07x07 - Sowing the Seeds

[bunniefuu]

[upbeat music plays]

♪ You're so fly ♪

[Tan] Can we dress up as,
like, the cover of Spice World

for one of our ambushes?

-Obviously I'd be in the Union Jack.
-No!

I'm gonna be Baby.

Emma Bunton's the cutest.
You're the cutest, blondest…

"My mummy's my best friend."

Yeah, you could totally do that.
I actually think I might be Posh.

No, or, Antoni, are you her?

Tan would be Posh without a doubt.

-So Antoni, like, would be Ginger, then?
-Ew!

-He's the slutty, sexy, gorgeous…
-[laughing]

-[jazz music plays]
-♪ All right ♪

♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪

♪ Down in New Orleans ♪

[upbeat music plays]

-Hey, Muppets?
-Yes?

-Wanna know who we're helping?
-Yeah!

-So our hero this week is Michael Richard.
-Yeah.

♪ Maybe it's time, well, come on ♪

♪ And it's time to get funky, funky ♪

[Antoni] "Michael's a 31-year-old farmer
who manages Recirculating Farms

in Central City, New Orleans."

-Ooh.
-[Bobby] Oh.

Hey, guys. How y'all doing?

"Michael's farm helps youth and families
by providing fresh vegetables

along with educational programs
and activities."

-Wow.
-♪ Helping to end hunger, yes! ♪

I was food insecure growing up,

and I never, ever wanted anyone
to feel that way.

These haven't produced fruit
in, like, two weeks.

It sounds corny, but I wanted
to be the change I wanted to see,

and I would accept nothing less.

Use the shears.
Take all of this out of here.

So many different things
drew me to growing food.

Like, it's artistic and creative,

and also, like,
growing food is very therapeutic.

I love putting my hands in the dirt.

"Michael struggles to feel
worthy of people's time

and often feels judged when speaking
about farming and horticulture."

[Michael] I hear comments like,
"Why does Michael show up so dirty?"

Because that's how hard I'm grinding,
how much I'm working.

♪ It's time to come on ♪

[Antoni] "Michael lives with his fiancée
in a duplex."

[woman] Ever since I've known Michael,
he's been into plants and agriculture,

and he's always playing in dirt.

So it does sometimes feel like
our house is an extension of the farm.

My daddy used to say,
"God made dirt, and dirt don't hurt."

Your daddy is crazy, girl.

[laughing]

[woman] Michael cares very much

about making fresh, healthy food
accessible in the community,

but he really is
his own biggest challenge.

[Antoni] "Michael struggled with
his identity and self-worth."

"He was born to Creole parents,
both half Black and half Native American."

"He never felt Black enough
to be with his Black family

or white enough
to fit in with his white friends."

That is so common
for so many people who are mixed race.

"Michael was forced to grow up quickly
and had to drop out of high school

to work and support his family."

Poor baby.

My life growing up was pretty difficult.

I've had to overcome obstacles
that most people haven't,

but I wanna believe in myself more.

Oh, wait. It gets better.
I just got excited.

Okay, so… "Marianne,
Michael's boss and mentor,

wants him to succeed in all things

but first, she'd like the Fab 5 to show
Michael he deserves to be respected."

[Marianne]
Michael is a rising star in our city.

People are drawn to him naturally.

He can do whatever he wants,

but he doesn't recognize it yet.

"At the end of the week, the farm
is hosting their annual fundraiser."

"Marianne expects Michael to step up
and be the face of the farm

and the speaker at the event,
and they need funds."

Yes, they need to make it rain.

-No?
-[chuckles]

-Okay, no, I was thinking of gardening…
-It was a first draft.

I thought that could be fun.

Let's help this urban farmer
embrace his inner charmer.

[all] Yeah!

That calls for spirit fingers. Ah!

[upbeat music swells]

[energetic music plays]

First, we're gonna move
some mulch out of the way.

Oh my gosh! Look at the little kids.

Make ourselves a nice, clean hole.

Is he teaching kids?

We use the pot like this
and then grab it right here.

-Hello.
-[Michael] Hello.

-Oh my God.
-[Tan] Hi!

Hello, Michael! I'm Tan. Nice to meet you.

-Hi!
-[Tan] Nice to meet you.

-Nice to meet you.
-[Michael] Incredible.

How cute is this man in this urban farm
with, like, all the kids

and teaching them
about planting and stuff?

So I need to be one of the kids
'cause I don't know what is what.

Is everything here edible?

If it is something
that is not necessarily edible,

it has some type of benefit to the soil
or to the ecosystem that we're creating.

I didn't know fruits and vegetables
have flowers on them.

-'Cause they're also so pretty.
-Yes, so, so pretty. Yeah.

Did you know that fruits and vegetables,
like, have a flower in them?

Like, they start as flowers.

You wanna get gay people into gardening?
Just tell them there's flowers involved.

Or at least it worked for me.

[Marianne] Sorry to interrupt.
Welcome to the farm.

-Hi.
-Oh, hi!

I'm Marianne. I nominated Michael.

You're the mentor!

I'm so glad you're here.

So what is it
that you think that might be missing

that we could help him with?

Michael's amazing at almost everything.
It's just he's ready to take the next step

into the administrative
and policy aspect of the work.

But I wanna hear Michael say it.
Are you ready to take the next step?

Very nervous, but very excited.

Don't be nervous.
We seem like a lot, but we're not.

No, no. We are a lot.
You should be nervous, actually.

So we have a farm side,
and we have a community-garden side.

So this is our production, farm side

where we're trying to grow
as much food as we possibly can.

It's too hot to grow things here
in the summer, so we cover crop.

We plant things
that can fix things in the soil.

Passion is dripping from every pore
on Michael's body

and a little bit of sweat
'cause it's 99,000 degrees out here.

You couldn't tell from Michael's attitude.

[Jonathan] I've never been
so hot in my life. Oh my God.

[Michael] We cut at the base
and leave the roots.

The microbes still have their home.

Wow. We're just over here
looking at this stuff over here,

and it is so interesting.

