn't feel well

Being 6 months pregnant
and having a baby,

But we really hope
they're here.

Are you about ready?
Yes.

Definitely don't want
to keep monks waiting.

**

[ Chanting in native language ]

**

Now I lead the entire village
on a procession

To annie's parents' home
where I will ask the parents,

Officially, if you will,
for her hand.

**

It was one of the most
incredible things

That I have experienced outside
of my children being born,

Of dancing in front
of a village of people

Who came out to support
like she's a princess,

And I will never forget it.

Annie: whoo!

Whoo!

[ Laughter ]

Wait. They're coming.
They're coming.

Are they coming?
Yeah. Yeah. They're coming.

Whoo!

Welcome!
Welcome!

Hey! Hey!
Hey! Hey!

It was incredible, to see
what he's come from,

See from the lowest
point of his life

To leading a village
through the streets

And watching them look
at him like he's the king.

He's come a long way.

It was pretty amazing.

David: ohh!

Oh, this is so exciting,
beyond my expectation.

**

[ Giggles ]

[ Singing in native language ]

As we arrive at the house,

There's this ceremonial
of a blocking of the door.

You can't get in.
You have to pay your entrance,

So we hand out
these envelopes with 100 baht

In each of them
just to get into the house.

Yeah!

[ Speaking in native language ]

All I keep hearing is,
"I need 5,000 more baht.

I need 2,000 more baht."

I don't even know
the grand total.

I had to borrow
more money from chris

Just to make it
through the day.

After gifting money to what
felt like the entire village,

I have to offer annie's
parents the dowry.

Give to my mom.

Ooh.

[ Speaking in native language ]

I have your ring,
and then I'll put mine,

And you can
put mine on.

Yes.
Yes.

I want to put...

Okay.
Ooh.

[ Applause ]

And for you.

It was the best day
of my life.

It was just overwhelming
from emotion,

From being feeling welcomed.

Although this was a big deal
by thai culture,

We're not legally married.

When we get to the u.s.,
We have 90 days

To actually get married.

The pressure
is just beginning.

**

**

Hey, jackie.

Evelyn:
doesn't he look cute?

Yeah, he does.

Right now, I've been
in america for 24 hours.

I had a great first day here.

Tonight, I'm going to have
a welcome party

Where I'm going to meet some of
evelyn's friends and family.

Wow, jackie.

Can I stick my finger on it?

Ew.
If you must.

No, I'm kidding.

If you say it like that,
it sounds so gross.

I feel a bunch of different
things about david

Meeting my friends
and family tonight.

I know that my aunt ginger
is going to love david,

But I'm a little bit nervous
about him meeting mikayla.

It just doesn't make sense
to me, why you had to do it

So young and so fast.

It doesn't have to make
sense to you.

I'm in your life,
so I want to understand it,

But for the life of me,
I can't.

So it should be interesting
to see how their meeting goes.

Oh. Hey. Hey, ging.
Come on in.

Hi.

Have you met?
I'm david.

David, I think, is so handsome,
and they make a great couple.

They're very good
on the eyes.

It's nice to have
you here finally.

Nice to meet you.

I've heard a lot about you,
and I was really excited

To meet you, so finally.

He gave me a hug right away,
which I thought was,

You know, very personal.

He's going to be
a great addition to the family.

- Hey.
- Hey, julie.

- Come on in.
- Come on in.

- Here, let's...
- The party has started.

Jacalyn: should we get rid of some of these
pillows so people can start sitting?

- Yeah.
- Probably.

- Hey, it's great to...
- How you doing?

- Great.
- How are you?

- So glad to meet you.
- Julie, nice to see you.

Intimidating coming to a family

That it's really,
really close like they are.

- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you, too.

I've only seen you
in pictures.

I haven't seen you
in real life.

Me too.
I'm glad to meet you finally.

Thanks.

I'm a little bit nervous,
so hopefully,

It's going to be fine.

I think claremont
is really beautiful,

But I think I'm going to have
a hard time in winter

With the long winters
and snow.

So where would you
like to live?