It's a little hot.

Tan and JVN, who have been outside
for about 90 seconds,

hiding from the heat like it's a plague.

[Jonathan] It is so hot.

It is literally
the eighth ring of Satan's assh*le.

Whoo!

He is his own biggest challenge.

For example, he has been wanting to apply
to this environmental-law program,

but it took him months
just to open the application.

Yeah. That's very telling.
Sounds like everyone else believes in him.

-But he doesn't believe in himself.
-I think that's accurate.

If you would like to try any peppers,
these are super hot.

-I wouldn't pick the red ones.
-Tanny, do you want a red one?

I could eat a green one.

-[Antoni] Red is milder.
-[Tan] Not red.

[Michael] No.

-They are pretty spicy.
-[Tan] It's definitely got a kick to it.

-[Bobby] It has a bit of kick.
-[Antoni] That's hot.

-Tan, you said this one was mild.
-[Tan] It is mild.

[Antoni] Ooh!

Because this is a community garden,
I try to grow things

from lots of cultures,
things people are used to.

This is okra.
We have it growing next to some hibiscus.

Hibiscus, you can make
a beautiful iced tea with.

Yeah, love it.

We have some purslane,
one of my favorite things to grow.

-Purslane?
-It grows in sidewalks, grows all over.

But it's one
of the healthiest greens you can eat.

It has a lemony taste to it.
It's really good in salads.

It is lemony.

-It's a really interesting plant.
-Yeah.

So this has been amazing,
but I, for one, wanna see your house.

-[Antoni] Yeah, we do.
-Yeah.

-We love an indoor setting.
-[Tan] Let's head to the house.

-Bye, everybody.
-Bye.

-Bye, friends.
-[Marianne] Thank you.

Come on, Michael. Let's go.

♪ …the day ♪

♪ And we kick into play ♪

♪ Until the night turns into day ♪

♪ Push up the b*at ♪

♪ Keep it moving ♪

-[Antoni] Hello there.
-Hey, y'all. Welcome to my house.

Hey.

[Antoni] Honey, we're home.

-We're home! Hi!
-I brought some friends.

-Hi!
-Oh, a puppa!

-Hi, sweet pup!
-[Michael] That's my boy.

-Hi.
-Hi, Kaila.

-The smell is almost oppressive.
-Ugh!

[Jonathan] It is so ripe in here.

I can smell the cats. I can smell the dog.
I don't wanna smell any of it.

-Oh yeah. That's broken.
-It definitely sinks in the middle.

-See, that one's a little bit higher than…
-Yeah, I feel like a little boy.

[laughs]

I am a very active person.

I work out all the time.

-You struggling to get up?
-Yeah.

I cannot get out of this sofa.

Use your core.

Thank you.

That's a problem.

-What is this?
-[Michael] That is my grow tent.

-[Karamo] What is that?
-That's a grow house.

You can grow plants inside.

-I assume there's lights and humidity and…
-Yes, lights, a fan.

But in the gay world,
it does seem like a gay sex room.

I'm just saying.

-[laughs]
-Yeah.

Oh my God. It's literally dead!

[Michael]
It's been dead since Hurricane Ida.

When I unzipped this thing,
it hits you like a box of rocks.

-[Jonathan] It's moldy, honey.
-Why haven't you cleaned this out?

It's depressing to clean it out

after all that stuff d*ed
that you spent time--

Think how happy it would make you
to grow new things.

-We do use it.
-When?

My mom used to say,
"Don't bring the outside inside."

Clearly nobody
was telling Michael and Kaila that.

-How do you feel about that, Kaila?
-I hate it.

[Bobby] Okay, that's what I thought.

The open gas t*nk
makes me a little bit très nervous.

-It hasn't been in here that long.
-You know what excuses are?

They're tools of incompetence,
which build monuments of nothingness.

And all I'm hearing is
excuse, excuse, excuse, excuse.

We're gonna stop the excuses,
and that's your first lesson.

Wow, that was a haiku.

[Tan] I am very confused
'cause this space is actually very tidy.

I can't understand
how you're so comfortable here with this.

-But that--
-I'm not comfortable with that.

-He, like, thrives in clutter.
-And I'm okay, like--

-And I don't.
-Organized chaos.

Do you, though,
or are you just used to it?

I'm used to organized chaos.

-That's language that has to go.
-Got to go!

Got to go. You got to do better!

All right, show us more.

This is our bedroom.

-[Bobby] That's a hot picture of you.
-It's one of my favorites.

[gags]

[Antoni] Oh, and they're moldy!

-Why are these tomatoes in the fridge?!
-[Michael] It's compost.

[Antoni] These poor babies.

[Karamo] I did not know
that tomatoes don't go in the fridge.

[Antoni] They get gritty.

That's our lizard, Spike.

[Tan] Oh wow.

For me, I'm, like, a cat and dog person
in my house,

but to each their own.

Yay, bearded dragon.

[Antoni] Oh my God. Oh my God. Whoa! Whoa!

-Can I touch?
-[Bobby] That's a lizard, Antoni.

[Kaila] Yeah, you can hold him.

Oh my God.

[Antoni] Bearded dragon.

The name is cute.

Tan, I'm just gonna stand here.

It's not cuddly.

-[Karamo] You wanna touch? He's sweet.
-[Antoni] I'm good, thanks.

[Karamo] I'll take a reptile
in a heartbeat.

I think we're kindred spirits
because neither of us ever get cold.

Ooh. It just gives me the chill
when I think about it.

And this is my closet.

[Tan] I'm gonna take
a real good look in there.

Clear out. I'm gonna look through
your closet. Don't mind me.

-Oh, here's the bathroom.
-[Antoni] Tanny, do you need any help?

-You can stay and watch if you want.
-Okay.

There's just dirt everywhere.

I like that. I'm not mad at that at all.

He's got some stuff I quite like.

Love that.

Nice. Happy with that.

Hate that.

-And then I toss it on the floor.
-Wait. Whoa! Why do you hate that?

[Tan] 'Cause it's not cute.

Oh, there we go.

[Tan] Gorgeous. You should slip into that.

I've got a feeling that he wears this
around the house for sexy time.

Okay, we're gonna put it
back on the hanger.

Tell me about your home, like, growing up.

Was it messy, or was it…

-It was very chaotic, for sure.
-Yeah.

Mental health is very much
tied to your space.

Like, the chaos around you
creates chaos in your mind.

I'm a big believer in that.

I wanna help organize the chaos a little.

[chuckles]

I'm so fit.

This is hard.

Oh my God. You actually have to sit down
to do this. Whoo.

-[in Irish accent] ♪ Tanny boy ♪
-[Tan] Hi.

-♪ The clothes, the clothes are calling ♪
-[Tan] Hello.

-[Tan laughs]
-Have fun.

Hi, dear. Thank you so much.

Hi!

Michael, we've got so much to talk about.

Is this you?

That was for a costume,
for a Prince costume.

I think it's chic as hell.

Um, okay, you have got so much stuff

that just feels so boring.

Yeah.

[Tan]
There's five different guys in there.

This is the same stuff I wore growing up
through junior high, high school.

-This is so 15 years ago.
-Yeah.

You can't possibly still be wearing this.

Um, I think I might have worn this,
like, a month or two ago?

Did you feel good, sexy, cool?

Um…

Not as cool as I feel in, like,
my more vibrant clothes, for sure.

This can't be you.

To be honest, I kinda don't wanna look
how I've been looking.

Tell me about life
outside of, um, the farm.

Are there styles you think,
"I wish I could look like that"?

It would be like
Justin Timberlake, A$AP Rocky.

A$AP and Justin
and a lot of those guys in that world

also blend masculine and feminine.

-Yeah.
-How do you feel about that?

I don't care about labels.
If it looks good, if it fits well,

that's all that really matters.

Awesome. Okay.
I think I got what I needed to.

A lot of meat.

I'm noticing that Michael
has self-worth issues.

Could you tell me a little bit
about what you've experienced

with his self-worth?

I just think
that he's really hard on himself.

I think that he's kinda scared of failure,

and so he's scared to, like,
take the next leap into things.

[poignant music plays]

-I'm sorry.
-No worries.

Take your time.

He's been through a lot,

and he feels as though
those things happened to him for a reason

and that he doesn't deserve
good things in his life.

And he feels like
the world is out to get him a lot.

How do you do anything with your hair?
So beautiful.

I don't do a whole lot.

I take a shower, and I brush it
with conditioner when I shower.

But I love your texture so much.
I can't stand it.

If I had to describe Michael's hair
in one word, it would be

sex.

What's happening with this?

Um, I just haven't shaved in a while.
I just…

'Cause you are giving me principal extra
on Pirates of the Caribbean.

-Do you know what I'm saying?
-I'm going for more Jimi Hendrix vibes.

You're giving me villain in Hook.
You're giving me pirate captain.

Thank you so much for showing us
your lovely garden, your lovely home.

-Do we all feel ready and prepared?
-[Karamo] Yes!

-All right. Bye, y'all.
-Oh, no, you're coming with us.

-[laughing]
-No, this starts now.

Kiss her goodbye.

-[Tan] Thank you.
-[Kaila] Bye.

Thank you, Kaila.

You thought you were staying?!
This week starts now!

[upbeat music plays]

♪ This is the start of something ♪

We gotta redirect some
of the passion Michael has

for gardening and ending food deserts,

just redirect, like, 10% of it
towards himself.

[Karamo] Kaila's
a very supportive partner,

but I don't think
she can do this on her own.

It's time for Michael
to understand he needs more support

to get over these issues
that are blocking him.

♪ I'm on fire! Yeah! ♪

I absolutely understand the pressure
of being torn between two worlds.

However, at some point,
you've gotta forge your own identity.

I don't want him to feel like
a knockoff of anyone.

I want him to feel like Michael Richard.

♪ Taking over the sky ♪

♪ Whoo! ♪

I cannot wait to pamper Michael
with a little bit of design,

but also I want to help him move forward
on his way to achieving his goals.

I hear that you have
an environmental-law program that you run,

and that Michael should be in it.

Yes. I kept encouraging him,

but I think it's the personal statement
that is hanging him up.

-Okay.
-♪ I can't help but… ♪

[Antoni] We're so excited to support
Recirculating Farms' annual fundraiser

and Michael's ambition
to one day be the executive director.

We have the fundraiser
in a couple of days, so I'm excited.

It's the first time
I'm ever hosting a fundraiser

in my career, my life, period.

-You've never done this before?
-Never, yeah.

-I wanna help with catering.
-Can't wait to see what you whip up.

What I'm excited about

is to showcase
those veggies that he grows.

-More will be revealed.
-[Michael] Okay.

We'll leave it as a surprise,
but it's all gonna be veggie driven,

super fresh.

-I'm excited.
-Yeah!

[funky music plays]

[thunder rumbles]

-How are you?
-I'm good.

-How are you feeling?
-Excited.

-Really?
-Yes.

That's nice to hear.

I thought you'd have said anxious,
not excited about it.

Well, I mean, anxiousness and excited,
they're pretty close, you know.

They live in the same family.

I wanna know how on-the-ground work

plays into the life
that you're gonna have after this.

You are gonna be what?

I'm gonna be executive director
of Recirculating Farms.

And so, for that,
you have to speak publicly and fundraise.

Okay. What do those rooms look like?

They're usually pretty just,
like, corporatey looking.

Like, imagine, like,
a business conference,

that's what they look like.

Okay, so do you feel added pressure
to look like a corporate guy?

Yeah, kinda just to fit in.

I get it. No, of course, I get it.

But I can't imagine
that makes you feel great.

No, not really.

Who is the real Michael?

[Michael] I don't really know.

He wants to be
the executive director of this company.

I wanna help Michael find a happy medium,
so he doesn't have to conform.