Where's your dream place?

I would much rather live
somewhere south,

Maybe in virginia.

I have friends there,
and I've talked to them,

And they say that
just the weather

Is much nicer
than here up north.

Of evelyn and david

Moving to virginia
potentially in a year.

I will support them
with whatever they do,

But I can't lie and say
that I'm happy about it.

We're in the perfect time
to explore,

To go on a 2 or 3-year
adventure,

Work somewhere else.

I think it will definitely be
a death blow to the band

If they move to virginia.

It's not my first choice for
them, but it is their choice.

- And then...
- Evelyn is the band.

Evelyn: we can discuss it
when the time comes

Because it just
makes me angry.

I'm not taking you
to spain.

I'm asking you to, like,
just go to another state.

I know you think that you know
everything about new hampshire

For the whole 24 hours
you've been here,

But I think david will learn
a lot about new hampshire

This next year,
and hopefully, he'll love it.

Hopefully, I'll love it.

I doubt that I will love


Or even if
it's 4 or 3 or 2.

Mikayla is here.

- Hey.
- Hey.

Hey.
Hey.

Thanks for coming.

No problem.

- Hi, mikayla.
- Hello, david.

Eveyln: I hope that when mikayla
finally meets david,

She'll just change
her mind about him

And just realize that david
and I are made for each other.

So I've heard a lot
about you, david.

How have you liked
being here so far?

I've been having a great time
with evelyn, evelyn's family.

You're friends with evelyn
for a long time, right?

- Yes.
- Okay.

Yeah, it's cool.

The second mikayla showed up,
I think david kind of shut down

Or at least put up some kind
of barrier, some kind of wall

That he was obviously
expecting her to be cold.

I did hear, like, you weren't
really a big fan of me coming.

Not exactly.

There's your age, for one.


Is substantial,

Especially with evelyn
only being 18 years old.

I just feel like you
could trust my judgment.

I trust your judgment,
evelyn, but I don't know david,

So I can't like someone
I don't even know.

Why... So this is
david's welcome party.

Did you just come to, like,
judge him and size him up?

No. I came because you invited
me to come, and I want...

Well, because I want
you guys to be friends

Or at least like each other.

I'm happy you're here.
It makes evelyn happy.

But because I don't know
you individually,

I like to wait for me to see
how I view someone's character

Before I'm automatically
good friends with them.

I don't want this to cause
problems for us,

And if you don't like david,
then you're disrespecting me.

I haven't given you any reason
to dislike me.

So far, I felt welcome
by everyone except you.

Solomon: y'all are, like,
really tense right now.

Maybe, like,
future conversations,

You guys will be good friends.

You know, you might come
to find you have more

In common than you think.

I'm just hesitant with
how fast things are going.

You're not really financially
ready for all of it yet.

Finances are a
big thing that...

Are you dating
someone currently?

- I am not.
- Okay.

Mikayla: david was definitely
a little aggressive,

[ Voice breaking ] and he made the
comment about me being single,

And that really upset me.

I just want to make sure
that she's happy,

And if that's with david,
that's great,

But I want them to,
instead of just brushing me off,

To really think about
what I'm saying

Instead of just not
caring, my opinion.

I do wish you both
a lot of happiness.

David: I'm happy to hear
that from you.

I'm happy that you have a
good thought and a good aim,

A good desire
for the rest of our lives.

I just love mikayla so much,
and it's just, like,

We're in it together
forever, no matter what.

I love you a lot too, evelyn,
so I really hope...

...that things work out great.
I know.

Okay.

It bothers me that mikayla
doesn't even give me a chance.

I just want her
to be on our side.

It's a big sacrifice
that I'm making

Coming from another country,

And I want to
feel welcome here.

I'm so afraid that he won't
be able to come back here.

I hope that maybe his aunt
will let us stay

In the same room together.

You ready?

Josh: joe wants to make sure
I'm not getting into something

That's going to have
a bad ending.

What I told josh is,
it just seemed like

You were looking for men
in america.

Yes.

**

Elizabeth: I'm in dublin
to be with andrei,

Appointment for the visa.