I want him to look mature enough

to be able to hold court
in the spaces that he's going to,

but I don't wanna
take away his youthful, playful spirit.

Okay, can you tell me this?

How much are you looking to raise
at these things?

Are we talking hundreds, thousands?

Thousands, tens of thousands, hopefully.
Like, yeah…

-Great.
-As much as I can.

-You better feel confident.
-Yeah.

You can't go in gingerly,
like, "Hey, guys."

"There's this thing we've got going on."

"I don't feel great about myself,
but I need you to believe in me."

If you don't go in
believing in yourself 100%,

and I truly believe that your clothes
can help facilitate that,

they're not giving you sh*t.

Listen, there are five of us.
You've met us now.

We don't work a normal job.

Most people would say
we dress like clowns.

My outfit yesterday was ludicrous.

But when I put something on,

I don't care
if somebody tells me I look hideous.

If I feel wicked, you can't tell me sh*t.

I feel really good.

I wanna try and create looks for you

and build your closet
so that you've got play clothes,

but there are things you can do
with those clothes,

mixed with other things,

that makes it
a lot more appropriate for work.

Let's start with playful though.
Shall we play?

-Yes, let's do it.
-Okay, great.

-I saw this in the window. That was cool.
-[Tan] Love.

Um…

Bold. You like bold, color, print?

-Yes.
-Wonderful.

These are my colors.
Orange and aqua are my colors.

It's the color of the Dolphins.

I'm a huge Miami Dolphins fan,
so that's the perfect colors for me.

-Miami Dolphins are what?
-A football team.

A football team. Okay. Nice.

Uh, okay, the first outfit is loud.

Are you scared?

-A little bit. [chuckles]
-I know. I could feel it.

[Tan] He's dressing for himself now.

The outfits that I'm putting him in
celebrate who he is.

[Tan] Ooh hoo!

Come on out.

I like this. This is really cool.
The shoes are super dope.

-You look like a famous person.
-[Michael chuckles]

You look cool. You look young.

I wanna make it clear,

this is not what I think you should wear
to go and try and get funds.

However, if we just tucked this in,
and we gave you a pair of trousers,

it's perfectly appropriate
'cause you are not 50. You're 30.

If this was in my closet,
I'd wear these shorts and shirt a lot.

Your face ain't telling me that.

So I think
we need to work on the swag a little bit.

-Okay.
-The confidence a little bit.

Yeah.

-[Tan] Yes?
-Yes.

[Tan] Michael?

Can I see?

Oh, I already love.

Every now and then,
when I take somebody shopping,

there's that moment you realize

that they see what a difference
their attire makes to their life.

-[Michael] These shoes are everything.
-Really? You like them?

-[Michael] These shoes are super cool.
-I love the chunky loafer.

I know, ordinarily,
to go into a corporate meeting,

a lot of people wouldn't wear jeans,
but you don't have a regular job.

You're showing who you are.

I wanted you to feel a little more casual
than something stuffy.

I really like this.
This is, like, very timeless.

It's not very businessy,
not super businessy,

but it's like,
"Hey, I'm here to get sh*t done."

Great.

So I want to show him there is a person
that needs to be let out…

Give a model version.

…and you can do that with clothes.

So work it.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Gorgeous. Gorgeous.

He has swag when he models.

Lovely.

Got it.

I see a version of him
that I haven't seen before.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Gorgeous.

-I'm so happy.
-I'm happy too.

These clothes make me happy.

Completely different than anything
that I've ever purchased or ever put on.

I'm gonna work on getting something else,
many more things that will make sense.

For now, let's get you
back into your regular clothes.

-And let's get you outta here.
-Okay.

So much more to work on.

I'm super excited for everything.

[thunder rumbles]

Oh, good old New Orleans rain.

Yes, gotta love it.

It was really important
to bring Michael here today…

Hi!

…because I can relate
to not putting yourself out there

because you kinda won't let go
of the past.

-I heard that there is a graduate program…
-Yes.

…that you've been wanting to get into.

Yes. This is the credentials that I need

to be able to move up
into the executive world.

I feel like maybe
your not doing the application

might stem
from a little fear of failure, maybe?

Even though my boss, who runs the program,

is like, "You need to chill.
You'll be fine,"

the part that I haven't done is a part

where I have to,
like, write an essay about myself.

And 'cause I'm sort of ashamed
of those things,

someone rejecting me because of that,
even if that's not why,

that's what I'm gonna think
is the reason why,

and that's just gonna reinforce
me feeling like a piece of sh*t.

I hear you. I mean, I loved school,
and for me, it didn't work out.

You know, I left home at 15,

so I still don't have a GED
or a high-school diploma.

But I spent a big part of my life
being very ashamed of that

and letting that hold me back

because I felt that I… I failed.

-[Michael] Yeah.
-And I really let it define me.

It still makes me uncomfortable,
um, so I understand that.

Even though it's something I really want,
that doubt just always wins,

and it just stops me
from doing a lot of things.

But you are worthy,
and you are good enough,

and you know how to make things work
outside of the normal way of doing things,

which… Look around in the world.

Those are the people
that aren't just cogs.

And it's the people
that aren't afraid to try things

that are gonna be the biggest successes.

-So I wanna pull up the application today.
-Okay.

And I want you and I to finish it.

-[Michael] Okay.
-Okay?

[energetic music plays]

The final portion of this,
what is the question?

Filling in the gaps in my education.

How do you plan on elaborating on that?

I left school
because I was just extremely depressed.

I didn't feel really comfortable
living by myself anymore.

And so I was like,
"I'm gonna go back home."

I was just going to school just to go.
I wasn't doing any work.

-Just because you're supposed to.
-Right, exactly.

And then, yeah, I just worked.

I think that probably you're worried
that they're judging the reasons why.

And I even feel like
my experience isn't valid

and no one will take me seriously.

Yeah. How long have you wanted to do this?

Um, the master's program?

It started a few years ago,
maybe, like, two or three years ago.

As soon as she saw this, she was like,
"You should consider taking this."

"You know what you have to do first?
You have to get your bachelor's."