About potential visa fraud

If we filled out
the application incorrectly.

I'm really nervous because
the lawyer kind of scared me.

And I'm really hoping
that there's nothing

That he had done before.

And I'm concerned
about his overstay.

And I wanted to ask him
why he did it.

And, "was there anything that
you did that could be illegal?"

She was saying, like, you know,
if you had any bar fights

When you there
or if you did anything

To, like, neglect your visa

Or, you know, since you had
an overstay or whatever?

Lawyers don't have
to be positive.

They have to tell you
the truth.

Well, why didn't you leave
when you were supposed to?

Why did you decide to stay?
Like...

I just don't think that andrei
quite understands

What a big deal it is that
he overstayed his tourist visa.

There is still a possibility
that his visa could be denied.

Well, what would we do
if they deny us?

I'm just thinking
about my family.

They're going to [bleep]
a brick if I told them...

If I tell them that
I'm going to move to moldova.

Like, they're worried that
you're going to just,

Like, take
advantage of me.

Yeah. But you'll see
when you meet them.

Like, they're just...
Can be little much.

Can be a little much
sometimes.

**

If our visa isn't approved,
I would have to move to ireland,

And I don't know
if I'm ready to do that.

I have a life in america,

And my family won't be
on board with that.

Now I'm just thinking, like,
what's going to happen.

I have no idea.

Right?

**

Hi.

**

The cousins now?

Let's go.

Nicole:
we are finally in agadir,

And I am really excited
actually for may

To meet azan's family.

We're going to meet
his aunts today,

Which I've never met before,

And then his mom will be there,
his sister, her husband,

And then their three kids.

And I hope that maybe his aunt
will let us stay

In the same room together.

We're here, may.
No, no, no, no, no.

- Let's go.
- Here, may.

Here.

Let's go.

- Hey, girl.
- Hi!

Najia: nicole.

[ Speaking in native language ]

As soon as the door opened,

May kind of disappeared
in the crowd,

And I was really
enjoying seeing them

Just loving her
and accepting her.

It really was amazing.

**

[ Speaks in native language ]

I'm good.
How are you?

I did miss you.

I missed all of
you guys a lot.

Oh, yeah.
I missed you, too.

Even though the last trip
was pretty rough,

His family really
accepted me with open arms.

And that really made me
feel loved.

You know, let them know that,
you know, I wanted to bring may

This time because I wanted
to see you with her

And to see, like,
how you are as a dad.

Yeah.

You should ask your mom
for me, like,

How she feels about you
going to america

Because it's really
going to happen.

She said, like,
she'll be fine.

She will not worry.

What? Tell me.
Tell me. Tell me.

Mm-hmm.

You ready?

Oh, my god.

Oh, even in the home?

We'll be okay.

No. No.
Are you sure?

I wouldn't be mad at you.

I just... I thought it would
be a good idea to try.

No.
I don't think you are...

You know what I said to her.

I respect that, and I'm
not going to complain

And I'm not going to get mad
like you think I will.

I told you this time
would be different.

I won't be upset.
Okay.

I was really hoping to be able
to share the room with him

Because, you know, it really
would give us that time alone.

And you know, I just want,
you know, his affection.

Babe, I love you.

You too, baby.

[ Sighs ]

David: when annie and I
get to america,

We will be living
with chris and nikki.

Chris:
I like thai massage.

Is that something
that you would volunteer?

Give me a massage
or something by the pool?

**

My dad has told me he doesn't
want me to marry luis.

I've got a lot of concerns
about this.

I'm sure you do.

I don't want luis to use this
for a pathway to citizenship.

That's how I feel about it.

**

David:
what a beautiful night.

Yes.

It seems like just yesterday
that we were here.

And I love coming back here
because it just brings back

Happiness of that first night

We were in bangkok,
and here we are.

So I'm so happy
that you are with me.

Yeah. Me too.
I'm so happy.

The engagement ceremony
was absolutely incredible.

And now we have the visa,

So we are back in bangkok
to enjoy ourselves a bit

Before we go to america.

Tonight, we're having drinks
with chris and nikki

Before they head
back to america.

What's up, brother?

What's up, my man?

Nikki: hey, annie.

When annie and I
get to america,

We will be living
with chris and nikki.

It makes sense because
I don't have a car.

I don't have an apartment.
I don't have a house.

I don't even have a u.s.
Bank account at this point.

We still have our house
ready for you.

Are you excited about...

Yeah.

To come live with us.

Let's be clear.

And I tend to get excited
and do things without telling.

Consulting.
Consulting.

So, did you have some rules that
you wanted to talk about or...

The only thing
that I don't...

I don't care.
Like, our house is your house.

David: oh, I appreciate that.
You have the downstairs.

We'll share the kitchen.

- Yeah.
- Your own bathroom.

You'll get your own
little space.

Kitchen, you're welcome
to at any time.

Until you get back
on your feet, you know.

Yeah.
Until we get situated there.

And obviously, I mean,
even as we've talked about,

I mean,
it's a short-term thing.

We have 90 days.

You're family to us.
You know, 90 days.

We can get through 90 days.

Right.

We got just a little bit...

You know, when you're
on your 90-day visa,

You know, you're
not allowed to work,

But we would like you to maybe
volunteer to do some things

Like, you know,
volunteer to...

You know,
I like thai food.

I would love...
You love to cook.

Okay.
Annie will cook for me.

I like to get massages.

I like thai massage.

So is that something that you
would be cool to, you know,

Volunteer to give me a massage
or something by the pool or...

Umm...

Mm...

Well, I mean, like I said,
I'm not making you do anything.

I'm just saying
it would be nice.

Absolutely not.

What I told him was that
you give me great massages.

Chris sometimes embellishes
or stretches what he hears.

He hears what he wants to hear,
but absolutely not.

Hmm.

I cannot do massage.

So that's okay, but, you know,
I guess, you know, our goal

Is to get you moved out
and, you know...

Yeah.
We have 90 days.

I think if you watch
your finances,

You ought to be able
to move out on your own.

Nikki: I see david as
an unwanted son.

Chris, like, nursed him.

I always tell chris, like,
take him off the [bleep].

Like, that's how I feel.

I feel like he's a grown man.

He needs to be a grown man.

Like, deal with his own
responsibility sometimes.

Nikki: obviously, we're inviting
you guys in our home.

The only thing that
I'm more concerned about,

And, you know, I say
this to chris all the time,

Is you becoming
too dependent on chris.

I understand.

And I just don't want you to
get stuck and get comfortable.

The concern especially
is new country,

New culture,
living with me.

It's not a good situation,

But I think it'll be
a good transition.

And then we can start
going out and saying,

"Okay. What is our road?"

And I can promise you.

I'll make you a little
pinky promise there.

It will not be for
a long time.

Otherwise, I know
she'll be back on a plane

Going back to thailand
very quickly.

Yeah.

**

**

Set up a barbecue

At the family farm

So that my dad can meet luis
because he's here to stay,

And he's going
to be my husband.

Olivia is here with
her boyfriend, matthew.

Kensley is here, and my dad.

You ready?

[ Sighs ] I think.

This is it.
This is it.

Oh, my god.

I'm a little worried that luis
is meeting my dad today

Because he has told me

He doesn't want me
really to marry luis.

I know that you guys
haven't spent

All that much time
together.

No.

And I know that people
are looking to hook up

With americans to get
into the country

Because that's a shortcut
to get citizenship.

**

It's real easy to fear
what you don't understand.

I hope that, once my dad
gets to know luis,

That he'll see
how wonderful he is,

And he'll see that the love
that we have is really real.

Hi, you guys.

- Hi.
- Hi.

- Hey, molly.
- Hey.

- Hi.
- Hey.

Luis, right?

- This is my dad.
- Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you, too.

Welcome to the united states.

Thank you.

I don't know what
he's thinking about me.

I am so afraid, so afraid.

- Pleasure to meet you.
- Yeah. Yeah.