I was like,
"Yeah, I have to get that done."

And so, uh, we started making moves
for me to be able to go back to school.

Yeah. Let me just
point something out to you.

Marianne believes in you.

Stop doubting yourself.

-I know it's hard.
-Yeah.

That… that little demon of self-doubt
in people who come from nothing,

who have been told they'll be nothing,

who have been told
they're gonna end up in jail,

um, end up in the gutter.

-It's hard to reprogram yourself.
-[Michael] It is.

It's really hard
'cause it's 30 years of being this way.

Every time something good happens to me,
I get extremely anxious.

I'm like, "All right, something bad
has to come immediately after,

and it's just gonna crush me,

and I'm like,
"Don't get your hopes up too high."

"Prepare yourself 'cause it's coming.
Something bad is coming."

When you start to feel that way,
take a step back, take a breath.

Be like, "Wait a minute.
The people around me believe in me."

"Maybe they're right."

-Yeah.
-[Bobby] You know?

I can see him starting to kind of have
some lights going on

and being like,
"Huh. I've been the one holding me back

because I felt I wasn't enough."

"But you know what?"

"Damn it, I am enough."

I mean, I think this is great.

I think you really explained it
in a way that people will understand,

and everyone's journey to the destination
is not a straight line.

-Yeah.
-You know?

Straight lines are boring.

-[laughing]
-[Karamo vocalizing]

The party is here, baby!

Hey!

-How are you?
-He just finished his application.

Hold on, bitch. You cannot
have just finished the application

that has literally been taking you
so much time

and be this calm.

I'm trying to shift that emotion,
that anxiousness, to excitement.

We gonna shift it like this.

[vocalizing]

Yeah.

-[Karamo] Yeah, Bobby!
-Okay. All right.

So at the end of this week,
it was a garden party at the farm,

but obviously, it's raining a lot,
and we don't think it's gonna stop.

So we're gonna have
the event for you here.

-What?
-[Bobby] Yeah.

-Open up our place.
-This place is dope.

We're taking off the stress.
We want this to be a huge success.

-And we want you to focus on your future.
-Thank you so much.

-Love you.
-Thank you.

[upbeat music plays]

[Karamo] I've brought you here.
I wanted a vibing place for us

where it wouldn't be hustle and bustle,

and I feel you feel
more comfortable outside.

I mean,
I can get comfortable wherever, you know.

I adapt.

You know what that is?

That's a little boy saying, "I don't know
what's going to happen to me tomorrow."

-But that's also a survival mechanism.
-Yeah.

What parts of your childhood
were the most out of control?

What are the memories
that stick out to you?

I don't even know.
There's so many memories.

Like, so many late-night drives,

so many times being parked
in super sketchy neighborhoods

having to be just alone.

It was nuts. You had no idea
what the next day was gonna bring you.

You didn't know…
what was dinner gonna be like?

Are you gonna have dinner?

They're memories
I don't like to think about.

Where was your mom during that?

There was a point
where I tried to live with my mom,

and the answer was just no.

That was probably one of the worst times
of my life, for sure.

Like, I'd rather
not talk about these things

'cause I'm, like, I'm over it.

But you're not over it.
It's affecting your everyday life.

Like, you go through it,
and you come out okay.

-So I tell myself, like…
-But… No, no, no.

That little boy needed somebody
to be there for him,

protect him, and love him

and tell him that he deserves
a better future than what he was given.

You got rejected
as a child by your mother.

How does it make you feel?
I don't wanna hear, "I'm okay with it."

I wouldn't be
having a conversation with you

if it was not affecting you.

I mean, it hurts a lot.

I just think to myself,
like, "Why bring it up?"

If something is buried
and it's not tended to,

does it ever flourish through the ground?

-Does it ever bloom to its full capacity?
-No.

You're that seed underground
that needs to blossom,

that wants to have the life they deserve.
You're not allowing yourself

because you say,
"What's the point of bringing it up?"

The point of bringing it up
is so that you can grow.

There's a saying,

just because it's not your fault
doesn't mean it's not your responsibility.

Talking to Jason… I'm talking to Jas…

Why do I keep saying Jason? [chuckles]

Hold on, because he reminds me
of my son Jason.

That's what that Freudian slip was.

Michael reminds me of my sons,
and I just feel like that's why I'm here,

to show him how he can get past this

and give him some extra support.

So I actually invited
a couple of friends here…

Okay.

…who are from 100 Black Men.
Have you ever heard of that?

I brought them here

because some of them
have gone through similar experiences.

One of them was my direct mentor
when I was your age.

-How do you feel about that?
-Um…

I'm just nervous.

Wouldn't it be nice to talk to somebody
and say, "I need support"?

It's not something I've done
for most of my life.

I don't ask for help.
I just get it done myself.

The 100 Black Men of New Orleans
is a mentoring program

that supports young African Americans,
which is why I've asked them

to come here today and meet Michael.

I want Michael to know
that he has support in the community

that's available to him.

I asked you if you ever met somebody
who is Native American and Black.

This man right here.

I'm a member
of the United Nation of Houma Indians.

I'm executive director of the New Orleans
Regional Black Chamber of Commerce.

I'm the president of 100 Black Men
Metro New Orleans chapter.

I already told you about the gentleman,

so Darrell was there for me
as I found out I was a father,

gave me a job, gave me support,
just allowed me to feel safe.

This is not just meeting,
having an interaction

of, like, you saying, "Let's meet you,"
and then y'all don't go anywhere.

This has to be some people
you can talk to and you can turn to.

And remember that yesterday is history.
Tomorrow's a mystery.

All you have is right now.

Anxiety kicks in when you don't know
what's gonna happen tomorrow?

-[Michael] Yeah.
-Forget all about it.

You're sitting with your boys now.
Yeah, relax.

Always thinking about the past,
trying to prepare for the future.

-That is a hundred percent me.
-Everybody does that.

People just get help with mechanisms
to deal with that.

So this has to feel different for you.