Let's eat.
I'm hungry.

Jess:
I'm coming with the food.

I got the hamburgers,
hot dogs, the steak.

You want some beans?

Do you guys speak spanish
where you come from?

Yes.
All country.

Didn't you work
as a bartender?

Yes.
A bartender.

Molly: that's where we met.

Yes. When we met.
When he was working.

**

Molly, she's behaving
a little bit like a schoolgirl.

I think she wants a man
in her life so bad

That sometimes that she doesn't
make the best decisions.

So we're starting to plan
our wedding, and, you know,

I just really hope that during
these next couple of months

That we could spend
some time with you,

And you can see, you know,
that we're serious about this.

We are.

You know, and I hope
that we get your, you know,

Love and support about it.

I mean, I don't need
any help from anybody,

But, hell,
I'd like to have some.

I don't really know how
to respond to that right now.

**

I mean, this is awful early
in this for me,

And I'm a little
more old-fashioned.

I've got a lot of concerns
about this.

I'm sure you do.

I don't want luis to use this
for a pathway to citizenship.

I'd rather it be
for the right reason.

Well, what's the difference
in meeting somebody at work

And having a crazy love affair

And getting married
and running off?

May: but it's
a little different.

You can like somebody,
but you don't just, like,

Meet them, like, twice,
and you're like,

"Move to america.
Like, let's get married."

That isn't really
the practical way.

Phillip: and that's kind of
where I'm at with it.

I think y'all need
to give it some time

And figure out how this
whole situation unfolds.

It almost sounds to me
like you're ready to run

Right down into this venue
right here and say, "I do."

I just might.

And I think that would be
an absolutely foolish thing

For either one of you to do.

That's how I feel about it.

**

The meeting with molly's
father is not good for me.

In my mind, you don't just
two days later say, you know,

You're getting married,

And throwing caution
to the wind and go for it.

- And then...
- Well, it's not been two days.

He just needs time.

It's going to be okay.

We'll see.

You know, I'm going
to wait and see.

**

We're getting married,
so my dad has to deal with it.

**

This visa interview will
determine the rest of our lives.

Kiss their ass.

Do you love me?

We're about to make the biggest
decision of our lives,

And I just asked my dad
to support you for 10 years.

**

**

Baby, andrei.

Come here. Look at these shirts
for your interview.

Tomorrow is
our visa interview,

Of the entire k-1 visa process.

They will make the decision
whether or not

We should be approved
for a k-1 visa.

So it will determine essentially
the rest of our lives.

We should go through
the interview questions.

Come on, baby.

This is, like,
less than 24 hours away.

No.
It's not.

Okay.

You think
I'm pressuring you?

How about when you're actually
in front of the person?

That's going to be
real pressure.

So go out,
and then come in.

And I'm going to pretend
to be the person.

And walk in like

Into the interview.

And I'll be, like,
the person.

Baby, come on.
Be serious.

Mr. Andrei.

Nice to see you.
Have a seat right here.

[ Laughs ]

Baby, come on.

Sit here.

[ Sighs ]

Hello, mr. Andrei.

Tell me about your fiancée.
What is her name?

Yes.
They're intense.

I talked to all of the lawyers.

Okay. So tell me
about your fiancée.

With a question.

How did you propose
to your fiancée?

Andrei.

Seriously.

When did you go
to the u.s.a.?



And why did you
overstay your visa?

You guess?

Not an answer.

Why did you overstay
your visa?

You regret doing that?

How will you contribute
to the american society today?

Absolutely no.
These are from the lawyer.

You're not in charge.
They are.

Yes.
But I know how you...

Really?

I feel like andrei isn't taking
the questions seriously.

And if he brushes off
any of the questions

That they ask him tomorrow,
it's not going to be good.

They hold
all of the control.

So if you have to kiss their
ass, like, kiss their ass.

Whatever.

I wish andrei would
take it seriously

Because american government
doesn't play around.

I mean, immigration,
they don't play.

If they tell us "no,"

I don't know what
I'm going to do.

**

**

- She love pizza?
- Do you want pizza?