Have you ever had spaces

where you've been around
just a group of Black men

who are saying,
"We're here to support you"?

No, never.

I will say, no, I…

Like, it's uncomfortable,
but not in a bad way.

I've just always felt very lost.

If you just keep doing you,
the right people will find you.

You're never alone.

Having to constantly explain myself
and not always having the answers,

most of the time not having answers,

just kinda, like, puts you
in this downward spiral.

Going back to school
in New Orleans after Katrina was…

That wasn't happening.

I was not gonna go to one of
these high schools set up like a prison.

Once I got the GED…

Getting into college is really hard
when you have a GED.

Once I got in,
they made me take extra courses

because I don't have a diploma.

You did all that?

I just graduated
with my bachelor's in sociology.

-[Eric] Yeah!
-Thank you.

But in spite of all that,
you did all that.

-And you graduated.
-Just graduated, yeah.

-All right, let's turn the page.
-There you go.

What do you wanna do next? What's next?

Next is going to Loyola to do
their Master of Environmental Law program.

-[Jon] Very nice.
-Because you wanna do what?

Be executive director
of the nonprofit I work for.

[Jon] Your journey ain't over.

You're still learning.
You're still going forward.

You know, you're a pioneer.

You might not call yourself that,
but that's what you are.

You're practicing pioneership.

-Ever been called a pioneer?
-Never thought of myself that way.

That's a great way
to describe you, a pioneer.

And the thing to remember is,
in spite of what you're going through,

some kid is watching.

[Jon] Yes.

[Michael] Uh-oh.

-What's going on?
-I'm good.

-You sure?
-Trying to be present.

-And not in my head.
-[Karamo] Okay.

It's weird for me to, like, be this person
that's, like, out in the community

and actively trying
to get more Black people into growing

and organize
and, like, create spaces like this,

but to feel weird in them
because I have never been in them.

I'm usually the only person of color
in a lot of rooms I go into.

Most of the time, I'm the only
person of color in the room I'm in,

and that's been that way
for a long time, in my life.

That's power.
You can redirect that as a power move.

You can't lead if you ain't uncomfortable.

You growing in ways
you probably don't even realize, man.

-Just… just being present.
-Wow.

All the stuff you were talking about
is so valid. It's about reframing it.

No matter what you do,
you will be the first one to do that.

[Eric] Bossed up, you know.

When you wake up,
look yourself the eye and be like,

"I'm a pioneer, and I'm a boss,"
and smile and be like, "I'm a boss."

-Say it.
-Yeah. I'm a pioneer, and I'm a boss.

-I like that. You look like you meant it.
-[Eric] Look at his eyes, that smile!

-Yeah!
-[Karamo] Exactly.

[Bobby] Knowing a lot of the things
that Michael went through in the past,

he probably hasn't had a lot of guidance
on how to set up your home to really grow.

[upbeat music plays]

[Bobby]
That's exactly what I've done for Michael.

I have turned his home into a place
that is not filled with work,

but filled solely with things
to recharge and renew.

[funky music plays]

Oh my God, we're here
at this gorgeous salon.

Come on in. Take a seat.

-Hello, gorgeous.
-Hey.

How do you function

being this handsome
every day of your life?

-[Michael] I just wake up.
-Just walking around, looking this cute?

Yeah, I woke up like this.

I need to get you a chiropractor

from carrying all the weight
of this handsomeness on your back.

-Can I touch your hair?
-Yes.

Okay, I'm gonna get in here.

Oh yes, honey.

You are so cute.

You're pretty cute yourself.

Thank you, honey.

Am I blushing because Michael
is kind of, like, flirting back with me?

No!

I'm not, Michael.

I'm very happy

that, for someone who's doing so much
for your community…

Your heart is so big.
I'm obsessed with what you're doing.

Sometimes I feel like people
who are very hot are bad people.

-You know? And that's annoying.
-Yeah.

Michael has identified
his purpose and passion in life.

His priority has not been
how to take care of his hair.

So I wanna retain his length,
but give him what?

Shape. You guessed it.

So I definitely want fro.

-I'm gonna cut some of it dry.
-Okay.

Then I'm gonna wash it.

How much time are you willing to give,
like, in the morning?

My morning routine is pretty lax.

It's something else
that I've tried to incorporate,

some type of, like, satin head wrap
to keep my curls together.

Your lips to God's ears, honey.

We should just do, like, a full-on bonnet.

You're someone who is not buying into
these, like, historical gender norms.

-No, not at all.
-Let's do a bonnet.

-Yeah.
-Mm.

I love that Michael

does not have time for these rigid ideas
around the gender binary.

He wants to rock his long hair,

and releasing some of that weight
from his ends

is gonna make his coils
so springy, so bouncy. Let's go!

-Hi. How are you?
-Nice to meet you. I'm Darren.

Nice to meet you. What I wanna do on him,
I just really wanna clean this part up.

-Just, like…
-All right.

And then I just wanna take all this off.
Okay, so you're ready?

-I'm ready.
-[Jonathan] Do it.

-So we're knocking it all off?
-[Jonathan] Get rid of it.

Why? Do you think
that that's a terrible mistake?

-I mean, a fresh start is always good.
-You're so right. Come on.

Honey, you better work.

Look at him. My timbers, shivered.

Ooh.
With the this, but with the this. It's…

Ooh. The way you licked your lips,
you better stop it!

I've never been obsessed with anyone more.

-Thank you.
-[Michael] Thank you.

[Jonathan] Gonna wash your hair.

[energetic music plays]

Okay, I'm gonna show you
how to do a slut drop.

When you really wanna impress Kaila,
what you're gonna do

is you're just gonna walk in
and you're gonna go, "Hey, babe."

Huh!

Uh.

You give 'em all that ass
as you walk away, you know?

The spirals in your hair
are giving me such life,

and they are gonna look so good.

♪ Right now ♪

So we are still our gorgeous Michael,

but with a little bit of a zhuzh.

Without any further ado, here's the new,

slightly improved, if I do say so myself,

Michael.

Oh my gosh.

I look so different.

I love my hair.

-I love it. So nice.
-[Jonathan] You do?

I love it so much.

-You feel handsome?
-My curls are popping. This is hair goals.

-It's hair goals, isn't it?
-Yes. I love this so much.

-Oh my God. The back of it is amazing.
-[Jonathan] That shape?

It actually has a shape!

That's what I've always wanted,
but I just didn't know how to get there.

You didn't cut much off my hair,
but it feels so nice.

Have fun with it.

I really like that I can do,
like, tighter curls,

a little bit looser curls if I want.

I feel like
your body language just changed.

I'm looking at me, and it's, like,
not real. I'm like, "Is that really me?"

I feel different.

-I feel like I look really good like this.
-Don't you?

Also, I liked it when you just did that.
That was kind of hot. Bring it up.

Ooh!

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ Na, na, na ♪

♪ Gonna grease the wheels ♪

♪ Tell me how it feels ♪

-♪ Ooh ♪
-♪ Come and get the feels ♪

♪ Come and get the feels ♪

-♪ Ooh ♪
-♪ Come and get the feels… ♪

[Karamo] I'm blown away.

You look awesome,

and I'm glad
that you feel awesome as well.

[horn honks]

-[Tan] Oh, the kids are here.
-[Bobby] They're here. Oh, they're here.

[Tan] Hi!

I brought a supermodel!

-You look so handsome.
-Thank you.

Hi, sweetheart.
Good to see you. How are you?

Your face looks so handsome.

-[Karamo] He's so g*dd*mn good-looking!
-[Bobby] Are you ready?

Come on in.

♪ Come on into funkytown ♪

What?

Oh… my… gosh.

-What?
-[Bobby chuckles]

-[Michael] This is not my house.
-[Bobby] It is your house.

You got rid of that grow house,
and you have a home now.

[Michael] My breath
is literally taken away.

I feel short of breath right now.

-Holy sh*t. This is incredible.
-[all laugh]

[Bobby] The home of an executive director.

This is the home of a pioneer and a boss.

Yeah!

I am obsessed with that.

That is a gorgeous affirmation.
That was amazing.

-What, Tanny?
-I love the sofa.

The last time we sat on the sofa,
I couldn't get back up. We fell into it.

-This is so nice.
-[Bobby] Look at the support.

[Antoni] Right?

It's super deep,
and when you take the back cushion off,

friends can crash here.

So nice.

-It's basically two twin-sized beds.
-Love that.

-Moving in?
-Yeah. This is my home.

Tan and I are moving in.

-Ready to see more?
-Yes.

-A luxury mansion? What is this?
-[Bobby] Custom artwork.

You can now actually have friends over
and entertain for dinner.

[Michael] Yeah, and not be, like,
embarrassed we don't have any space.

-You don't have any soil on the floor.
-I don't have to borrow chairs.

[Tan] This is not a kids' home. People
would wanna come and have an adult--

-[Antoni] A grown-ass man's home.
-Yeah, for real.

All right, keep going this way.

-We zhuzhed up the kitchen.
-Wow.

[Karamo] Oh my gosh.
You had room for an island in here?

I didn't think we did.
Kaila always wanted one.

Now we got rid of the soil.

Can you imagine yourself
cooking in here more?

[Michael] Definitely.

Let's head to the bedroom.

Oh my gosh.

Wow!

It's like a hotel room.

This is so, like, sleek and bold and dope.

-Sensual.
-Like, this is ins… Yes.

[Bobby] Got a desk here for you
while you're back in school.

[Michael] Oh my gosh. That's great!

This is where you can come in
and focus and really get sh*t done.

Yeah. I love this.

-To take a complete U-turn.
-It's incredible.

-Yeah?
-You outdid yourself. Thank you so much.

We're gonna have the fundraiser tonight
at y'all's space.

I'm gonna make sure you're dressed
in a way that makes you feel comfortable.

-Okay.
-It's gonna be extra though.

-Sounds like my style.
-[Tan] Okay, good.

We're gonna dress you up for tonight.
Shall we just try on?

-[Michael] Yeah, let's try some stuff on.
-I wanna go balls to the wall.

Yeah, I'm ready for it, a hundred percent.

Let's do it.

-Kids?
-[Jonathan] Hi.

-[Tan] Ready?
-Yeah.

[Karamo] We are.

I'm really ready.

-[Tan] Come join us, my sweetheart.
-Model casting number one.

-Ooh!
-[Karamo] Oh!

Hello!

-[Karamo] I love this vibe!
-I was not even prepared for this, Tanny.

It's like Harry Styles and Bruno Mars
had a baby, and the baby was tall.

[Karamo] You're literally sparkling.
I feel like I'm starting to know you.

I had no idea there was this side of you,
and I'm obsessed.

[Jonathan] Do the thing I taught you.

[all laugh] Yeah!

-[Tan] Where did that come from?
-[Jonathan] I taught him.

-Jonathan taught me yesterday.
-I taught him yesterday.

-[applause]
-[Karamo] Oh!

-Oh my God!
-I'll be here all week.

[Tan] Second look.

-[Bobby trilling]
-Oh!

Michael!

-[Bobby] Wow!
-[cheering]

[Antoni] I love the shoes!

I thought you would put him in a suit.
This is still professional.

-[Tan] Yes!
-Thank you for breaking the norm!

To be fair,
this is not his look for tonight.

This is not? This looks good!

He could wear this to a meeting.

-I would not be upset about it.
-Not at all.

[Tan] This is a women's cardigan
from a women's store.

These are both wild outfits.

Like, is there one
that feels more like you?

It's very different vibes,
but they're all me.

We have not got time to waste.
We're getting the event ready at our loft.

Whilst you're getting ready,
we're gonna set up.

-Okay, sounds good.
-[Jonathan] Bye!

-Let's go!
-[Tan] Get the car running.

-I'm gonna get his outfit ready.
-Okay!

[Bobby] Move it over this way.

Lift with your lower back,
never your knees.