Molly: yeah.

I want a sandwich
you ordered last time.

Yeah.
The chicken one.

Because you know
I don't like them.

On my sandwich.

Nicole: even though this trip is
very much better than the last one,

I can tell that me and azan
have a lot of issues

That we need to work through.

One of the things my dad
was talking about when he said

He accept to sponsor you
for the visa is,

You know, he really wants us
to live separately,

And he wants you
to accept that.

It's just something
we have to do if we want,

You know, my dad to sponsor.

So we have to accept it.

Are you always going
to be watching me?

Thank you.

**

I almost lost azan
before we even met

Because I cheated on him.

It's hard to bring up,
but, like, I cheated.

Next time there
won't be a next time

Because I know that
I love you,

And I would never
do that to you again.

I don't know.

I was just really confused
and not even thinking straight.

I was even shocked a little bit
when he still took me back.

All of that stuff is,
like, the past now.

You know that we've
gotten past that.

Why?

So when I got back from my trip,
I did something really stupid,

And I went out
with some friends,

And I took off my ring.

Azan, you know, found out, and
he was really upset about it.

It was a stupid reason.

It's not worth
talking about now.

I just wanted to be
free for a night.

That was all.

Are we not past this?

Then you know that
I love you now.

Do you love me?

Do you trust me?

Azan, you trust me.

I'm really...

We're about to make the biggest
decision of our lives,

And I just asked my dad

To financially support you
for 10 years.

So trust me.

Look at me.

All right, let's go.

It was just a friend.

Just a guy friend who,
you know, I hung out with.

He was just a friend.

**

**

Why... So why did you
lie about it?

I thought I told you.

Something bad.

Look.

Take this off of me.

The interview is over.

It's over.

That was the last question.

We answered the question.

It's done.

Let's go.

Can we go?

Come on.

[ Sighs ]

Baby, please,
please, please.

Can you take this
off of me?

Yes.
We're done.

**

**

**

**

Josh: in a matter of house,
aika will be sitting

Next to me in this car.

Finally, it's going to be
a real relationship,



I had only spent five days
with aika

Before I asked her
to marry me.

It's pretty crazy,
but I love her that much.

I was married two times before.

This will be my third marriage
and the third time is the charm.

Aika just turned 36 years old

And the only place she has
ever lived is in quezon city.

So I'm feeling a lot of pressure
to make her feel

At home here in arizona.

The first day of the rest
of my life begins

When aika lands
at the airport.

**

This is the moment I've been
waiting for for months.

I am so nervous.

**

I have butterflies.

**

Here comes another group.

**

Aika.

Hey, babe.

Hey.
Hi, baby.

**

- Oh, my gosh. Kiss me.
- My god.

I love you so much, baby.

You look so beautiful.

Oh, my god.

My name is aika.

I'm 36 years old, and I am
from quezon city, philippines.

Welcome home.

Our first kiss
at the airport?

Oh, wow. Yeah.
What do you think, babe?

Just yummy.

Like candy.

It's like candy.
[ Laughs ]

Yeah.

You ready to go home?

Forever right?
Oh, my gosh.

Okay.
Let's go.

**

I feel like
I won the lottery.

I'm the happiest man alive.

Yes.
You're the good luck charm.

She's my trophy.

Here we go.

Josh...

Of course
I'll be good to you.

Josh: aika doesn't have
much of a filter,

But, you know,
opposites attract.

Oh, my gosh.

And that's, you know,
why I picked her.

Hey, look.
You see the new jeep?

Ours.

This is definitely going
to happen within 90 days.

I'm going to make sure
this dream becomes a reality.

Think?

[ Laughs ]

Oh, my god.

Can you believe
we're in america together?

[ Aika laughs ]

**

David: well, it's kind of
disappointing

That there's, like,
zero willingness to help.

My friends and family...

We already got so much
that we're doing right now.

**

**

Wait me.
Wait me.

Where are you going?

[ Phone beeps ]

[ Computer ringing ]

- Hey.
- Hi.

I miss my country a lot.

I grew up in santo domingo.

It's a big city, and...

I don't like
so much living here,

But I have to try
because I love molly.

Okay.

**

**

Evelyn: I'm really disappointed with
how the welcome party turned out.

It was a chance for david
and mikayla to bond,

And then they ended up
fighting.

From now until the wedding,

We can just be able
to set it aside

And have a great wedding day.

I think you should get up
your list of, like,

The people
that you're inviting,

And then I'll kind of work
on my list.

David and I are finally
sitting down to do

Our wedding invitations

And it it long overdue.

The fact that this is not
done yet is so stressful.

And I'm like, "okay.
Let's do it.

Let's just stay up as long as
we need to to get this done."

Okay. So actually don't cut
those yet, baby.

I'm just going to
explain first.

So make sure that when you
write out your envelope,

You also fill out the rsvp.

Not when we've already
printed everything.

Let's just deal with this
because this is what we have.

Whew. Okay.

I think that david's personality
is a lot different than mine.

Like, he's a little bit
more laid back,

But I'm more of,
like, I plan things.

I have a certain way
that I want things to be.

Are you going to write
in cursive on the front, please?

Because wedding invites
usually are fancy?

Okay.

David has this idea
of my friends and family

Hosting his friends
and family for the wedding.

Realistically,
if I told my friends

They had to host guests
for my wedding,

They'd just say,
"ha, ha, ha. No."

A lot of times, people
don't feel comfortable

Taking in strangers here.

I'm just telling you
what I know.

I don't know. It's kind of
disappointing that they wouldn't come

Just because they'd have
to find accommodation.

There are, like,
inexpensive hotels.

Or ascutney

Inexpensive hotel.

**

[ Sighs ]

We've already got so much
that we're doing right now.

Am I going to be
writing your invites,

Writing your invites?

All right, so...

All right.
It's fine.

No, it's okay.

Okay.

Yeah. Let's go.

Tonight, I'm going
to stay up all night

And get my invites done
and if it comes down to it,

I'm going to do
david's as well

Because somebody needs
to get these done.

**

It's definitely tough
having david leave

When we're on bad terms.

It's not like he's sleeping
under the same roof.

We can't just
hash it out later.

[ Sighs ]

I'll see him tomorrow,
but we're going to be

On bad terms
tomorrow morning, too.

**

Looking for men in america.

Yes.

**

Check it out.
We're here.

Here it is, hon.
Yeah.

So, this is
where we live, honey.

Aika's first impression
of america is awesome.

We don't have to go all the way
outside to get a cold drink.

[ Laughs ]

Aika is the real deal.
Most of my friends know it.

I wish I could say the same
thing about my best friend joe.

And there is something called,
like, romance scams.

And it happens, like, all
the time in the philippines.

She has got any option she wants
to go anywhere in the world

With anybody she wants,
and she picked me.

She picked the united states,
it sounds like.

But at least my roommates
are actually super excited

About having aika move in.

You want to come down
and meet everybody?

- Yeah. Sure.
- Okay.

Let's go meet the roommates.

My roommates, they're like
family to me,

And they are around a lot.

So it's important
that everybody gets along.

So this is aika.
This is jason.

- Hello.
- Nice to meet you.

Jason is outgoing, energetic.

He's just a really
good friend.

Danielle.

Nice to meet you.

Danielle is a
real fun young woman.

So my roommates are very excited
to have aika move in.

Jason: so, how does it feel
to be here?

Has the reality set in yet?

It feels awesome.

I like it a lot.

That's...
That's the main thing.

[ Doorbell ringing,
dog barking ]

Josh: ohh!

What was that?

Wow.

Joe: pizza delivery.

What up, man?
Where is she?

Oh, you got to aika.
She's right here.

Where is she?

Aika!

I have a welcome
to america starter kit.

You never...

So, these are
american flowers.

So there's that for you.

Thank you.
Oh, my...

American chocolate
with an american flag on it.

Oh, you don't even know.
Wow.

And, like, the coup de grace,
it's an american necklace.

Yeah.