-[Bobby] Like this.
-[Jonathan] No, wait.

Yes, Tan, you're doing great.

-Perfect, put the middle of it.
-Use your core.

Good job, Tan.

Teamwork makes the dream work. Come on!

[laughing]

[Antoni] I'm in charge of appetizers,

and, yeah, you better believe that
these vegetables are from their garden.

We have mini eggplant parm on skewers,

really cute miniature
garden-delight salads,

tons of microgreens, edible blossoms.

We also have one of Michael's favorites,
roasted okra,

served with a lemon-zest dipping sauce.

I really wanna showcase the great work
Michael's doing at the farm.

That's something incredibly powerful.

If people get to see and taste that,
they're gonna bust out their wallets.

[acoustic guitar music plays]

[Kaila] Hi.

Oh my God!

Look at you!

-You're giving me Prince vibes.
-[chuckles] Yeah.

-What do you think about the hair?
-[Kaila] I love it.

All right.

-Oh!
-[Michael] Isn't it overwhelming?

-[Kaila] So overwhelming. I can't breathe.
-[Michael] So beautiful.

-That's exactly how I felt!
-[Kaila] I can't breathe.

-It's like an adult bedroom.
-Right?

[Kaila] I love all the pictures.

-Oh my God.
-[chuckles]

-You ready to see some more?
-No!

[Michael] No?

We can take a minute.

-It's a lot to process.
-[Kaila] It's a lot.

-It's so much to take in.
-[Michael] It's surreal.

-I can't believe this is our house.
-I know.

It's been a wild week.

-I missed you. [chuckles]
-I missed you too, babe.

It's been a lot of fun.
I wish you were along for the ride,

but it was really cool
to kind of set myself up

for, you know,
a better and brighter future.

Yeah, be the confident man
that you deserve

and that I deserve to be.

[Kaila chuckles]

♪ Yeah, we're gonna celebrate ♪

-[Antoni] Hello!
-How's it going?

Well, hi!

♪ Turn it up ♪

-♪ Yeah, we're gonna celebrate ♪
-How are you? I'm Karamo.

♪ I'm in love ♪

[indistinct chatter]

♪ Turn it up ♪

-Hello.
-Everyone, Michael's here!

-[cheering]
-Hi!

[Jonathan] Oh my God. Look at Kaila!

[cheering]

Oh, look at Michael!

Can I just say,
mission accomplished on this makeover.

-Is that you?
-It's me. It's me. I know.

This outfit is giving me
everything I expected.

Emily!

[Tan] It's giving me A$AP.
It's giving me Justin.

It's giving me Tyler. He nailed it.

We're gonna detach this Michael
and farm Michael.

-We're gonna keep them separate.
-Yes! Yes!

Yes.

He has the capacity to be everything.

He could be a model
who can also be about urban gardening.

Fresh food, urban gardening,

slut dropping, better hair, SPF.

Yes, honey!

So I'm gonna give the mic
to the man of the hour.

Michael, take it from here.

First, I really appreciate y'all coming

to celebrate the gospel
of food sovereignty

and just really helping to make
New Orleans a better place

and hoping that ripples out
and affects this country,

and eventually, the world.

[cheering]

Michael is confidently saying,

"I am here,
and I am ready to keep moving forward."

I can't thank y'all enough.
This week has been incredible.

It's been extremely transformative.
The work has just begun. I know that.

But this is a new chapter.

This is a new lease on life
I've been given,

and I'm gonna pay it forward for sure.

[Antoni] He went from this guy who didn't
really know what the next steps were

to now there's a confidence.

Like, who is this guy?
Where did he come from?

He looks like a star.

Tonight is a fundraiser.

Open your hearts and your checkbook.

-[Karamo] Make that money!
-[Antoni] Where's your wallet?

When we showed up this week,
Michael was unsure of himself,

Michael did not know his own value,

Michael had imposter syndrome.

Just because your journey is different,

it doesn't mean
your destination will not be success.

Congratulations.

It's so exciting! Yay!

He's just smiling ear to ear.
It's awesome.

He can give himself energy and love
so that he can continue to show up

and give his community
that same energy and love.

-Thank you so much for nominating me.
-You deserved every single bit of it.

And I did nothing.

It was all you.

To be where I am today is just…
It's incredible, and I'm proud of myself.

The first thousand-dollar donation's
been made,

so, yay, donations!

[cheering and applause]

[Jonathan] Whoo!

[upbeat music plays]

♪ Turn it up ♪

[smooth music plays]

[Jonathan] Struggling with knots?

Not today!

So when we're washing our hair,
we're not going like this.

-[buzzing]
-Never!

-[bell chimes]
-Always vertical.

Like, be gentle with it, you know?

And when it comes to conditioner,
apply it from your mid-lengths to ends.

Then I take my wide-tooth comb
to distribute that conditioner evenly.

Then you put your hair up
on top of your head

and you finish up your shower.

When you're all done with your shower,
thoroughly rinse and go att*ck your day.

Yes!

[woman vocalizing]

♪ All right ♪

♪ Mm, mm, ah ♪

♪ Whoo ♪

♪ Ooh, yeah ♪

♪ All right ♪

♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪

♪ Uh ♪

♪ Well, you came into my life now ♪

[chorus] ♪ You came into my life now ♪

[woman]
♪ My world never looked so bright now ♪

[chorus]
♪ World never looked so bright now ♪

[woman]
♪ And things just keep getting better ♪

[chorus]
♪ Things just keep getting better ♪

[woman] ♪ Oh yeah ♪

♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪

[chorus]
♪ Things just keep getting better ♪

[woman]
♪ Things just keep getting better ♪

♪ Oh ♪

♪ Yeah ♪

♪ Ooh, yeah ♪

♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪

[chorus]
♪ Things just keep getting better ♪

[woman]
♪ Things just keep getting better ♪

♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, yeah ♪

♪ Hey ♪

♪ Things just keep getting better
Down in New Orleans ♪

-[man] Oh, yeah, you're right.
-[man 2] Yeah, keep that.