So that way you can show
your support for america.

So, how is america
so far?

All right.
Let me just ask this, okay?

I have a doozy of a question
I have to ask.

I sat down with josh
a few days ago,

And we were talking
about okcupid.

Yes.

And he mentioned that before
josh, you had met another guy.

So what I told josh
is it just seemed like

You were looking
for men in america.

**

Mm-hmm.

No.
I'm not against you.

I was there to pick up
the pieces

When he had his last divorce.

- Yes.
- I was...

I picked up all those pieces.

So I know how much pain
that caused him.

I know.

Josh: I get that joe
seems really harsh,

But give it time,
and he'll come around.

I know he will.
He'll be fine eventually.

So that's why I'm questioning
you so much in all of this

Because I don't want
to see that happen ever.

Oh, my god.
That's super hard.

**

**

Andrei:
today is day of interview.

I'm going to find out...

Baby.

You ready?

This k-1 visa interview
is the most important step

Of the process.

Basically, the one that
makes the decision

On whether or not
we're approved.

Yeah.
Are you nervous?

If we get denied the k-1 visa,
then I would have to move.

**

Ready, baby?

If they find out andrei
has anything to hide,

He'll be denied immediately.

I would have to move
to europe,

Whether that be
ireland or moldova,

And I don't know
if I'm ready to do that.

**

Yes.
Either way we'll be together,

But it will decide
where we're going to be.

All right.

**

There is nothing else.

**

Nicole: after the fight
azan and I had,

We decided to take some time
to cool off a little bit.

We're having lunch later
to talk things over,

But I really need to hear
a familiar voice.

I haven't spoke to my family
since I've been here.

So while azan is at the gym
and may is with his aunt,

I went to a hotel with good
wi-fi to skype with my mom.

Hey, mom.

I'm sorry I haven't been able
to call you yet.

i've been waiting.

i keep checking the app to see
if you called back


or tried to call and...

No. It's not you.
It's me.

When I get on wi-fi,
I message you,

But then we leave again
and so there's no wi-fi.

so how are you?

how about may?

Yeah.
She's doing great.

I'll try to send you more
pictures and videos when I can

And, you know...

okay. Well, the few pictures
I've seen on the internet,


she really looks like
she's having a good time.


she looks fine.
You don't sound so good.


Me?

I'm probably just tired.

Been a long few days.
[ Chuckles ]

I really want to tell
my mom everything,

But it's hard to tell
her the truth.

well, honey, I hate to do
this, but I got to run.


work is calling.

i'm so glad
to hear from you.


i'm glad you
called me finally.


All right, mom.
I miss you.

love you too.

Bye.

bye.

[ Phone beeps ]

I hope that I can smooth
things out with azan,

But I'm worried
that he's too mad

To forgive me this time.

**

Why?

This guy was just a friend.

It was nothing romantic
and, you know, from now on,

I promise I would never keep
anything from you again.

There is nothing else.

Since that last time,
I've been faithful to you,

And I know that
I'm loyal to you.

And I love you.

No.

**

I really worry that, you know,
he's not going to want to,

You know, fix it this time.

You know, if this ends,
it's on me

Because it's something

I didn't tell him,
and I should have.

I just want to know,
do you think you can

Really trust me again?

It will change.

I can really prove to you that,
you know, you can trust me

And that I love you
so much

And that I want
to be with you.

I'm going to prove to you.

You'll see.

It was a hard
conversation to have,

But no matter what it takes,

I will show him.

He will see that I love him,
and that I'm faithful to him.

I love you.

I really love you.

I know.
I love you, too.

**

Next time on "90 day fiancé"...

And action.

I think aika has the potential
to do modeling.

I don't mind
paying for things.

They're not going to be
standing at the altar

In jeans and a dress shirt.

If there's any day
that I can be selfish,

Couldn't it be my wedding?

I'm leaving my country,
leaving my family,

And you don't seem to want
to give up anything.

Oh, gosh.

Elizabeth: so andrei just went
into his visa interview.

If they tell us, "no," I don't
know what I'm going to do.
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